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Hamza Selfimprovement XX

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[0] I was like a massive degenerate about 10 years ago.

[1] I would go out, take drugs, party, get girls, come back, maybe go to the gym, eat junk food, watch porn, and just waste time with guys who are similar to me. It got to about 2019, so a few years of me being a degenerate, when the desire for that lifestyle just completely went.

[2] i no longer wanted to keep living the same life and so one day i was sat there with my best friend and it was basically like me pleading him to lock in with me because i had started a business i was reselling clothes on ebay and i was starting to read books for the first time ever i saw this path ahead of me where i was like you could be an entrepreneur you can make money online you don't have to work like a shitty job that both of us had and my best friend he He was always like, you know, he'd always like agree with the points that I was making, but he would just never actually do anything about it.

[3] We'd have like a massive conversation about becoming content creators or locking in, making money, whatever.

[4] And straight afterwards, he'd ask me if I wanted to go out.

[5] He'd ask me, oh yeah, let's go out.

[6] Let's go get girls.

[7] Let's go party.

[8] Let's go on Fortnite and drink and whatever.

[9] And I tried a good few times to try and convince him to get onto this path.

[10] But eventually just, we started to like split away where, I was becoming more and more productive.

[11] I was going to the gym.

[12] I was trying all these businesses.

[13] I was first discovering the concept of self -improvement, mental health, meditation, journaling.

[14] And my friend wasn't doing any of that.

[15] We had already stopped being friends with all the previous people, like the party goers and stuff like that.

[16] So he was literally my last friend.

[17] The only guy I had left.

[18] And I decided to basically end our friendship and I created like a distance between us.

[19] The reason why was because I just didn't relate to him anymore.

[20] And I realized that I couldn't be friends with someone who I didn't respect.

[21] You can have a fun time with someone.

[22] You can go out and laugh and joke and, you know, you have your inside jokes and everything.

[23] But if you can't respect someone because they're just on like a shitty path.

[24] It just becomes such a waste of time to hang out with them.

[25] So I want you to really like emphasize with me here.

[26] Like imagine being a 21 year old where I was pretty popular.

[27] Like I had a big friendship group in university.

[28] It's what I always wanted because I wasn't very popular in high school.

[29] But in university I was and one by one I stopped being friends with every single person.

[30] Every single person I knew I had like a big friendship group of about 12 people.

[31] every single person I stopped speaking to them.

[32] Sounds crazy.

[33] Normal people will be watching this, like the kind of person this channel is not for, and they'll be thinking like, oh, that's sad.

[34] That's this, that's this.

[35] But if you're the right person for this channel, you probably know why it was the right move, because we had nothing in common anymore.

[36] Yeah, we did a few years ago when the only ambition that I had was to try and get some fucking pussy.

[37] But at this point, a few years after that, we had nothing in common.

[38] It genuinely didn't even feel like that much of a loss from most of the friends that I stopped speaking to.

[39] With my best friend, it did because I really liked him.

[40] We got on a lot.

[41] I saw him as like, you know, like kind of like my other half in a non -gay way.

[42] And I really wanted him to get onto this path with me, but he was just distracted, complacent, unambitious.

[43] He had like this girlfriend who he just spent too much time with and whatever.

[44] And yeah, he just didn't lock in as I did.

[45] So a year and a half, two years of loneliness of me. First, I moved to the girl I was dating.

[46] Me and her got a place together for a few months.

[47] And even with that relationship, I realized, like, again, we have almost nothing in common.

[48] So I left that relationship.

[49] I moved back home.

[50] This was in the middle of COVID.

[51] And I basically had no fucking friends in person for around...

[52] a year straight till i met a guy who i would train with it like in the park like we would do outdoor workouts together we weren't like extremely close you know but naturally you you train you talk about things but we had never like been to each other's houses you know not that level of friendship and then another year after that is when i the covid kind of thing eased up and i joined um a gym where i started to make like proper friends so just imagine that for two years straight i basically had no friends For two years, I cut out the people that I used to know.

[53] I had no friends.

[54] I was just in person.

[55] I was just alone in this journey.

[56] I had no one in real life and I just fucking worked.

[57] It was a sacrifice, but of course now I'm financially free.

[58] My family is all retired, all financially set.

[59] Million dollars in profit or one and a half million dollars in profit last year.

[60] Millions of followers have achieved.

