S5 E6: It Was All Kind of Hidden | Kelly

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[18] Hi, friends.

[19] Before we get into the last chapter of Kelly's incredible story, I wanted to share a few updates.

[20] As you've probably noticed, the cadence of which episodes have been releasing has varied quite a bit this year.

[21] Like many parents right now, I'm balancing working from home full -time while caring for children full -time, which is like really hard.

[22] We also recently had some personal stuff going on as well and had to move unexpectedly, and while we are on the mend and getting settled, like many of you, this year I have felt extremely anxious, depressed, isolated, and uncertain.

[23] That said, I appreciate your patience with release cadence as we continue to navigate 2020 together and all of its fuckery.

[24] When I'm not working on recording, writing, or editing episodes, I'm working on the small business side of funding the podcast, as well as responding to messages and aiding listeners in finding resources that can help those who are navigating leaving abusive relationships, or the abuse that often follows divorcing, abusers, narcissists, and gaslighters.

[25] I'm honored and so thankful for how many wonderful humans I have met through this podcast.

[26] I'm wanting to find more ways for us to connect with one another and support this community.

[27] So I've added a private forum to the Something Was Wrong website, where listeners can connect with and support other abuse survivors.

[28] If you're interested in joining this free virtual support group, head to something was wrong .com slash forum.

[29] Thank you so much.

[30] Hearing Julia and Kelly share their stories these past few months has been so eye -opening to me. When I first started looking into this, quote, church and its pattern of abuse, I really didn't know all that would be uncovered.

[31] I knew something always felt personally off for me when visiting the church, its previous venue, and its services.

[32] But I truly had no idea the depths of abuse and the pain the members of this church were navigating.

[33] I've heard from many others who have attended.

[34] this church, and like Kelly and Julia, they too have told me of their spiritual and emotional abuse, their continued therapy to combat the trauma which occurred while attending this church.

[35] I have learned so much about their experiences and my own self through their words, and I hope the same is true for you.

[36] Thank you again to Julia and Kelly for their bravery and vulnerability.

[37] As always, please take care when listening.

[38] I'm Tiffany Reese, and this is, something was wrong.

[39] After we separated, I did sleep with my.

[40] And I would not classify, oh no, yeah, I would not classify, oh no, yeah, I would call me, yeah, I would call it.

[41] No, I don't know what to call it because I consented to it, but it was a demeaning.

[42] This one might actually get me emotional, but I visited our apartment that night after maybe a month of being separated, and we sat down to talk for a few hours.

[43] And then we kind of mutually decided that we would spend one last night together, and then that would be the end.

[44] So we go into the bedroom and start to have sex, but he doesn't want to look at me. So he has me flipped onto my stomach.

[45] He started hitting me, not enough to leave bruises, open palm, smacking my skin, and calling me a bit.

[46] as he did it, um, I felt at the time, like that is the treatment I deserved.

[47] So I'm laying with my face in the blankets, sobbing.

[48] He can hear me crying, and he is doing, he finishes, and goes to take shower, and I lay on the bed crying some more.

[49] That was last night we were together.

[50] The church was paying for my counseling sessions as well.

[51] So not only was the counselor ignoring real signs of abuse, not only was he encouraging me to further submit to financial abuse, not only was he inserting religion and my lack of a document that seals me to this man, he was not he was letting that be the justification for why I was being abused he was also beholden to the church financially for my sessions this conflict of interest i cannot abide that he was everything that i experienced in those counseling sessions was immoral he had a responsibility to protect somebody who was being abused and who was hurt, and he chose, consciously chose not to protect me. After my counselor would talk to my father -in -law violating so many confidentiality laws, then Lance would go to my mom and talk to her about what was going on in my counseling sessions.

[52] And what is what is Lance's understanding of what's happening?

[53] That I do not know, because the man has not talked to me. Oh, except for the one time I reached out to him and said, hey, I want to meet with you, and then he accused me of cheating.

[54] I'm like, no, I didn't do that.

[55] I just, 100%.

[56] He was victimized in childhood.

[57] 100%.

[58] But we can look to so many examples of people who were victimized in childhood and became better in spite of that.

[59] And this person has chosen not to seek help for their trauma, but instead he's chosen to traumatize others.

[60] Did you return to the church at any time after that?

[61] And what was that experience like, the sort of separation between you and this church?

[62] What was shared with other people attending the church about you leaving and you guys separating?

[63] After I left, I stayed away for a few months.

[64] I felt like I didn't have the emotional capacity to return and look my X in the face.

[65] So I took maybe three or four months away where I didn't attend.

[66] I tried to go somewhere else in the meantime and didn't find.

[67] that it felt good, so I just didn't go anywhere.

[68] And in that time of healing, I gathered enough resolve to go to the church on a Sunday morning and visit with my friends that I had missed.

[69] The friends that I had specifically cut contact with to protect my own heart for that time, I thought that I was finally ready to go and face the music, so to speak.

[70] So one morning I got in my car and drove there.

[71] And when I arrived in the parking lot, my ex was there and he happened to see me drive up.

[72] So as I was parking, he ran inside and alerted his dad or whatever.

[73] I'm not sure.

[74] So I composed myself and walked to the front of the building.

[75] And Lance and his assistant pastor, associate pastor, cornered me before I had made it to the door the both of them planted big smiles on their faces and attempted to appear happy to see me. Lance's smile was insincere.

[76] I could tell that he was kind of freaking out about me being there.

[77] It threw a wrench in the image that he had constructed, I guess.

[78] So he grabs me by my arm and says, we are so how much.

[79] We are so happy to see you but if you're here to cause a scene you can just leave um that felt really horrible to hear after months of no contact with this man who i have known since i was five years old who was my pastor since then who was my father -in -law who was my boss and that i just walked out on the job without a word that was the first thing he had said to me in months and i started i started crying under the tension and the I took umbrage with his word choice and thinking that my character was such that I would go in and what did he think I was going to do yell at everybody over what had happened I have no idea what was going through his mind but um and he doesn't have the full story either I was never open with him about the sexual and email show sexual and emotional abuse.

[80] And I have always wondered whether he would support me or not.

[81] Because I think that he is, I think that he is capable of seeing other people's pain.

[82] But he does run from those confrontations, if that makes sense.

[83] So after Lance and the associate pastor cornered me and expressed that I was well -competions, as long as I wasn't going to cause a scene, I started to cry as one does, and the assistant pastor pulled me aside and translated Lance's words into something more palatable for me. He apologized for Lance.

[84] Um, by saying, we do want you here.

[85] We just want to make sure it's for the right reasons.

[86] So I told him what I was here for.

[87] I wanted to say hi to my friends.

[88] I wanted to come back to the church that I had known since I was five years old that had been my entire world for that many years.

[89] And so he sent me on my way.

[90] And I got to spend the morning very tense, but pretending to have a good time connecting with people when I was just so nervous the whole time.

[91] After the service was over, I asked my sister -in -law to bring me to their mom because she had just had a baby that I hadn't met yet, and I would like to connect with her and meet the baby.

[92] So she brought me to Lance's office where mom was giving the baby a bottle, and we exchanged hellos and how are yous and then before getting into anything deeper she looks at me and says you know I just want to apologize for how Lance talked to you he told me what happened and I want you to know that we love you and he sounded more harsh than he meant to be so in the moment I was like oh thank you it's okay I love you too whatever moving on but after I left I had the realization that instead of Lance taking accountability for the words that he said and how they made me feel, two separate people apologized for him.

[93] Two separate people that are close to him in his life, that are his accountability, chose to let him get off scot -free.

[94] Is it scot -free?

[95] Scotch -free.

[96] How do you say that phrase?

[97] I don't know.

[98] I don't know.

[99] two people in his life chose to let him walk away without consequences for his words and that is one of the most concerning trends that I see in his life is the people that are close to him who have the opportunity to tell him when he messes up and to make him make reparations they choose instead to allow him to escape those consequences and apologize for him um his associate at pastor is pretty well known around the church for being his translator and for talking people off of the ledge after Lance has hurt them.

[100] They would not, they would not call it hurt.

[101] They would call it offense, which is something else entirely.

[102] But it really reminds me of a toddler who's never told no, that never has to experience the consequences of, you know, hitting their mom or whatever it is, they think that they're entitled to whatever actions they do.

[103] They think they're entitled to living a life without consequences.

[104] They think they're entitled to moving forward in life without ever looking back at the damage they've caused.

[105] And that is Lance to a T, especially in that moment where he had to be, he absolutely.

[106] knew how what he said made me feel because I was crying in front of him.

