#342 - Christopher Ryan

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[2] Train by day, Joe Rogan podcast by night, all day.

[3] International Man of Mystery, World Travel, Man, author, Extraordinaire.

[4] You have a broad range of experiences that you can draw upon, Mr. Chris Ryan.

[5] I do.

[6] I appreciate you very much coming back here again.

[7] Thanks, man. It's an honor.

[8] Oh, please.

[9] It's an honor to have you back.

[10] uh your book is amazing if you haven't read it uh it's i've been reading it over the past few months um along with uh the new ste vernella book meat eater i give i throw you back and forth with this book it's it's a great book man there's so much interesting shit in it it's uh it's such a a fascinating sort of exposure about sexuality and evolution and how we sort of evolved and how we've you know got to this point where it's kind of a it's gotten away from us and there's all this I think Duncan Russell said it best He said that you exercise shame From people You know what I love that term I told you I'm working on a new website Using Squarespace Yes Which is not bullshit I'm not saying that because they're your sponsor But my you know We got Chris Ryan And then under it says Author Public Speaker or something Shame Exorcist I love that phrase Yeah That book is Yeah for a lot of people It makes you go, oh, okay, that's where these fucked up thoughts are coming.

[11] I'm not fucked up.

[12] Everybody's, the system's fucked up.

[13] Oh, we're living in this crazy time of shame, time of, you know, oddly defined identities and roles that we're supposed to take on that seem very unnatural.

[14] You know, and it's weird times.

[15] We live in weird times sexually.

[16] I think we do.

[17] You know, the Chinese thing, you know, may you live in interesting times, which is a curse.

[18] You know, but I think we do.

[19] We do live in very interesting times.

[20] There's a quote we use in the book from the playwright Arthur Miller, who was married to Marilyn Monroe for a while.

[21] He said, an era can be considered over when its basic illusions have been exhausted.

[22] I love that quote.

[23] It's basic illusions have been exhausted.

[24] And I think we live in a time where pretty much all our basic illusions are exhausted.

[25] Politics, nobody thinks there.

[26] The shit that's going on in Washington is anything other than, you know, back deal trading for whatever, you know, banking, nobody believes banking is for the good of the country anymore.

[27] It's like people have realized that everyone's on the take.

[28] The institutions are not respected, and that includes marriage to a large extent.

[29] And so there's this struggle going on over marriage and monogamy and gay rights, you know, in terms of same -sex marriage.

[30] So I think we're in this war.

[31] I mean, there's so many things.

[32] Diet, you know, you're on the forefront of a lot of this sort of re -requick.

[33] calibrating you know what works what's right what actually has benefits you know as opposed to the bullshit that we're being fed all the time so and i think a lot of it's due to the internet probably that you can you know if your message is strong enough it doesn't matter who you are who's backing you you can reach people so i think yeah i think we're in really interesting times it's there's um an effect on our culture that the workforce the workplace brings and it's Excuse me. Every day during the workplace, at the workplace.

[34] You want some of my black butt?

[35] Oh, no, good, thanks, man. That's a beer.

[36] That's a beer, at least Jim.

[37] It's Black Butte.

[38] Oh, B -U -T -T -E, sir.

[39] Bute.

[40] It's a delicious porter ale.

[41] I would like to have one of those.

[42] Can Jim get me?

[43] It's, yeah, I drank some of that for the first time when I was, man, I want to say Chicago, where I think I was in Chicago?

[44] Yeah.

[45] It was like the greatest beer I've ever had in my life.

[46] from Bend, Oregon.

[47] Yeah, what's the name of the company?

[48] Deschutes.

[49] Yeah, Deschutes Brewery.

[50] Hey, how dare you?

[51] Now, they should be a sponsor.

[52] I mean, really.

[53] How about we just pump them up for free?

[54] Just for free.

[55] All right, well, it's good, it's good beer.

[56] And that's from a guy who doesn't like Porter much.

[57] I was saying earlier, it's normally kind of heavy and sweet for me, but this is nice.

[58] Yeah, no, no, that's delicious.

[59] What were we talking about in the future?

[60] Workplace.

[61] You were talking about the workplace.

[62] Thanks, sir.

[63] I really feel like, because of the fact that you have to, when you're in the in office all day, especially with men and women working together, there's this sort of professionalism that you have to project.

[64] There's this sort of fake way of communicating where you've completely eradicated anything sexual from the menu of conversation.

[65] And even discussing it in the periphery, dancing around it with a joke, can easily get you fired.

[66] Yeah.

[67] Now, you know about this donglegate thing?

[68] Are you aware of this?

[69] No, I've heard reference to it, but I haven't looked into it.

[70] It's a fascinating story that has taken place over the last few days in the tech world.

[71] There was a woman, self -professed feminist, a blogger woman.

[72] Sorry, folks, I got a little phlegm.

[73] Jim, give me some tissues.

[74] I got to blow my nose.

[75] This woman was at a conference, and some men behind her made a joke about dongles.

[76] It was, you know, someone said dongle on stage.

[77] Essentially, they were like...

[78] What is it?

[79] don't know some part of something but what they were essentially doing was doing like a high -tech version of beavis and butthead like he said dongle I wonder how big as dong was you know so these guys I don't know what the joke was but so she takes a photo of these guys and then puts that photo online and says hey these guys are violating the code of conduct for the seminar and these guys are in your conference they're making jokes about dongles not cool right so these guys get fired and one guy gets fired he's got three kids and this woman writes this blog sort of justifying like the environment that you know that sort of makes cool and the reason why she decided to come out is because there was a little girl on stage or a little girl in the room or whatever and she was thinking what this little girl you know, if I don't stand up and stop this, what is she going to be exposed to?

[80] Which is kind of grandiose when you're talking about dongles.

[81] I mean, Jesus fucking Christ.

[82] But what's truly fascinating about this whole thing is, first of all, the response by the internet.

[83] Because the man was fired, don't put those guys online, dude.

[84] Why are we doing that?

[85] I mean, there's no need to keep from...

[86] Yeah, I know.

[87] I mean, I just don't think...

[88] They didn't ask to be online.

[89] Those guys never asked to be...

[90] Those photos were taken by this woman and turned into this big thing.

[91] She has, like, an online media thing that she does already.

[92] So she is, like, a big presence, a lot of Twitter followers.

[93] And she just took a photo of these guys and just put them out in the world for no reason.

[94] I mean, they didn't ask for it.

[95] And she says, here's the guys that tell the dongle joke.

[96] So one guy gets fired.

[97] She writes his crazy blog, and Anonymous jumps in.

[98] and they're like what fuck you oh really they were like this is absolutely fucking preposterous the way this woman's behaving is repulsive and it just they went off and so they they threatened the company and they said they were going to you know go after their clients and they were going to you know denial service attacks and whatever they were going to do they're like i don't know if they even directly threatened it or you know indirectly threatened it but they're like you you got to this is just the beginning you got to get rid of this check and they fired her immediately oh i thought you you meant the company that fired the guy.

[99] Did they bring the guy back?

[100] I don't know if they brought the guy back.

[101] But really the guy should get a job at a company that's not a bunch of fucking pussies because that's the most ridiculous shit ever.

[102] Good luck finding one, man. You know, isn't it like everybody gets...

[103] The air dungle is nothing, you know?

[104] Yeah.

[105] I haven't had a job since the 80s, so I'm not the guy to really, you know...

[106] Right.

[107] But I can't imagine pissing into a cup to have a job.

[108] I don't understand that.

[109] Drug tests.

[110] Insanity.

[111] Complete insanity.

[112] What the fuck does it matter if I smoked a joint?

[113] two weeks ago and I come into work today what the hell are we talking about it's insane complete total insanity and it's it's just this sort of um design to get people moving in this direction of blind obedience and that's what your employer would like for you right but by the way I think that's another one of these basic illusions that's exhausted we got Rand Paul coming out for legalizing drugs apparently yeah I just saw the headline you know so I think maybe we've turned a corner it's gotten so crazy that you know anonymous is standing up that's great i think the internet represents the real mind of the people today and i think when when a big movement like this sweeps across the internet and this is a very minor one let's let's go with a major one let's go with wiki leaks right the overwhelming support of wiki leaks by people online as opposed to how it's represented in the mainstream media right it's a big difference well isn't it people online it's like people 35 and under mostly?

[114] I don't think so anymore.

[115] No, I don't think that's applicable anymore.

[116] I think pretty much everybody's online.

[117] I think there's been over the last decade, there's been this assimilation towards older and older folks, and then the people who are 30 are now 40, and it's just, you know, I think the ideas are too powerful, and the method of distribution is too powerful.

[118] And now we're dealing with this ancient paradigm that doesn't, it doesn't really work with the amount of information that we have today.

[119] It's like this old car that we're trying to keep fixing and putting new tires on but it's a fucking model t it's a piece of shit yeah it worse than cuba because cuba's got at least cool nice cars they really take care of well oh it's an amazing model of like recycling a true recycling and the the unnecessary aspects of constantly getting new and improved things a friend of mine wrote a book called Chay's Chevrolet and Castro's Oldsmobile or something like that.

[120] I mean, his name's Richard Schwide.

[121] He's written, this guy is so interesting.

[122] He's published like seven books, one on chili peppers, one on cockroaches, one on, you know, life after death, one on Cuban cars.

[123] He just like eels.

[124] He's got a book on eels.

[125] He just like gets a hair up his ass and decides something's interesting and he'll just like, you know, run it down and write a book about it and then move on to something else.

[126] That's amazing.

[127] What I was saying earlier before I got sidetracked about the workplace is that the suppression of your true humanity in the workplace, your ability to be free and to be yourself and to be to joke around and have fun, especially when there's intersex politics, when there's, you know, there's a cross of men and women working together.

[128] There's this sort of like fakeness that goes on all day.

[129] and then there's this other level of fakeness that goes on when you're out in the night lifetime when you're trying to get laid so there's that fakeness as well and there's just such a small percentage of time that humans men and women throughout the day interact with each other on a truly honest level you know so like it takes fucking decades to understand each other it takes decades as a man to just try to wrap your head around the idea of wanting babies growing inside of you and wanting dicks and, you know, and being attracted to men.

[130] Just wrapping your head around that.

[131] It's a very strange concept.

[132] And because we bullshit each other all day at work, because we bullshit each other when we go out on dates or social events, we pretend to be someone, you know, more sophisticated or interesting than we truly are, I think that the amount of time it takes before you start understanding how people really are as opposed to these bizarre patterns that we keep following.

[133] You know, it seems...

[134] And you didn't even mention media.

[135] Yeah.

[136] All the bullshit media pumps into us about each other, men and women in relationships.

[137] You know, I have had a unique relationship with television, and then I've been on a couple shows that went on a long time.

[138] I was on news radio for five years, and then I was on Fear Factor for six years.

[139] So when people say, oh, there's a conspiracy, and the government's trying to dumb us down.

[140] through television.

[141] That's not what's happening.

[142] What's happening is that's what you're buying.

[143] That's what they're selling because that's what you're buying.

[144] And that's one of the reasons why it's gotten darker and weirder over the past few years because you're on the internet now.

[145] And the Walking Dead could not have fucking existed a decade ago.

[146] There's no way you could have that on television.

[147] I saw a dude get his leg hacked off with a hatchet.

[148] You know, I mean, you see crazy shit.

[149] I couldn't believe what was on that.

[150] But the sheer violence and insanity of the Walking Dead is impossible.

[151] Without the internet, you know, and video games.

[152] Yes, video games, absolutely.

[153] These uncensored environments, but that information's there now.

[154] So they have to adjust and change things.

[155] But the reason why Fear Factor existed or CSI exists, it's not that the government is like trying to convince you, if you make a mistake, we'll catch you.

[156] We can take your fingerprints from the air, you know, like, no, no, no, no, no. That's what you want.

[157] You want crime shows.

[158] You're buying crime shows.

[159] If you buy crime shows, because you're scared.

[160] Because you're like, what's happening in the world?

[161] Oh, what if the bad guy?

[162] So you're living your life in these weird, paranoid ideas through this artificial medium.

[163] But no one's trying to brainwash you.

[164] You think they are.

[165] But it's really more a matter of this is what people actually buy.

[166] And is it because that's what they've been sold forever?

[167] Yeah, that too.

[168] Definitely that too.

[169] But there's a lot of dummies out there.

[170] There's a lot of dummies that just want to sit in front of that TV and watch someone get, go to what's going to happen on law and order I'm going to guess the bad guy's going to lose because I'm fucking crazy you know I agree I agree with you although I do think that there is it's not brainwashing but I think who is it Marshall McLuhan who said the medium is the message right so there's certain things that you sell that are easier to sell through TV so you sell those right and the structure I mean I'm writing this book now civilized to death it's called it so I'm really like deep into this shit but it's like there are institutions are organic beings companies are organic beings so they you're right they sell they provide what sells because they're they need to eat they need to feed you know and grow but I do think that there are structural how can I say it like structural biases that that divert or you know sort of focus the media in different ways and I think internet is great because it's so dispersed whereas TV is very I'm selling to you right I don't hear a thing you say except through Nielsen ratings or some shit like that yeah it's like they're getting smoke signals they're not getting a conversation right whereas internet it's like wow you got clicks you got eyes you can measure everything it's yeah and interesting yeah yeah absolutely the idea of you know this is what we're gonna offer you it doesn't exist on the internet the choices are so vast that yeah and The freedom that anybody, like you have a podcast, right?

[171] Yeah.

[172] Tangentially speaking, as you can tell, it's my style.

[173] It goes, go off.

[174] Yeah, me too.

[175] Yeah, you're perfect for this podcast.

[176] That, you know, anything along these lines, the YouTube videos that people have, the young Turks, people have these video.

[177] My last episode was with the young Turks.

[178] See, that couldn't have existed.

[179] We talked about you.

[180] Yeah.

[181] They like you.

[182] I like them, too.

[183] It couldn't have existed without, without.

[184] the YouTube possibility, the internet possibility, without that sort of a platform.

[185] And I think that's sort of overwhelming the old paradigm, and it's slowly starting to erode.

[186] But I also feel that the workplace, like people having to bullshit all day is counterproductive to it.

[187] And it becomes a major part of your awake time programming.

[188] It's so American, too, I have to say.

[189] In Spain, you know, it's, I can't speak for Spain in general, but I've been there 20 years.

[190] So, you know, I'm pretty well familiar with the culture.

[191] But it's like one of the things I love about Spain is that politically correct sort of, you know, men are the enemies of women and, you know, adolescent joking can get you fired from your job.

[192] That isn't happening.

[193] Now, women could have a legitimate point by saying, yeah, because women's status in Spain.

[194] isn't as high as it isn't, you know, there aren't legal protections and, you know, women get, you know, harassed in the street or whatever.

[195] And that's all true.

[196] So I don't mean to say Spain is across the board better.

[197] But one thing I notice in Spain, and I love about Spain, is that women, women don't assume you're a rapist because you smile at them, you know?

[198] They don't assume you've got bad intentions.

[199] In fact, they assume you probably have good intentions, and you just find them attractive, and they smile back, and everybody keeps walking.

[200] And there's like a win -win, you know?

[201] There's no assumption of victimization going on.

[202] And I think in America there's this assumption you know, that, you know what, there's a little girl on stage and these guys are making a dumb -ass joke somehow that's connected and I got to expose this?