[61] every goal that i wanted for my 20s and i'm only 27 years old so i've had to like think of new shit to do because i like i thought this shit was going to take longer i'm one of the most extreme men you will ever listen to in your life i dedicated my entire existence to becoming successful to becoming an educational content creator and i will tell you here right here right now i have absolutely zero regrets When I went through this journey, I felt like there was no one I could relate to.

[62] No one in person that I knew from beforehand, like university, no one in my family and no like real life friends.

[63] So I'm going to give you like a little secret here.

[64] If you relate to that, if you feel like there's no one you relate to in person, like, you know, everyone's like a fucking retard these days.

[65] The internet is going to be your, your savior.

[66] These online relationships.

[67] don't overlook them you know i used to think to myself that the online friendships like weren't real i used to think that like you know a lot of my sort of content in my other channel has been about self -improvement quitting video games and i'm often quite looked at like the sort of video game friendships quite bad because you know you're kind of doing like a bad habit together so i've often kind of criticized the idea of having like online friends because it's you know some weird digital fucking dystopia and it's like go meet each other in person and be real friends but i will say though Meeting someone in person who's on this path is basically just not going to fucking happen.

[68] I'm telling you right now, as a guy who's made like a hundred videos on social skills, it's fucking shit.

[69] Like you can go and try and be more social in the gym and fist bump the guy there.

[70] And because he goes to the gym, you've got something in common, but he's a fucking degenerate who vapes and jacks off when he gets at home.

[71] You will not meet anyone else who overlaps your interests by like 80, 90 % in person.

[72] I'm just telling you, you just won't.

[73] I was super social.

[74] You don't realize how hard I was trying through the middle of COVID.

[75] I would go for like a two -hour walk every day trying to talk to people.

[76] When the gym's open, I started going to the gym trying to speak to as many people as possible.

[77] There was not one single person who I could say was like a very like -minded, not like literally just not.

[78] You're not gonna find anyone who's on this fucking path.

[79] You'll find people who go to the gym, but then the rest of their life, they don't give a fuck about self -improvement, about entrepreneurship, about business, whatever.

[80] So it was so sad because all this time, like these content creators you watch, they always try and tell you like, yeah, you join a martial arts gym to make friends.

[81] I'm telling you, you join any kind of place.

[82] You'll meet some people who are doing some active discipline, but the rest of their life is out of whack and they just still don't understand the concept of making money online, becoming successful, monk mode, getting away from bad fucking dopamine, like scrolling and jacking off and vaping and eating shit food and seed oils and degeneracy.

[83] You're not going to meet someone who's in like the 1 % in person.

[84] So the only other way to meet them is through the internet.

[85] You connect with the sort of content creators that you watch.

[86] And this is how you can benefit from, you know, like that phrase, you're the average of the five people you spend time with.

[87] That works with content creators.

[88] You're the average of the five content creators that you watch and you implement their advice.

[89] You listen to their life philosophy.

[90] When I watch...

[91] A certain few creators, my life has become so much better because I start acting like them.

[92] If you're watching this today, most likely your life has become fucking 180 because of my videos.

[93] Obviously, you're the one who did the work, but holy fuck, we should handshake each other because I literally saved you from a life of fucking despair.

[94] And I have done for millions of guys.

[95] I never helped them in person.

[96] for most of my audience, I've never met them in person, but the content you consume very much shapes you because the internet is so powerful.

[97] Not even with like the space of, you know, communities and actual discussions, but just by the people whose content you consume, that's a huge part.

[98] So if you feel like you can't relate to 99 % of people, make sure the content that you're watching is from the 1 % of person that you actually want to be like.

[99] Be careful not to consume content from someone who is not actually like...

[100] really about that life or from someone who his his little fucking nerd geek team write his scripts for him you can tell when you watch my videos you can tell they're not scripted if you've got a fucking brain you can click on most people's videos and understand like their team members wrote their script which means that you're not actually getting this this like this star like you know this um this successful guy's input you're getting his fucking geeky little team members mindset instead so that's just just an extra point but when you're consuming content and you want to be like the one percent make sure the one percent you're watching are actually like giving their advice and not just like their teleprompter teammate has wrote the script for them but along with that then the next level for this is you finding people and actually becoming friends with them online because this is how you find them for example everyone who's going to comment below this video It's probably like 80%, 90 % like you.

[101] They all go to the gym.

[102] They're probably kind of interested in martial arts.