[107] And he knew that what he had done was wrong because he went and talked to his wife about it.

[108] And still, he was not able to come to me and express that he knew what he had done was wrong.

[109] When you left what was told to the congregation about your relationship.

[110] I have no idea if anything was said.

[111] I feel like it is such a disservice specifically to the teens that I worked with for them not to hear what happened.

[112] A lot of my ex's messaging to the kids during services was that we choose to love each other despite our differences and all of that stuff.

[113] And so to completely ignore the fact that it person who is influential in their lives, tooting my own horn a little bit, but to ignore the fact that I was no longer there and they couldn't ask questions about it was horrible.

[114] I mean, some of those kids I really got on well with and helped them through some really tough times in their life.

[115] And when I left and they couldn't ask questions, that must have been a really horrible feeling for them to know that something happened, something was wrong, and nobody was commenting on how a person was being completely erased from the equation.

[116] Yeah.

[117] And I just wonder, what do you think Lance knew about your separation?

[118] He obviously knew some of it based on his behavior upon your return.

[119] What do you think that he knew?

[120] He knew only was.

[121] my ex had told him which is likely that I was the abuser had a few specific events held over my head for the latter portion of my marriage in which I behaved in a bad way as a result of being cornered and abused and my ex used my one -time actions as a reason to justify his stance that I was the aggressor in our marriage.

[122] What happened was we came out of a movie and he asked me, how was it?

[123] And I said, it was great, but would have been better if you didn't spoil the ending for me. Have you seen the movie get out?

[124] I haven't.

[125] So he spoiled the movie and that movie relies on the thing that he spoiled.

[126] So it was made that much less sweet for me because he told me how it ended.

[127] So unfair.

[128] So I expressed that I would have appreciated it if he did not give me a spoiler.

[129] And in the middle of the theater, he got very tense with me, and he accused me of being ungrateful.

[130] He said, I brought you to this movie.

[131] I was so nice to you.

[132] We held hands.

[133] We kissed during the movie.

[134] It was all around a great night.

[135] Why are you being like this?

[136] So I backtracked very quickly, and I said, no, I was not telling you that you are a bad person or that you hurt me in this great way, just that the movie would have been better if I was surprised.

[137] And so we fought about my one little comment in the car on the way, home.

[138] And before we'd even made it out of the parking lot, he was screaming at me that I was ungrateful.

[139] And I'm sitting there in the passenger seat with tears streaming down my face, telling him, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, over and over.

[140] And he's not relenting.

[141] He is not giving me any leeway at all for something that I actually don't feel I needed to apologize for.

[142] I feel like he needed to apologize to me in the beginning there.

[143] And at the end, of course.

[144] So I had all of this pent -up energy.

[145] I was feeling incredibly invalidated, hurt by not being heard.

[146] And so I bawled up my fists and I punched him in the shoulder like three or four times in quick succession.

[147] And he stopped the car and made me get out.

[148] And he left me there.

[149] Okay, that's a little more fantastic than the reality.

[150] He had driven me to my car and dropped me off by my car and then sped off after I had gotten out.

[151] But he didn't realize that my backpack was in his trunk.

[152] And so he left me without my phone and my keys.

[153] So I was stranded.

[154] And then later, he did not apologize for his actions that led me to feeling cornered and put into a fight or flight response in which I hit him.

[155] But he did make me apologize for doing the hitting.

[156] And then he made me apologize for that for the rest of our marriage.

[157] Did he ever apologize to you for raping you repeatedly?

[158] no in fact he was angry at the end for my description making it seem like that's what he had done because he is a good person and he does not rate people from his perspective furthermore after i quit the job quit working for the church just stopped showing up and didn't tell lance that i was going to stop showing up the paycheck didn't stop i wasn't working but he was still earning my money my mother was the accountant at this time so she handled these paychecks and knew that her daughter was not working to earn the money that this man was still collecting so she brought it up to Lance and my ex and they accused her what did they I can't remember what the specific accusation was that she was making a mountain out of a mole hill that she was being overdramatic you know all of the gasoline things the accountant whose sole job is keeping the church financially in check and making sure that they're following legal procedures to keep their non -profit status this person was making a mountain out of a molehill just so I'm understanding correctly yes I obviously wasn't there so this is a secondhand account but my mom describes that the time that she worked there during this time after she exposed the embezzlement, that she was bullied, that she was ostracized, and she was made to feel like she was making a big deal out of nothing.

[159] When in reality, him getting paid for my work that I wasn't even doing, it was not right.

[160] It was never right that that money was going to him instead of you.

[161] No, it wasn't.

[162] Your poor mother, what a position to be put into.

[163] I was so proud of her when she quit.

[164] So proud of her.

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[192] I remember the protests around Prop 8, and I participated in them as well.

[193] I think that was when I was in either 8th or 9th grade.

[194] My participation was, I mean, obviously I had a choice, but it was not an informed choice.

[195] And I remember having the yes on 8 sign in my yard.

[196] I remember many more things about going on pro -life marches and participating in a day of silence for, the unborn.

[197] I was not, okay, being a child, you can't be held responsible fully for the choices that you make that you've been taught from birth.

[198] But I do feel proud of myself for when I was in high school, I was confronted about my pro -life stance by somebody at my school.

[199] And I had the option of being defensive, but I chose to listen to them instead.

[200] And that was the first experience that I remember in which I questioned church leadership.

[201] And looking back on it now, I'm so proud of my young self for having the ability to see perspectives that differed from mine, because that is the catalyst for where I am today in being accepting of my friends and much more liberal than my parents would like.

[202] Aren't we all?

[203] Yeah, I lost every deep relationship that I had known for my entire life when I left.

[204] And some of it was on purpose, my choice to say you are not good for me, and I walked away.

[205] And others were just, I don't really know, their choice, nobody's choice.

[206] But when I left the church, they, the leadership had been very specific about, we do not talk about Kelly and this person's relationship.

[207] It's not any of our business.

[208] And by saying that, they quenched any dissent, any questions about my reasons for leaving.

[209] Nobody was telling my side of the story.

[210] It was all kind of hidden.

[211] In fact, it was five months of me having been gone before my chiropractor, who attended the church, even knew that I was separated.

[212] And I had, I see him every week, I saw him every week leading up to this where I finally got the courage to tell him, you know, I haven't been to church in five months.

[213] I'm divorced.

[214] He had no idea because that.

[215] That's how little anybody was allowed to talk about it.

[216] What has the journey back been like for you so far, back to yourself and connecting with yourself outside of this abusive relationship?

[217] Absolutely wonderful.

[218] I had forgotten how to be happy.

[219] I had forgotten that I was worthy of love.

[220] I had forgotten that I was an individual.

[221] and since separating, I've gained all of that back tenfold.

[222] I don't think that I've ever felt more connected with my family.

[223] I don't think that I've ever had such strong friendships with coworkers and classmates and even childhood friends that I've reconnected with.

[224] In my marriage, I wasn't allowed to be friends with the people, I knew in high school because one of my friends is non -binary and another one is a trans man and I wasn't allowed to be friends with them because they were too lowly for somebody of my stature according to my spouse who is absolutely obsessed with his reputation and by associating with I don't know what to call them, associating with regular people, how I would see them now, was not setting a godly example for the people in our lives.

[225] And it was lowering myself.

[226] And since separating, I've reconnected with those friends and, oh my God, how much have I missed them?

[227] They're some of my closest friends again.

[228] And I can't believe that I was ever convinced to straight up abandon them.

[229] I think that's so beautiful that you've been able to reconnect and make amends and be able to benefit from those relationships again.

[230] How else has leaving the church and your abuser changed your life for the better?

[231] I don't accept abuse for people these days.

[232] I feel like I'm much better equipped to handle all of the emotions that come at me in the day because I'm not attacked for them.

[233] My emotions are just emotions and I have the ability to state them, work through them, and any conflict that arises, I can handle it like a mature adult.

[234] Whereas before, there's always this idea in church that emotions are lesser than what your brain tells you.

[235] But at the same time, all of the appeals to God's presence are based off of emotion.

[236] I feel God, therefore I know that he is here.

[237] And in leaving that abusive culture behind, I can just accept my emotions for what they are, things that guide, guide my choices and give me clues as to what's going on in the world around me and I can examine them and decide what to do with them if that makes sense.

[238] My perspective is that if I am to be fully healed, I have to look for the good and bad people, if that makes sense.

[239] Yeah.

[240] And that's my personal journey that I have decided is something that.

[241] that I need to do.

[242] And I recognize that many survivors of abuse are not at that place and won't be at that place.

[243] And that's valid too.

[244] A hundred percent.

[245] And I think it's also important to highlight that like forgiveness doesn't mean readmission to our lives either.

[246] We can forgive people and be at peace with their capabilities and their abilities to love or not love other people and move on and not accept it.

[247] And it doesn't make us bad or them incapable of growth and change.

[248] Right.

[249] I agree with that.

[250] Like I want to, I want to continue to hope that bringing these stories to light will help other people as well who see these things in themselves because we're all human and we can all be abusive.

[251] It doesn't mean we're all abusers, but abusive behavior can, you know, we're human.

[252] I do appreciate the sentiment about sort of separating the person from their behavior and hoping that, hoping the best for them, even if that doesn't mean readmittance to our lives.

[253] Yes.

[254] You put that so well.

[255] Because I think that people do have the capacity for change, it's always going to be a matter of whether they want to, which abusers tend to not want.

[256] I think if somebody reveals themselves over and over, believe them.

[257] Believe them.

[258] But something that I realized over the last year is that it's okay for, for people to grow and change their minds and do better and those people that are actually willing to say, you know what, at that time, I thought that wasn't okay thing to say or do, but I now take responsibility for the fact that it wasn't.

[259] But I think without that sort of approach and without the acceptance of responsibility and promise to do better, it's a lot harder to forgive people, but ultimately, the forgiveness is really for ourselves.

[260] It doesn't change the things that you suffered, and it doesn't change the things that Julia suffered.

[261] I hope that they do better, and I hope they learn from this experience, and I hope they hear this, and that they think about their behavior and their approach, and that there is possibility for change.

[262] I want to believe in change still.

[263] Me too.

[264] This has been really nice being able to share everything.

[265] I really appreciate you taking the time and I'm so glad that we got to connect and it's it's kind of amazing you said you're 24 years old wow that's kind of amazing to me you seem very mature for your age well thank you I'm I'm the oldest of five that helps at all that makes more that makes a lot of sense it just feels so good to be believed so good to be believed I have an incredible family around me that has rallied in support from the oldest person to the youngest person, although I don't share all of these details with my youngest siblings, they all, without question, without interrogation, said, yes, we believe you, yes, we want healing for you.

[266] Yes, you're right.

[267] Yes, that was traumatizing.

[268] makes me incredibly devastated for the countless individuals who don't have that support and who go to somebody and the first thing that they hear is you're lying or that's not true or he's a really nice guy I'm sure that you're mistaken so callous to take somebody who's putting everything out on the table, all of their trauma in an experience that can be retramatizing, just talking about it, and you invalidate that experience.

[269] Thank you so much for sharing that with me. And I just want to say thank you for agreeing to speak with me. It's taken a lot of bravery for you to speak with me about these things.

[270] And I really admire your commitment to yourself.

[271] And your commitment to continue to feel your feelings and validate your own feelings for yourself because I think that's amazing and you deserve it.

[272] Thank you so much for having me. This has been a pleasure.

[273] Absolutely.

[274] On the next episode of Something Was Wrong, you'll meet Heather, whom grew up in multiple evangelical cults in Europe and the U .S. Colts so abusive that some of its past leaders now find themselves in court rather than church.

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[287] I'm Dan Tiberski.

[288] In 2011, something strange began to happen at the high school in Leroy, New York.

[289] I was like at my locker and she came up to me and she was like stuttering super bad.

[290] I'm like, stop fucking around.

[291] She's like, I can't.

[292] A mystery illness, bizarre symptoms, and spreading fast.

[293] It's like doubling and tripling, and it's all these girls.

[294] With a diagnosis, the state tried to keep on the down low.

[295] Everybody thought I was holding something back.

[296] Well, you were holding something back.

[297] Intentionally.

[298] Yeah, well, yeah.

[299] No, it's hysteria.

[300] It's all in your head.

[301] It's not physical.

[302] Oh, my gosh, you're exaggerating.

[303] Is this the largest mass hysteria since the Witches of Salem?

[304] Or is it something else entirely?

[305] Something's wrong here.

[306] Something's not right.

[307] Leroy was the new date line and everyone was trying to solve the murder.

[308] A new limited series from Wondery and Pineapple Street Studios, Hysterical.

[309] Follow Hysterical on the Wondery app or wherever you get your podcasts.

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