[203] I don't see that.

[204] In Spain you don't see that sort of shit.

[205] Well, the fury that people had was this, they weren't joking with her.

[206] They weren't like, they were, they're joking amongst themselves in literally the most innocent language possible for describing a dick.

[207] Or alluding to a dick.

[208] Right.

[209] And that was enough for her to, I've had enough.

[210] Like, there's a craziness to that.

[211] And someone made a video called Toxic Women and Stupid Men, and it's on YouTube.

[212] And in a very intelligent way, details why people that think like this are a real issue.

[213] And the men who allow them to get away with it without saying this is preposterous, they're a real issue, too.

[214] Because there's a lot of white knights out there.

[215] There's a lot of really dumb, weak dudes that want to pretend.

[216] that they're with the girls.

[217] They think like, you know, you're right.

[218] These men are assholes, and they'll make videos about it.

[219] And what they're looking for is like feminine brownie points.

[220] They want feminists to look at them and say, yeah, you're one of us.

[221] And it's not necessarily that they don't actually think that way.

[222] A lot of people are like, you're wrong.

[223] I believe you do think like that.

[224] But I'm telling you that the motivation for anybody thinking like that is false.

[225] You have a crazy, ridiculous way of looking at things.

[226] It's unbalanced.

[227] If you had no sex whatsoever, not male nor female, and you looked at that as two human beings and one human being was fired because another human being made a joke about something that was being referenced on stage in a playful manner should that person be take sex out of it should that person be fired right and if you say yes you're a cunt right that's the reality of the situation you're you're a fucking toxic person that's a shitty way of looking at things and by the way i would stress that this woman did not want these guys to be fired she did not think that was her intent she wanted them shut up and it's whatever it is maybe she's self -righteous maybe she likes to go off on tangents I don't think she should be fired.

[228] I don't think he should be fired.

[229] I think it has nothing to do with whatever the fuck they do during the day.

[230] But I think it's fascinating when people are forced to behave in a certain way.

[231] Like you're locked into this sort of nonsense environment where you can't even talk about dongles.

[232] Yeah.

[233] You know, there's an article at salon .com, I think last week.

[234] I linked to it and it started this big firestorm on my Facebook page where a woman wrote about an experience she'd had the first time she'd had sex.

[235] I think she was 15 or something and she was with a guy a couple years older and she just so she had a few too many drinks.

[236] I read it.

[237] Yeah.

[238] And so she was saying that wasn't rape.

[239] I made a bad decision.

[240] I had sex that I later regretted.

[241] It wasn't rape.

[242] And apparently like, who, there's a huge firestorm around this.

[243] Yes, there is because there's the feminist movement right now.

[244] One of the ideas that they're pushing is the idea that is in place I believe in Sweden.

[245] Whereas the You know, where the idea being that regret means that you can withdraw your consent.

[246] Which is where Julian Assange is being accused of rape, even though the woman he supposedly raped went out with him again the next night.

[247] And had sex with him right before.

[248] He was being accused of, I don't want to speak out of school, but I'm pretty sure it was called surprise sex.

[249] That was the idea.

[250] And they were sleeping and they had sex again without a condom.

[251] Exactly.

[252] And she didn't want this.

[253] upset at this or whatever you know obviously they were looking to get at him for something else but that's that's about as obvious you can get that one i mean that is just fucking fucking oh it's just so happens that it's the same guy oh you got no beef with him about leaking all the information that's cool because there's no law against that right is that what's going on yeah but the other shit you can you can you can lock them up in a fucking bradley manning yeah fuck man they torture bradley manning you know truly torture he's a hero yeah that guy was in solitary confinement for some insane hundreds and hundreds of days with no contact with another person yeah which they say literally can make you crazy yeah sure and there's they wouldn't they would take his clothes off because they thought that he was a security risk so he's cold and naked lights all night lights constantly and you know for what because he did what really his patriotic duty led him to believe that he should do right he should release information that he believes is contrary to the nature of the the contrary to the idea of what most people view of the military as of only good guys over there, killing bad guys.

[254] And contrary to the law.

[255] Yes.

[256] You know, international and American law.

[257] Yeah, what he did was what the New York Times is supposed to do.

[258] Right.

[259] You know, what Daniel Ellsberg did.

[260] There's, you know, so I think the view of that, that's getting back to the Internet thing, on the Internet, that's pretty, I mean, amongst the people that I communicate with, that's pretty much unanimous.

[261] I mean, pretty much everybody is like, well, you know, at the very least.

[262] this exposes a real issue that should be dealt with in the military but you don't hear that from mainstream media right from mainstream media they have eliminated that guy from the discussion you never hear him being talked about see that's what I was saying earlier like the the structure of the institution dictates what information can go through there so because of the corporate interest because GE owns NBC or whatever their and GE also makes the fucking missiles and the helicopters and the rest of it they're not going to be able to take that perspective because they're not independent that's bullshit right well as some people like the young Turks come along they really become archaic they don't make any sense anymore right the young Turks will tell you you know they're gonna tell you what they believe 100 % what that guy believes would they might not be right they may be me he was off about bright Bart about with the whole Andrew Weiner thing he made fun of Bright Bart for releasing that yeah saying he's an idiot for doing it and it turned out to be true right but you know that that he's him that's him right you know what i mean he's talking straight to the camera so maybe he doesn't have the correct information at the time but what he's telling you it's not being pushed by producers it's not being pushed by a network it's not being pushed by a corporate entity behind the network right you can't say that about the news that we've come to accept as the mainstream news whether it's cnn or fox there's no individual voice there's no individual point of view yeah and you know especially mean occasionally you'll you have people give editorials, but those editorials are just, Jesus Christ, they're like cartoonish, they're cartoonish and nonsensical, especially, like, Fox News, it's going to be about the Democrats, Obama's fucking up, and return to socialism.

[263] It's going to be so obvious.

[264] It's so obvious.

[265] You don't even have to say it.

[266] Just show me what color flag are you holding up.

[267] You got a red flag or a blue flag.

[268] I got your message.

[269] Just pink.

[270] Show me a red.

[271] Show me a flash of red, and that idea is basically just as good as whatever the fuck comes out of your mouth.

[272] Yeah, yeah.

[273] You're going to have to have me back a third time because we're never going to talk about it.

[274] No, we will though, man. We will.

[275] But I really wanted to have you on after this thing, this dongle gate broke out because I think one of the things that your book really highlights is the weirdness in which women are not supposed to accept their sexuality or accept the fact that they get horny or broadcast it in any way or even you know, acknowledge it, and that if there's a sexual joke going on where a man, even if he doesn't even involve that woman, makes some sort of a sexual joke that somehow that woman is a victim because she doesn't want to have anything to do with sex.

[276] Right.

[277] She doesn't want to have anything to do with either their advances or jokes about it.

[278] Very Victorian image, you know, the Victorian era, you only had sex with your wife in order to have babies.

[279] Right.

[280] You had sex to have sex with courtisans, with prostitutes, with, you know, the house.

[281] housemaid with whatever.

[282] You didn't fuck your wife for fun or for pleasure.

[283] Was that across the board?

[284] Like every they agreed to?

[285] Upper class Victorian British society across the board.

[286] You know, in France and in other European societies, there was a different vibe.

[287] But that's the society Darwin came out of, right?

[288] And as we try to explain in the book, that's the mentality that informs our understanding and the scientific view of human sexual evolution.

[289] Because Darwin was an uptight guy.

[290] He was great.

[291] He was a genius.

[292] He was a cool guy.

[293] But he was super repressed.

[294] Yeah, he never had sex ever, right?

[295] Only with his wife, who was his first cousin from the Wedgwood family, which of the Wedgwood China, fortune.

[296] You know, they're still making China in England.

[297] And she was 30, I think.

[298] He was 29.

[299] And his brother married another sister.

[300] I confused it with Newton.

[301] Right.

[302] Newton was asexual, right?

[303] Yeah, Newton was asexual, right.

[304] Yeah.

[305] Didn't, during the Victorian era, didn't they cover up, like, legs of pianos?

[306] Right.

[307] And tables and chairs.

[308] Yes.

[309] Oh, yeah, because it would excite people.

[310] Yes.

[311] It's so, it's so amazing.

[312] It's like the burqa now, you know.

[313] Oh, it's crazier than the burqa.

[314] Yeah, but you know what's cool about the burqa?

[315] I'm doing this, I'm pitching this TV show, which seems like it's going to get picked up, by the way.

[316] And one of the episodes is about, is based on the story I heard from a woman who worked at Victoria's Secret in London.

[317] And she told me that most of the lingerie they sold was to very wealthy Saudi and Kuwaiti women who came in and would just like buy out the store because they wear sexy lingerie under their burqas.

[318] Yeah, but it's under that stupid tent.

[319] But they feel sexy.

[320] Yeah, they do.

[321] I mean, it's got to be compensating for the fact that they're forced to wear that.

[322] That stupid outfit.

[323] I don't think there's anything good about that outfit.

[324] I mean, the only thing good about it is if you're the man, like, man, nobody gets a look at this shit.

[325] That's his mind.

[326] I'm going into the tent.

[327] It's just the, you know, what's offensive is not the religious connection to it.

[328] The suppression, the idea that a woman has to wear that.

[329] Right.

[330] It's the most suppressing thing ever.

[331] You're covering everything about your identity.

[332] Right.

[333] Especially it fucks up a girl if she's in a shit relationship and she's looking for another dude.

[334] She's looking for a little skate plan, you know?

[335] that guys know what the fuck he's getting into right she's getting abused and nobody can see her her bruises marks that's another way yeah that's another point yeah anyway i jumped off what were we talking about that aren't you the host uh before that what the hell was it oh man i'm not even stoned and we were just talking about the suppression of sexuality that women don't feel like oh victorians and darwin and all that yeah yeah yeah i mean When we originally pitched this book, it was called what Darwin didn't know about sex.

[336] And the idea was to write a biography of Darwin's sex life and then like tie that into our modern misconceptions of sexuality.

[337] Because he went and he had lots of opportunity, right?

[338] He went on the Beagle all down around South America, across the South Pacific.

[339] They stopped in Tahiti, which is sexual paradise, especially in the 19th century.

[340] It was?

[341] It was sexual paradise?

[342] That's why the mutiny on the bounty happened.

[343] because the bounty you've seen the movie right the marlin brand no i haven't never saw that movie well it's this so the the the bounty i guess was captain uh i remember what his name was captain something flesher or something like that but anyway it was a british whaling ship i think or mapping ship maybe but anyway it stopped in tahiti to spend about a month or two months there to like you know get fresh water and fix the ship and do all this stuff meanwhile the dudes went down and they were on the island And there's a very relaxed sexual situation in Tahiti and in many parts of the world.

[344] And so these repressed British sailors who hadn't seen a woman and God knows how long, suddenly there are all these beautiful women around who are happy to have sex with them just for fun.

[345] And so these guys are getting laid left and right.

[346] And then the badass captain says, all right, everybody back on the ship, we're going back to sea.

[347] They get about four hours out to sea and there's a mutiny.

[348] because the dudes are like fuck this we're I don't want to go back to England we're going back to Tahiti man so that's what they did so this is this famous case because there was like lots of nice pussy you know you mean nice women when you say pussy you're you're objectifying women you're breaking them down to one body part you're right nice gash I know what you're hey that's even worse I know your intentions are pure sure but for our women friends out there that would be the white knight take on it Well done.

[349] You know, calling them, you know, calling them by their sexual organs is really not cool, man. Well, last night I was at a party and a woman said something, said some guy was a real dick.

[350] And I, and everyone laughed.

[351] And I said, and that's funny.

[352] If I said someone was a cunt, well, that would be sort of nasty, right?

[353] And so we got into this whole conversation about how come one body part's offensive and the other isn't.

[354] Well, cunt is like if she called him a cock, that guy's a cock.

[355] That might even be a compliment.

[356] still depending on how the guy felt about the girl you know if he thought she thought he was the shit that would be a problem yeah that'd be devastated i was a couple weeks ago i gave a ted talk you know talking about this corporate environment and um you know ted is ted's wonderful i think you had a guest you're a guy who was there edy juan yeah exactly yeah and graham hancock who also has had issues with him recently had a very interesting situation and shelderick by the way rupert Sheldrick is good friends with Stanley Kripner, who you're going to be interviewing Saturday.

[357] Yeah, yeah.

[358] He probably knows Hancock as well, I don't know.

[359] All those old hippies stick together.

[360] Yeah, yeah, intellectual, freaky guys.

[361] But anyway, so I've got this presentation, and when I did the rehearsal, one of the slides in the presentation that I've used all over and, you know, colleges all over and stuff, it's got, I'm talking about testicular ratio and how that explains certain things about our ancestors.

[362] So I've got, in one corner, there's a gorilla lying on his back in the sun, and there's like nothing.

[363] He's got no balls at all.

[364] They're like the size of kidney beans.

[365] They're inside his abdomen, so you don't see anything.

[366] On the other corner, there's a bonobo who's got balls the size of chicken eggs.

[367] And in the middle, there's a picture of this buddy of mine in a speedo sitting on a hammock, and he's got pretty big balls.

[368] And so it says like gorilla, bonobo, and over my friend, it says Italian, right?

[369] And that always gets a huge laugh when I do that.

[370] I did this at TED, and they were like, okay, you know, after the rehearsal, they were like, oh, that was really good.

[371] That's great.

[372] Except that one slide.

[373] And they thought Italians would be offended.

[374] Oh, my God.

[375] And I was saying, you tell that Italian he's got big balls.

[376] That's a compliment.

[377] Little did they know they have big balls because the Italian women are so promiscuous.

[378] You read the book.

[379] Yes.

[380] Devastating.

[381] Devastating to the Italian mentality.

[382] Exactly.

[383] Damn, I can't believe it.

[384] Maybe that's the part that's insulting.

[385] The size of your package is directly proportionate to how slutty the girls around you are.

[386] Yeah.

[387] I shouldn't say slutty.

[388] And that was another fascinating aspect of your book that I learned the origins of the word promiscuous.

[389] That everybody sort of assumes that promiscuous when you say girls promiscuous, that she just sleeps with strangers and runs around.

[390] She's got loose morals.

[391] That's not the root of the word.

[392] The root of the word is mixed, meaning she.

[393] She has sex with more than one person, or she has relations with more than one person.

[394] And generally speaking, probably knew those people her entire life, because the real origins of these sort of orgeastic tribal societies of that, there's only 50 of them.

[395] They were living together in the woods, and they knew each other from the time they were born, and they had sex with each other.

[396] They had sexual relationships with more than one person.

[397] And our ideas of monogamy, monogamy, it's great if it works for you, if it works for you.

[398] you in 2013 and the corporate world and the legal world is great but if you look at 50 people living alone in the woods staying bonded together the best way for everybody to truly love each other is everybody fucks everybody I mean you you really are like monkey people I mean you're you're monkey people with more advanced genetics and more advanced tools and shit but you're essentially living not much different than you know than an animal with tools you know you're gyms yeah and that's how people at the dawn of time lived yeah those people it would benefit them to be sexually engaged each other it would benefit them to be polyamorous it would benefit them to have love spread out you know deep intense love with a bunch of tribal members yeah yeah no no no question in fact when I was you know I done all this research on tribal people and and they're really interesting rituals that are seem designed to make sure that people don't break down into nuclear families, right?

[399] They're designed to make sure, even though you and this woman really like being together and, you know, your hammocks are next to each other and you spend most of your time together, that's great.

[400] And we're not saying that there was no pair bonding, right, in prehistory.

[401] But all these cultures seem to have these rituals to make sure that you and your woman both have sex with other people.

[402] Right?

[403] So, like, there are tattooing ceremonies where everybody has sex and it's prohibited to have sex with your normal partner.

[404] Whoa.

[405] Where, what wacky fucking culture is this?

[406] It's in the Amazon.

[407] There are lots of them in the South Pacific.

[408] That's what happens when you know of the Internet.

[409] Start getting crazy.

[410] Yeah.

[411] That's one asshole's idea.

[412] You know, it's one guy.

[413] Listen, I'm going to fuck your wife.

[414] You're going to fuck my wife.

[415] I don't want to fuck your wife, dude.

[416] Come on.

[417] We're going to make it a law.

[418] Make it a law.

[419] Anytime you have to make it a law, that's fucking silly.

[420] I mean, their social engineering is no better than ours.

[421] Yeah.

[422] You know, just go do what you want to do.

[423] There's this other societies, the Kulina.

[424] Don Pollock was the anthropologist who lives with them for 20 years.

[425] He talks about this ritual.

[426] I don't know how to pronounce it, but it translates to the order to get meat.

[427] And the women will wake up in the morning and they get together.

[428] and they say, okay, let's do this thing today.

[429] So they all start singing, and they'll go around the village singing the song that translates to, you guys are lazy, we don't get enough meat.

[430] When are you going to give us some meat?

[431] We want meat, right?

[432] So they're singing this, and I asked him, does meat have a double meaning?

[433] And he said, yeah, definitely.

[434] It's like go hunting, but also give us some dick, right?

[435] So while they're singing the song, they go around and the women will beat on the post that's holding the guy's hammock.

[436] and that means if you go hunting today and you bring back some meat I'll sleep with you tonight so it's like a motivation to get out of your hammock and go hunting but you can't hit the post of your normal partner it has to be someone else right so then the men can if they don't like if you don't want to have sex with a woman who hit your post you can say oh my stomach is not good today you know whatever I'm feeling well you don't have to do it but so the guys who get up they'll like get up and be all, oh, you know, grumbly and pissed off.

[437] And then they'll go leave the village together.

[438] But this area, they hunt mostly monkeys, and so they hunt independently, right?

[439] Because the monkeys are spread out.

[440] So, but before they split up to go hunting, they'll agree to meet at this certain point before they go into the village.

[441] So they'll go out, some of them will get a monkey, some won't.

[442] They meet back at this place, and they cut up the monkeys so that everybody has a piece of meat going back into the village.

[443] So everybody gets laid.

[444] right?

[445] So it's like pretty clearly, this is all about mixing it up.

[446] And it's not just like for fun because there's nothing else to do.

[447] It's also to to mitigate the risk of conflict, right?

[448] Because if you get possessive about other people and their sexuality, you're going to have lots of conflicts.

[449] And conflict among this small social group, as you say, it's 50 to 150 maximum, right?

[450] Because of Dunbar's number, which we can get into if you want.

[451] But we can be pretty sure that the groups were never more than 150 individuals.

[452] So the worst thing that can happen is you get schisms within that group because you're all depending on each other.

[453] You know, some people are better hunters than another.

[454] Some people are better cooking or making bows and arrowsheds and all this kind of stuff.

[455] Is that the origin of Dunbar's number?

[456] Is that why we only have room in our head for supposedly like 150 close relationships?

[457] Yeah.

[458] Dunbar is a biologist at either Cambridge or Oxford.

[459] I don't remember which, but he was looking at the brain size of different primates, and he found that he could predict the social, the size of the social group of the social group of any primate by looking at its neocortex.

[460] And so when he looked at humans and made that calculation, he said, okay, it should be about 150.

[461] And then they looked at the anthropological record, and they found, yeah, interesting.

[462] When these social groups grew to more than 150, they split.

[463] They tend to split into other groups.

[464] acrimoniously just because of this.

[465] So we've sort of developed a need for a certain amount of space.

[466] It's, yeah, it's like that's as many people as we can keep track of.

[467] And because we didn't encounter large groups, that was adequate for the time.

[468] And it takes a long fucking time for the human genetics to adjust to their new environment, which is very odd.

[469] But it made sense for a million years.

[470] For a million years, it totally made sense to the last few hundred.

[471] Right.

[472] And then things just have gotten so strange that the human genetics are essentially the same as those people that are living in the Amazon.

[473] Yeah, I mean, there have been some changes.

[474] There's a great book called The 10 ,000 -year explosion that talks about the genetic changes that have happened since agriculture.

[475] What are the, like, the most significant ones?

[476] Well, eye color, skin color, hair color.

[477] You know, there were no blue -eyed people 10 ,000 years ago.

[478] How do they know that?

[479] DNA, you know, I guess.

[480] Oh, wow.

[481] Wow, they've got like 10 ,000.

[482] thousand year old people dna like that old dude that fell in the uh the ice man yeah fell in the uh the glacier it's it's the yeah that's if you haven't heard of that story it's a great unbelievably amazing story because it's such a rare fine this guy died and he fell in a crevice and the glacier went over him and didn't wipe him out and that's really rare most things the glaciers were like a mile high plus sometimes and as they moved across europe and across north america across everywhere in the world.

[483] And at one point in time, there's glaciers, right?

[484] Well, except for the equatorial region.

[485] Except for the equator, right?

[486] What they would do is just completely erase everything that's in front of them.

[487] Just houses, trees, just crush everything.

[488] Rivers, valleys.

[489] I have ice.

[490] Crush it all.

[491] So anything that died back then that got crushed by this slow moving glacier, we have nothing.

[492] We have no evidence of it.

[493] That's, you know, I've got a book idea that relates to this that's a really good point I hadn't thought about the glaciers or racing stuff like that what I thought the book idea is you don't remember how Rumsfeld going into Iraq said there are the known knowns and the known unknowns and the unknown unknowns and the unknown known you don't remember that whole thing I don't remember that he gave his press conference and somebody was you know talking about predicting what was going to happen and he said there are the known knowns the known unknowns and the unknown unknowns so the things you know you know, things you know you don't know and the things you don't know that you don't know.

[494] Whoa.

[495] All right.

[496] It's kind of an interesting concept.

[497] Oh, shitty idea to go to war with that.

[498] Exactly.

[499] So what I was thinking is write a book about the known unknowns.

[500] The things we know we don't know, but that we ignore.

[501] Like, for example, in anthropology, archaeology, you're talking about the glaciers wiping out whatever was there, which is absolutely and then they didn't just wipe out houses.

[502] They would wipe out The valley, you know, like, it's gone, yeah.

[503] So it's pretty complete, you know.

[504] But the other was like, one, you know, people left Africa, the current understanding is about 70 ,000 years ago and spread out around, or 40 ,000 years ago.

[505] 70 ,000 years ago was the toba eruption, which almost wiped out our species.

[506] There were genetic tests show that there were about 3 ,000 couples, reproducing couples that have the genetic line has continued.

[507] there was this huge bottleneck because the Lake Toba, what is now Lake Toba in Sumatra, was this eruption that triggered an immediate ice age and like a feat of ash all over Asia and just like killed everything and triggered winter.

[508] It was really nasty.

[509] But anyway, about 40 ,000 years ago, our ancestors left Africa, the out of Africa, you know, event.

[510] And they spread out around the world, but they mostly followed the coastline, right?

[511] Which you would, right, because that's where, like, foods washing up and there's shellfish and there, and you've got good sight lines.

[512] So those bears and leopards and shit, you'll see them coming, right?

[513] You can run into the water to get away from them and, you know, the sort of the water that's not too deep.

[514] You don't have sharks, but it's deep enough to keep the leopards away, right?

[515] Right, right.

[516] So that's, and it's easier to walk on the beach, right?

[517] So that's, that was the root of the huge exodus that went around the world.

[518] But sea levels were about 300 feet lower then.

[519] So the stuff they're finding, you know, the whatever, the stone tools or the remains that they're finding from 30, 40 ,000 years ago, those weren't typical at all.

[520] The typical people were down on the beach.

[521] So those must have been hunting parties or people who were exiled or, you know, whatever.

[522] But they weren't at all typical.

[523] That's interesting.

[524] So I bet we're missing a lot of the fossils and the little bits of evidence of those people that lived on the beach, which was the majority of the people.

[525] And that's the stuff that's representative.

[526] So it's pretty weird to build your image of a society based on evidence that you know is extraordinary.

[527] Yeah.

[528] You know, but that's what we do because that's all we got.

[529] I can remember really clearly being in college thinking about human history.

[530] I don't remember what the subject of the class was.

[531] But then I remember being in class and just getting an idea just for the first time, but in very roughly, of how little we need.

[532] know about just what the fuck actually happened when you really start reading books about events and you know i'm reading about like i was reading about custer's last stand and um you know the the the account of the indian's account and the survivors account and you know trying to piece it all together i'm like how crazy is it is really difficult to piece this together in my head you know but today i can watch september 11 happen right I can watch a plane hit the tower.

[533] I can, like the way we have recorded things today is so vastly more intricate that when I look at what I know of, you know, JFK getting shot, what I know of seeing troops in Vietnam, like this history that is, you know, that I think of, when you look at how little we know about 10 ,000 years ago, 30 ,000 years ago, 40 ,000 years ago, and then the idea that the only way you find things is if people don't, died in like a volcano or a mudslide because you got to get a fossil.

[534] Yeah, or fell into a peat bog.

[535] Yeah.

[536] It's like, how many people fall into peat bogs?

[537] Yeah.

[538] How much, you know.

[539] Not enough.

[540] Fucking crazy.

[541] What if all the smart people just rotted in the ground?

[542] I'm not going to this fucking peat bog.

[543] There's a whole race of super intelligent people that never went into peat bogs ever.

[544] You know, the first Neanderthal remains that were found were like hunched over and sort to deformed and so for a long time the image of a Neanderthal was this deformed crazy turns out that was like a really diseased individual right wasn't a typical Neanderthal wasn't it isn't it typical though to find them very damaged oh yeah especially their spines and like there a lot of times they're really fucked up oh a lot of uh yeah a lot of hunting accidents and also like apparently a lot of wear and tear on the teeth and stuff yeah yeah I would imagine yeah Neanderthals Yeah Anyway Yeah It's just It's really strange I've often said That human beings today It's almost like We're waking up In the middle of history As a person As an individual I've felt that way Sometimes watching a documentary Or reading a book About something Or trying to imagine What have been like Several hundred years ago It's like All this has happened already And it's all real clear You can sort of piece it together And go And then we got here And it's like we woke up.

[545] We woke up and go, where, where are we?

[546] Where are we?

[547] Where are we on Earth?

[548] Okay.

[549] How do we get to Earth?

[550] Well, this is what we've calculated.

[551] And they lay out a piece of paper.

[552] Okay, Earth is near the sun and the sun is surrounded by these other planets.

[553] There's another Earth?

[554] Maybe.

[555] Probably, most likely.

[556] Actually, it's infinite, so every possibility will exist infinite numbers of times.

[557] That's the real infinite.

[558] So you're like, okay, what?

[559] What the fuck are you talking about?

[560] And then someone goes, hey, man, I figured some shit out.

[561] It's called quantum theory.

[562] And you're like, what the fuck are you saying?

[563] And then, dude, there's gorillas.

[564] You go to the jungle, they found fucking guerrilla.

[565] They're big, they're black, they're, they're sort of human -like.

[566] Get the fuck out of here.

[567] I'm telling you, there's monsters out there.

[568] Like, all that was, that's the 1800s.

[569] I mean, they didn't, they didn't, the Western world didn't know the existence of guerrillas until the 1800s.

[570] Yeah.

[571] So it's, it's kind of fascinating when you really think of, like, where we are right now and how, how much we know about how we got here.

[572] And you, and they didn't know about bonobos till the 1970s.

[573] Wow.

[574] you know, or really start studying them, and they thought they were just a subspecies of chimp.

[575] They called them pygmy chimps.

[576] Turns out they're so completely different from chimps that they've forced us to completely reevaluate the primate origins of human beings.

[577] Yeah, it really threw a monkey wrench and the whole explanation of why we're so warring and horrible and violent.

[578] I didn't mean to do that, I swear to God, no pun intended.

[579] But for folks who don't know, bonobos are like super sexual.

[580] They solve everything with sex.

[581] and the only sex they don't have is the mother doesn't have sex with a son.

[582] Man, you did your homework.

[583] No, I'm just fascinated by monkeys my whole life.

[584] Chimps, sorry.

[585] Mostly chimps, but other apes as well.

[586] But yeah, apes.

[587] I know monkey sounds cooler, though.

[588] Monkeys have transgender.

[589] Monkeys have tails.

[590] You're right.

[591] Monkey balls is such a good phrase, you know.

[592] Yeah.

[593] I mean, I use it all the time, even though I'm always talking about eight balls.

[594] But eight ball just doesn't ring.

[595] Yeah.

[596] That's why one of my comedy specials was talking monkeys in space.

[597] Because talking apes in space just didn't, it's missing something.

[598] In Spanish, there's no word for ape, actually.

[599] Really?

[600] Yeah, which makes things complicated in translating our book to Spanish.

[601] So is it just primates?

[602] Yes, various priman names, simians.

[603] Simeon, that's another good one.

[604] Yeah.

[605] Yeah, the monkey wrench that was thrown in, though, to get back to the bonobos, was bonobos are not violent.

[606] They don't kill other bonobos, then they just fuck all the time.

[607] It's weird.

[608] Friends of all, the great Dutch primatologist who's responsible for bringing bonobos to public light to a large extent, he said chimps use violence to get sex.

[609] Bonobos use sex to avoid violence.

[610] And bonobos are very interesting.

[611] And as, you know, so people understand, the chimps and bonobos are our two closest primate relatives by far.

[612] And in fact, we're more closely related to them than they are to any other primate.

[613] So if you go to a zoo and you're looking at a, you know, chimp cage, that chimp is more, shares more DNA with you than he does with a gorilla or an orangutan or anything, right?

[614] So, in fact, Jared Diamond wrote a book called The Third Chimpanzee where he argued that humans, chimps, and bonobos are basically three subspecies of chimpanzees.

[615] We're so closely related.

[616] We're more closely related to them than an Indian elephant due to an African elephant, right?

[617] We're like super close in terms of DNA.

[618] So they're, but they're very close to each other.

[619] So I think of it as like, if I've got twin brothers, they're, you know, closest to each other, but after each other comes me. And I'm equally related to each of them.

[620] So the chimp, as you say, is kind of badass, kind of very male -dominated, very hierarchical, kind of conflictive can be really nasty, you know, rip people's faces off in Connecticut.

[621] But the bonobo, in 50 years of observation in the wild and in captivity, no one has ever seen a bonobo kill or run.

[622] rape another bonovo they don't have to rape they just fuck they don't do it yeah if you want to not get raped just give it up everywhere you look that's ridiculous yeah we can never live like them i just like to say i do not agree with that i'm just saying it in in the animal world that's what they do right i mean that's where they never kill a rape is very interesting when you're talking about animals like a lot of people say that orangutan sex is rape because it's the male chases the female through the tree tops and she's screaming and apparently trying to trying to get away.

[623] Right.

[624] Doesn't dolphins rape?

[625] There is an indication of dolphin rape.

[626] Well, dolphins are also involved in mass genocide, infanticide, rather.

[627] They kill baby dolphins.

[628] They kill them to get the females to breed.

[629] That's typical of a lot of mammals.

[630] Lions do that.

[631] Bears do that.

[632] When there's an alpha male, gorillas, when there's an alpha male and he takes over, often he'll kill that.

[633] Or if there's a coalition, they'll kill the babies to kill.

[634] to get them back, the women back into estrus.

[635] That's brutal.

[636] In fact, that's one of the theories.

[637] Sarah Hurdy, who's written widely, she's a very well -known primatologist, anthropologist.

[638] One of the theories is that the reason that females are promiscuous in some primate species is to confuse paternity so that males won't be tempted to kill babies in order to, you know, get women back into females back into estrus.

[639] And that's the current thinking on dolphins as well.

[640] Oh, really?

[641] Yeah, dolphin females are known to be like the sluts of the ocean.

[642] They have sex with as many guys as possible.

[643] So the guy comes over and goes, I might be my kids.

[644] Yeah, so why they have that bond with that person.

[645] What do they establish as the main reason why chimpanzees and bonobos, those so genetically similar are so different behaviorally?

[646] That's a really good question.

[647] There's no perfect theory.

[648] The best known theory is that the chimps and bonobos were the same species.

[649] and there was a change in the Congo, the route of the Congo River, I think about five million years ago, and that's been verified.

[650] And so one population got isolated on the south side of the Congo and the other on the north, and the ones on the south became bonobos.

[651] The ones on the north became chimps.

[652] And the idea, and this is Richard Rangham at Harvard proposed this idea, is that the chimps on the north were competing with guerrillas for some of the same food sources, whereas there are no guerrillas south of the Congo, so the bonobos weren't competing for those food sources.

[653] So they didn't have to get gangster.

[654] Right.

[655] But the problem with that theory is that it basically dismisses the assumptions of Darwinian evolution based on Malthus, which is that any population will quickly grow to the point where the food resources are saturated, and so you get competition between individuals for whatever's there, right?

[656] He seems to be saying the population of bonobos never grew to the point where they were competing for food, therefore they never had to get competitive.

[657] If that's true, that's a radical statement.

[658] It happens to be a statement I agree with.

[659] I've made the same statement about early humans.

[660] I'm saying, hey, early humans were like, you know, these pythons that are introduced into the Everglades.

[661] They're like, whoa, there's nothing else here competing for this niche.

[662] Well, it kind of makes sense if you really think about it in terms of how we look at socialism.

[663] Because what is the number one complaint from manly men about socialism?

[664] It's going to make a soft bunch of your fucking pussies.

[665] You're going to have a bunch of a socialist out there.

[666] Yeah, that's the idea.

[667] The idea is to soften everybody to fuck up to reduce the need of competition.

[668] And to a lot of people, special people that have adopted sort of advantageous positions, they look at that as like hey fucking pussies you gotta earn it you know socialism is the and then the idea sort of makes sense if you look at the bonobo community right yeah they didn't have competitions so everybody just chilled out and they developed a style of of being that's more chilled out right right and there's a great story i'll tell you a guy you should interview i think i mentioned him last time robert sepolski yes i tried i'm trying he's in the middle of teaching though Oh, okay.

[669] So you've been in touch with him.

[670] He's such a smart dude.

[671] I've learned everything about toxoplasma, which this fucking podcast has turned to death.

[672] They got so tired of be talking about talking to plasma.

[673] Do you tell the same story sometimes?

[674] Yeah, sometimes.

[675] I get tweets from people like, dude, love your podcast, but you told that story three times.

[676] Like, how do you keep track?

[677] Well, it's really hard when you have a guest if the guest is not aware of the information.

[678] Because I don't want to, like, write it down and say, okay, when the podcast is over, I've got to tell you about crazy fucking parasite.

[679] The changes the way you behave.

[680] So sometimes if it's a new guest and they don't know about it, I'm sort of forced to.

[681] I try to give them the cliff notes version of it.

[682] I know about it.

[683] Soapowski had an amazing video where he detailed.

[684] And even went into that when he was a med student, they would find cadavers, like guys who died on motorcycles.

[685] And there was a disproportionate amount of them that tested positive for toxoplasma.

[686] Risk takers.

[687] Yes, risk takers.

[688] that the parasite literally gets you to take fucking risks.

[689] And that there's a direct correlation between toxoplasma infestation and successful soccer teams.

[690] Wow.

[691] So they all have cats in the locker room?

[692] No, well, there's two thoughts behind that.

[693] One is it could be purely that it doesn't cause, it's not in effect, it's just a correlation.

[694] And that it's just you're dealing with people that live in impoverished areas.

[695] People in impoverished areas have higher incidents.

[696] feral cats hired incidences of feral cats is more likely toxoplasma right that they're also more desperate and maybe more uh invested in soccer and more you know aggressive in their approach because it means so much to them because it's a way out you know much like impoverished people in america sometimes you know they they make some of the greatest athletic stories are someone who came from nothing and was so never wanted to go back to that again and had so much drive so i don't know if they can absolutely connect to them together but it is a fascinating theory talking about taking risks as I've gotten older I've developed this concept I call the fuck it list did we talk about this?

[697] No no no no so the you know the bucket list is stuff you want to do before you die right but like I turned 51 a couple weeks ago and I'm at this stage now where I've got a fuck it list where things I used to think I wanted to do before I die and now I'm like yeah fuck it like bungee jumping no no no no no fuck it that's definitely on the fuck it list yeah I'll show you a video or guy bungee jumps and his chord was not long enough so he slams off the ground in agony and then with his broken body, his cord is too long rather with his broken body slams off the ground again and it does it like several times he's got like a helmet camera on and the screams that he makes are horrific Oh, he didn't die?

[698] No, he lived because it slowed him down a little bit but I mean it just broke him and then spring up in the air and then smash back down again I mean I don't know if he lived after of the video but he's alive during the video and it'll cure you of any ideas of bungee jumping.

[699] I hope that wasn't on Tosh point O. He probably covered it.

[700] He's probably got a fucking ten minutes in his act about it.

[701] Daniel's silly.

[702] Yeah.

[703] He's covered everything fucked up that's ever been released on the internet by now.

[704] He's over there with the young Turks.

[705] He's in the same building.

[706] Oh, is he?

[707] Yeah.

[708] I did his show with Doug Stanhope recently who went and we did this thing where it was a guy who was a lifelong virgin and trying to give him advice and how to get laid.

[709] But that fuck it list that's a good one for the fucket it list bungee jumping what else skydiving I could be convinced to skydive if it was with some friends fuck no tell him tell him the story my dad was this girl that my dad worked with skydived all the time yeah and every you know she always tried to get him to do it so finally he was going to do it and then like a week before he was supposed to do it she jumped and her shoot didn't open and then the reserve shoot start tangling with the other shooter and then she died so it's like my dad was supposed to do it like the following week or something like we can add that to the fuck it yeah fuck it that's all I mean she did it she was a pro it was just you know a bad shoot I did uh para I always forget paraciliding what's the difference parisailing is behind a boat yeah no I did paragliding jumping off a mountain oh my god and I did this in India I took yeah I know it was really dumb but cheap it was cheap I bet it was so is your life it was in Goa and there's this German guy on the beach I was staying this hippie beach in Goa called Arambole.

[710] Where's Goa?

[711] Goa is just below Mumbai in India.

[712] It's on the west coast of India.

[713] And it's like this legendary hippie place.

[714] Like since the 60s, hippies have been going there to chill out on these amazing beaches and smoke ash and, you know, do yoga and shit.

[715] Huh.

[716] So I was there 10 years ago or something.

[717] And, you know, we were there for two weeks.

[718] No, two months on this beach.

[719] Like I didn't wear shoes for two months.

[720] It was just so great.

[721] and so I was looking for stuff to do and there's this German guy, Uvei, who was teaching, you know, he'd do these classes and it was like for 10 jumps 100 bucks or something.

[722] So I signed up and you do the first day theory and you learn, like learn some weird shit.

[723] Like there are these cloud formations that'll suck you up into them and when you're like in the cloud you don't know what's up and what's down and it's like so there are all these things you like, it's like instrument control you have to like even if you think you're falling upward you have to pull the shit and fall and it's like all this weird horrible stuff what is the cloud formation that sucks you up what's that all about I don't remember I just remember like you know I will not go near those clouds like the Wizard of Oz type of situation it was some particular cloud formation that that has like a really strong updraft it's like you know what's it called on the beach where you get sucked out the ocean the undertow like you have to go against it not I mean against it 90 degree angle not try to get out of it like you don't swim against the undertow you swim across the undertow right same thing in this case because you get sucked up your body freezes and then they'll find you like far far away frozen solid like itsy the ice man yeah we didn't finish the itsy the ice man story the reason why this guy didn't get smushed is because he like fell into the bottom of this crevice and got covered and turned into essentially Frozen dinner.

[724] Yeah, and a mummy.

[725] A frozen mummy.

[726] So if people are like, what the fuck?

[727] He never finished that story.

[728] Do you know Brad Pitt has a tattoo of Itsy on his arm?

[729] Does he really?

[730] Yeah, he's really into Itsy.

[731] That's fascinating.

[732] Yeah.

[733] Why?

[734] I guess he's just super into Itsy.

[735] Uh, no, maybe.

[736] Okay.

[737] We'd have to ask Brad Pitt.

[738] You've got a better chance of getting him on the phone than I do, right?

[739] I don't think he talked to me after all the shit.

[740] I've talked about his perfume mads.

[741] His new movie looks badass, World War Z. Yeah, maybe.

[742] Those perfume mads fucking do it for me, though.

[743] Have you seen him?

[744] No. It might be the douchiest commercial.

[745] The world has ever known next to Stephen Dorff's electronic cigarette commercial.

[746] They're right there.

[747] Like what?

[748] He needs the money?

[749] Well, you know, the only thing that I leave for him is maybe he puts that money to deuce in some positive way.

[750] He's very active.

[751] I know there's a lot of stuff, both in America and abroad.

[752] So it could be that, you know, they were going to donate a shitload of money to something and he did it.

[753] Chanel number five it's like such a dorky but it's good to bring this up anyway because I wanted to talk to you about perfume because it's fucking hilarious where it all came from oh oh yeah cover the stink this is not they remade the commercial using Kim Jong Kim Jong -you oh no no put the actual no put the actual one man put the actual one I don't want to see you got it you got to see his stupid face horse doing it uh for red yeah what's ridiculous it's one of the most ridiculous commercials of all time because Because it's a guy who's a fucking multi, multi -millionaire that you know doesn't wear this stupid stinky shit.

[754] And his wife has as much money as he does.

[755] And he's the one of Chanel No. 5 commercial.

[756] Somebody has videos of him sucking a million cocks or something.

[757] That's how they did it.

[758] Something.

[759] Or they, you know, they promise to cure AIDS.

[760] This is it.

[761] It ends, but we go on.

[762] The world turns and we turn with it.

[763] Plans disappear.

[764] Dreams take over.

[765] But wherever I go, there you are.

[766] My luck, my fate, my fortune.

[767] Chanel number five.

[768] That's a god.

[769] That's a fucking goddamn center at live sketch, okay?

[770] Wow.

[771] That does seem like a parody of a commercial starring.

[772] It also seems like a parody of Tree of Life.

[773] Did you see that movie?

[774] Yes.

[775] No, I didn't.

[776] No, that's the Tom Hanks one, right?

[777] No, no. Which one is Tree of Life?

[778] It's with Brad Pitt.

[779] It's directed by the guy who did the, he's a very interesting director.

[780] He does like one movie every 10 years or something.

[781] I can't remember his name right now.

[782] This is not the interconnected lives.

[783] Oh, no, that's the Atlas, the Cloud Atlas.

[784] Oh, okay.

[785] Yeah, okay.

[786] No, this is like, it is really trippy, though.

[787] It's like there's all this, it'll have, Brad Pitt is a father, a couple of kids.

[788] I'm sure most of your listeners know what I'm talking about.

[789] He's a well -known director.

[790] He did a really funky movie about the Pacific Theater World War II, with Sean Pan in it.

[791] And the guy from Saturday Night Fever, the gay guy, bathhouses, John Travolta.

[792] How dare you, the gay guy?

[793] How about the amazing dancer?

[794] What about the really talented actor from Pulp Fiction?

[795] You're right.

[796] You know, the gay guy that likes to fly.

[797] You know that dude, like to suck dick and soar through the air.

[798] second to know who I was talking about though didn't it?

[799] Yeah, if you were playing charades I would applaud you Anyway, yeah So that was that seemed like a parody Of that movie, there it is Like the sunbursting and there's just real Slow visuals and Yeah, I don't know what the fucking motivation was but it's Proposterous Yeah Just completely ridiculous commercial The idea behind the perfume itself It's very fascinating though I don't like it I've never liked it I don't, I mean, there's like a couple, like, oils that girls can put on.

[800] I think that smells kind of cool.

[801] But generally, I like the way people smell when they're clean, you know.

[802] And that's why perfume was invented.

[803] Right.

[804] Because people weren't fucking clean.

[805] They were dirty, stinky animals that were scared of water.

[806] Right.

[807] And that's also why spices were so valuable during those centuries of, you know, spice was pepper, black pepper was worth more than, because the food was rotting.

[808] So they would spice the shit up so you couldn't taste how horrible it was.

[809] Did a lot of people die?

[810] from like horrible digestive issues back then uh well yeah in the medieval period a lot of people were dying from all sorts of nastiness related to the nastiness of the food but also the fact that they were shitting in the street and there's no sewage and everything but what's interesting i think this is like cutting edge medical research is that thing still playing in the background yeah i've heard it since the movie was on just now what is that so your ipad you fuck Jesus, Brian.

[811] I thought I was going crazy again.

[812] Oh, cutting -inch medical research, I think it's going to, you're probably tuned into this because of the body hacking and all that, the microflora of the stomach.

[813] Yes.

[814] Really interesting.

[815] Yeah.

[816] So in those days, people would have had really robust intestinal flora to deal with all that.

[817] To deal with the amount of bacteria that you're absorbing in your system a daily basis, which dogs have.

[818] my dogs drink water and people who live in India and you know I spent a lot of time and I went swimming in a fucking lake in India I don't know what I was doing do you not have the science channel no do you not have discovery do you not watch those things where people come back with fucking football size parasites growing inside their head dude this was this was a long time ago and I was young and invincible what happened a lot of stupid shit uh nothing you got lucky and I've been like healthy as shit you know I'm like the guy who never gets sick Maybe that's what it is.

[819] Well, I think, honestly, when I was traveling a lot in, you know, Asia and Latin America and stuff, I took a lot of acidophilus and raw garlic.

[820] Talk about body smells, man. I ate so much raw garlic.

[821] And the raw garlic's good.

[822] It keeps mosquitoes away.

[823] They don't like the smell of garlic and it comes out through your skin.

[824] It keeps women away, too, I found.

[825] Not Italian women.

[826] Yeah.

[827] They just accept it.

[828] Italian men keep the eggs.

[829] Italian one way.

[830] But yeah, and I say that, but the balls show a different story.

[831] Are we going to put our balls on the table?

[832] The women's, the Italian balls are large.

[833] Oh, Italian balls.

[834] It's the women's fault of the balls are large, right?

[835] They're the direction.

[836] Well, I think it's more of a species.

[837] I mean, there is some cultural, there is evidence that Asian balls are smaller.

[838] I almost started talking Spanish there, quite a bit smaller than black balls and white balls are somewhere in the being very sort of, I don't know if that's politically incorrect to say, but it seems to be true.

[839] And my wife has, I don't think I told you the story last time, because Silda was here last time.

[840] A couple of years into our relationship, one night we were hanging out with a friend in Barcelona, some are going to join.

[841] And this friend, this funny guy, he was giving me a hard time by giving her a hard time, essentially.

[842] And so he was saying, you're so innocent.

[843] You know, you were in medical school and then you were married all these years and, you know, you hook up with Chris when you're like 40.

[844] You know, you're just starting to see the world, you know, as Chris is corrupting you, right?

[845] And he said, you're so innocent.

[846] You probably think Chris has a big dick.

[847] And she said, well, no, I've inspected a thousand penises.

[848] And we were like, what?

[849] She said, yeah, when I was doing that research for the World Health Organization in Africa.

[850] I had to inspect a thousand penises and vaginas.

[851] It turns out, I mean, I knew she had done this research but I didn't know it involved.

[852] Actually, you know, yeah.

[853] And so we get gloves or no gloves?

[854] Gloves gloves.

[855] Does it count then?

[856] Sort of counts.

[857] It doesn't matter of me. I mean, if I were going to be uptight about shit like that, believe me, I'd be in a different business.

[858] But the funny thing was like, He was like, but, you know, she's hot.

[859] She was 27 or something at the time.

[860] And I'm like, what about erections?

[861] And she just laughed.

[862] And she said, oh, yeah, you just flick.

[863] So, Kisilda is sort of like the anti -fluffer.

[864] She knows how to bring it down.

[865] There's, like, you flick right under the head, and the erection is gone immediately.

[866] Really?

[867] Yeah.

[868] Try it when you get home.

[869] Sounds annoying.

[870] Yeah.

[871] Just you annoy the shit of them.

[872] But somewhere out there, there's a guy that's like, it wouldn't stop me. That's what I like.

[873] I like a little flicking.

[874] so so she can prove you know she's like one of the rare individuals that's seen the broad spectrum of the races and she says african well she's seen a thousand africa oh it's all african that was all in africa oh okay so it's all african people so it's a thousand africans and me oh that's her her pool oh yeah she's not impressed i haven't asked i don't even ask i'm not going to ask i don't want to know the answer i'm not going to ask that's funny what a douchebag friend you have by the way i would cut that guy off just the way he communicates is he a dickhead he's a strange dude actually he's a jazz musician who went to grew up and went to college in philadelphia at temple which is 98 % black and he's white um jewish he's like a hairy dark skin Jewish guy he's a big tall guy and he talks like an inner city Philadelphia black dude and he sounds wonderful but he's not doing it he's not racist like he just he grew up with these guys and you know you learn to like sort of communicate the way your community communicate but it could be awkward because he would you know as much as he would use the N word liberally really yeah among like a white crowd or and with his black friends who knew him but then it would get weird if we were at a party or something and he'd be like yo mom you know my he sounds like a fucking idiot what are you hanging out with this guy for making fun of you for having a regular size dick to your wife what a douchebag dropping end bombs yeah bring him to my parties yeah sounds like a treat he knows i love white guys who talk black too oh one of my favorite things yeah can't get enough of them in my life that's what you really want to go to if you're really confused about the world you need a confidant needs someone yeah got to go to a white guy who talks black yeah but i mean it happens Hey, look at all these kids with their pants hanging down around their asses and, you know, showing gang signs and, you know, flicker photos.

[875] And what do you do in showing?

[876] That pants hanging around your ass means one thing.

[877] You don't know how to check leg kicks because I guarantee you.

[878] Right.

[879] Yeah.

[880] If you've done any Moytai at all, you wouldn't have your fucking pants.

[881] It's going to hamper your style.

[882] Yeah, it's ridiculous.

[883] Someone is just going to kick your legs.

[884] There's nothing you can do about it.

[885] Your buckles over your dick.

[886] You can't move your hips right.

[887] You're not going to get out of the way.

[888] You can't walk.

[889] Did you say, look at the.

[890] Those kids with their baggy pants in their flicker photos?

[891] Should I?

[892] That would you say?

[893] The gang signs in their flicker photos.

[894] Oh, I admit.

[895] The gang signs in their flicker photos.

[896] I don't even know a flicker.

[897] Do they really put their gang signs online?

[898] I mean, you see these, like, kids from Pacific Palisades.

[899] It's like, what are you doing?

[900] Well, that's, you know, there is an issue with those kids that grow up in those, like, really rich places where they want to overcompensate because of the fact that their parents are so not street.

[901] Right.

[902] And they get, like, intermixed with inner city kids.

[903] They get shipped there, and then they want to prove their worth.

[904] And I actually had a friend who had a kid who went to one of those Pacific, Pacific Palisades are Malibu, but one of those high schools.

[905] And he's like, you'd be fucking amazing how bad it was.

[906] They had to pull the kid out of there because it was constant drugs and violence and chaos and craziness.

[907] And they're all a massive amount of kids in those areas that grow up.

[908] And it kind of makes sense if you think about it.

[909] People that have a fuckload of money, a lot of them also, they have issues with pills.

[910] Right.

[911] Or they have pills at home, or there's a shallow sort of materialistic vibe to the family.

[912] And it gets distributed to the kids, and then the kids start doing a lot of pills.

[913] It's like, it was Malibu or one of those high schools?

[914] I really wish I could remember, but they were snorting the oxies.

[915] It was like a big issue, you know?

[916] I've heard about that in Thousand Oaks, too, that they have a. problem with girls doing like there's been quite a few girls that have gotten in trouble for doing oxy -contents they're doing heroin and they're doing it in high school and these are really wealthy neighborhoods, wealthy areas.

[917] But these people are probably never around for their fucking kids.

[918] You know if you've got enough money to buy a $9 million house, you work your dick off, you know, you probably are not around that much.

[919] Yeah.

[920] I don't see how you could raise.

[921] Yeah.

[922] And the kids are raised by nannies.

[923] Yeah.

[924] In many cases.

[925] Yeah, especially in those dual career households when your wife works her ass off as well you're both working your ass off all day and then you're trying to become parents at night and it's a fucking grind that's a hard grind you know if at least a lot of poor people they involve their families in that grind you know they bring in the grandmother or you know they live in a neighborhood where there's a lot of family members nearby and they can sort of take turns taking care of all the children together which actually can turn out to be healthier as long as it's not a high crime area well that see that relates back to prehistory.

[926] You know, this whole idea.

[927] And Kisilda grew up in Mozambique, and she talked about, like, you know, at night, nobody worried about where you were.

[928] Your parents didn't worry about where you.

[929] Wherever you were or somebody, there was some adult there taking care of you being cool, you know.

[930] And you could eat dinner at somebody else's house and come home later or sleep there.

[931] You know, it's like, whatever.

[932] It sounds so utopian.

[933] Yeah.

[934] But yet not because nobody wants to live in Mozambique.

[935] You know, no one here.

[936] It's happening, man. You say that.

[937] Oh.

[938] But it's the Brazil.

[939] To go to Beverly Hills and say, hey, who wants to go to Mozambique?

[940] Yeah.

[941] They're going to go, bitch, are you crazy?

[942] They're not going to move to Mozambique.

[943] Nice beaches.

[944] And you're like, you could just let your kids go and no one needs to worry.

[945] You're like, fuck you, what, what?

[946] You're going to let your kids go at night in Africa.

[947] Yeah.

[948] Are you fucking crazy?

[949] Yeah, yeah.

[950] No one's going to believe you.

[951] That's the truth, man. So what is it like?

[952] You said it's like the Brazil.

[953] Well, I haven't been to Mozambique.

[954] So you're talking shit.

[955] I'm talking shit.

[956] But my wife grew up there.

[957] So I hear a lot about it.

[958] And she was just there a couple months ago.

[959] and she said and it's like 8 % economic growth it's Africa's booming right now because the Chinese are buying up all the natural resources they're buying up land it's it's happening wow yeah and Mozambique's uh you know famous for their amazing beaches and seafood and it's it's like a pretty raw beautiful spot on earth wow yeah yeah Africa is a trippy fucking place man the idea of leaving your kids just wandering around in Africa aren't there lions and Mozambique?

[960] Yeah, in fact, she had a German shepherd who got that got eaten by a lion when she was a kid.

[961] Christ.

[962] Yeah.

[963] Mountain lions are scary.

[964] Lions way scarier than mountain lions.

[965] Nobody gets away from the lions.

[966] But you know what kills most people in Africa.

[967] Hippos.

[968] Yeah.

[969] Fucking hippos.

[970] And ants.

[971] Oh, really?

[972] Ants are a motherfucker.

[973] That's not a good way to do.

[974] There's a video I saw once of ants.

[975] eating an elephant, and they were going up the elephant's leg into its ear.

[976] Oh, no. And they were essentially attacking this elephant, eating an ear first, just going right through the ear, and there wasn't a goddamn thing the elephant can do, stop it.

[977] Oh, man, that's not a good thing.

[978] In Alaska, you get that with mosquitoes.

[979] Yeah, I've seen that on TV.

[980] Oh, it's horrible.

[981] I've never experienced it live, but I've watched those Alaska sustenance shows.

[982] Have you ever seen those shows?

[983] I saw one or two, yeah, where they put these, like a reality show thing.

[984] No, no, no, no, no. These are actually people that live there.

[985] There are these people that there's a bunch of different ones.

[986] There's one of them called Yukon men and the other one's called Alaska, Alaska, Last Frontier.

[987] And they're essentially these people that live in these very small hunting communities, hunting fishing communities.

[988] And they make no income other than furs that they occasionally get.

[989] And they have three months of summer where they're, They're all just frantically trying to gather up resources, and then they lock down for seven, eight, nine months.

[990] Right.

[991] And it's crazy to watch.

[992] And these people in the summertime, they're dealing with fucking swarms of mosquitoes, like aggressive, desperate mosquitoes that know.

[993] And they're like in the inch across.

[994] And they know they only have a couple months.

[995] Yeah.

[996] So they just go for it.

[997] Yeah.

[998] I remember, you know, when dusk, when the mosquitoes come out, and you can see a swarm coming at you.

[999] Oh.

[1000] up your tent, you know?

[1001] And like, I remember setting up my tent and like every second moving my shirt so they couldn't like get in through the shirt.

[1002] You know, I had to keep moving the shirt while I'm setting up the tent.

[1003] And then you get in there and you can hear, it's like hail banging against the side of the tent.

[1004] You can hear them banging on the tent.

[1005] Oh my God.

[1006] Yeah, they're little helicopters.

[1007] What the fuck did people do before they figured out tents?

[1008] Well, the Eskimos, I believe that they smeared fat on their skin that would certain kinds of fat would keep the mosquitoes off them.

[1009] And they've got all sorts of really clever adaptations.

[1010] You know, we sort of assume that we would be helpless, but that's because we didn't grow up there and our culture didn't, you know?

[1011] Right.

[1012] So, and there's, you know who Wade Davis is?

[1013] No. He's an anthropologist.

[1014] He's written a bunch of books.

[1015] He's a really interesting guy.

[1016] He's like anthropologist in residence at the Smithsonian in Washington.

[1017] He wrote a book called The Wayfarers, I think, was his last book.

[1018] about traditional, like about how these guys could navigate across the Pacific, just looking at the stars and the color of the water and smelling and, you know, whatever.

[1019] Anyway, he, uh, one of the stories he tells is about this, uh, Eskimo guy, old guy and the family sort of took the keys to the car away from him.

[1020] Like, you can't go anymore.

[1021] They were afraid he would go out and die the traditional way.

[1022] When Eskimo people got old, they would just like wander off into the ice and die.

[1023] So it was not to be a burden to the family, right?

[1024] And he was a traditional guy, and they were worried that he would take the snow machine out and just die out there somewhere or hurt himself hunting or whatever.

[1025] So they had this whole intervention.

[1026] And so that night, he goes out, gets out of the house, takes a shit in his hand, forms the shit into a knife blade, spits on it, and the spit is freezing, along the edge and he hones that down so he gets a nice sharp edge with his spit takes his shit knife kills a dog or a couple of dogs and takes their uh ribs and makes a sled out of it and with the sinews and whatever other pieces of the dogs you know he knew all this stuff from his childhood hooks up a couple other dogs to the sled and he takes off into the snow on his you know, sled with his shit knife.

[1027] What?

[1028] Oh my God, that might be the most insane story I've ever heard.

[1029] And they're so clever.

[1030] You know how they kill polar bears?

[1031] I know they take blood and put it on a blade.

[1032] I know that method.

[1033] That was actually wolves.

[1034] They did that with four wolves.

[1035] The wolves would lick the blade and they would cut themselves to death.

[1036] Yeah, similar kind of thing.

[1037] What they would do is they'd make a wooden box and they would take a seal rib and sharpen the two ends of the seal rib and they're pretty flexible so they'd bend it and stick it into the box, right?

[1038] And then they'd pour melted fat into the box and let it solidify, freeze, and then they'd knock it out.

[1039] So you've got a fat cube with this flexed, two -bladed thing inside it and they'd leave that in the snow.

[1040] Polar Bear come along, swallow it, and it opens in the polar bear.

[1041] Wow.

[1042] And they just follow the blood drops.

[1043] And it would kill them?

[1044] Yeah, because internal, hemorrhaging.

[1045] How long do it take to kill him?

[1046] I don't know.

[1047] I just remember that.

[1048] I mean, there's stories like that all over the world.

[1049] You know the Indian monkey trap, the East Indian monkey trap.

[1050] I don't know how interested your readers or your listeners are and stuff.

[1051] Well, that system is, and this is a good metaphor too, as you remember this one.

[1052] They would take a, same thing, take a box with a hole about, you know, a little smaller than a fist in the box.

[1053] And then they put a mango in the box and then hammer it shut and tie it to a tree.

[1054] So the mango starts rotting.

[1055] The monkey smells it.

[1056] Monkey comes along can stick his hand in and feel the mango, but he can't get his hand out as long as he's holding on to the mango.

[1057] And they won't let go of the mango.

[1058] All they have to do is let go and they can leave.

[1059] But they've got the mango in their hands and they won't let go.

[1060] And so the guy comes around to check the traps.

[1061] There's the monkey standing there with his hand in the box, hit it on the head.

[1062] You got your monkey.

[1063] Whoa.

[1064] There's a little something about greed there That's an awesome story That is a perfect metaphor too Yeah That's amazing Wow Let go of the mango That's my advice Yeah that's a good That should be a T -shirt Not a bumper sticker You fucks Bumper sticker bad T -shirt good Shit knife is a better bumper That shit knife is a crazy fucking story But a guy killed a dog With a frozen piece of shit How stupid was that dog Like, yeah, like, what are you doing?

[1065] Was he sleeping there when this guy came up?

[1066] Like, man, you got shit in your hand?

[1067] What the fuck are you doing?

[1068] Dogs love shit.

[1069] Weren't you at Esseland?

[1070] Weren't you going to talk people into shitting in their hand or stuff like that?

[1071] Wasn't that one of your...

[1072] Yeah, I forgot.

[1073] Did I talk to you about that?

[1074] No, no. I believe you talked to Duncan.

[1075] Oh, okay.

[1076] All right.

[1077] Yeah, you were...

[1078] We were talking about wiping, you know, wiping yourself.

[1079] about how weird it is that we sort of like smudge tissue over our assholes after we shit and then in other countries that we consider these people to be savage they wash their hand you know and they wash their ass with their hand and water and we're like that is fucking crazy yeah exactly and it's the reason why your left hand is the inappropriate hand to shake hands with or to eat with or to eat with an arab and yeah and that they they always clean with their left hand.

[1080] The shit experiment, did you actually make people do that?

[1081] I didn't.

[1082] What happened?

[1083] I pussyed out.

[1084] To fucking Ted again?

[1085] Did Ted get involved, those bitches?

[1086] No balls, no shit.

[1087] Are you out of here, pal?

[1088] Do you want in the cult?

[1089] Yes or no?

[1090] They just took down a couple more videos recently.

[1091] Oh, yeah?

[1092] Yeah.

[1093] Of whose?

[1094] I forget.

[1095] Here, I'll find it.

[1096] Yeah.

[1097] I think they, but then they, like, put the Hancock and Sheldrick ones back up on a different part of the site or something?

[1098] I don't think they ever took them.

[1099] down totally.

[1100] They took them off of one part and they put it on another part and they put it up with a disclaimer because they felt like that there was poor science, that there was bad science.

[1101] Yeah, pseudoscience.

[1102] Yeah.

[1103] Which if the scientists can prove, it makes sense.

[1104] But I think that if you you're going to invite someone to talk and you're going to say that they have pseudoscience, I said at the very least you should allow them to have an appropriate response or allow them to debate you know debate them on the merits of this science exactly because I don't know who's right or who's wrong well the anonymous scientific panel that they use that's what I think is bullshit because they've got a lot of mainstream people who are going to say you know whatever ayahuasca is bullshit but you know let let Sheldrake debate that or in that case it was Hancock I think he was talking about ayahuasca you know or get Andrew Weil, who's an expert on this, or Wade Davis, actually.

[1105] Wade Davis and Andrew Weil were both graduate students of Richard Evan Schultes, who was probably the most important biotanist of the 20th century.

[1106] He's the one who discovered the plants behind and named the plants behind ayahuasca, and he did his graduate work on Paiote.

[1107] He never, he was a very, sort straight guy himself he never took any of this stuff but he discovered dozens of psychoactive plants in the amazon he's down there like 20 years um that sounds that's all great i mean that's absolutely great for expanding people's knowledge on the subject but in in their particular situation what was kind of disturbing was that on the website of ted the accusations that they had or the reasons that they had for censoring hancock's work he asked them specifically cite where i said this site where i imply this.

[1108] This is not what I said.

[1109] So he was saying that they sort of made this justification that didn't sort of jive with his talk.

[1110] Now, Rupert Cheldrake, who I think is a bit more controversial in his statements, what Hancock is trying to say is that ayahuasca has had this profound effect on humanity.

[1111] And it's based on his own actual personal experiences taking it, the experiences of other people that have taken it, the idea being that this indigenous population was not the only peoples that have discovered psychedelic plants, but then in fact, there's a cave art that details people in altered states of consciousness, also details what they believe to be certain psychedelic substances, and that it's most likely responsible for a lot of art. And I think that's a pretty reasonable thing to say.

[1112] And if you don't think it's reasonable, the only thing I could say is I doubt you've had any psychedelic experiences because psychedelic experiences would be incredibly profound to primitive man. And to state any less seems to me that you're not being honest, you're ignorant, you're either ignorant of the effects of these things or you're not being honest about the effects of these things because you're worried about the perception that mainstream academia, that most people in the media, when you start talking about mushrooms, they think you're a silly person.

[1113] You're a fool.

[1114] There it is again, right?

[1115] That's the institution determining the information that's allowed to flow through that institution.

[1116] Yeah, I interviewed Charles Grob a couple weeks ago who's at UCLA.

[1117] He's a psychiatrist at UCLA who uses psilocybin.

[1118] I think he's also used MDMA in psychotherapy with people who have end -stage cancer to help them.

[1119] It's been very effective in helping them deal with the fear of death.

[1120] Yes.

[1121] Because of the sort of transcendent experience that often accompanies these substances, they feel a sense of union with the universe.

[1122] They lose a lot of that, you know, I'm just my body feeling, which helps them deal with death.

[1123] So transfer that to what you're saying about hunter -gatherer people or pre -agricultural people around the world or post -agricultural people.

[1124] Soma in India and a lot of the Ulysses, no, the Elysian fields in ancient Greeks, a lot of these rituals were apparently based on Aminita Muscaria, which is a highly hallucinogenic.

[1125] It's the red mushroom with the white spots in Alice in Wonderland and, yeah, Santa Claus.

[1126] The Santa Claus connection is very famous.

[1127] The Aminita Muscaria is Soma?

[1128] Is that been proven?

[1129] No, it's a theory that was proposed by Gordon Wanda.

[1130] who um this is all stuff you can like mine stanley on saturday he was like stanley met um uh the woman the shaman in mexico who brought mushrooms into the western world um maria sabina maria i think is their name um anyway the the point i was making is that you know here's this guy using the stuff to alleviate the fear of death with dramatic results and yet as you say it's still considered fringe.

[1131] Although, relating back to our earlier conversation about institutions being in the state of crisis, because people sort of recognize the false values in these institutions, the government's finally allowing research in this stuff.

[1132] Yeah.

[1133] Yeah, really.

[1134] And it's a pretty radical findings.

[1135] The John Hopkins study on psilocybin and behavioral change and how it just one trip affected people's behavior and personalities positively 20 years later.

[1136] And what Hancock was talking about was specifically the effect of some hallucinogens on addiction.

[1137] And he was using his own personal addiction to cannabis.

[1138] He had a lifelong history of abuse, as he called it, with cannabis.

[1139] And he did say, and sorry to interrupt you, but just the last point on that, I didn't listen to Sheldrake's thing, but I did listen to Hancock.

[1140] And he framed the whole thing in, I think, very scientific terms.

[1141] He said, this may have caused this leap forward in consciousness.

[1142] This may have been responsible for this and that.

[1143] It's absolutely a fascinating possibility to consider.

[1144] And the only people, in my opinion, that would not consider it are, again, people that have had no experiences with it or people that were worried about the mainstream academic approval.

[1145] And so they step back and go, oh, this is preposterous.

[1146] You know, no, this is not.

[1147] It's an incredibly powerful experience.

[1148] It cannot be denied.

[1149] And yet, for whatever reason, we've lumped it into silliness.

[1150] I really, I struggle with that.

[1151] Or criminality, yes, even more scary than silliness.

[1152] Yeah.

[1153] I've really, it's really boggled my mind.

[1154] And the only thing that makes sense is that it's ignorance.

[1155] It's the illegality of it, which was hoisted onto the American people in the 1970s, when they were just trying to, like, control this mass change in culture that had happened so radically between the 50s and the 60s.

[1156] And we lost a lot of information in that.

[1157] And we also got a lot of people that were scared.

[1158] scared about going to jail, scared about losing their jobs, and all that fear and ignorance clouds the actual argument.

[1159] It clouds the actual facts that surround these weird substances.

[1160] And they're not the cure -all.

[1161] They're not for everybody.

[1162] But what they are is incredibly powerful experiences.

[1163] I don't think that can be denied.

[1164] And to deny the impact of one of the most amazing transcendental experiences that a human being can ever possibly experience and the fact that it's an orally active thing that it grows all over the place where these people absolutely lived to deny the connection seems like really silly it doesn't it seems like you're you're being a fool and you're ignoring information and people all over the world who have access to these plants wherever you find them consider them to be the greatest gift of the gods yes and then you've got our culture that says if you get caught with, what, an ounce of psilocybin mushrooms or 100 hits of asset at a Grateful Dead show, you go to prison under minimum mandatory sentencing for longer than second -degree murder.

[1165] What the fuck is that?

[1166] That's complete pure insanity.

[1167] That's insanity, but what's even more insanity is to me that people in positions of prominence academically who will talk on these subjects have not had this experience.

[1168] And I'm like, my God, your children.

[1169] And it sounds so arrogant to say that.

[1170] But someone who's, like, talking about the negative effects of psychedelic drugs that hasn't had psychedelic drugs will feel like a child after he has a mushroom chip.

[1171] You will feel like a fool.

[1172] You will feel like you are the dumbest person in the world to have ignored that and poo -pooed that.

[1173] Take six grams of mushrooms, get in an isolation tank, and tell me you don't have some regrets for how you looked at that shit before.

[1174] Right.

[1175] They're not having it.

[1176] And these are the same people that are pulling these things down.

[1177] I guarantee you, the people that have had profound mushroom trips are not interested in silencing this Graham Hancock war on consciousness, which originally was called beating, I think, something about the green bitch.

[1178] He originally defeating the green bitch, which was his addiction to cannabis and how the ayahuasca helped him see who he was, his abusive relationship.

[1179] He's a really fascinating guy because he's not down on marijuana at all.

[1180] He sort of attributes it to his own abuse of it and, like, using it as a crutch instead of using it to enhance.

[1181] You know, so he had whatever addictive issues he had, that's how they, I mean, that is a real issue with addiction, right?

[1182] It's like it's not necessarily the substance and the biological triggers.

[1183] It's what's going on with you that makes you obsessed with scratch tickets.

[1184] Who's the guy, the British actor's, skinny comedian, really funny guy sleeping with all the one of the women.

[1185] Russell Brand?

[1186] Thank you.

[1187] We should play.

[1188] This is what happens when you get old, man. I can't remember.

[1189] The gay guy with the fucking planes.

[1190] You give me my brain.

[1191] I'll just stick in the air.

[1192] Massage guy.

[1193] He likes massages.

[1194] Russell Brand wrote a thing recently about addiction.

[1195] And he said something I thought it was really wise.

[1196] He said, drugs weren't my problem.

[1197] Drugs were my answer to my problem.

[1198] Ah.

[1199] And it's exactly what you just said.

[1200] And I agree completely.

[1201] Drugs aren't causing the addiction.

[1202] You've got an addiction.

[1203] It can manifest in marijuana, in gambling, in jerking off, in a million different ways.

[1204] And if you locate the problem in the substance, then you'll never solve the problem because that's just a symptom.

[1205] But there is a physiological issue that goes along with that as well.

[1206] Because there's two types of situations.

[1207] There's the gambling situation where you're sort of getting addicted to the response.

[1208] But then there's a real, like, an oxy cotton thing.

[1209] Like I have a friend who had a back operation.

[1210] And then after his back operation, they threw him on some oxies, and he was fucked up for a long time.

[1211] He started getting prescriptions from more than one different doctor, and he was a mess.

[1212] And he just went, ah, just went into this crazy spiral, and it was absolutely a physiological addiction.

[1213] Because before that, he really didn't exhibit crazy addictive or impulsive behaviors, and they were manifested itself with his bills.

[1214] But his situation changed with that pain.

[1215] And the gambler is also getting a chemical...

[1216] high.

[1217] Yes.

[1218] You know, the brain is releasing endorphins or whatever it is in that case.

[1219] So, you know, you could argue they're both physiological on some level.

[1220] But yeah, the point is that there's some, in his case, it was chronic pain.

[1221] Right.

[1222] In another case, it could be PTSD.

[1223] It could be, you know, fucked up childhood.

[1224] It could be whatever.

[1225] That is a funny way to look at that I never think, I don't think I ever looked at it that way before, that it is still a chemical addiction.

[1226] It's just sort of an endogenous one.

[1227] Yeah.

[1228] Yeah.

[1229] That's funny.

[1230] I never thought about it that way.

[1231] I always knocked it off to a behavioral thing.

[1232] Yeah.

[1233] I mean, orgasm.

[1234] You know, those people would jerk off in front of the computer all day.

[1235] There's some...

[1236] We're talking to you.

[1237] Yeah, that's you.

[1238] That's you, you motherfucker.

[1239] You know you are.

[1240] Yeah.

[1241] Yeah, that's...

[1242] Well, that's also sort of, it becomes like impulsive.

[1243] Like, it's not even a reward sometimes.

[1244] It just sort of repeat a pattern.

[1245] Like, you're stuck like you're a scratch record.

[1246] What hurts when you stop, right?

[1247] And that's what addiction is, right?

[1248] It hurts when you stop.

[1249] You were talking earlier we were talking about primitive so -called primitive societies and stuff.

[1250] You reminded me of this amazing story I read recently where this BBC team went into Papua New Guinea, way back some river and they were doing a special on these very so -called primitive people back there, you know, no internet no nothing.

[1251] And one of the guys, after they'd finished filming, one of the guys said, well, we've shown you our world, why don't you bring me to your world?

[1252] I'd like to see your world.

[1253] So when he was back in London, he talked to some people and they said, well, okay, we'll fund it.

[1254] That would be an interesting thing.

[1255] Bring these guys into London and do this whole thing sort of in reverse.

[1256] It's a sitcom.

[1257] What's that?

[1258] It's a sitcom.

[1259] Yeah, reality show.

[1260] These dudes from the jungle.

[1261] Everything's a fucking reality show.

[1262] Stick them in London.

[1263] Yeah.

[1264] So they...

[1265] It's Jersey Shore for the UK.

[1266] So this guy, his concern was that once this guy saw the modern world, he would never want to go home.

[1267] So he called up an anthropologist and he said, look, I'm really worried about this.

[1268] I'd like to do this, but I'm, and the anthropologist said, you arrogant asshole.

[1269] You really think this guy is going to be so impressed by London that he'd never want to go back to his friends and family and, you know, his whole world and all that.

[1270] Just calm down.

[1271] That's not going to happen, right?

[1272] So they fly this guy, a few guys up to London.

[1273] They take them all around, show them, you know, whatever, all these different things.

[1274] And one of the things they really wanted to see was something like an archery range.

[1275] So they took them to this archery range, and they were so fascinated by the arrows that had feathers on the arrows.

[1276] Oh, the fletchings.

[1277] Yeah, their feathers didn't have arrows.

[1278] Oh, their arrows didn't have feathers.

[1279] Sorry, their arrows didn't have feathers.

[1280] So anyway, at the end of this whole experience of being in London, the only thing they wanted to take back was this knowledge of how you put the feathers on the arrow.

[1281] They weren't interested in an iPhone.

[1282] You know what the moral to that story is?

[1283] What's that?

[1284] London ain't Tahiti.

[1285] That's the moral to that story.

[1286] That is the moral.

[1287] It's a lot far from Tahiti.

[1288] The anthropologists would be like, yeah, they're not going on.

[1289] Exactly.

[1290] London.

[1291] Don't even try to get them on a ship.

[1292] Drunk, white -like paper, eating fish and chips.

[1293] They're going to want to get the fuck out of there as quickly as they got there.

[1294] I agree.

[1295] New Guinea's a trip, man. Because New Guinea has those semen warriors.

[1296] Yeah.

[1297] That's one of the weirdest.

[1298] I was going to bring that up earlier when we were talking about these patterns that sort of develop in these tribal societies.

[1299] One of the most bizarre ones is these, they take young boys away from their mother when they're like six or seven and they live with men that are the like anal father and anal son.

[1300] Like that's how they call it.

[1301] And the man just fucks these kids and they believe that the kid has to start.

[1302] swallow and ingest semen into his body in order for him to grow up strong and be a man. Right.

[1303] And that they only use women for procreation.

[1304] Right.

[1305] That this entire culture of thousands of people is wrapped around little kids sucking guys' dicks to grow old, to grow strong.

[1306] Right.

[1307] That is, that is one of the craziest ones I've ever written, or read, rather, that yeah.

[1308] Yeah.

[1309] That somehow know that they convince thousands of people into that one I mean what's the origins of that Oh who knows You know No one knows No way to know But you find stuff like that All over the world Just like getting his dick sucked Yeah Like one one pope Can just ruin a whole damn religion Maybe there were missionaries Because you know that happened in the Amazon There's a case of Liseau was his name He's a French missionary He was the Or an anthropologist He wasn't a missionary He was an anthropologist Who studied under the great French Levi Strauss and he went to the Yanomami people in Venezuela and he was fucking all the boys and doing all this crazy shit and telling them that this was the way it worked in the world and you know he's still there I think he's still alive this is part of the whole Napoleon Shagnon situation I don't know if you're familiar with that no yeah it's very controversial stuff that happened Shagnon is he wrote the fierce people which is the best Silling Anthropology book of all time.

[1310] And he was like a Hemingway kind of guy.

[1311] And he just published a book recently talking about trying to redeem his reputation.

[1312] Because it turns out, like what he did was he went to the Amazon in the late 60s, or the Orinoco, really, which is a tributary of the Amazon in Venezuela.

[1313] And he was studying the Yanomami people.

[1314] And he wrote a thesis and calling them.

[1315] the fierce people saying that they killed each other at such high rates, and this justifies this Hobbesian view of the origins of human violence that were really nasty, and so we need these governments and religions to keep us in check.

[1316] And, you know, it's very political, right?

[1317] But he was just saying it's anthropology.

[1318] But it resonated with the culture.

[1319] Vietnam was happening, and there's all this, you know, discussion of what, why are we violent?

[1320] Is it our nature or is it institutional, you know, the whole hippies versus the institution debate.

[1321] So anyway, he wrote this book and it was a huge bestseller and he became super famous.

[1322] Turns out that when he went into this area, he brought lots of machetes.

[1323] And these people didn't have lots of machetes.

[1324] They didn't have metal tools at all.

[1325] So he brings in the machetes and he starts giving the machetes to certain groups in exchange for their cooperation.

[1326] And his research was on genealogy.

[1327] So he needed to get the name of ancestors but it turns out that the Anomami it's a great taboo to ever say the name of a dead person so what he would do was say okay I'll give you this machete if you tell me the names of the father and grandfather of that guy from that other village so he would bribe them to get this information but that's a great taboo to say the names of that guy's father or grandfather right so then he would go to the other village and as a way to confirm whether the information was correct he would say so and so over there said your father and grandfather were blah blah blah and blah blah blah and if they got really pissed off he knew it was correct so that would confirm his information then they would break it they would have all these wars and they kill each other with these machetes and then he reported back saying oh the yonomami are very fierce destructive you know warlike people and this is the origins of humanity and yada yada yada fucking bullshit yeah that's amazing yeah so there's a book called darkness in El Dorado that came out a few years ago.

[1328] It was a big bestseller and exposed a lot of this stuff.

[1329] And it also went further and accused him of genocide, him and this other guy, Neil, for, it accused them of using a vaccination program as a way to sort of test immune responses.

[1330] And that appears to be false.

[1331] That appears not to have been true, right?

[1332] But the other stuff with the machetes and sewing violence and all that and then reporting that they're And the molestation from the other guy.

[1333] That's the other guy.

[1334] Yeah.

[1335] Yeah, that's true as well.

[1336] What a fucking group of victimized people trying to just get along and these white people come along and fuck everything up again.

[1337] And they even, I write about them in sex, the situation in sex at dawn.

[1338] And they even, the Anamami have a special word called, I think it's anthro, which means like a crazy destructive white person.

[1339] So he's not even allowed ever to go back to Venezuela.

[1340] He's barred from the country.

[1341] Wow.

[1342] Yeah.

[1343] Yeah.

[1344] I don't know why I was talking about that.

[1345] I don't remember what tangent.

[1346] It doesn't matter.

[1347] It's, it's, well, it's just the distortion of, you know, the, our image of these people and how these crazy cultures can erupt.

[1348] And that might have been missionaries that caused these guys to blow all these kids.

[1349] Yeah.

[1350] And by the time, oh, that's what it was.

[1351] Kids blow them rather.

[1352] I mean, you see these interesting sexual practices all over the world.

[1353] And so they, a lot of stuff, you know, that one I was talking about that one last night at a cocktail party in Venice, actually.

[1354] I was talking with this gay guy, and we were talking about how, you know, we think we know what it means to be gay.

[1355] But you look at a culture like that and you say, well, are they gay?

[1356] I don't think they consider it to be normal sexual development, conventional, you know, that's what you do.

[1357] Or the Maasai, the Maasai, you know, the herdsmen who drink blood and milk in Kenya, they have a similar sort of thing where the younger boys go out on these long, you know, when they're out with the herds for weeks or months.

[1358] at a time, they go out with the older boys, and the older boys will have sex with them, not anal sex, but they'll put their penis between the thighs of the younger boy.

[1359] That was how the Romans did it as well.

[1360] Right.

[1361] Yeah, there's a name for that.

[1362] I can't remember the word, a specific word for that.

[1363] Either way, it's still gay.

[1364] Let them know.

[1365] Well, that's the thing.

[1366] They would say it's not because then they get older.

[1367] They marry a woman.

[1368] They have kids.

[1369] That's just normal growing up.

[1370] Normal fuckery.

[1371] Yeah.

[1372] Now, I think once you know what kind of a damaging effect that has on the young boys.

[1373] But it doesn't.

[1374] That's the thing.

[1375] If it's considered normal, it doesn't.

[1376] Don't knock it until you thigh it.

[1377] Oh, how dare you?

[1378] How dare you?

[1379] He was so proud of something like that.

[1380] Yeah, he was saving that one up.

[1381] I was hanging out with Hinchcliff too long.

[1382] The idea, though, that it's not going to have an effect is only based on the fact that they're going to do it to more young boys and they're not going to complain.

[1383] And that's one of the weird things about sexual abuse is that it sort of re -manifest itself in the victim.

[1384] And they sort of start to become the accuser.

[1385] I mean, they also become the perpetrator.

[1386] In fact, a guy I was speaking to recently who identifies as gay, he said to me, I don't think I was born gay.

[1387] I think I'm gay because I was sexually abused as a child by my stepfather.

[1388] from the time I was three, and we got into this whole discussion of how there's a term erotic plasticity and how different it is for men and women.

[1389] In men and males of other mammals, there seems to be a developmental window where we imprint something, and that window closes, and if you got an imprint, that sticks with you for life, which is why virtually all fetishists are men, right?

[1390] There are a lot of men, who will say, well, I can't get off unless, you know, there's latex or she's wearing red high -heeled shoes or she's got this or that, right?

[1391] You know, women don't say that.

[1392] Like women, you know, they're much more flexible and they adapt to the situation.

[1393] So the idea is that if during that window you're imprinted with male, male sex and pleasure involved with that, then you could sort of like have that as a fetish, even though you were born, you know, your sort of genetic components or your brain development or whatever there are different theories, is heterosexual.

[1394] So they're different, according to this idea, there are different ways to be gay.

[1395] You could be born gay or you could be gay as a fetish in a way.

[1396] But anyway, related to what you're saying about the trauma, there's research showing that what really causes the trauma is the shame generated by the culture.

[1397] That boy, who are what we would call sexually abused or girls who are sexually abused at a young age if there's not pain involved, right, if it's inappropriate touching or whatever.

[1398] The trauma comes about when they're told that was really bad, and they're told that that's a horrible thing that happened.

[1399] It doesn't necessarily come about from the experience itself.

[1400] And I don't mean this as to justify anything or give anyone covered.

[1401] Aren't there a variety of different types of experiences?

[1402] Are these consensual and just innocent or are these actual hold you down rape?

[1403] Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

[1404] Physical pain is a whole different thing.

[1405] If it's just two little kids dittling each other.

[1406] Right.

[1407] You know, some mothers would say that's abuse.

[1408] That's a horrible, oh my God, what happened?

[1409] The best thing to do is just say, hey, nothing happened.

[1410] You know, it's no big deal.

[1411] Right.

[1412] And there are psychological studies showing that the lasting effects are negligible unless it's framed as oh my god what happened that completely makes sense as does the framing thing the framing thing completely makes sense as well that there's like something happens in their life and they just get imprinted and that that's uh i mean otherwise why would so many abuse victims become abusers themselves you would think that like you'd the last thing you would do is to repeat that right oh my god that's the thing that fucked you up and ruined you you you you would say like man I would never want to do this to another person right and that would be how we would evolve so it seems like there's like a hitch in the developmental process yeah that allows weird things just to be accepted and become the standard right they become eroticized and associated with pleasure and so you try to relive them later there's a great experiment with um it happened in scotland i think where they took uh one year they had like a herd of goats and a herd of sheep and so they took all the babies, all the baby goats, and they put them with the sheep.

[1413] And they took all the baby sheep and put them with the goats.

[1414] So they were raised thinking they were the other species, right?

[1415] So all the goats grew up around the sheep thinking I'm just a weird looking sheep, right?

[1416] And vice versa.

[1417] So they waited until they got sexually mature and started having sex, and then they switched them back.

[1418] And what happened was that the males refused to have sex with their own species.

[1419] Because they had learned that, no, no, like the male goats had learned, like, I fuck sheep.

[1420] And the male sheep, no, no, I fuck goats.

[1421] The females were like, yeah, whatever.

[1422] You know, they just sort of like went with it.

[1423] But the males refused.

[1424] They were stuck with it because they were imprinted and that was it.

[1425] That is fascinating.

[1426] Yeah.

[1427] What the fuck evolutionary purposes at play?

[1428] Who knows?

[1429] That's a good question.

[1430] I don't know, but it's a common mistake, I would say, and I'm not saying just among people reading books for the first time among experts.

[1431] There's a mistake of thinking that everything has an evolutionary function.

[1432] I say sometimes it could just be the tide went that way and that's what happened.

[1433] Right.

[1434] And there's something Stephen Jay Gould, the great evolutionary theorist, called spandrels, which are things that look like they have a function but they're actually sort of a side effect of something else.

[1435] You know, like the chin.

[1436] You know, why did the chin evolve the way it did?

[1437] Well, We have a word for this thing.

[1438] We call the chin, but it's not actually a thing.

[1439] It's where the two jawbones fuse.

[1440] So it exists as a linguistic concept, but not necessarily as a biological concept.

[1441] So they're weird, you know, they're murky waters you can get lost in when you're looking at evolutionary stuff.

[1442] And you always, I advise people, if you say what's the evolutionary function of that, be clear on what that is and that it actually would necessarily have an evolutionary function, you know?

[1443] I've always been fascinated by why, at the same time, all over the world, people who are human beings or who can breed with each other, but have such incredibly varied ways of behaving.

[1444] Yeah.

[1445] And that this has always been this way.

[1446] I'm really into this Dan Carlin podcast recently.

[1447] He's got this podcast called Hardcore History, and he does this really detailed history of the Mongols over like five five episodes and it's amazing.

[1448] It's amazing.

[1449] It's just fucking craziness.

[1450] The way these people just took over Europe and just conquered and just the madness and how they were so different from anyone that existed at that time and that they were so extreme and intense but at the same time that they lived somewhere in the Amazon there were a bunch of people doing ayahuasca and eating fish and And, you know, polyamorous people.

[1451] And it's amazing that this all took place all along during the same time.

[1452] Do you ever read The Travels of Marco Polo?

[1453] No. You know the story?

[1454] Yes.

[1455] It's like 1 ,400s or something like that, or 1 ,300s.

[1456] And he went to, he was with the Mongols.

[1457] Wow.

[1458] And he walked all across Asia on the, they call the spice route with his uncles.

[1459] And, yeah, he was with, I don't know if it was Genghis Khan or Kublai Khan or, which of the Mongol kings it was.

[1460] And along the way, talking about interesting people, he stayed with the Mosuo people of southwestern China, who still exist and apparently still have this very interesting marital, well, not even marital, sexual behavior, where both men and women are completely autonomous, sexual beings.

[1461] You have sex with whomever you want.

[1462] There's no slut shaming.

[1463] There's no shame involved with multiple partners.

[1464] whatever, you do what you want.

[1465] When a girl becomes sexually mature, she gets her own room, called a flower room that has a door that opens into the central courtyard of her mother's house where she lives, and also has a door that opens into the street.

[1466] And so that girl from, you know, 13, 14, whatever sexual maturity, she can let anyone she wants come in and spend the night in her room with her.

[1467] The only rule is he can't be there for breakfast, right?

[1468] So no, nobody's invited for breakfast, get out by sunrise, but she can sleep with whoever she wants.

[1469] Then what happens when she gets pregnant is that the child is cared for by her brothers and her sisters.

[1470] So as a man, your paternal responsibility is to your sister's kids, not to your biological child.

[1471] In fact, biological fatherhood is a non -issue in a society.

[1472] That's amazing.

[1473] Yeah, really interesting society.

[1474] It's, it's the, and, um, Marco Polo stayed with them and he wrote about them.

[1475] And he thought, typical Italian, right?

[1476] He thought that like he was screwing these women behind the men's backs and, you know, play, Michael Polo was getting some.

[1477] He was getting some.

[1478] He just thought he was slick.

[1479] He thought he was a cool guy, but it turns out the women were just like, yo, foreigners.

[1480] That's funny.

[1481] It's, it is amazing when you think about the variables.

[1482] It's amazing when you think about the variety of different cultures that evolve simultaneously all over the world and how is it their environment that causes that or is it this is it missionaries move in and give them machetes and talk about their ancestors i mean the the various the various things that happen are so um and i know i confuse those two stories the missionary and the researcher yeah but it's all you know what i mean yeah and smallpox comes in oh yeah and then you get the ice ages and you know also yeah but i i i tend to be a materialist.

[1483] There's a book of cultural materialism by Marvin Harris, which is a great book.

[1484] He wrote a more popular book called Cannibals and Kings, which covers some of the same stuff.

[1485] And he, like, he looked at things like, why are some societies cannibals and others aren't, right?

[1486] So you've got the clash of European societies and the Aztecs and the Mayan and all that.

[1487] And so, you know, you can't say the Europeans weren't bloodthirsty, you know, crazy killers.

[1488] They just didn't eat what they killed, the people they killed, whereas the Aztecs were killing the people, or eating the people they killed.

[1489] Why is that?

[1490] Or why on some South Pacific Islands were the people cannibalistic and others they weren't, right?

[1491] So what he did was he did a materialistic analysis.

[1492] And what he found was that without exception, in the societies that were cannibalistic, there was no other source of protein that didn't compete with humans for the same food.

[1493] So like they didn't have pigs, right?

[1494] Pigs will eat stuff humans can't eat, right?

[1495] So you can raise pigs without feeding them your own food.

[1496] But dogs, you feed them stuff you would eat, because dogs eat eat meat, right?

[1497] So in Mexico, there was nothing that they could raise, no animal that could be domesticated, that they could raise for meat.

[1498] And so that's why they ate the dead people because they were protein starved.

[1499] Wow.

[1500] And then he applied that same thing to the different islands in the South Pacific and he found the same thing.

[1501] And American Indians, Native Americans in the harshest climates were the ones that were tending towards cannibalism, like towards the Great Lakes, like the Native American people from the Great Lakes area.

[1502] Those are the ones that there's the stories of them cannibalizing people.

[1503] Yeah.

[1504] Yeah.

[1505] And you also have to look at, uh, yeah, and midwinter.

[1506] Yeah.

[1507] Sure.

[1508] But also in in that kind of thing, you want to look at ritualistic.

[1509] Yes.

[1510] Cannibalism versus like, okay, dinner time, you know.

[1511] Yeah.

[1512] Because they, they had some.

[1513] some interesting torture ceremonies as well in those Canadian Great Lakes, Iroquois, kind of, it was an honor to be tortured to death.

[1514] Oh, Jesus.

[1515] The Steve Ronella guy that I was telling you about his book, Meat Eater, he told me some crazy stories about the people that lived, like, off the Missouri River, like in Montana and, you know, the trappers and all these different people that have, like, these conflicts with the Indians and how they would kill them.

[1516] And there was a lot of cannibalism going on.

[1517] A lot more than I would have ever imagined.

[1518] It's because that's not really something that gets brought up in high school history.

[1519] You know, they don't really tell you, oh, by the way, and he occasionally used to eat people.

[1520] Yeah.

[1521] As did the settlers, I'm sure.

[1522] You know, the Donner Party.

[1523] North America itself is one of the most spectacular examples of how quickly things can change.

[1524] Yeah, you're right.

[1525] If you stop and think about North America just a thousand years ago, just 1 ,000, anywhere in Europe, 1 ,000 is like, there's still people, man. There's still nuttiness.

[1526] I've hung out in bars that were more than 1 ,000 years old.

[1527] I'm sure.

[1528] What is the oldest bar in, like, London?

[1529] Isn't there like a bar that's from like the fucking...

[1530] Yeah, I don't know.

[1531] Barcelona, I could take you to them.

[1532] How old is it?

[1533] Well, the oldest continually open bar is from the 1700s.

[1534] It's Amiral, Bar Amiral.

[1535] I've been there many times.

[1536] But the place I'm thinking of, of when I've said 1 ,000 years old, it's a bar down in the Gautico section of Barcelona where one wall of the bar is a Roman wall from the original Roman building that was there.

[1537] So you're like leaning up against the Roman wall drinking your beer.

[1538] It's really cool.

[1539] Holy shit.

[1540] Not America.

[1541] And that's 2 ,000 years old.

[1542] A thousand years ago, no Manhattan, no Los Angeles, no Chicago, no Atlanta, just stop and think of that alone just what radical changes to the landscape we've seen over the past few hundred years forget a thousand thousand years ago you wind up in New York on a boat and what are you looking at looking at some fucking wooden shacks that were huddled up together eating beaver pelts the fuck are you looking at you know this thing has changed so fast I met a guy at a wedding a few years ago who was like one of the world's leading experts on sea Sounds kind of boring, right?

[1543] But we ended up talking about Wampum, and he told me something I'd never read anywhere, which, you know, Wampum, right?

[1544] It was made from seashells.

[1545] This was like the money.

[1546] I know that the name, but I don't know.

[1547] It was money.

[1548] It was money.

[1549] That Native Americans used in the Northeast, right, when the Dutch first arrived and the very early days of New York, it reminded me of it.

[1550] It was made from a particular type of seashell that only grew in a certain area.

[1551] So like all currencies, it had a very restricted source, you know, like gold or whatever, beaver pelts or whatever it was.

[1552] By the way, you know, that's why 20 bucks, that's deerskins.

[1553] That deer skins were used as currency in the colonial period.

[1554] Yeah, that's why we say 20 bucks.

[1555] Yeah.

[1556] But anyway, so the wampum, they'd make these belts of wampum that you could use to buy and sell things, right?

[1557] So the Dutch, clever bastards that they are, figured out how they were making this wampum.

[1558] And what sort of seashells it was.

[1559] And they learned to cultivate that particular mollus.

[1560] So they were basically printing, you know, counterfeit wampum.

[1561] Wow.

[1562] So they didn't even just rip off the Indians when they bought Manhattan.

[1563] They bought it with fake money.

[1564] Holy shit.

[1565] Fake Indian money.

[1566] That's hilarious.

[1567] They bought it with seashells.

[1568] Imagine how much our condo goes for now and just think that the whole thing went for seashells.

[1569] That's a lot of sea shells.

[1570] That's a change.

[1571] in the real estate market right there.

[1572] You know what I love, I lived in Manhattan for a few years, and last year I was there, I worked on a construction site, and since we're just talking randomly interesting things here, the guy, one of the laborers on the construction site explained to me why the buildings are really high in Midtown, and then they go down, and then they go back up, and they're high again down in Wall Street in the financial district.

[1573] You know, if you look at Manhattan from New Jersey or from Queens or Brooklyn or whatever, I always thought that was just like, you know, what you're saying, it's like there are all these strange things that come together, whether it's finance or, you know, whatever happenstance, somebody wanted to build here or there.

[1574] Turns out, no, there's a logic to this.

[1575] And the logic is that the rock, the geological rock, comes up near the surface at Midtown, and then it goes way down again, and there's, you know, Soho and the village and all that, and then it comes back up close to the surface at Wall Street.

[1576] So to build a really tall building, you have to drill, anchor it into the rock.

[1577] So you can't do that where there's a lot of dirt.

[1578] You'd have to dig down so far to get to it.

[1579] You'd like excavate the hole.

[1580] So you can only build a 50 -story building where the bedrock is close to the surface and you can anchor it into there, right?

[1581] So it's stable.

[1582] Totally makes sense.

[1583] So what you're seeing when you look at that skyline is like an echo of the geology of the island.

[1584] Wow.

[1585] Is that interesting?

[1586] That is absolutely fascinating.

[1587] It brings me up to this quote I was going to bring up earlier when you talked about Marshall McLuhan.

[1588] A lot of folks don't know who Marshall McLuhan was, but he said a lot of amazing things.

[1589] And one of the things he said, I think it was like in either the 50s, I think he said in the 50s, he said that man becomes the sex organs of the machine world.

[1590] That's beautiful.

[1591] This is the craziest statement ever if you stop and think about how premature it was or how, or how.

[1592] precocious it was to say that in whatever he said at 1950 or 1960 and look at what's going on now with our symbiotic connection to technology the true machine that's taking over that's i'm writing that down because i'm going to use that thing i've thought about that so many times without even having read his quote but i wasn't able to put it so eloquently in my head is that if that they look like a life form i mean i have skeletons in my garage it's an old mac old shitty fucking like tan thing with the stupid rainbow apple on it I have one of those things it's like really old and it's hilarious I look at it I'm like this is like a dinosaur so might as well be like a dead dinosaur a dead useless thing and now you know we don't have dinosaurs anymore now we got chickens you know now we got whatever yeah I mean it really does seem like yeah I wrote an article about the future of sex for this European called the European magazine it's like it's a German magazine but they publish in english as well they asked me to write this thing a few months ago and I could have used that McLuhan quote that was really good but I said like basically the way I see the future of sex is peeling off in two different possible directions depending upon whether there's world collapse or not and if there's not I see us as many people do merging with machines what they call it a singularity but also in terms of sexuality that you know now we've got fleshlights but in a few years we're going to have holographic images we're going to have like the technology is always driven by this sexual hunger there's a book called the erotic engine where this guy argues that every communication advance was driven by money coming from erotic energy you know VHS tapes and the DVDs and the internet like all the first money's coming in for porn you know you Even photography.

[1593] First adapters, first -time adapters, like HTML5 and all that.

[1594] As soon as people realize that the iPhone wasn't going to go with Flash and that HTML5 seemed like the future when it comes to animated things online, porn went right to it.

[1595] Sure.

[1596] You know, whereas a lot of websites, still you go to it on an iPhone, and it'll show you the Adobe thing, not supported and not porn.

[1597] They figured out right away.

[1598] They're on the ball.

[1599] Yeah, they got to make it so you can watch people.

[1600] a fuck on your phone.

[1601] Isn't it amazing, though, that that is sort of, again, in the closet.

[1602] It's sort of a background sort of reality, like all the banks in Miami being funded by cocaine.

[1603] Right.

[1604] Everybody knows it, but nobody talks about it.

[1605] You know, why is there so many banks in Miami?

[1606] Because that's where the fucking cocaine came from.

[1607] Right.

[1608] Why is technology moving towards HTML5?

[1609] Why is, you know, what is online streaming technology?

[1610] Where's its roots?

[1611] Its roots are people watching people fuck.

[1612] That's where they got it down.

[1613] That's where they got really good at it.

[1614] Yeah, that's where the money is.

[1615] And that might, I mean, what percentage of that was responsible for the development of the CD -ROM?

[1616] What percentage of that?

[1617] You know, how much, I would like to know.

[1618] Check up the erotic engine.

[1619] He talks about all that, yeah.

[1620] Because before the Internet came along, I mean, how many people bought movies is supposed to how many people bought dirty movies?

[1621] What was the share of the market?

[1622] It's a big fucking chunk, right?

[1623] Yeah.

[1624] Well, and the cinemas, you know?

[1625] that was another thing from your book that I found completely fascinating that I didn't think about was how we have this idea of corporate America not being not profiting in porn but how in fact like chains of hotels are like the biggest porn providers in the world yeah yeah they're making huge proportion of their profits from those on demand movies last week when I was in San Diego I literally went through whole entire list of porn because they were so funny titles it was probably 300 titles that they just had there and they're selling for like what 20 bucks yeah i think 10 dollars whatever it is i mean that's pure profit at a certain point you know once they pay the the the licensing fee off or whatever it is so them and you know what was the other example you had of uh people that were profiting off a porn that you would not expect yeah i don't remember the the corporate thing you're talking about.

[1626] And I think the corporation in question might have been Coca -Cola or somebody owned by Mormons or something.

[1627] It was some like really conservative public image, but they were the biggest supplier to the hotel chains.

[1628] Yeah, and there were...

[1629] That would be hilarious.

[1630] It's only anal.

[1631] Chick -fil -A is only into chickens and dicks and asses.

[1632] That's it.

[1633] The other day I interviewed Nina Hartley from my podcast.

[1634] She's really interesting.

[1635] I had to run away from her.

[1636] She was on Kevin Perey's podcast, and as soon as she was talking about how she only has sex with gloves on, I was like, bitch.

[1637] Did she say that?

[1638] You lost me. You lost me, bitch.

[1639] I got to go.

[1640] She only has sex with gloves on?

[1641] She's all into fissing and fingering and assholes and pussies, and she doesn't want fingernails.

[1642] I mean, it makes sense, but she's a goddamn professional.

[1643] She's got this clinical snap rubber glove approach to sex.

[1644] But she's also a nurse.

[1645] And she also has a flashlight.

[1646] She has her own fleshlight.

[1647] Well, that's right.

[1648] She's got her own model.

[1649] It resembles a missile hitting a large mammal.

[1650] What you would get.

[1651] Nice lady.

[1652] I mean, look, she's an old freak.

[1653] She's very smart.

[1654] Yeah, she is smart.

[1655] She's an old hippie freak.

[1656] That's what she is, you know?

[1657] Yeah.

[1658] But that's where I got to walk away.

[1659] We start talking about I only have sex with gloves on.

[1660] Okay, lost me. I just put a little bit of gold bond on it, and then I rub it with my gloves.

[1661] She's not that old, dude.

[1662] You made her, like, past.

[1663] She's something past the milk, though, right?

[1664] Yeah.

[1665] It's like we talked about that.

[1666] Yeah.

[1667] She's in a new category.

[1668] She's 53, 54 somewhere in there.

[1669] Still fucking throwing down.

[1670] Throwing down.

[1671] She's an educator.

[1672] You're talking about gloves, man. A friend of mine told me this story.

[1673] He was with a woman who's polyamorous, all right?

[1674] And so he, you know, whatever.

[1675] They were going out to dinner.

[1676] And he gets a text from her a few hours before dinner saying, look, I just want to be up front about this as polyamorous people often are.

[1677] My agreement with my partner is, what was the detail?

[1678] The agreement is no, no intercourse.

[1679] So we can do whatever else, but no intercourse, right?

[1680] So he's thinking, well, geez, I thought it was just dinner, right?

[1681] So I guess that's pretty good news.

[1682] I mean, it seems like everything else is on the table.

[1683] So then they end up back at her place and she says, oh, sorry, You know, we, the rule changed a little bit.

[1684] Now it's like, I know genital contact.

[1685] So they're making out and she says, okay, sorry.

[1686] You know, my boyfriend says no genital contact, right?

[1687] So he says, okay, that's fine.

[1688] So then she says, wait a minute.

[1689] They're getting all hot and heavy.

[1690] She says, wait a minute.

[1691] She goes to the other room.

[1692] She comes back in.

[1693] She's got these black latex gloves on.

[1694] And she starts giving them a hand job.

[1695] Because, like, apparently with the gloves, there's no contact.

[1696] Right.

[1697] And then she gives him a dildo.

[1698] So there's like all this crazy stuff is going on.

[1699] Right.

[1700] He told me the story.

[1701] He's like, this was so far beyond what I would have, you know, anticipated.

[1702] Exactly.

[1703] And it got really freaky because of these rules.

[1704] And of course, it made me think about drugs, you know, like, hey, if coca leaf is illegal, well, then they're going to make cocaine.

[1705] You know, if grass, if you can't just grow grass in your backyard, then you're going to get hydroponic, you know, supergrass.

[1706] It's like you make these rules.

[1707] You know, like hard liquor, right?

[1708] Prohibition is what started gin and all this kind of stuff, right?

[1709] So you make rules to try to contain a natural human appetite, and what happens is it gets explosive, right?

[1710] Just like a bomb.

[1711] The bomb needs the containment to be explosive.

[1712] Otherwise, it's just nothing.

[1713] Well, it gets a natural human inclination that I can see loud and clearly with my kids.

[1714] When you try to keep kids from doing things, automatically like, why the fuck should I listen to you?

[1715] That's what I want to do.

[1716] They get angry.

[1717] It's a natural human response because all of our entire history of humanity has been people trying to dominate people.

[1718] People trying to control people.

[1719] So our natural thing is to resist control.

[1720] It's why the biggest sluts always have like super religious parents.

[1721] There you go.

[1722] Jesus Christ, folks.

[1723] Is it that easy?

[1724] