Your Emergency Fund Is A Force Field Between You And Life

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[1] I'm George Camel, joined by Jade Warshaw this hour.

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[9] it off with Maria in Denver, Colorado.

[10] What's going on, Maria?

[11] Hi, thanks for taking my call.

[12] So I purchased a home from a meth addict and I'm now $33 ,000 in debt because I had to do remediation on the home after I closed.

[13] And I'm just curious how I should best pay this off and salvage my credit.

[14] I did receive a settlement from the owner.

[15] after discovering this problem, but I still have probably $80K and repairs to make to the home.

[16] I'm just curious how I can pay it down and salvage my credit.

[17] So how much total debt do you have outside of a mortgage?

[18] The $32 ,000.

[19] I don't have any other debt outside of my mortgage.

[20] How many cards is that across?

[21] Across three cards.

[22] How much money are you bringing in every month?

[23] I'm bringing in about 4 ,000, I know, probably 5 ,500.

[24] 5 ,500.

[25] And then what portion of that is your mortgage payment?

[26] 2 ,800.

[27] Yipes.

[28] All right, we got troubles.

[29] We got troubles.

[30] So tell me a little bit more about this.

[31] Did you call it a remediation?

[32] Yeah, so they had to rip out.

[33] kitchen, all the doors, all the lighting, anything porous, anything wood.

[34] So I basically bought the home and then they stripped it.

[35] I found out two days after closing that did none of this come up in the inspection?

[36] That's my question.

[37] No. Yeah, none of it came up in the inspection.

[38] So how did it come up?

[39] I received a police report that I had requested two days after closing.

[40] I had received every other police report and they had some police activity at this property because I did my due diligence and I looked through it.

[41] But I didn't receive the one report that had the previous owner handing over the meth to the police at her home saying she had a problem until two days after closing.

[42] I don't know what happened to that one report that held it up, but every other report was about a dog or about.

[43] So she was cooking meth in the house?

[44] No, no, not cooking.

[45] Just.

[46] doing this.

[47] Even at that level, you still have to remediate.

[48] Oh, my goodness.

[49] And you said there's still $80 ,000 of repairs.

[50] Is this related to that?

[51] Or this is just other repairs that you were planning on doing?

[52] Related.

[53] They stripped the home after I purchased it.

[54] And so I couldn't really go back and take, I couldn't like undo the loan.

[55] Essentially, I sued her.

[56] And I got, thankfully, I got about 60 grand back.

[57] But still, there's something to that.

[58] Yeah, what happened to that 60K?

[59] So I have that, and that's my, my question is, how do I pay down, like, do I pay it on one month sum?

[60] Because I'm just worried that if I pay off my debt in one month sum, it's going to crash my credit more.

[61] I would not be conservative with your credit right now.

[62] Me neither.

[63] You've got bigger problems and bigger fish to fry.

[64] I would knock out all the credit card debt today.

[65] The rest becomes your emergency fund, and then we cash flow the rest of the repairs.

[66] Okay.

[67] And so just, make the rest of the pairs as on cash.

[68] As you're able to.

[69] But leave three to six months of expenses in there for actual emergencies, which is not known repairs.

[70] Okay.

[71] Because we want to avoid you going further into debt.

[72] I don't know why you're concerned about the credit at this point.

[73] You're not going to go take out more debt, are you?

[74] No, but it just...

[75] And you've got, listen, you've got a home.

[76] You're going to make a mortgage payment every single month.

[77] You're going to be just fine.

[78] The credit score will settle itself.

[79] Yeah, and you're not planning on taking out more credit, so...

[80] No, okay, you're right, you're right.

[81] That's the only point of having a good credit score is so you can access more debt.

[82] Yeah, well, I do want to...

[83] I was planning to start, like, buying other homes and...

[84] No, no, no, no, we're done buying homes right now.

[85] We need to focus on our problems today, and we can become real estate moguls down the line when you have a paid -for property and money in the bank to pay cash.

[86] Well, here's the thing, Maria.

[87] we're not in hear us when we say we're not the point of we're not intentionally trying to tank your credit however george and i both know that when when you set down the path of paying off debt you're also simultaneously saying not only am i paying off this debt but i'm not going to borrow money in the future otherwise what's the point of paying off debt just so you can get more and paid off again that doesn't really make sense so there's kind of this assumption that if you're paying off your debt if you're working this hard to do that if you're taking this lump sum and you're being diligent in that way, you kind of have to think about the future and go, okay, well, if I've done all this work, then in the future I'm going to pay cash, the same way you're going to pay cash for these other remediation that have to take place.

[88] In the same way, you know, in the future, if you do choose to buy real estate, you'll save up and pay cash for it.

[89] Even though that sounds like a mountain load of cash, it's just good to kind of draw that line in the sand.

[90] Okay, well, it's great.

[91] And that makes my solution easy, just pay it down and work with their remaining cash.

[92] Well, I'm equally as worried, Maria, about this mortgage.

[93] It is 51 % of your take -home pay.

[94] Oh, yeah.

[95] Well, I have two roommates.

[96] Okay.

[97] So I'm not paying at all myself, no. But...

[98] Go ahead, George.

[99] Well, I'm just...

[100] There's a lot going on here now with the roommate situation.

[101] Yeah, are they chipping in...

[102] Yeah, I want to know.

[103] Can we have some clarity?

[104] So you own the house.

[105] Are they chipping in at all for any of their repairs?

[106] Tell us more.

[107] Because you're the landlord, so it's on you.

[108] Oh, I guess that's true.

[109] but are you increasing the rent to help cover some of this, or what's the deal there?

[110] No, rent is staying the same with them.

[111] They are helping with repairs by, you know, helping come in and actually do the repairs.

[112] So their time, they're paying you with their time.

[113] Right.

[114] And that's fine.

[115] So that's been helpful.

[116] And then also my mortgage lender offered two years free refinancing.

[117] So hopefully if all goes well, you know, if you're not.

[118] of predicting the future, but if all of as well, I'll be able to refinance.

[119] So if the rates drop, they're saying we were not going to charge you to refinance.

[120] Exactly.

[121] Okay.

[122] The only thing that makes me worried about this situation is when people own homes, but they can't afford the rent on their own, so they have roommates.

[123] I always like a situation where you can float the rent on your own and you can do the mortgage on your own.

[124] You don't need the roommates for it to, you know, in order for it to not be dangerous for you.

[125] and I don't like the fact that this would be dangerous for you if something happened with the roommates.

[126] That's my only red flag on this.

[127] Well, I can definitely float the rent myself.

[128] So what I told you, the mortgage, I guess I should clarify that also includes utilities, insurance, all of the things bundled.

[129] I have no car debt.

[130] I have no other debt.

[131] My monthly expenses include cell phone, my cell phone, and that's more or less that outside of food.

[132] So I can definitely float the rent on my own.

[133] Well, I'd focus on just knocking out this credit card debt today.

[134] Cut up the cards, don't look back, use the rest of the emergency fund, and cash flow the rest of these repairs.

[135] Do not go into debt ever again.

[136] I'm sorry you're going through this.

[137] That's goodness gracious.

[138] These inspectors.

[139] Should I just go become an inspector and like, looks good, guys.

[140] I don't understand how that was missed.

[141] Wow.

[142] All right.

[143] This is The Ramsey Show.

[144] Welcome back to The Ramsey Show.

[145] I'm George Camel, joined by Jade Warshaw.

[146] The number to call is AAA 825.

[147] 5 .25.

[148] Well, it's time for our long -running segment, Jade.

[149] And by long -running, you mean this is the third time?

[150] Third time.

[151] Okay.

[152] That's long for me, you know.

[153] So it's called pick aside.

[154] And this is where we have two people on the line, and we have to help them kind of settle a debate.

[155] And you and I, at the end of it, have to pick aside after we hear them out and hear their case.

[156] I enjoy this thoroughly.

[157] I pitched Judge George for the name of this segment.

[158] They didn't like that.

[159] Judge George?

[160] And I wanted a little gavel.

[161] Oh.

[162] Well, it's a little baby gavel.

[163] Then I'm going to pitch Judge Jade.

[164] Oh, dang, that's so much cooler.

[165] All right.

[166] I give up.

[167] Here we go.

[168] Let's see what Jennifer and Joe have to say in Denver, Colorado.

[169] What's going on, guys?

[170] Hi.

[171] Yeah, I'm ready to buy a new car, and my husband thinks I'm fine with the one that I have.

[172] Oh.

[173] All right, Joe, what do you have to say for yourself?

[174] Well, I do agree that she needs a new car.

[175] she just wants to spend way too much on a new car.

[176] What does she want to spend?

[177] 50 ,000.

[178] Okay.

[179] That's a lot of money.

[180] And that's the most you guys have ever spent on anything outside of a house, I'm guessing?

[181] Yes.

[182] Okay.

[183] Where are you guys at financially?

[184] We're on baby step seven.

[185] Paid for a house, no debt, love it.

[186] And what's your net worth?

[187] It would be what our house is worth.

[188] Yes, $600 ,000.

[189] Plus three times.

[190] So not quite a million?

[191] No. All right.

[192] And what's the household income?

[193] 150.

[194] Last year we did 150.

[195] Okay.

[196] And how much cash do you guys have in the bank?

[197] We have our emergency fund right now of $10 ,000.

[198] And I got $10 ,000 in my business account.

[199] So $10 ,000 and $10 ,000, if you were to buy this car, A, was it, were you thinking of getting something brand spanking new?

[200] and two, how are you going to pay for it?

[201] I would want to save up for it.

[202] Okay.

[203] And I don't necessarily want something new.

[204] It's just what I want just came out.

[205] So I want to wait a couple of years until I can buy one a couple years old.

[206] What kind of car is it?

[207] Can you tell us?

[208] It's the Toyota Grand Highlander.

[209] Highlander.

[210] Where's John Deloney when we need him?

[211] That's what he ended up getting.

[212] I need like a picture of a Highlander.

[213] I don't really know what Dad is.

[214] is.

[215] I'm going to Google it.

[216] They're beautiful.

[217] Really great cars.

[218] Okay.

[219] So what is the car you're currently driving?

[220] I have a 2007 Accura MDX and it's getting close to 200 ,000 miles on it.

[221] Oh, she's just getting started.

[222] That's a nice old ride though.

[223] The MDX is invincible.

[224] Okay.

[225] Love that.

[226] And what is he driving?

[227] I'm curious.

[228] I have a 2004 GMC pickup truck.

[229] And then we also have a 2020 transit connect van.

[230] I'm self -employed and so I use that van for work.

[231] Cool.

[232] Okay.

[233] Might be time for both you to upgrade.

[234] Maybe step seven living like no one else.

[235] I know that's right.

[236] So I'm guessing you guys have a sizable margin in your budget now to save up.

[237] How much could you throw every single month just to kind of a side savings account?

[238] Oh, I think we could have it saved in six months.

[239] Wow.

[240] Yes.

[241] Yeah.

[242] That's pretty impressive.

[243] It's pretty simple.

[244] So yeah, I mean, we could save $5 ,000 ,000 a month.

[245] That's great.

[246] Our expenses.

[247] Okay.

[248] So, um, tell us, Joe, why, tell us what you would do if it were your choice.

[249] Obviously, we know Jennifer wants this $50 ,000 Toyota Highlander, slightly used.

[250] In your book, what's something a little bit more reasonable?

[251] 30 ,000, 35 ,000, maybe not the Grand Highlander, but the regular Highlander.

[252] That's what I'm looking at.

[253] This one I'm looking at is like 30 ,000, in 2023 Highlander, L .E. Is that not the one?

[254] No, I want the grand Highlander.

[255] You want the big boy.

[256] They just came out in 2024.

[257] Joe, I'm curious.

[258] Where did you get that 35 number from?

[259] Just your heart?

[260] Oh, yeah, just my heart.

[261] Oh, yeah.

[262] I mean, I look on Craigslist, and you can find the regular Highlanders.

[263] Yeah, I see one.

[264] 30 ,000 miles for 30 ,000 or so.

[265] Yeah, I see what's going on here.

[266] Okay.

[267] Interesting.

[268] Oh, all right.

[269] We have a lot of information here.

[270] I feel like, you know, we've been doing Dave Ramsey's baby steps for a long time.

[271] I feel like I've been living like nobody else.

[272] When do I, we're on baby step seven.

[273] When do I get to live like nobody else?

[274] Listen, I feel that.

[275] So tell me, when was the last time you did an activity that you would call a live like no one else, the latter?

[276] Like at least a couple of grand.

[277] Yeah.

[278] Like, we drop some money on this.

[279] We went to the Dominican, yeah.

[280] Yeah.

[281] Okay.

[282] When was that?

[283] Last month.

[284] Nice.

[285] Okay.

[286] Okay.

[287] So you guys are enjoying life.

[288] Yes.

[289] So we would say you've driven like no one else.

[290] Now it's time to drive like no one else.

[291] You've driven the hoopty Dave car.

[292] Now it's trying to drive the Dave car.

[293] You know what I'm saying?

[294] All right.

[295] I've made up my mind.

[296] I know what I'm, I know how I'm going to vote.

[297] I got in a car accident a couple months ago, so it's dinged up on the side.

[298] Oh, man. Listen, you keep playing.

[299] Tell us more.

[300] She's really playing it up.

[301] All these stupid little things don't work on it anymore.

[302] Like you cannot reset my clock.

[303] You can't tell what time it is in there.

[304] Jennifer, I call those special features.

[305] My seatbelt doesn't go back.