[103] They want to be educational content creators.

[104] They think the nine to five jobs are gay.

[105] They think that being a modern day Western cock of a man is fucking cringe.

[106] You don't realize just how powerful it is.

[107] when you follow a content creator who you look up to and who you believe in and who you trust and whose values and philosophy you find interesting and then basically find other followers of that guy because they will overlap your values by like 80%.

[108] This is how you start to find the emerging 1 % of men who are actually doing something with their lives rather than like the 99 % who might maybe just do one productive thing in their life.

[109] Like for example, yeah, they train hard in the gym or maybe they've got like a pretty decent job, but the rest of their life is just cringe.

[110] Like you can meet guys who make a lot of money, but then they're just like blue pill, little cucks, little soy boys.

[111] You can meet guys who are jacked, chad, super attractive, but then they're just fucking retards.

[112] You can meet guys.

[113] who are jacked and they go to the gym but then they're just degenerates so in person you just you'll never find the perfect type of person to be friends with you'll find the like -minded people online in these kinds of little cultures where for example you become like a follower of mine and you start to speak to people in the comments i have that free community that's literally linked in the description to help you to find other people like this and to also like ask questions about you know this industry that we're all getting into which is like educational content creation and then i have a paid product which is literally like a program to help you step by step to become an educational content creator and also it's like a brotherhood it's like a community of guys who are all doing the same business model i've started these two things the free and the paid because The amount of guys I hear who say, like, I have no one in person.

[114] I have no one who I can relate to.

[115] No one who understands the journey that I'm on.

[116] Not even my family, not my friends, not the guys from my school, not the guys in my gym.

[117] There is no one.

[118] And I'm telling you right now, if that is your life, the progress that you're making is so slower than if you could just find one guy to connect with.

[119] And you might not find them in person.

[120] But even if you get it online and it's a guy that you, for example, hop on a call with every day at 6 p .m. for like half an hour, that will change your life.

[121] So this is what I'm going to give you right now is like a step -by -step program, like a step -by -step plan for you to eventually have an amazing social life.

[122] This is exactly what you do.

[123] Step zero is like...

[124] Get onto the good path.

[125] Self -improvement, entrepreneurship, content creation.

[126] You've already passed that.

[127] If you're watching this video, you already know the importance of not being a degenerate.

[128] Self -improvement.

[129] Don't chase instant gratification.

[130] Don't lose your life by getting some random girl pregnant.

[131] Don't be a fucking retard playing video games or whatever.

[132] And also, you're most likely getting more into entrepreneurship.

[133] You want to make money online and stuff.

[134] Okay.

[135] Step zero, you're already there.

[136] Step one, find the content creator who's perfect for you.

[137] Maybe you found that, maybe it's me. Because that content creator will have the following that are also like you.

[138] Step two, join that content creator's free community.

[139] I'm not even going to try and say like, oh, you've got to buy the paid one or whatever.

[140] Just join the free one.

[141] You join the free one and be social and helpful as fuck.

[142] Position yourself in there as a guy who's an awesome community member.

[143] He's a student.

[144] He's encouraging.

[145] Bring your best energy.

[146] Be supportive to the boys.

[147] Hype them up in the same way that you wish you were hyped up.

[148] When you join my free community, for example, there's people who post like they just got their first ever win, like they've got their first ever sale online.

[149] Be the guy who's the most fucking hyped up for them, the same way that you'd want a friend who, when you tell them, like, oh, hey, bro, I got my first sale.

[150] I made 50 bucks.

[151] yesterday you'd want him to be like yeah fuck yeah you know you'd want like that hype friend be obviously like you know stay authentic to your personality fine but like be that that hype man be the happy guy who's asking questions who's socializing but also who's not just you know nice and warm but also who's helpful who's powerful in the sense that you're learning things and then you're sharing ideas and resources and insights you're actually like good at the sort of thing that we're connecting over which in my community is like being an educational content creator You basically, let's say you start posting to YouTube.

[152] This is a business you want to get into.

[153] You learn some lessons.

[154] You get a video that gets triple the views and you're like, oh yeah, it's because I did that thing.

[155] And then you write about it.

[156] You teach people about it.

[157] Soon there'll be people who come to you because they almost look up to you and they want to get into discussions with you.

[158] So step two, after you've joined, there's a place where you can interact, which basically specifically means like a free community.

[159] So a lot of creators have like free Discord servers.

[160] I have one, the top link in the description is like a free school server.

[161] Join and make a great name for yourself by being warm and helpful, but also being genuinely useful.

[162] The truth is any guy who's actually like a winner, he doesn't just want like a nice guy on his side.

[163] He wants the nice warm hype man, but who's also smart and who's also great at the sort of industry that we're all in.

[164] So do both be super social and nice, but also level up your own thing Which again in my space is educational content creating like you know Just this business model that i'm doing you level it up you learn things you find resources that you share to the community you you know Experiment on some things and post about your findings whatever so that you become like this fucking pinnacle inside of our community where guys are thinking like Oh, yeah, this guy jack He always comes in and gives us value like you know that you start to be seen as like a little micro leader inside And people start to like look up to you and the more confident guys start to approach you because they want to learn more from you and they're hoping that they've got something that you can learn from as well.

[165] Then to scale that up to step three, start getting into personal conversations online.

[166] So you'll meet guys, organize calls with them.

[167] You go on a call with each other.

[168] And one of the most important things is you don't act like an artist who only talks about work.

[169] You make some jokes just as if you guys are friends already.

[170] You actually come from a position of power where you risk.

[171] telling the kind of jokes that you find funny.

[172] You don't try and shy away from that.

[173] Because if you tell the jokes that you find funny, if you talk about the things that you find interesting, you'll naturally just find the people who are compatible with you.

[174] This is not about just finding any random guy who's successful.

[175] This is about finding the guy who's like a winner who's successful, but also who's genuinely compatible with you.

[176] So this stage, like step number three, once you've found like a free community to kind of like interact with people, that's when you've got to start getting onto video calls with people.

[177] Be the guy who goes in, sends like five DMs a day to people you've been commenting, you know, like on their posts or maybe they comment on your...

[178] post or whatever and you send them a message saying oh hey bro you know nice comment and stuff let's go have a call tomorrow like 5 p .m uk time let's let's hop on a call and let's discuss some ideas whether it's a bigger group call or it's a one -to -one you'll start to really get to know people and if you've got a pair of balls you evaluate them don't be insecure thinking oh will they like me you just ask yourself like imagine you've got a fucking baseball bat Dick, thick fucking girthy dick.

[179] You don't go into a call proper shy thinking like, oh, you know, this is awkward.

[180] I really hope they like me. I'm going to try my best to make them like me. When you've got a big dick, you go onto the call thinking, oh, I wonder if I'm going to like them.

[181] You stay authentic.

[182] You make the jokes that you find funny.

[183] And that's when people will like, you'll just naturally find the guy who also finds you funny, who also finds the way that you talk interesting and you find the same thing with him.

[184] And that's basically you're like your future fucking best friend.

[185] so step number four is when you find the guy who you feel compatible with start speaking to them more often shoot your fucking shot and tell them like hey bro like maybe crazy idea but you think it'd be valuable if we spoke to each other like every day like what do you like i'm free at like 7 pm every single day be awesome to just like you know like just shoot ideas it's fun as fuck to talk to you It can feel awkward a little bit the first few calls, but if you get into that, we've got tons of guys like inside of my communities who go on a call with each other every single day at the same time.

[186] And now it's like they've become best friends.

[187] They hold each other accountable.

[188] They call each other out.

[189] So step four is all about like just leveling it up, seeing each other more often, more frequency.

[190] And inside of those video calls, start being more personal.

[191] Talk about your family, talk about your goals, everything like that.

[192] The final step, which puts this all together, step number five.

[193] This is going to seem crazy, but I promise you this is actually realistic.

[194] After a while, consider traveling or moving in with each other.

[195] So maybe not right away.

[196] And maybe there's like a middle step, like step 4 .5, meet each other in person, do like a meetup in like a city center somewhere safe, just in case they're a pedophile.

[197] But honestly, like a side point, but I really don't think like internet stranger danger is really a thing.

[198] I've never once had a bad experience meeting someone from the internet.

[199] I'm pretty sure that's like psyoping from like the fucking certain types of people who are trying to bastardize and subvert the West, but I'm not sure we're ready for this conversation just yet.

[200] I will never kill myself, by the way.

[201] but basically go meet up in person you know you've been speaking to someone and you just host something let's say you live in the same country you're like oh fuck it let's go to the you know the the capital of our country and let's meet each other in person go to a restaurant you know dress up whatever take some instagram pictures and eventually then step five once you feel comfortable and it's been you know long enough This is the big move.

[202] Consider literally traveling together.

[203] So I have tons of guys, like I'm talking about probably, probably about 30 guys coming over to Bali.

[204] Right now, basically in the next few weeks, I've got guys from my paid program, Adonis School.

[205] We're doing meetups.

[206] We're staying in like a villa and stuff together.

[207] So we've got guys coming over who they've been talking to each other online.

[208] And this is going to be one of the first times that they meet up.

[209] They stay with each other.

[210] We're all living like very close to each other or even they're living together.

[211] And it just means that like, you go from that internet relationship which is still nice to a genuine genuine like in -person brotherhood because what i really like about the niche that i'm in which is like i help you to become an educational content creator basically my exact business model You naturally will make money from it.

[212] And when you make money from it, you'll also scratch the edge of the need for your brotherhood and social life.

[213] Because when you join my community, when you join my paid program, you'll meet other guys who are on the same page who are making money.

[214] And then you can literally fucking move to Bali with the boys at the same time.

[215] So I live in Bali.

[216] We're going to have like fucking 30 guys here from Adonis School all living in like a mile radius, doing meetups, training together, getting steak with each other every day.

[217] And now it's like we just went from like not relating to anyone, feeling like, you know, where do you?

[218] one out we don't relate to our parents we don't relate to our families to our friends from high school and if you connect with people online level it up and then literally just make the the leap of faith to move and travel with each other you've suddenly just got that in -person brotherhood with someone who you actually relate with who you're doing the same kind of business model and now you you might even live together That is how you go from feeling like you don't relate to the 99 % to genuinely finding the 1 % and actually getting like the most insane social life experience that you can with them because you'll actually go and meet up in person and then maybe go move together or live together.

[219] I know that sounds crazy that last step where you're thinking like what like move with each other travel like I can't travel right now I'm in school or you know I've got work whatever.

[220] That's what a lot of my students thought.

[221] But after a few months of putting things into places, starting to make money online, it's like, it's actually, it's not crazy.

[222] The one final thing I want to say, if in your mind you're thinking like, what the fuck is Hamza on about?

[223] There's no way that I could like move out to Bali or something.

[224] There's little fucking white girls who move out here, bro.

[225] There's little fucking white girls who are, like, poor as fuck.

[226] Like, half the fucking Australian people here are broke as fuck, right?

[227] There's people who are broke as fuck.

[228] Little girls, little fucking white girls, like, you know, they're here with their little cute itinerary and stuff, and they just decide to move here.

[229] It's not as hard as it seems.

[230] You're a fucking hardworking, ambitious young man. You're supposed to be a fucking adventurer.

[231] Your ancestors did harder shit than fucking...

[232] booking a flight like I know it sounds scary in your mind like oh but like you know how do you book a flight and stuff it's like you'll figure it out one step at a time so don't like push that off like very realistically as your goal for let's say this year or next year one of your goals could literally be move to Bali or move to Colombia move to Thailand with one or two good friends that I've been connecting with online that's what's fucking amazing about it so the link's in the description if you want to do this with with my specific community but that's the step -by -step process if you are feeling like you don't relate to anyone to get to the point where you have literally a top one percent social life surrounded by winners so i really hope that helps you because the life that i live now where i literally like live here in bali which is like basically the global hub of like people on self -improvement more on the sort of holistic wholesome side of self -improvement but also people who are online entrepreneurs Every single day I meet someone who's fucking awesome.

[233] Like I just exist and I accidentally meet people here.

[234] I was at the gym like about two weeks ago and in the space of like two minutes, like three people came up to me saying that, you know, they recognize me and they were talking about this and this and this.

[235] And then this beautiful girl comes over and she's fangirling hard that she's like, you know, she's watched me for years and everything.

[236] Turns out she's like a super successful entrepreneur herself.

[237] And we connect so well.

[238] Because I live in a fucking hub.

[239] And because I took the plunge to not spend more time with people who I didn't relate with.

[240] So the final thing I just want to say is just imagine that pain that I was in when I had two years without any friends in person.

[241] When I left the one and only friend I had left.

[242] It was like that massive lonely chapter where I was so sad and I had no friends.

[243] And now I'm telling you, it's like I have such an abundance because I followed the steps that we covered today.

[244] So I really hope that that helps you.

[245] Goodbye.