[306] Listen, I got my phone in the car.

[307] I got my Apple watch in the car.

[308] I know what time it is.

[309] It's fine.

[310] That's not a big deal.

[311] But I'm with you.

[312] Okay, can I vote?

[313] I know what my vote is.

[314] Are we casting votes?

[315] I think we're casting votes.

[316] You guys ready to hear the verdict?

[317] Let's say it on three All right Are the name of the person that we think is right?

[318] Yeah, say the name of the person you think is right on three One, two, three Jennifer Yeah Jennifer, you just won a brand new Toyota Highlander That'd be fantastic Now that's it from Broi Hill I could be on prices right What do you think?

[319] Are you shocked?

[320] No I'm shocked Of course Joe is shocked Here's the thing Because I know this We bought my wife a new to us car.

[321] It was a slightly used luxury car, and it hurt my soul, Joe, to write that check.

[322] You don't want all things with motors and wheels to be more than half of your annual income.

[323] So that's where I'm going, all right, $150K is your income.

[324] Everything you own should be $75K.

[325] Listen, Joe, you could turn around and get yourself a $50 ,000 car and be all right.

[326] Now, what is this transit connect worth?

[327] About $20 ,000, I guess.

[328] Yeah.

[329] So even the $20 plus the $50 for hers, that would be $70.

[330] You still got some wiggle room there.

[331] Not too much.

[332] Not too much.

[333] And, you know, maybe you wait three years and you get the, Highlander, but I think you go for it in two years from now and you get a two -year -old grand Highlander.

[334] And if you can't wait that long, then just go for a normal Highlander and you can always upgrade later.

[335] Nothing says you have to drive this car for the next 20 years, which is kind of how you guys have been living.

[336] Right.

[337] I feel like Joe is really disappointed unless he was waiting.

[338] No, you shouldn't spend more than 30.

[339] But I think that will help you guys to go, okay, half of our income shouldn't be tied up in these things.

[340] That means we do need to scale back because this transit plus the car Joe is going to get plus the car Jennifer is going to get it's going to add up to be a large part of our world and then once you hit millionaire status you can go buy that brand new car and here's why it's not a you know fundamentalist thing it's just that too much of your world would be tied up in a depreciating asset but when you have a million dollar net worth you can stomach that hit on depreciation a little easier and so you guys will be there no time how old are you two I'm 45 and I'm 56 oh my goodness You got so much time to live and drive like no one else.

[341] And you know what, Joe, I think it should be time for you to upgrade after.

[342] What is your dream car, Joe?

[343] It's a $30 ,000 car.

[344] We know that.

[345] It's the one he's got.

[346] I actually love my truck.

[347] He wants another GMC pickup.

[348] No, he wants to keep the one he has.

[349] I like the one I got.

[350] That's amazing.

[351] It's got an eight -foot bed.

[352] It's got the diesel, and I'm good.

[353] Thank you, Joe.

[354] They don't make those eight -foot beds anymore.

[355] All these new pavement princesses out here got the tiny, little beds.

[356] I'm like, what do we even buying pickup trucks for anymore?

[357] So then, Joe, real quick, tell us, if you could spend $30 ,000 on anything, not a vehicle, what is your thing?

[358] Like, what's your live like no one else thing?

[359] I would do a boat.

[360] Hey, okay.

[361] There we go.

[362] Now we got it.

[363] Joe's in the boat.

[364] Thank you guys so much for the call and for letting us have some fun.

[365] Excited for you guys to make that cash purchase of that beautiful new to you car very, very soon.

[366] More of your calls coming up, AAA 825 -5 -225.

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[379] Welcome back to The Ramsey Show.

[380] I'm George Camel, joined by Jade Warshaw this hour.

[381] The number to call is AAA 825 -5 -225.

[382] Springfield, Illinois is where we're heading next.

[383] Levi joins us there.

[384] Welcome to the Ramsey show, Levi.

[385] Are you with us, Levi?

[386] We were so close to getting Levi on the air.

[387] Well, we'll try to get you back, Levi.

[388] I don't know what happened.

[389] But if we can't, I'm sorry and call back later, my friend.

[390] We're going to go to Taylor up next in O 'Clair, Wisconsin.

[391] Taylor, welcome to the show.

[392] Thank you.

[393] Oh, my gosh.

[394] Okay.

[395] So my husband and I put in an offer on a house, which was accepted right away.

[396] He had seven days to turn in the earnest money.

[397] And on day five, we decided to not do it.

[398] So we told our realtor right away, and we never paid the earnest money.

[399] long story short we got married last August we're now pregnant with a baby in July and we found out last month that my husband who's in the military is deploying this fall for about a year so the reason that we jumped on this house is because we got scared tried to make a decision it would be easier for me to live by myself for a year and then after signing it we were like this is not a good idea this is not the house we want so we canceled we never paid the earnest money and now the seller's mad and They want not only the $3 ,000 of the earnest money, but they're asking for $5 ,000, and they're threatening to seek legal counsel, I guess, if we don't pay, and we just don't know what to do.

[400] So you sign the offer saying that you would, and the offer said that you would pay their earnest money within seven days?

[401] What does the contract say about getting out of this?

[402] because generally there's, you know, a few ways you could legally back out of this and get your earnest money back or not have to pay.

[403] Home inspection contingency, appraisal contingency, financing contingency.

[404] Is any of that in the contract?

[405] It is, but none of that applies to the situation.

[406] And, I mean, it was just us backing out of it.

[407] Our realtor isn't being very helpful, which we feel like is because, obviously, she's not...

[408] I think you are on the hook for it, though, Taylor.

[409] If you make an offer, because literally my husband and I were just in the situation a couple of weeks back.

[410] If you make an offer and then they say, and you work with the agents say, here's what we're offering, da, da, da, da, da, da, they send you the paperwork.

[411] You sign it, you're saying, when you sign it, you're saying, I'm going to pay the earnest money within this many days, this is what's going to happen next and this is what's going to happen next.

[412] You're kind of, you signing on the dotted line is committing to the offer in many ways, in all the ways.

[413] So there's part of me that thinks that you're on the hook for this And you just The fact that you didn't pay the earnest money Doesn't mean that it wasn't due It just meant that you didn't say what you said you were going to do If the contract said that you would provide the money Within 5 to 10 business days or whatever it was Five to seven days So they What would you do about the $5 ,000 because it was originally three And now they want more money Yeah, why are they wanting more?

[414] Because they are mad about why time and they refused to sign the contract, the new one where we said we're canceling and not paying.

[415] So they're losing time because they won't sign anything.

[416] That's up in the air.

[417] I feel like I mean, they could probably fight it in court and fight for that lost time and put a dollar value on that.

[418] I would see if you can just settle with them for the three and go, listen, here's all we can do.

[419] I got a baby on the way.

[420] My husband's about to be deployed.

[421] We're in a crazy situation.

[422] I hate that this happened.

[423] Didn't want it to go down like this.

[424] Here's your three.

[425] okay i don't know if there's a legal way you can get out of this without you fighting it and i don't think you guys have the money or time to go to court and fight this no that's the thing listen i i hate that this happened taylor but i tell people all the time like that earnest money if you buy the house it goes towards the down payment but if you don't that's money up front that you're spending that obviously you have the propensity to lose and that i call skin in the game money yeah this shows I'm really serious about, you know, buying this house.

[426] And so the other thing you could do, which has its own risks of going through with the home inspection and the appraisal and financing and then having one of those things cause an issue to where you back out.

[427] But it sounds like these people are angry enough that they're not going to be happy if you back out later on and waste even more of their time.

[428] Yeah.

[429] Okay.

[430] It's tough.

[431] So that's a road you could go down, but I'm telling you, you could still end up paying, and it still could be messy.

[432] If it were me, I'd take the contract and I would ask around, and I'd ask a couple of different real estate agents, I'd say, like, am I on the hook for this?

[433] Am I on the hook for this?

[434] And see if you can get some free counsel from other agents, if you say that yours is not helping out much, which never use them again, by the way.

[435] Maybe contact a real estate attorney and say, and just do a free consult, say, here's my situation.

[436] Do you think I have any case here to even fight this, or what should I do?

[437] Yeah, we're just concerned.

[438] We don't want this to go on any longer because, obviously, they're mad about last time, and we tried to cancel as soon as possible, but it went on way longer because they're fighting it.

[439] We're a little confused why they wouldn't just want to put their house back on the market, but they can't do that until this is done, so they're losing time on their own.

[440] So this is causing them to hang in the balance here until they get the situation sorted with you guys.

[441] Yeah.

[442] Yeah.

[443] I mean, you guys, you have the 3 ,000.

[444] How much do you guys have in cash?

[445] About 15.

[446] Okay.

[447] Yeah, I'm going to label this under kind of a stupid tax, and we learn from the mistake, and we move on and go, that hurt.

[448] Let's not make decisions out of desperation again, because this is the kind of stuff that will happen.

[449] Okay.

[450] So are you guys going to rent for the foreseeable future while your husband's deployed?

[451] We own a house, and we talked about renting or buying, and I hated all the rentals, and it just didn't feel like home.

[452] And so we looked at a house that was closer because we lived pretty far out.

[453] And, I mean, the interest rate is double what ours is at.

[454] And we just felt like it would be a big waste of money for us.

[455] And why can't you stay where you're at right now?

[456] I can.

[457] It's just we're about 25 minutes out from town.

[458] So there's not a lot here for me. And I feel kind of alone.

[459] You don't have any family nearby?

[460] No. And the daycares are far.

[461] Like groceries, you know, everything is far away.

[462] So I just wanted, like, convenience for myself because it's going to be hard enough.

[463] But, yeah, we're not really willing to pay for it anymore.

[464] Yeah.

[465] Well, if you did move closer to town, you might need to, you know, compromise and settle and go, all right, this rental is good enough for this season that I'm in so that I can be closer to civilization as I raise this baby while my husband is deployed.

[466] I mean, that's a lot.

[467] Yeah.

[468] So I feel for you.

[469] But, you know, adding to the chaos of becoming a homeowner, I don't know if that's why.

[470] worth it right now.

[471] Yeah.

[472] Especially when you guys have 15 grand to your name.

[473] I have to take care of it by myself.

[474] I just wanted something closer to town so that at least it was easier for me for running errands.

[475] Yeah.

[476] Now that's reasonable.

[477] And I hope you guys get this real estate situation sorted out.

[478] But, you know, I would have some other people look at the contract, get some other opinions.

[479] But I think at the end of the day, you just settle with them and go, we can do three.

[480] We can't do the full five.

[481] And if they want to waste their time coming at you for that, I don't know.

[482] that they have a case, first of all, but...

[483] They might have a case, but the question, like you said, is it worth the brain calories and time calories to go after someone in, you know, Judge George Court?

[484] It's for sure.

[485] You'll be lucky to even make it to a Judge George court, you know?

[486] But it'll be some small claims situation right there.

[487] But I'm so sorry, Taylor.

[488] I hate that this is happening to you.

[489] Yeah, it was a dumb mistake we made, but we kind of panicked, so...

[490] Well, we always say on this show, never...

[491] No one makes good decisions when they're panicked.

[492] or drunk.

[493] That's right.

[494] But you can always go back and try to settle it and see if they'll take something.

[495] Yeah.

[496] I mean, I would personally have some pity on a, you know, a soon -to -be mom, husbands getting deployed, serving our country.

[497] I'm going to go like, I don't know, George, because when you're on the other side of it and you've got timelines, like, you know, she was super sweet, but I'm thinking about when Sam and I were moving here, you have a timeline.

[498] It's all business.

[499] It's all business.

[500] And I'm like, don't mess around and make an offer because time is money when it comes to this stuff.

[501] And I was trying to understand what she was saying, but I think that, I think the seller, I think they have to have this deal closed and wrapped tight before they can legally accept another offer.

[502] Is that what was going on there?

[503] Is that why they were saying that they were losing time?

[504] I think right now it's contingent and they can't make it live and active again until this situation is sorted because this offer is still halfway out there.

[505] I see.

[506] I think that's the issue.

[507] Just remember when buying a house, I always say, George, you need that stacked deck and down payment we know 5 to 20 percent earnest money that can be up to 1 to 3 percent of the purchase price it's a lot of money also keep in mind closing closing costs if you're going to be the buyer 2 to 5 percent and then the cave adds up and then you got moving costs appraisals the repairs inspections who moving costs like you said home ownership is no joke so for those you excited about it make sure you got your ducks in row before you jump into this this is the ramsie show.

[508] I've been doing this show for over 30 years and some of the saddest calls I have taken are from situations that are completely preventable.

[509] Yeah.

[510] And what's so hard is I feel like one of those, especially the ones that I'm like, oh, it's terrible.

[511] People that call in and their spouse has passed away suddenly and they don't have life insurance.

[512] When you have to think through how am I going to pay my bills in the middle of next week.

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[545] All right, let's go back to Levi in Springfield.

[546] Let's see if we can get them on the air.

[547] Levi, are you with us?

[548] I am.

[549] Thanks for taking my call.

[550] You left me on red, bro.

[551] I got nervous.

[552] How can we help?

[553] How are you guys?

[554] Doing good.

[555] How are you?

[556] Oh, not too bad.

[557] I have a little bit of an issue, though.

[558] Okay.

[559] So my wife and I, we've been working through Bateson number two, when we've been making it to be good progress, and I just recently discovered that my identity had been stolen.

[560] Oh, yikes.

[561] And I guess I'm just looking for some guidance on how to navigate that.

[562] How bad is it?

[563] I'm not really, hopefully not too bad yet.

[564] I checked my credit report, and there was nothing on there that shouldn't be.

[565] I've been keeping an eye on my bank accounts and everything seems okay, there.

[566] What happened was they opened up a credit card in my name, and then just a couple days ago, I got three phone bills sent to me for numbers that I do not own.

[567] So, man, that stinks.

[568] And I've been in your exact shoes, Levi.

[569] This is back in 2013.

[570] I had identity theft.

[571] They opened up two cell phone accounts, AT &T, Verizon, racked up $1 ,700 on both, never paid a dime using my social security number and an old address.

[572] Oh, shoot.

[573] Is it similar to you?

[574] Yeah, my social security number, but they're using my current address.

[575] That's why I'm getting all the notices.

[576] Man. So have you frozen your credit yet?

[577] I just did that today.

[578] Okay, that's good.

[579] That's good.

[580] And did you have a fraud alert placed on all of your credit accounts?

[581] No, because I haven't been able to speak with AT &T yet.

[582] It's impossible to speak with a human being with them, I guess.

[583] But anyway, I filed a police report yesterday, and I want to keep trying to contact AT &Ping through to them.

[584] But the credit card did put a fraud alert.

[585] The credit card company put a fraud alert on my...

[586] Okay, and they reversed the charges.

[587] You want anything on any of that?

[588] Nope, there were no charges on the card.

[589] I caught it in time.

[590] Okay, that's good.

[591] Have you filed a report with the Federal Trade Commission yet on their website, FTC?

[592] No, I have not.

[593] I would do that as well.

[594] and you've already got the police report so you're going to need that as you submit it to different creditors and credit bureaus, you might need that.

[595] Okay.

[596] And outside of that, make sure you're checking all of your accounts regularly, make sure you have a freeze on all three accounts with all three bureaus.

[597] Okay.

[598] And then beyond that, you want to get any account records from all of these, if there's a debt collector involved or AT &T, get every record you can get.

[599] That's the thing.

[600] What is 18 and?

[601] If he doesn't cooperate with me on this, what steps do I need to take this?

[602] Well, I mean, if you have a police report and you have the FTC report, that should be enough to get them to go, oh, this wasn't him.

[603] I mean, I don't know how they give you issue or cause you to, don't ever pay a dime for any of these accounts.

[604] Gotcha.

[605] Even if it goes to collections.

[606] This is not your deal.

[607] Yeah, I wasn't planning on paying anything.

[608] And then did you already connect your talk to your bank?

[609] No, I haven't spoke to my bank yet.

[610] Okay.

[611] That'd be my next move when I get off the phone with us.

[612] Let them know that this has happened because who knows what else they have, but I would probably get a new account set up with a new card attached.

[613] Okay.

[614] And also contact your utility providers and let them know.

[615] Do I need to contact the office of Social Security?

[616] If you think that, if you suspect that they have either your Social Security card, if you suspect that they have your driver's license, I'd contact Social Security.

[617] I'd contact the DMV and maybe even, you know, you know, if you think they might have your passport.

[618] Like, only you can suspect what you think's going on here and how you think they got your information.

[619] And so, you know.

[620] Yeah, I would contact them on their website and see if you can get a replacement.

[621] Mm -hmm.

[622] Okay.

[623] Yeah, I know they don't have my physical cards, but I don't think you can open up a phone line without a Social Security number.

[624] So that's just why I assume they had it.

[625] Yeah.

[626] They have an office of the Inspector General, and we'll send you the blog post that outlines all the steps you need to, take.

[627] I would also update your main passwords and usernames.

[628] Okay.

[629] And for the future, ID theft protection is super important to have.

[630] We have it on every single team member here at Ramsey.

[631] And ours is through our friends at Xander.

[632] So it's like an insurance.

[633] It's not technically an insurance product, but that will help with all the restoration services that you need to get your life back.

[634] And it's super cheap.

[635] Like before I came here, I think I paid like 12 bucks a month for it.

[636] Now it's, I think it's like seven bucks a month.

[637] Yeah, for me and my husband.

[638] Levi will make sure to send you that the article that outlines all these steps.

[639] But man, the truth is it's just going to take some time and effort to get all this sorted out.

[640] But you're going to be okay.

[641] Yeah.

[642] I think that that don't lose sleep over it.

[643] Having that ID theft protection is going to be really important going forward because a lot of times once your ID is stolen once, it's kind of like that information is out there and it's likely that it can happen again.

[644] So having somebody who's monitoring it all the time is a big, big deal.

[645] Yeah.

[646] And we'll hook you up with our friends at Zander as well and see what they can do about it after the fact to help you clean this up, man. So sorry you're going through this.

[647] Oh, be sure, hey, one other thing, be sure to monitor your tax return to make sure that they're not trying to get their pause at that because that is a pain in the, you know what to go through.

[648] Yeah.

[649] Thanks for the call, Levi.

[650] I appreciate it, man. And for everyone listening out there, if you want to check out that blog article that I wrote, it's called What to Do If Your Identity is Stolen.

[651] It's on the Ramsey Solutions website.

[652] And we will put a link in the description and show notes wherever you're listening so you can just scroll down there and click and we'll make sure that Levi gets that as well but be sure to check out Xander's ID theft protection it really is a great way to make sure you're you're covered your family's covered again it's like I'm seeing here on their website individual 675 a month 75 a year so worth it's a hundred forty five a year 1290 a month and it has been it has saved my bacon one or two times when that does happen it's one of those things like home insurance you hope you don't have to use it.

[653] But goodness, when it's there, and this lady, Xander's handling everything for me and I just submit all the paperwork, it just gave me a little bit of peace and confidence as I went along my business.

[654] I've never had my identity stolen.

[655] I've had a debit card.

[656] You know, like somebody gets your debit card number and tries to buy Xboxes, which is what happened to Sam and I won Christmas Eve.

[657] But other than that, like, never the extreme of like, they've got my social and they've got my...

[658] Well, it's almost like a, like a home invasion.

[659] It's just such an invasion of your own privacy.

[660] Yeah.

[661] I mean, they're stealing from you at the most personal level.

[662] Yeah.

[663] And the truth is, this happens so often that, like, rarely are you going to get the...

[664] I wanted these people to, like, go to jail.

[665] And they're like, it doesn't work like that.

[666] You want to see him taken away in handcuffs.

[667] And I went full detective.

[668] I was like, I'm going to find out who these people are.

[669] My wife was like, please don't, don't do that.

[670] You don't know what you're doing.

[671] You're not John Wick.

[672] All right.

[673] This is not going to be some Liam Mason -level, you know, revenge story.

[674] I'm learning that about you, George, that you really do like to get to the bottom of things.

[675] I'm thinking about another story you told me. I'm a nice guy until I'm not a nice guy.

[676] But truly, it is so, so funny.

[677] It is not a fun thing to deal with.

[678] And so you want to make sure, you know, with one of these ID theft protection services, what they're offering is, number one, real -time identity monitoring, instant alerts, the recovery work for every type of identity theft.

[679] And what's really cool, recovery of up to a million dollars in stolen funds.

[680] Wow.

[681] That's partially of what's covered with identity theft protection.

[682] be sure to check it out at ramsysolutions .com.

[683] You can find our identity theft protection, help from our friends at Xander.

[684] That puts this hour of The Ramsey Show in the books.

[685] Thank you to my co -host, Jade Warshaw, all the folks in the booth.

[686] We got Skyler, Ben, Austin, Zach, Nathan, Bobby, all hanging out back there, keeping the show afloat.

[687] And New America, thank you so much for listening.

[688] We appreciate it.

[689] We'll be back before you know it.

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[693] I'm George Campbell, joined by Jay Warshaw.

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[696] Brandon kicks us off in Fort Wayne, Indiana.

[697] Brandon, welcome to the show.

[698] Hey, George, a big fan of yours.

[699] Thank you.

[700] I appreciate you guys having me on the show.

[701] Absolutely.

[702] I came across your book, and it's changed the way my wife and I view money.

[703] That's so cool to hear.

[704] That's the basis of our question.

[705] Ultimately, our question is whether or not we should go down to one car to pay off our debt.

[706] Wow.

[707] We have three cars.

[708] One of them is a sports car, just a fun toy that's automatically sold.

[709] But my wife and I are trying to decide should we go down to one car to be out of debt as soon as the car sells?

[710] Or would that not be smart to do that.

[711] Do you have kids?

[712] Yeah, we have a one -year -old.

[713] Okay.

[714] And I'm a full -time student.

[715] Okay.

[716] And my wife works full -time.

[717] Okay.

[718] So, and I'm guessing proximity.

[719] My mind goes to proximity because when my husband and I were getting out of debt, we went down to a one -car family.

[720] And we did it because my sister -in -law, my sister went down to a one -car family and they did it with two kids.

[721] So we figured, okay, we can do this.

[722] But I do think proximity matters.

[723] Like, her being able to drop you off at school, you know, on her way to work, those sorts of things.

[724] Do you see a world where that could take place?

[725] Yeah, it definitely be kind of hard, but she makes her own schedule.

[726] And my parents have three cars, and there's a chance that we might be able to borrow one of their cars for a month.

[727] Ooh.

[728] What would happen in that month?

[729] So we've literally just started the process.

[730] So all we have is her student loans.

[731] But we have about 10 ,000 set aside that we haven't put towards it yet.

[732] So you have 10 ,000 cash.

[733] How much in total debt?

[734] 28.

[735] All right.

[736] And between the two cars, based off a Kelly Blue Book, we could get 25.

[737] So.

[738] $2 ,500?

[739] $25 ,000.

[740] For the sports car plus the other car that you're planning on seven.

[741] Correct.

[742] So between that plus your cash, you have $35K, you knock out the student loans, you have seven left over.

[743] Right.

[744] we go purchase a $5 ,000 car.

[745] Yeah.

[746] I love this plan.

[747] But then it's solid.

[748] Okay.

[749] Yeah, it's just, it's a little nerve -wracking, you know, having a kid going down to one car.

[750] But even if, like, my question was, even if, like, we couldn't, there's a chance we could borrow the car from my parents, but even if not, you think it's still smart.

[751] I think it's really.

[752] For you to buy, for you to drive the $5 ,000 car for a while?

[753] Sorry, you're breaking up on us, Brandon.

[754] I'm sorry, just to go down to one car until we can...

[755] I mean, you could survive that for a few weeks, depending on how stronger marriage is.

[756] I think I could probably make it one week before it starts to tear us apart.

[757] I think that...

[758] And my wife works here, by the way.

[759] Let me tell you, I'm just being honest.

[760] I think that people don't consider it, and I think that they would be shocked.

[761] My husband and I were a one -car family for 10 years.

[762] Ten years?

[763] Yes.

[764] We sold our car in 2009, Sam, when we were.

[765] we were getting out of debt and we stuck to one car and then we had two kids and we still had one car and when we moved here when I joined Ramsey we bought our second car wow yeah so can be done it just requires coordination and it's one of those things that when you first start out it's uncomfortable because you're not used to it but once you figure out your rhythms and your routines it's like yeah a matter of fact I got to the point where I was like we don't need a second car and here's an idea I mean you can role play this for the next week you guys only use one car.

[766] See how it goes.

[767] Yeah.

[768] That's a good idea.

[769] As you get the other two listed and just live like that and see how it goes and it works out, keep doing it.

[770] But either way, I'd get that $5 ,000 card and just have it for now until you or upgrade a little bit later with cash.

[771] You're going to see savings on insurance too, which is great.

[772] A lot of savings.

[773] But all the cars are paid off?

[774] Yeah, all the cars are paid off.

[775] The only debt we have is the student loans.

[776] What's the payments on the student loans?

[777] Uh, 260, Well, it's between, like, five different student loans.

[778] It comes out to, like, 267, I think, a month.

[779] Oh, nice.

[780] So that, I mean, that's great.

[781] That's over three grand that you can put towards your savings goals.

[782] Right.

[783] As you free up the payment.

[784] So I think this is a no -brainer.

[785] Okay.

[786] I appreciate it.

[787] Yeah, you got it, man. That's a fun call.

[788] I did not know Jade was a one -car family.

[789] One -car family for 10 years.

[790] Wow.

[791] That's crazy.

[792] I mean, even Whitney working at Ramsey, I rarely get to commute with her.

[793] our schedules are just all over the place.

[794] And now with a baby, it's like, well, you got to go home.

[795] I got a recording.

[796] But you guys work in the same place, George.

[797] And I could get, like, rides from people, but I just, I'm, I feel too guilty being like, hey, man, can I get a ride again?

[798] You drive me home after work?

[799] Listen, I would take Uber.

[800] Like, every once in a while on the weekend, we might have an issue.

[801] And it's like, oh, I'll just get an Uber.

[802] And I remember my friend Fred would be like, why are you Ubering?

[803] Just caught, like, we'll drive you.

[804] Like, we'll pick you up.

[805] I'm like, no, it's, I don't want to burden anybody else with it.

[806] See, that's my thing.

[807] We never viewed it as a burden.

[808] It was just like, all right, yeah, I'll just grab an Uber.

[809] That's why we need John Deloney to be like, you're not a burden to your friends.

[810] Text them at 3 a .m. Ask for the ride to the airport.

[811] I'm like, bro.

[812] No, you hit a certain point.

[813] I feel like once you hit like 37, you can't ask people to help you move anymore.

[814] Thank you.

[815] And you cannot, like, hit your ride.

[816] Unless you're Baby Step 2, then I might help you move if you're in Baby Step 2.

[817] But once you're out of that, just hire a mover.

[818] Yeah, there's levels to that because I'm not moving.

[819] and stairs, like an apartment.

[820] No. I'll help you put some things in a box.

[821] George, if a friend breaks something, I'm like, oh gosh.

[822] But if the mover does it, I'm getting that money back.

[823] Yeah, you can like, yeah, get funky friends with them.

[824] You know, when my buddy Joe helps me move and he breaks something, I'm like, well, that's thing.

[825] It was free.

[826] He was helping for free.

[827] Right.

[828] Charge the guy.

[829] So that part's stressful.

[830] Yeah, you have to pay them with something.

[831] Even if you're an adult, you have to have drinks or pizza or like, there's got to be some form of payment.

[832] You can't just say come help me move.

[833] Absolutely.

[834] Well, I was just reading Consumer Reports article, which I'm a paying member now, Jay.

[835] That's how you know I'm getting old.

[836] George, you're different.

[837] I'm getting old.

[838] I'm next step.

[839] AARP is up next.

[840] But they have a great article because we've been telling people the $5 ,000 car exists.

[841] Yeah, it does.

[842] And Consumer Reports had an article from February 14th, best used cars and SUVs for less than $5 ,000.

[843] There you go.

[844] And you wouldn't be shocked to hear the brands on here.

[845] Can you guess them?

[846] Toyota.

[847] Yep.

[848] Nissan.

[849] Nope.

[850] Ford.

[851] Nope.

[852] I was hoping you'd hit the major two.

[853] It rhymes with Ronda.

[854] Hyundai.

[855] Honda.

[856] There we go.

[857] Toyota and Honda took the top definitely.

[858] And Lexus was on there too.

[859] And guess what?

[860] These cars are 20 -year -old cars.

[861] I believe that.

[862] You know, it's an 06 accord.

[863] It's the 04 Lexus E .S. But you see these on the road.

[864] O -4 Avalon, O5 Camry.

[865] These are invincible cars.

[866] Yeah, they're still on the road.

[867] 100%.

[868] Rav4, 2001, Tacoma.

[869] You see a guy in a 2001 Toyota Tacoma?

[870] He's going places.

[871] He's got work to do.

[872] You see a guy in the brand new F -250?

[873] Yeah.

[874] That thing doesn't have a scratch on it, Jade.

[875] That guy's hauling mulch once a year from Lowe's.

[876] That's about the only thing he's doing with that.

[877] You never see old Volkswagen's.

[878] You never see old Volvos.

[879] Yeah.

[880] You ever see a Saturn on the road?

[881] Never.

[882] My guy is still holding on.

[883] If you have a Saturn, I'm sorry.

[884] It's usually like in a Taco Bell drive -thru at 3 a .m. Like this man has seen some.

[885] things if he's driving a Saturn around at 3 a .m. Oh, man. And he's in for some things if he's at Taco Bell.

[886] Listen, these cars exist.

[887] Are they 20 years old?

[888] Yes.

[889] Do they have 148 ,000 miles?

[890] Yes.

[891] Will they still go another 100 ,000?

[892] Yes.

[893] Dang right.

[894] So don't tell me that they don't exist.

[895] Just tell me you don't want to drive it.

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[905] I'm George Campbell, joined by Jade Warshaw.

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[924] It's time for our question of the day.

[925] Jade, what do we have?

[926] All right, today's question comes from Brandon in Georgia.

[927] He says, I will graduate college debt -free this semester.

[928] Because of an internship, I will likely receive a full -time job offer of $70 ,000 a year at a reputable company with a lot of room to move up.

[929] That's good.

[930] How does someone who leaves college debt -free with a decent income manage their money when it's their first time on salary?

[931] I don't have to pay rent or get - I don't want to have to pay.

[932] Thank you.

[933] I don't want to have to pay rent or get a car with debt while also having to save money for retirement at the same time.

[934] My biggest fear is wasting money renting before I feel I'm financially capable to take on buying or mortgaging a home.

[935] What's your advice?

[936] I love this.

[937] I think this guy's just now getting started.

[938] He's got a nice career set up for himself.

[939] The first step is to get on a budget.

[940] Like that's numeral uno.

[941] If you don't have an every dollar budget, you need to down one today.

[942] The free version's amazing, but the premium version is even better.

[943] So I'd say that that'd be his first thing.

[944] He says, I don't want to have to pay rent or get a car with debt.

[945] So my next piece of advice is don't.

[946] You know, over here we just say that we live a debt -free lifestyle and we draw a line in the sand.

[947] and we don't borrow money.

[948] So for you, the next thing is to probably use that great income to start saving up for a car.

[949] And to answer your question about renting, I would rent for the time being.

[950] I'd get a couple of roommates, get a couple of guys, and just get used to living that adult lifestyle, right?

[951] You're getting up, you're going to work every morning.

[952] You're saving up for a car.

[953] You're on a budget.

[954] Start getting your confidence built that you can live on what you make.

[955] And then at the right time, I would look at buying a home.

[956] I'd make sure that I have the right down payment in an area that's right for you with your job.

[957] And I would not look at renting as a negative because I feel like here you're kind of feeling that renting is a negative.

[958] And I, it's not.

[959] It's just buying you time until you can afford to buy a house the right way.

[960] And that's truly what it is, George.

[961] Yeah.

[962] I'm just exhausted by this narrative that society and parents are telling young people, which is renting is a sin.

[963] It's a waste of money.

[964] You better get into home as soon as possible.

[965] And I get the heart behind it.

[966] It's what a meaning.

[967] But then it creates this.

[968] And it means people would jump out of college at 22 and they're like, I need to buy a house, even though I'm not ready.

[969] Now, luckily, our friend Brandon has no debt making 70K a year.

[970] That blows my mind.

[971] I wasn't making half of that when I got my first job out of college.

[972] I know.

[973] And I moved to Nashville and what do you do?

[974] You get some roommates.

[975] You get some side hustles.

[976] And so I think that's a smart move.

[977] Be ready for the first month deposit last month rent whatever that is uh be ready for that financially so i would just save up a bunch of cash and maybe work part time so that when you graduate even before that first paycheck hits you're ready to make the move and go rent somewhere with some roommates and renting to george to your point it does get a bad stigma and it's not it's not a bad thing my husband and i rented for over 10 years before we bought a house and our situation was different we were trying to pay off almost half a million dollars of debt but in many ways ways I can liken it to what's going on right now because the housing market is so expensive that people feel like I'm never quote I'm never going to be able to buy a house and I'm like you will be able to instead of it taking three years or four years it could take six or seven or seven or eight or eight or nine or ten like there is part of this that I just want people to feel encouraged that just because a journey takes longer doesn't mean you won't make it to the finish line and doesn't mean it's not worth it to rent until you get there amen and last thing say, Brandon, if you're listening, and I hope you are, is when you go from making nothing to making $70 ,000, the life hack is to keep living like you make nothing.

[978] Keep living on less than you make.

[979] If you can learn to live off of 20 grand when you make 70, you're going to be unbelievably wealthy.

[980] But for most people, they just fill in the gap.

[981] They make 70.

[982] We're just going to spend to 70.

[983] Or they spend 80.

[984] That's the American story right there.

[985] And so if you can avoid that, avoid lifestyle creep, avoid the comparison, culture, and lifestyle, you're going to be just fine, my friend.

[986] So great question.

[987] Love that.

[988] For any young person that's listening, someone about to graduate, send them this call.

[989] It could change everything.

[990] All right, let's get to the phone lines.

[991] Philadelphia is up next.

[992] Angela joins us there.

[993] Welcome, Angela.

[994] Hi, how are you?

[995] Doing well.

[996] Thank you for having me on the show.

[997] Absolutely.

[998] What's going on today.

[999] My question is around student loans and emergency funds.

[1000] So I'm older.

[1001] I have a pretty decent salary.

[1002] I contribute to my 401Ks.

[1003] I have brokerage accounts.

[1004] And my issue is my mentality around dumping all of my emergency fund into my student loan.

[1005] So I have exactly the amount to pay off my student loan in my emergency fund, but I am terrified to start over again.

[1006] How old are you?

[1007] building that emergency?

[1008] 41.

[1009] And how much do you have in student loans?

[1010] $50 ,000.

[1011] $50 ,000?

[1012] Let me tell you what's terrifying.

[1013] Having $50 ,000 in student loans, decades after you graduated, when did you graduate?

[1014] So this is from grad school, and so that would be like 10 years ago.

[1015] Ooh, girl, listen, I have two ways that I like explaining this.

[1016] One is just math.

[1017] It's really just the math for me, because if you think that you have to...

[1018] On a balance sheet.

[1019] Yeah, if you say that you have 50 ,000, dollars and that's what's keeping you warm at night the math would differ and it would disagree with you because technically that you owe that whether you admit it or not you owe it to I know you know so there's that piece of it I I I also yeah but I'm worried about um like if something were to happen with my house where I literally need like $5 ,000 for something or so how much do you make every month um about seven I probably bring home about seven and is it just you Yes, it's just me. And how much was your student loan payment?

[1020] So last year, I really, after like just really getting into my finances and just making sure that I'm like doing what I'm supposed to do, I really, I up the payment.

[1021] So right now my student loan payment is actually, this is something I chose.

[1022] It's $1 ,500 a month because I can afford that.

[1023] So I really am trying to knock it out.

[1024] But I'm like, do I just say this three to five year course that they have me on?

[1025] No. Angela, the whole point that I'm not.

[1026] I'm trying to make to you is you make $7 ,000 a month.

[1027] It's just you.

[1028] Your student loan payment alone that you've chosen to pay is $1 ,500.

[1029] If you paid this off today, how quickly could you pay, could you save up $5 ,000 and get that cushion back under you that you want?

[1030] Yeah, that's fair.

[1031] Yep, that's fair.

[1032] You'd save it so quickly.

[1033] Plus, I'm guessing there's probably, if you wanted to get really intense, I know there's more margins somewhere in the $7 ,000 that you could stack that up even faster.

[1034] Right now, you're living in, the way I like to describe this, it's like the student loan house.

[1035] Like on the, on the inside, it's like modern and beautiful and the payment's not that much.

[1036] And, you know, you've got 50 ,000 saved and you just think that there's like this beautiful landscape in front of you.

[1037] But the minute you open up the door, you're like on a cliff.

[1038] And like, be like, it's just your one false move is and you're falling off a cliff and the sun is burning you up.

[1039] And it's just like doomsday out there.

[1040] And as long as you stay in the house, you're fine, but your body knows that you're in danger and that you're on this cliff.

[1041] And as John Deloney says all the time, your body keeps the score.

[1042] And so I really do think that there's a toll that we pay mentally and psychologically and physically inside of our bodies for having this debt.

[1043] Yeah, and it is definitely more of a mental toll because I've worked so hard.

[1044] I'm just like, oh, I could just pay this off, but also it's like, but then you will have nothing.

[1045] No. I think that's a line.

[1046] that your brain is telling yourself, you will have something.

[1047] You'll have your income back and you'll have savings, the same savings that you had in a matter of a few short months if you get after it.

[1048] You'll be there.

[1049] You stack up the money you're putting toward the payment in an emergency fund with your amazing income.

[1050] And how much do you have in the brokerage account?

[1051] Well, I have a 401k, but I think my brokerage has about $80 ,000 right now.

[1052] Oh, my goodness.

[1053] You're good.

[1054] You're fine.

[1055] This is paranoia if you don't pay this off today.

[1056] We're so proud of you.

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[1070] Dakota is up next in Phoenix, Arizona.

[1071] Dakota, what has happening?

[1072] Hey guys.

[1073] Thank you for having me on.

[1074] So I have about $60 ,000 worth of debt and I was hoping to get some guidance from you guys on where I should go next.

[1075] Okay.

[1076] What kind of debt is this?

[1077] So I have two car loans, a car for myself and my wife, that total just about $30 ,000.

[1078] And I have a business that my business partner walked out on.

[1079] So I'm owing him the rest of that money debt as well.

[1080] So $30 ,000 like a buyout from the business exactly yes that's 30k what's the arrangement for that 30k um so i i work in an industry that the monthly income varies just a little bit so i have the leeway to pay either 500 or 2 ,000 dollars a month obviously i'm trying to get it done as quick as possible but it's hard to it's the varying income interesting so what do you bring in every month not just you but your wife as well so uh we you bring it anywhere from $6 ,000 to $8 ,000 a month?

[1081] Okay.

[1082] And these cars, so you said together they're worth $30K, can you split them out for me so I can Yes, I have Toyota Tacoma, 2019, that's $20 ,000, and then she just got a new, not new, but it's a used Hyundai, Alantra, that's 2019 as well.

[1083] I think there's $14 ,000 on that.

[1084] Okay.

[1085] So 34 between the two?

[1086] If you were to sell the $20 ,000 car, would it bring anything?

[1087] Or are you upside down?

[1088] I have $10 ,000 in equity in it right now.

[1089] Okay.

[1090] I might consider getting out of one of these car notes, especially since you could get something for one of them.

[1091] Yeah, and my only hesitation about doing that is I live in Arizona, but I work in California, and I just want to make sure that I have reliable transportation to get there.

[1092] Well, you said if you sold it, it'd bring $10 ,000?

[1093] Yes.

[1094] That's what you would net?

[1095] So it's worth $30, you owe 20?

[1096] Yeah, and that's private.

[1097] I'll probably get a little bit less selling it to a dealership house in a $7.

[1098] So there's some money there to get a reliable vehicle.

[1099] And if, I mean, think about it, your wife's vehicle is only $4 ,000 more.

[1100] So if you were to, if you were really up against it, you guys could switch for a little while until you get right side up on this debt.

[1101] Yeah, luckily she works from home, but I feel bad leaving her out here without a car.

[1102] My parents aren't exactly.

[1103] No, you'd be getting a $10 ,000 car.

[1104] Oh, oh.

[1105] Oh, I got you.

[1106] Yeah.

[1107] Okay.

[1108] That makes all my sense.

[1109] Yeah.

[1110] And what kind of business are you in?

[1111] I want a tattoo shop.

[1112] Okay.

[1113] And you travel for that?

[1114] Yeah, yeah.

[1115] So the shop, luckily, it pays for itself.

[1116] The shop, I mean, so the shop itself has a savings as well, but I just don't want to touch that just in case anything does happen.

[1117] I know it's to replace the floor soon and all that.

[1118] I've never really had this much debt in my life.

[1119] So I'm a little bit anxious to say the least.

[1120] No, I think that.

[1121] And you have no savings for yourself?

[1122] We have a personal savings of somewhere around $3 ,000 or $4 ,000.

[1123] Okay.

[1124] But I've literally emptied my bank account.

[1125] I mean, I have some other investments, like, somewhere around like $8 ,000 with a precious metal that I have bolted with the company.

[1126] But, like, that's about it.

[1127] Well, I'm getting rid of that.

[1128] Yeah, I'm probably dumped the precious metal and take $3 ,000 from your pile and savings and go get yourself a reliable car with cash after you sell yours.

[1129] And what's your payment on that?

[1130] My monthly payment on my truck is $600 a month Probably $800 total with insurance So you'll free up that money As soon as you sell this thing Yeah Which is going to add a whole bunch to your income every month Which will help you get rid of the business debt And get rid of her car loan And so you can see how this thing snowballs Yeah Yeah, I'm just I'm so anxious not to have Like that security net You know, because of all the cash I have I don't want to touch the business Security net You got $64 ,000 in debt That makes me anxious yeah that too not a piddly savings account yeah yeah true so i'm getting rid of the precious metals i'm cashing out on that you'll be lucky to get i mean precious metals aren't a great quote investment so you'll be lucky to get out of that what you put into it what'd you say it was eight thousand yeah listen you take that money you take three thousand and you you're i mean you're almost out of this car note with your wife you sell your car you take that 10 000 buy yourself something in cash this is happening really quickly with the cars and then you've got you're on the hook for 30 ,000 and then with that you freed up $600 from your car note how much is her car note uh I think it's like 270 a month okay so you said with insurance 670 so you've got an extra thousand dollars that you're going to bring to the table relatively soon to pay off this 30 ,000 okay that's not bad so I would set an aggressive goal that scares you just a little bit where you're like all right buy this date I will be completely debt free if I just commit to this plan.

[1131] Okay.

[1132] What do you think a reasonable, like, like four, five months, like that intense?

[1133] Once you have a 30K left for the business debt, then go, all right, I can put, you know, 4K a month towards this and be done in seven and a half months.

[1134] And so it depends on when you make your budget, using every dollar, that will show you exactly how much margin you should have if you follow the budget.

[1135] Okay.

[1136] Cool.

[1137] So it's going to be, you know, a few months where you're like, we can't go out to eat.

[1138] We've got to cut some subscriptions.

[1139] We've got to sell things laying around that have been collecting dust, some old tattoo shop equipment we no longer use.

[1140] And let the fact that you, let the fact that you only have $1 ,000 saved to be the thing that just lights the fire under your butt to keep going intensely at this, right?

[1141] Like you said, it makes you feel like you're out there to only have $1 ,000 saved, and it should.

[1142] It should make you feel like, holy moly, I got to get my life together.

[1143] Yeah, no doubt.

[1144] And you're a tattoo artist, I assume?

[1145] Yes, that's correct.

[1146] So can you make any extra side money?

[1147] Oh, no, I mean, I'm surely, once I get the business, you know, or I get the rear of the car payment, one of the other, I'll be able to throw some extra income from the business towards that loan as well.

[1148] But could you open, let's say, Sunday afternoons, I'm going to do some extra hours?

[1149] Oh, yeah, yeah.

[1150] Right now I'm working five days a week, but I try to come home as off as I can't see my wife because I'll look at this year maybe five days every two weeks because of the split between the business partner and all that.

[1151] You know, I was supposed to be two weeks on, two weeks off.

[1152] Yeah, I'd figure out a way to create a more stable life where you're not.

[1153] not having to travel as much.

[1154] Yeah, yeah.

[1155] That should be part of this, part of this getting financial stability is how do I just change my lifestyle.

[1156] Yeah, what does it just look, what does it look like to do tattoos in your area?

[1157] I mean, I'm so sorry, go ahead.

[1158] That's okay.

[1159] I mean, we stay pretty busy as a shop.

[1160] I make $150 an hour and I typically do two tattoos a day.

[1161] But obviously with economic slowing things have kind of taken a little, little back, unfortunately.

[1162] Nobody has stimulus checks anymore, so it's not as busy as it was.

[1163] Yeah, I see what you're saying.

[1164] So for me, that looks like understanding, okay, how long am I going to let myself be in a situation where I'm not making enough to make a living?

[1165] And what can you do in the meantime to fill in that gap?

[1166] Are you investing at all right now?

[1167] My precious metals were the only investment that I really had.

[1168] Okay.

[1169] I would pause.

[1170] all investing until you get this debt cleaned up.

[1171] Once you have the debt cleaned up, then we have to build a fully funded emergency fund of three to six months of expenses.

[1172] So if your expenses are $4 ,000 a month, let's call six months, you need $24 ,000 in that account so that you have a force field between you and life, and then you never have to touch debt again.

[1173] Yeah, because I know the shop has at least like four or five months where it can operate just on savings alone, and then, yeah, it's my personal stuff.

[1174] I maybe have like one or two months between everything I have but yeah okay yeah the similarity between your personal life and business are strong where do you go all right if I can run this thing debt free with a pile of money in the bank to protect me it's going to be a lot more peaceful I still had questions because he's got he's got the shop but he's traveling is he just traveling to do individual tattoos for Dakota uh for singular tell me if I'm wrong but you're going to the other shop to do tattoos uh no when I'm not in Arizona it's just spending time with my wife uh and then uh when I go back home I work.

[1175] So the shop is not near your wife.

[1176] So there's the problem.

[1177] We need to move your family to where your work is.

[1178] That's what we need to be looking at in the future.

[1179] How far away are they?

[1180] It's about four hours.

[1181] Goodness gracious.

[1182] Why not just start a tech?

[1183] Can you start a shop right by your house?

[1184] Unfortunately not.

[1185] Most of my clientele that I've built, I've got to be in California for 10 years now.

[1186] Oh, man. I'm sitting around waiting.

[1187] Yeah.

[1188] Time to build some new clientele.

[1189] This is not a life that's sustainable, man. Thanks for the call.

[1190] This is The Ramsey Show.

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[1202] What's going on, Frederick?

[1203] Hi, guys.

[1204] Thanks for having me. I purchased a home in 2021 for $500 ,000 with a 2 .5 interest rate, and it's now appreciated to $750 ,000.

[1205] I'm thinking about selling it and getting a bigger home because my family's grown.

[1206] Uh -huh.

[1207] Okay, how many bedrooms is your current home?

[1208] It's three bed and two and a half bath, and we have our second child actually due this week, probably today or tomorrow, actually.

[1209] Whoa.

[1210] That's exciting.

[1211] Yeah.

[1212] Yeah, very exciting.

[1213] And just thinking about getting into a four -bedroom.

[1214] My wife and I are hybrid workers, so things are getting all cramped here in our backyard's a little small.

[1215] So just think about taking that equity, rolling into a house a little bit more north and getting more house.

[1216] What would that do?

[1217] Have you ran the numbers out as far as monthly payment and what percentage of your monthly payment it might be?

[1218] So looking at the houses, if we're due to a $750 ,000 house for all the equity and we still owe right around the same, but the interest rates being like 6 .5 to 7 .5 % now, my monthly payment would go up maybe like $300, which isn't like terrible.

[1219] Is that around a 30 year or a 15?

[1220] That's a 30.

[1221] I know you guys love 15.

[1222] Aha!

[1223] Yep, whoop.

[1224] Got them.

[1225] Well, what would it look like, since you guys are making this move anyways, to move to that 15 year, would that be, what percentage of your income would that be, of your take -home pay?

[1226] Oh, man, I haven't done the math, to be honest, on a 15.

[1227] It'd probably be almost.

[1228] I'd crunch it.

[1229] Yeah.

[1230] And it's not to be a rule follower.

[1231] I just, I think the goal should not just be to upgrade in home, but to be completely debt -free and own that home outright.

[1232] And the fastest way to do that, and the cheaper way to do that is with the 15 -year.

[1233] Not in payment, but as far as what you'll pay in interest, the interest rate will likely be lower.

[1234] and so I think long term you'll be grateful you did that.

[1235] As long as you guys are in a good financial spot, do you have no debt with an emergency fund?

[1236] We have an emergency fund, but we do have two cars.

[1237] Oh.

[1238] Uh -oh, this equation is getting worse and worse, Frederick.

[1239] Are you regretting the call?

[1240] No. I really do think that, you know, what George and I are saying, we just want to set you up for success financially.

[1241] So I would look into paying off these cars before we make that move and get under an even more stable financial footing.

[1242] And then I would not upgrade house unless I was also willing to upgrade to a 15 -year fixed -rate mortgage, which for you is, let's be honest, that's going to feel very, it's going to feel like whiplash because you're used to having that lower mortgage monthly payment.

[1243] You're looking at the monthly payment.

[1244] And we're all about, like you said, George, paying this thing off in the long haul.

[1245] When we look at a car, we never go, well, what's the lowest payment?

[1246] That's broke people talk.

[1247] people go, well, what is the total cost of the car and can I afford it?

[1248] And so obviously we don't yell at you for the 15 -year fixed mortgage, but I think, you know, looking at what it would take to get rid of these cars and what's in your emergency fund, that would be a good first step.

[1249] So how much are the car loans total?

[1250] So we have two vehicles.

[1251] I think total we owe right around 65.

[1252] And what's your household income?

[1253] I make 100 and my wife makes right around 90.

[1254] Awesome.

[1255] So we have a great income.

[1256] But we got a lot of car, man. That's a lot of payment.

[1257] Is that a thousand bucks a month in payments at least?

[1258] Yeah.

[1259] Yeah, we're pretty much right there.

[1260] The other caveat to this I was thinking is I could rent out my house and then just...

[1261] No, I don't think so.

[1262] That's a lot of risk and stress in my book.

[1263] Taking on two mortgages and hoping that it all works out perfectly.

[1264] We've taken that call where it doesn't work out perfectly.

[1265] And so that's why we steer people away from that one.

[1266] What does it look like for you guys?

[1267] I'm just looking at what you said.

[1268] You have a $500 ,000 house.

[1269] It's three bedroom, two and a half bath, and you're about to have your second child?

[1270] Correct.

[1271] Okay.

[1272] So one bedroom is for you.

[1273] Your two kids share a bedroom and you've got a bedroom that's an office.

[1274] Is that the plan right now?

[1275] But my wife also works from home too.

[1276] So it's just.

[1277] Okay.

[1278] So then that means somebody's in the living room or someone's in the, you guys are having to.

[1279] Working the laundry room?

[1280] I yeah exactly I personally and this is you know you're a grown man you'll go away and do what you feel but I personally would not I've had two 15 year fixed rate mortgages and I'm astonished how quickly you paid off because of how much of the payment is going towards the principal as opposed to interest every month and I think that you'll just be blown away and you'll end up paying likely six figures less in interest on the 15 year versus the 30th a year when you crunch the numbers, and that will make you want to throw up, seeing how much money you're throwing away to the lender to bless them.

[1281] So that's another reason I'd look at that, but Frederick, you told me, a 15 -year, man, that'd be tight, and I'm going, well, if you freed up the $1 ,000 from the car payments, that 15 -year payment wouldn't seem so scary, would it?

[1282] No, no, definitely do probably way more reasonable.

[1283] And that's where I go, like, I think you guys can do the 50, you make 190.

[1284] I think it's reasonable to do that 15 -year, but we need to get rid of these cars.

[1285] And if that means we got to sell them and downgrade for now, I mean, if you have enough equity and you can have some net profit out of this, it might not be a bad idea.

[1286] How much do you have in the emergency fund?

[1287] We have right around three months' worth.

[1288] So I think we have close to 20, 20 ,000 right now.

[1289] Okay.

[1290] What do you think you'd get for these cars?

[1291] Do you get 65 or 70 or 75?

[1292] Well, so we would probably be under on the cars because it was a, and we purchased them brand new.

[1293] That was the...

[1294] They'd appreciate the fastest when they're brand new.

[1295] Yeah.

[1296] Okay.

[1297] Well, I mean, with our parameters, there's nothing wrong with keeping these cars, but I think it's holding you back from that next step, which you told me, you urgently want to get into a house and you got the new baby.

[1298] To me, the baby trumps the fancy car, and therefore I might still consider selling those cars and purchasing something with cash.

[1299] Even if you can get what you put into it, and you use 19 out of your 20 in savings to go get you two cheaper cars, You both work at home, not a ton of travel happening.

[1300] That might be the move so that you can get into that house faster.

[1301] I think so.

[1302] And honestly, like, I'm just looking at numbers.

[1303] If you're looking at a $700 ,000 house, that's what you're looking at, right?

[1304] And you're putting the $250 down that you're getting from the sale of the other house.

[1305] You're rolling it all over, right?

[1306] Yep.

[1307] Okay, 15 -year fixed rate.

[1308] I don't know what your mortgage rates, you know, I don't know what the rates are and everything, taxes and everything.

[1309] but I'm looking at Tennessee 6 .7%, 6 .7 % mortgage rate, taxes, fees.

[1310] It puts you out 4 ,900 a month.

[1311] And I'm looking at what you said, 190K is your gross?

[1312] Yeah, what's your current mortgage?

[1313] Current mortgage, I'm paying 3 ,300 a month.

[1314] And you're saying it would go up to about 4 ,100 on a 30 year?

[1315] Right around, yeah, I think it was at 3 ,900 was going to be the...

[1316] Okay.

[1317] And this puts you at 4 ,900, sort of...

[1318] So likely, and that's exactly what your car payments are, if not a little less.

[1319] And so I think this is very doable, but we just have to trade in paying lenders for these cars into, let's build equity and get this house paid off.

[1320] That's the trade -off, and that's a worthy trade -off.

[1321] Okay.

[1322] All right.

[1323] Thank you, guys.

[1324] Absolutely.

[1325] Thanks for the call, man. I hope you do it, because I'm excited.

[1326] I get excited when I see people trade in the payments they were making.

[1327] We say, you know, if you want to do interest right, wealthy people earn interest broke people pay interest that's a big difference and so when you get rid of those payments you free up a thousand dollars yeah for most people it's more than that when you add up all of the debt payments in their life and instead you use that to build wealth and pay off the house and invest the numbers start to just boggle your mind yeah that's so true and if you don't believe me go into ramesiesolutions .com use our free investment calculator and add up what your debt payments are and put that as the monthly contribution and do that from your age up through 60, 65.

[1328] Oh, mine's blown.

[1329] Eight to ten percent return.

[1330] Thank me later.

[1331] You'll be like, oh my gosh, let's pay off the debt today, honey.

[1332] We could be bagillionaires.

[1333] Yeah.

[1334] It's so worth it.

[1335] I'm just thinking about owning a house in 15 years as opposed to 30.

[1336] Absolutely.

[1337] You know?

[1338] Don't give yourself wiggle.

[1339] That's what we're here.

[1340] Well, you're going to give yourself wiggle room.

[1341] Uh -uh.

[1342] We got the emergency fund.

[1343] Get out of here with that wiggle room.

[1344] Miss me with that.

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[1359] Unless it's from my mom or my wife or grandma, I don't pick up.

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[1365] Malaysia kicks us off in San Antonio.

[1366] What's going on, Malaysia?

[1367] Hi, guys.

[1368] So my husband and I are about over $100 ,000 in debt, and we have a baby on the way.

[1369] And all kinds of debt just kind of overwhelmed and don't know where to start.

[1370] What kind of debt do you have?

[1371] Can you list it out for us?

[1372] So about 40 ,000 in credit cards, 20 ,000 in student loans, which haven't kicked in yet because I'm still currently in school.

[1373] Okay.

[1374] So I haven't started paying on those yet.

[1375] When do you graduate?

[1376] He next 2025.

[1377] Okay.

[1378] Keep going.

[1379] And then he has a truck.

[1380] We're both small business center, so he has a truck that he uses.

[1381] He does general contracting.

[1382] 35 ,000 he just got six months ago and then we have a Mazda that we're about to finish paying off that's $2 ,000 left on that.

[1383] I have a Jeep that's $25 ,000 and then with his business he kind of fell behind in paying the taxes.

[1384] So from 2022 he owes the IRS about $5 ,000 that and then this past year he is going to have to pay taxes you know at the end of the year because he didn't pay throughout the year And then with, what is it, the insurance, we made too much to qualify for mediate, so we have to pay for health insurance, and then the max dollar pocket for the delivery is going to end up costing us about $9 ,000.

[1385] Okay, that's your max out of pocket.

[1386] Okay, good.

[1387] So we got well over $100 ,000.

[1388] Yeah.

[1389] Okay.

[1390] So, I'm getting rid of every car on this list.

[1391] Okay, that's what I'm looking at.

[1392] Except for that one that you got $2 ,000 paid off.

[1393] I don't believe that he needs a $35 ,000.

[1394] $5 ,000 truck to do general contract or work?

[1395] No way.

[1396] Do you agree or disagree, Malaysia?

[1397] I do agree.

[1398] He was actually using the Mazda prior, so that's why we ended up getting the Jeep is because the Mazda is like kind of trashed out at this point.

[1399] Yeah, it has a lot of miles on it.

[1400] He, like, ran it into the ground, and then he's like, okay, I need to get actual work truck.

[1401] Okay, but he didn't need to spend $35 ,000.

[1402] let's be honest about that and he didn't need to go 35 ,000 into debt yeah so some of this we can clean up some of it we have to crawl out of what did you spend $40 ,000 on with the credit cards Um, that was a crude over years.

[1403] Um, just like a bunch of different things.

[1404] I used to have a RV and I ended up putting the down payment on the credit cards and then I sold the RV, but then I still came off the credit cards.

[1405] And then when we got engaged, we bought the ring with credit cards.

[1406] Girl?

[1407] Just a bunch of stuff.

[1408] I know.

[1409] Can we both agree that your life is stressful and that you guys work too hard to live this insanity?

[1410] yes absolutely what are you earning what are the two of you earning tell me yours and tell me his please so my business i just started like maybe less than a year like maybe six to eight months ago so i'm trying to figure out the numbers um no no no no no that's an excuse what have you been earning on average when you take all the averages months together and average them out what would you say that you earn what are you paying yourself um Um, maybe like $2 ,000 a month.

[1411] Okay.

[1412] And what about your husband?

[1413] Um, his berries as well.

[1414] It's just, it's hard to say, because you don't said anything aside for...

[1415] What did he make last month?

[1416] Um, so it's been slow because it's like winter time still, but we're starting to warm up and pick up a little bit more.

[1417] Neither of you should be running a business if you don't know how much you make.

[1418] last month?

[1419] Last month he made about $5 ,000.

[1420] Okay.

[1421] Here's what I think's going on, and I'm just going to call a spade a spade.

[1422] I'm glad you called.

[1423] We want to help you.

[1424] But when I asked somebody how much their business made and they go, ah, it's because in that moment you're realizing, this is part time or this is a hobby because you're realizing in that moment that although you're passionate about it, it's not making enough to sustain your household.

[1425] And I think with your business, as much as you love it and as much as it's a passion, right now, making $24 ,000 a year before taxes.

[1426] And so it's, it's not a business yet.

[1427] It's something that you're good at and it's something you love.

[1428] But as long as you're making $2 ,000 a month, you got to have a full -time job on top of that.

[1429] This, right now, this is the side hustle and you've got to add another job.

[1430] What are you going to school for?

[1431] So it's like multidisciplinary studies, which is focusing in business, communication, and health.

[1432] And what's that going to do for you as far as your career?

[1433] Well, because I have my business and I feel like it's a good backing towards me being in business myself.

[1434] Like I've been learning a lot more taking the classes that I have been taking and then the communication behind it because I'm like, you know, the person running everything, I'm learning about.

[1435] But why was now the time to go into student loan debt to get this degree?

[1436] I had started that prior.

[1437] I've been like doing that along the way and I'm just kind of like I want to finish.

[1438] should get my degree because I went to um I get my associates and I was like well I just want to finish and get my bachelor's so what's the plan you told me you graduate in 2025 what's the plan to pay for school from now until then for the next year just like I don't know just kind of yeah you do that's what got us here hey I got to call this out you got to stop saying you don't know because you do know you just don't want to say you know that you were planning on taking out student loans the same way that you knew that your pay wasn't enough to qualify as a full -time job, and the same way that you know that your husband's pay is not enough to qualify as a full -time job.

[1439] Don't say you don't know because we can't solve the problem unless we are willing to look at it and go, this is the problem, say it out loud, and then you know.

[1440] The problem right now is debt and not only debt, but you guys have not decided to stop going into debt yet because you've still decided I'm going to take on debt to go, you know, to finish my education.

[1441] So let's just be honest about it.

[1442] we're not mad at you.

[1443] We just want to be honest because we can't help you unless we're honest.

[1444] And the same thing with your income.

[1445] You guys have got to bring in more money because here's the thing.

[1446] If you choose to keep borrowing money, that income better be on it because who's going to make the payments?

[1447] Right?

[1448] So what we want is to get you to a point where you're not borrowing money.

[1449] You're paying off your existing debt and you're using your income that is increasing overtime in order to do that.

[1450] When does the baby do?

[1451] Okay.

[1452] Um, September.

[1453] Okay.

[1454] Right now we're in.

[1455] Stork mode.

[1456] We got to save up cash because you guys have none of it and we need to make sure that we can cash flow all these medical expenses so we don't go further into debt.

[1457] In the meantime, I'm looking into selling all these cars and getting whatever we can get with cash to get us by until then.

[1458] I want this baby to grow up in a debt -free home that is not filled with chaos.

[1459] And I don't know that I can say that right now because it feels like your life is going to be chaos unless we make some drastic changes.

[1460] Yeah.

[1461] And start paying your taxes.

[1462] Quarterly estimated payments to the IRS.

[1463] There's no need for this to be a surprise.

[1464] every single April that we're going to be $5 ,000 in debt to the IRS.

[1465] We don't want that.

[1466] Thanks for the call Malaysia.

[1467] This is The Ramsey Show.

[1468] Welcome back to The Ramsey Show.

[1469] I'm George Camel, joined by Jade Warshaw.

[1470] Let's face it, guys, taxes are confusing and they're no fun.

[1471] And if you buy into some of the tax service ads out there, you'll believe you'll never get a grasp on taxes and you shouldn't even try.

[1472] Or maybe even worse, they suck you into offers that won't help you in with money.

[1473] But we think you deserve the truth around here.

[1474] So here's today's tax tip.

[1475] Are you ready?

[1476] A tax refund is not a bonus.

[1477] It's not?

[1478] Sorry to burst your tax bubble there, Jade.

[1479] It's a refund, meaning it was your money all along and you earn that money.

[1480] You just happen to loan it to Uncle Sam interest -free because of your generosity.

[1481] So if you get a big tax refund, sure, you can have some fun with it and spend it and go on a vacation and buy stuff if you don't need.

[1482] Or you could, I don't know, make sure that you would advance your financial journey.

[1483] There you go.

[1484] And apply it to your next baby step.

[1485] That's the smart thing to do.

[1486] So here's what you need to do.

[1487] Adjust your paycheck withholdings if you keep getting these big refunds so this doesn't happen again.

[1488] You want to get as close to zero.

[1489] So people that are like, I owed $7.

[1490] I'm like, that's a win.

[1491] Let's celebrate.

[1492] I got a refund of $4.

[1493] That's a win.

[1494] Let's celebrate.

[1495] That means you're doing it right.

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[1501] We're not going to bait and switch you at the end because you had an extra form.

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[1503] It's exactly what we say it's going to do, and it's exactly how much you think you were going to pay.

[1504] So go to ramsysolutions .com slash tax, and we can help you figure out what situation is best for you.

[1505] That's Ramsey's solutions .com slash tax.

[1506] So a lot of money on the table for some people.

[1507] That is.

[1508] You got your taxes done yet?

[1509] Yeah, everything's turned in and just waiting to hear, you know, that, that magic number.

[1510] Did we make it?

[1511] Did we do it?

[1512] That's right.

[1513] Think about it, though.

[1514] Think about the tax returns you've gotten in the past and divide it by 12.

[1515] And essentially, that's the money that you would receive back into your monthly flow, which is.

[1516] So if you get a six grand refund, that just means you need 500 bucks back in your life every month.

[1517] That's a raise.

[1518] Especially when everyone's feeling like money's tight.

[1519] I'm like, but you're cheering about your refund.

[1520] I don't think people realize that it's their money all along.

[1521] I think they think it's the government giving them some gift.

[1522] Reminds that old commercial.

[1523] It's my money and I want it now.

[1524] Yeah, good job, George.

[1525] Is that J .G. Wentworth?

[1526] Jay G. Wentworth.

[1527] I think they're still around.

[1528] Good for them.

[1529] That's so good.

[1530] Holding it down.

[1531] J .G. All right, Matthew is up next in Raleigh, North Carolina.

[1532] Matthew, how can we help you today?

[1533] Yeah, I'm Matthew Davis.

[1534] A pleasure to talk to you all online.

[1535] So I'm 43 years old.

[1536] I've been working in law enforcement for the last 20 years.

[1537] My wife, I'm married and have a wife and two kids.

[1538] I have a 12 -year -old daughter and a 6 -year -old daughter.

[1539] I'm completely debt -free and have been for the last six months, including my house.

[1540] That's awesome.

[1541] So my question is, with pension plans, I got about 8 .5.

[1542] years to I can fully retire and my pension will be at least $5 ,500 a month at my current pace right now.

[1543] It'll probably be higher than that.

[1544] Okay.

[1545] But so how does that factor into my retirement, like my 401k, because I'm currently saving substantial amount of money because basically after I paid off all my debt, I just kicked it in the overdrive with savings and everything.

[1546] What's your nest egg?

[1547] So currently I have, my wife has 200 and 401k.

[1548] I have 135 in my 401k.

[1549] Okay.

[1550] Roth R .A., we have, she has 13 .5.

[1551] I have about 18, or excuse me, 8 ,000 in my Roth.

[1552] Okay.

[1553] Um, we have 75 ,000 in just savings accounts.

[1554] Okay.

[1555] So is the question, you said in eight years, you'll be able to retire from law enforcement.

[1556] So that puts you at 51?

[1557] Yeah, it should be 51, 52.

[1558] And what's the plan after that when you stop law enforcement?

[1559] To go get another job.

[1560] Okay.

[1561] So something that I don't have to work nights and weekends.

[1562] and that'll be more on my schedule.

[1563] But, you know, I plan to keep working until I'm at least 60, 60, between 60 and 65.

[1564] What's your household used to earning?

[1565] My wife currently makes about 93.

[1566] My base is 94.

[1567] I work a substantial amount of extra duty.

[1568] Last year, we made $247 ,000.

[1569] Okay.

[1570] Awesome.

[1571] And what's that translant?

[1572] late too monthly?

[1573] I don't know that number.

[1574] So it varies because some months I work more off -duty than other months.

[1575] What's a round number?

[1576] Like 15 grand a month ends up in your bank account or what?

[1577] Yeah, that sounds about right.

[1578] Okay.

[1579] So what's your, we got a good financial snapshot here.

[1580] So what's your, what's your overarching question?

[1581] So my overarching question is like I feel like I have to keep working 80 hours a week in order to keep living the lifestyle that we're living.

[1582] And it's not just like to keep saving at the rate.

[1583] And I don't know if the saving at the same rate that I'm saving at currently is completely necessary with the pension plan that I do have, or if I'm just kind of working extra just to build a nest egg and I'm losing out on time with my family a little bit.

[1584] Well, I would crunch the numbers using, you know, we have a investment calculator on our website and go, all right, I got, we have this much in our 401ks and IRAs.

[1585] If we contribute this much per month, even at a very conservative, you know, average return of, let's say, 8 percent, how much would we have by 51 or 65 or whenever you plan to keep working?

[1586] And that will help you get a full picture of pension plus this amount on investments.

[1587] If we pulled this percentage off each year, we could live off of this.

[1588] But it sounds like you guys have a pretty hefty lifestyle, even with your hefty income.

[1589] How far are you from paying your home off.

[1590] You said it's paid off?

[1591] Yeah, my house is paid off.

[1592] So I'm wondering where all this 15 grand is going every month.

[1593] Basically into savings.

[1594] Like we're putting, like I'm putting 23 ,000 a year into my 401k.

[1595] My wife's putting 19 ,000 in her 401k.

[1596] Okay.

[1597] We're maxing out our Roth.

[1598] And then 247 sounds like a lot, but when you have taxes that come out of that, you know, so there's a lot of taxes that come involved.

[1599] That's true.

[1600] What percentage?

[1601] Our monthly expending is about 2 ,500 a month just in bills.

[1602] Like as far as cell phones, groceries, power, taxes, insurance, stuff like that.

[1603] Have you looked?

[1604] Can you tell me what percentage of your income is going every month towards investing?

[1605] My guess it's about 20 -something percent.

[1606] It's about 28 to 30 percent.

[1607] Okay.

[1608] Here's the thing.

[1609] We would call that, you're on Baby Step 7.

[1610] And at Baby Step 7, you're allowed to jump up your retirement to whatever percentage rate you see fit, whatever feels right.

[1611] And if you're feeling like, oh my gosh, like we're up against it, like we're not living life.

[1612] I've got to make 80 hours and work 80 hours a week in order to make this thing happen.

[1613] That's a sign to pull back.

[1614] Like you've done an excellent job.

[1615] You have no debt.

[1616] Your home is paid for.

[1617] You know, you've got great benefits from your work.

[1618] I think that maybe in your mind it's like we're playing catch up and we've got to go, go, go, go, go.

[1619] you have the ability to pull your foot off the pedal on this a little bit.

[1620] Yeah, that's my problem.

[1621] It's like I don't know when to pull the foot off the pedal because I know it's like they say you need to have like 10 times into your retirement accounts or whatever else.

[1622] But the way it factors with my pension, I don't know how that works out.

[1623] Well, I mean, you have your pension plus you'll have your nest eggs when that time comes.

[1624] Because here's the thing, you're not stopping working at 51.

[1625] you're just not going to be in law enforcement when you're 51.

[1626] So you're still going to have an income.

[1627] That's still money that you have the ability to put 15 plus percentage of a way in retirement.

[1628] And, you know, a good rule of thumb.

[1629] I think that you should work with an investment professional.

[1630] But a good rule of thumb, George, is if you can live off the interest that your nest egg is generating, plus your pension, plus your social security, obviously you could account for inflation at some point in there.

[1631] But that's a good place to start.

[1632] So if you retire and, by the time you retire, you've got $700 ,000.

[1633] You've been making a 10 % rate of return.

[1634] You have to ask yourself, okay, that's $70 ,000 a year plus my pension, plus my wife's, if she has anything, and then plus your social security.

[1635] So that's just a very broad way to look at it, but work with an investment professional and get yourself some peace of mind.

[1636] That's the key.

[1637] Okay, that sounds great.

[1638] Don't freak out about it, man. You're on the right track.

[1639] It may be time to dial back a little bit and enjoy the fruits of your labor.

[1640] This is The Ramsey Show.

[1641] Welcome back to the Ramsey Show.

[1642] I'm George Campbell, joined by Jade Warshaw, and we've got a special guest on the debt -free stage.

[1643] Jaden joins us from Frederick Maryland.

[1644] How are you, Jaden?

[1645] I'm so good.

[1646] I'm so excited to be here.

[1647] Thanks for making the trip.

[1648] Yeah, it's quite a trip.

[1649] I'm excited.

[1650] And you're here because you're dead free, and we're celebrating.

[1651] I am.

[1652] Yes, it's been a few months.

[1653] So luckily, I've had a little bit of an experience with it, but yeah, it feels so good.

[1654] It's still fresh.

[1655] It's still fresh.

[1656] It is still fresh.

[1657] We can hear it in your voice.

[1658] You're still excited.

[1659] I'm so excited.

[1660] It's crazy to be here.

[1661] You know, on the other side of it, you look for so long and you just wait.

[1662] You work really hard.

[1663] And yeah, it's here.

[1664] And you made it through.

[1665] It's very difficult to get on the debt -free stage.

[1666] We get thousands of applications a year and we only take the best.

[1667] So you are the best, apparently.

[1668] I wasn't at first.

[1669] You made it the second time.

[1670] It's pretty intense.

[1671] Yeah.

[1672] I made it the second time.

[1673] Yeah.

[1674] Well, how much have you paid off?

[1675] I paid off just under $132 ,000.

[1676] Wow.

[1677] All student loans.

[1678] Let's go.

[1679] Thank you.

[1680] How long did that take?

[1681] Just under 15 months.

[1682] Whoa.

[1683] Okay, what was your range of income during that time?

[1684] I started at $41 ,500, which was crazy.

[1685] And almost all of them were private student loans through Sally Mae.

[1686] So I looked at the amount that I was going to be paying.

[1687] And I was like, oh, my gosh, there's no way I can do it.

[1688] Called the people who I knew were good with money.

[1689] They had been through financial peace.

[1690] And then eventually, sorry, I'm going through the whole story already.

[1691] Wow.

[1692] So you started a 41?

[1693] Up from 41?

[1694] Yes, $112 ,000.

[1695] That's an approximate, yeah.

[1696] What did you study?

[1697] I have a bachelor's degree in international relations in Spanish and a minor in history.

[1698] So liberal arts, I'm working on studying for my all set to go to law school for free.

[1699] So that is cool.

[1700] What are you doing now for work?

[1701] I'm a legal assistant.

[1702] I do paralegal work.

[1703] That's awesome.

[1704] You're in the legal field.

[1705] That's exciting.

[1706] Good field.

[1707] Thanks.

[1708] And you paid off all of those loans in 15 months.

[1709] Are the numbers adding up for me?

[1710] Okay.

[1711] So there is one small detail.

[1712] So I was living with my uncle and my aunt who had previously went through financial peace.

[1713] And they actually gifted me $19 ,500 to pay off my federal loans.

[1714] Wow.

[1715] Amazing.

[1716] Yeah, they were more than helpful.

[1717] I can't even express how thankful I am.

[1718] That's awesome.

[1719] And the rest was just hustle and grind.

[1720] How'd you do it?

[1721] Yeah, I served.

[1722] I went to work during the day.

[1723] I work for an intellectual property firm.

[1724] So it's a lot of overtime if you get in applications that are urgent.

[1725] And then, so I was able to boost my income that way.

[1726] And then I just worked like crazy serving.

[1727] I worked six days a week at a restaurant and I doubled on weekends.

[1728] So it was a lot.

[1729] So you're saying that if you work extra, you can get out of debt?

[1730] Yeah, that's the key.

[1731] Believe it or not.

[1732] Not in a little self -discipline.

[1733] Man, tell everybody because a lot of people think it's impossible to pay off student loans.

[1734] 132 ,000 at that.

[1735] I know.

[1736] I know.

[1737] I looked at it whenever I first started.

[1738] So I was watching the shows for a bit once I had talked to my uncle, to my aunt Liz and um yeah i just i don't i couldn't find anyone who was in the same boat as me who had so many private student loans my monthly minimums were almost two thousand dollars i know about that yeah i know it's nice to hear your story yeah it was um it was really intense and single paying it off by myself and you know um i actually graduated a year early so all my friends were still in school which was great i mean it's cool to go visit them and stuff but at the same time i was working all the time so i'm seeing them live their lives i'm an adult now yes I know it hit really hard.

[1739] So how old are you?

[1740] I'm 23.

[1741] So 23 years old, you utilize the resources at your disposal.

[1742] Your aunt and uncle.

[1743] They're like, hey, we're here for you.

[1744] You get two jobs.

[1745] Two jobs.

[1746] Working overtime.

[1747] Yeah.

[1748] To push it to six figures and that helped you knock this out quickly.

[1749] Yeah.

[1750] You were intense.

[1751] So what got you on this Ramsey plan?

[1752] So I was at school.

[1753] Again, yeah, I was just, I was so stressed.

[1754] I was shaking literally because I was so scared of that number.

[1755] $2 ,000 a month.

[1756] How was I going to afford rent and groceries and that?

[1757] And then I'm saving for a lot, you know, like, it's just impossible.

[1758] So I called them.

[1759] I knew that they had done a plan.

[1760] I didn't really know any of the details.

[1761] I've heard Dave's name before, but that was about it.

[1762] Yeah.

[1763] Yeah.

[1764] And I knew they were good with money, gave them a call.

[1765] I said, hey, this is the situation I'm in.

[1766] And they were so helpful.

[1767] I love it.

[1768] Yeah, day one, we pretty much broke it down.

[1769] I moved from Pittsburgh to, yeah, to Maryland, Frederick.

[1770] And I just worked.

[1771] That was pretty much it.

[1772] they were like, you got this girl.

[1773] So they just showed you the Ramsey plan and you were like, all right, fine, I'll do this.

[1774] Yeah, yeah.

[1775] You're smart.

[1776] They're good with money.

[1777] I'll trust them.

[1778] Yeah.

[1779] So the question we get, I know the question I get all the time is how do you stay motivated?

[1780] And so I'm sure so many people want to know how Jaden did you stay motivated.

[1781] Like you said, all your friends are out here living their best life.

[1782] Like what did you do?

[1783] I think the main thing was just the two of them.

[1784] My friends honestly were really helpful too.

[1785] Even though they were living their lives they said they were like girl you are amazing you should totally do this they weren't doing it which is totally fine everyone moves at their own pace um but yeah they were so everyone was so nice and helpful and honestly i think a lot of it is just self -discipline like you really just have to i think when you see those numbers and you're terrified and that's your only option that's exactly what it is it's your only option i don't know i would have literally just you can't even bankrupt student loans so there's nothing else i could do and then you see the numbers working for you and you see the progress.

[1786] Yes.

[1787] You get excited.

[1788] There's light at the end of the tunnel and it's not an oncoming train.

[1789] Right.

[1790] That's exciting.

[1791] Initially I thought whenever I was going to undergrad, I had always thought, I was like, this will be fine.

[1792] I'm going to go straight through to law school.

[1793] I'm going to come out.

[1794] Attorneys make good money.

[1795] I'll be fine.

[1796] A, not all attorneys make a ton of money.

[1797] B, life didn't happen as planned per usual.

[1798] You know, this should have been expected, but it wasn't.

[1799] So you said you had to, you know, make some sacrifices.

[1800] What were some of the biggest nose you had to make on this journey as a young girl who's like, I want to live my life in Yolo, too.

[1801] Yeah, so my friends went on spring break trips.

[1802] It sounds so silly.

[1803] It's saying it out loud now.

[1804] It's not, though, because it's life.

[1805] Yeah, it really is.

[1806] They were going on trips to Nashville and to the beach and my family was taking trips together.

[1807] And every single, even if we went on a family trip and it was covered, it was still, that's money that's being taken away from paying towards the loans because you're not working during that time.

[1808] So, And I would say other than that, I think it was really challenging, just not seeing, I saw my aunt and uncle a lot, which was great, but you're not seeing your family, like your, my household family a lot, which, wow.

[1809] And you survived to tell the tale.

[1810] Yeah.

[1811] I sure did.

[1812] Here I am.

[1813] And now you'll be the one who's like, guys, want to go on this trip?

[1814] And they're like, we're broke.

[1815] Well, now they'll be coming to you to figure out how to pay off their debt.

[1816] Some of them already have been asking me about it.

[1817] So it's been great.

[1818] Yeah.

[1819] You're going to inspire a lot of people, including millions listening, who are like, I'm a young single girl with student loans.

[1820] I could be like Jaden.

[1821] Yeah, you can totally do this.

[1822] You just have to work really hard.

[1823] It will be over.

[1824] Yeah, we'll be over before you know it.

[1825] Do you have some cheerleaders along this journey?

[1826] My aunt and my uncle were really my biggest cheerleaders.

[1827] They sound amazing.

[1828] They were, seriously, I could not have been more blessed.

[1829] But my friends, my family, I, people say that they have a lot of naysayers, people calling you crazy.

[1830] I luckily did not run into that at all.

[1831] That's awesome.

[1832] Yes.

[1833] Yeah, so it was amazing.

[1834] It was great.

[1835] You're different.

[1836] There are grown people who make more money than you do, who they keep their loans around forever until you know they start out low when they work themselves up to 132k and you just said not me not me oh I couldn't do it thank you thank you it's really big 23 making six figures bright future ahead of you we're so proud of you can you tell us quick how do you go to law school for free because that's your plan yeah yeah you pre -decided this is what's going to happen well yeah so initially that wasn't the plan luckily after going through everything absolutely so I'm studying for my LSAT right now and if you get a high enough score on your LSAT basically it's about that there's softer factors as well.

[1837] They have to take into account.

[1838] But yeah, just...

[1839] Schools just throw the full ride at you because they want the person who's a brilliant prodigy.

[1840] I wouldn't say they throw it at you, but yeah, yeah, you definitely, you can get into law school free.

[1841] I feel like you're the type of person who will just do it because you're so focused, you're so determined.

[1842] It's what got you out of debt and it's what's going to get you through law school debt free.

[1843] Yeah, you just have to be.

[1844] I love it.

[1845] Very impressive.

[1846] I'm so proud.

[1847] Very impressive.

[1848] Well, we've got every dollar premium for you a whole year and we're going to give you another one to gift to someone else to get their journey started because we know getting a plan for every one of those dollars is the key spend less make more throw it at the debt do what you got to do and bada bada bada boom you'll become debt free like jaden all right the moment we've been waiting for it's jaden from frederick maryland a hundred and thirty two thousand dollars in student loans paid off in 15 months making 41 all the way up to 112 with the side hustles and serving six days a week doubles on the weekends count it down jaden let's hear a Free scream.

[1849] Three, two, one, I'm dead free!

[1850] Love that deep, free vibrato in there.

[1851] Yeah, she had a little tone going on.

[1852] Jaden, Jaden, you need to get on the road.

[1853] I think that she is amazing.

[1854] I mean, she's one of those people you just have a little pep in your step after hanging out with her.

[1855] She attracts people who want to grow in life.

[1856] Yeah.

[1857] And she didn't have any naysayers because she doesn't surround herself with naysayers.

[1858] That's right.

[1859] She's got the right people around her.

[1860] You got to do the same thing, America.

[1861] get the right inputs, get the right people around you, stay focused, do whatever it takes, whether you're 21 or 61, this plan works every time you work it.

[1862] This is The Ramsey Show.

[1863] Our scripture of the day comes from Psalms 37, 3 and 4.

[1864] Trust in the Lord and do good.

[1865] Dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture.

[1866] Take delight in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.

[1867] Reba McIntyre says, be different, stand out, and work your butt off.

[1868] I like that.

[1869] Old Reba.

[1870] Little Reba.

[1871] It worked out for her.

[1872] Listen, she never ages.

[1873] How does that happen?

[1874] I know.

[1875] We just saw a photo with Zach in the booth had a photo.

[1876] He ran into Reba somewhere.

[1877] She looks just like she did 20 years ago.

[1878] I don't know how that happens.

[1879] Oh, she's a survivor.

[1880] We know that.

[1881] All right.

[1882] Let's get to the phone lines.

[1883] Maxwell joins us all the way in Australia.

[1884] Let's do this thing.

[1885] What's going on, Maxwell?

[1886] Good morning, guys.

[1887] How are you?

[1888] Hi, Jay and hi George.

[1889] Hey, thank you.

[1890] much for calling.

[1891] We needed an accent today, and this one's brilliant.

[1892] Dillay, I've never heard another Aussie online, so I thought, let's be the first.

[1893] Yeah, people, we don't get a ton of calls from us.

[1894] We get a lot of Canadians, but I prefer you.

[1895] I want your advice, because today is a really good day for crypto, and I also have a bit of gold.

[1896] Okay.

[1897] It's about $4 ,500 in crypto today, and I have about $4 ,000 Australian in gold, which comes out to about $1 .4 ounces.

[1898] I am in a little bit of debt.

[1899] I am paying off my debt.

[1900] I do make about $75 ,000 a year.

[1901] But I just want to know what should I do with the gold?

[1902] Should I maintain it until 2030, keep it in my bank, and then trade it in?

[1903] Or what do you guys suggest with all my assets?

[1904] I do have a bit of a retirement fund, but not much.

[1905] Why did you get the gold in the first place?

[1906] What was the goal of that?

[1907] I inherited it, actually.

[1908] Oh, very cool.

[1909] Okay.

[1910] So this is.

[1911] is from family?

[1912] Yeah, yeah.

[1913] Okay.

[1914] How much debt do you have?

[1915] Roughly two and a half thousand, which I am paying off and working to pay it off very quickly.

[1916] Yeah, so that shouldn't be, I mean, that's like a paycheck for you, isn't it?

[1917] Well, I wouldn't say that.

[1918] I've given myself a deadline, which I'm adhering to.

[1919] Like, I've set myself a timeline, so it's like the 30th of April, has to all be paid off by.

[1920] Okay, so end of April.

[1921] what kind of debt is it yeah so I've got about 1 ,100 on a credit card and has another debt to my employer who brought me a work PC and I'm just paying him back out of my paychecks but I haven't actually deducted for anything yet so I still owe them roughly fifteen hundred dollars but I'm expecting to pay them back by tax time okay so the question is should you sell the gold the Bitcoin to get out of debt faster?

[1922] Well, the Bitcoin, I don't want to touch for now, but for the gold, do you guys think I should be selling it to get out of debt or should I take it to 2030?

[1923] No, I don't know why 2030.

[1924] I would just sell it now.

[1925] Sell as much as you need to to get out of debt.

[1926] And you also don't have an emergency fund, it sounds like.

[1927] No, not really, unfortunately.

[1928] So I'd sell all of the gold.

[1929] To be honest, Maxwell, even if you didn't have the debt, the advice would be the same.

[1930] Yeah.

[1931] Well, yeah.

[1932] I mean...

[1933] Because I know Dave's not a big fan.

[1934] the gold.

[1935] Well, it just, it doesn't really make sense in any plan except for some sort of apocalyptic paranoia where gold becomes a bartering system.

[1936] And, you know, we've heard it's a hedge against inflation.

[1937] And when times get scary in the economy, gold will go up in value.

[1938] But again, in scary times, no one's going out to buy gold to live their life.

[1939] They got to turn that into money.

[1940] So true.

[1941] So I don't know.

[1942] I'm just, it's not, I'm anti -gold.

[1943] It's fine if you want to own some for fun.

[1944] But I wouldn't use it as part of my investment.

[1945] investing plan.

[1946] You're better off investing in the stock market.

[1947] Is there an equivalent with your job?

[1948] Here we have the 401k.

[1949] Do you have an equivalent of that in Australia that's kind of associated with your employer that goes into your retirement?

[1950] No, but since listening to the show, I've Googled it.

[1951] And, you know, as an Australian, I can invest in that.

[1952] But I've heard Dave been talking about mutual funds.

[1953] So potentially, if I do sell the goal, pay off the debt, I can just chip into a mutual fund because the return rate looks better than the stocks that I'm looking at.

[1954] I'm looking at like Apple.

[1955] Exactly.

[1956] Yeah.

[1957] What you're doing with the mutual fund is you're just buying a basket of stocks, which will help you diversify and avoid, you know, being too risky, having one stock if that company goes down or up in value, all of that's too volatile.

[1958] So if I were you, I'm selling all the gold, I'm getting rid of all the debt, and I'm going to stockpile an emergency fund with all my future paychecks.

[1959] If you're gun -ho on keeping the crypto, I can't talk you off that ledge, then you can hang on to it.

[1960] But build that emergency fund as fast as possible, three to six months of your expenses.

[1961] So do you know how much money it would be to run your household for one month?

[1962] I pay so much rent where I live.

[1963] I pay like $1 ,000 every two weeks just on my rent.

[1964] So I need to kind of figure out a game plan because I'm not in a stable, if I was to lose my job today, my emergency fund, like I probably would be a bit screwed.

[1965] Are you single?

[1966] So that's why I need kind of a bit of, yes, thank God.

[1967] Okay.

[1968] I mean, you could look into getting a roommate to help offset the money.

[1969] these costs right now.

[1970] If rent is crazy over there.

[1971] It's a studio.

[1972] I live like 600 meters from the Harbor Bridge, so the studio is like super expensive.

[1973] But, you know, I'm definitely touching base with what I need to do to stay afloat.

[1974] I'm looking at maybe a different job, different, like maybe starting a business.

[1975] Is it necessary for you to live in such a high rent area for your job?

[1976] If you move further away, could you find rent that's, you know, $1 ,200?

[1977] The thing is Sydney is crazy.

[1978] It's crazy, and I really do love the freedom of having my own apartment.

[1979] Unfortunately, it is so expensive, but I'm looking at jobs that might take me back out to the Northern Territory where you don't have to pay rent.

[1980] You just earn like 100 plus K a year, and you're pretty much just taking care of, and you have to just work, work, work, but you still make absolute bank.

[1981] Interesting.

[1982] So I'm probably doing that.

[1983] Yeah.

[1984] Mining industry.

[1985] In many ways, I think that there's a lot of differences between where you live versus where we live obviously but the baby steps I think remain the same for you and the idea of keeping a thousand dollars set aside by the time you get this debt paid off and then like george said working to save up that three to six months of expenses in your case i'd probably veer towards six months because you're the only one bringing in income and then after that if you can find a way to invest 15 % of your income into mutual funds like what you talked about growth growth and income aggressive growth and international is what we say here and that's that's what I would do.

[1986] And I think for you the same way, if someone from the states called in and said, hey, you know, I'm paying $2 ,000 in rent and it's too expensive, we would tell them, looks someplace less expensive, consider a roommate, find other ways to bring in more income.

[1987] So in many ways, you know, the equation is exactly the same, even though some of their particulars may be a little different.

[1988] Yeah, even keeping your household expenses to, you know, 25 % of your take home pay going towards the rent, that's going to help you not get too, you know, sideways where you go, oh my gosh, no wonder I can't save for the future and do all these things.

[1989] 50 % of my take -home pay is going to rent.

[1990] And so that's where I go.

[1991] I know you want the beauty of having a place to yourself.

[1992] You want the beauty of living close to the city.

[1993] You want the beauty of this and that.

[1994] But at some point, we have to make some sacrifices in a different direction if we want, you know, we can't have it all.

[1995] You can't have the cake and eat it too.

[1996] And so I think you've got to sit down and decide what's really important to you.

[1997] And luckily, you don't have much debt and this thing's going to be gone within a month or two.

[1998] But it's the next, you know, five years we have to look at to go.

[1999] is the sustainable.

[2000] That's why I've come on board with the baby steps because it's so easy to kind of be mean to yourself and push yourself.

[2001] Yeah.

[2002] If you just slow down, like you said, Jay, I do want to get this debt and then I do want to put that $1 ,000 away and then I do want to have that six months back up because that stability.

[2003] I've now since gaining crypto, I've gained so much financial understanding, but also since watching the Ramsey show, like you guys have helped a lot, So thank you.

[2004] I kind of feel like, okay, stop being mean and just slow down to get the job done, you know what I mean?

[2005] That's right.

[2006] That's right.

[2007] A lot of people just need to stop.

[2008] They got to stop doing 17 things at once and just focus on one thing at a time, get their ducks in a row, build a foundation.

[2009] So even with you, I'm not mad if you want to put more money into crypto, but I would wait until you've already put 15 % into your retirement plan.

[2010] Then with any fun money beyond that, go ahead and put it in crypto.

[2011] And I hope it works out for you.

[2012] So I think you're on a good path.

[2013] And regardless of where you are in the world, I love that these steps are so simple.

[2014] Yeah.

[2015] They just work.

[2016] It's get out of debt, stay out of debt.

[2017] You know, you should have a fund for the emergencies for the future and save for retirement.

[2018] And usually I might get a little bit out of shape for somebody that has gold and crypto, but with that accent.

[2019] I know.

[2020] You can't get mad at him.

[2021] He's too dang charming.

[2022] He got me. Oh, that was fun.

[2023] Oh, I love that these baby steps work everywhere.

[2024] That's great.

[2025] It's amazing how it works.

[2026] This has been the Ramsey show.

[2027] George Camel, that's Jade Warshaw.

[2028] Thank you to all the folks in the booth that kept the show afloat, despite ourselves, and you, America.

[2029] Thank you for listening.

[2030] Until next time, spend wisely, save intentionally, and give generously.

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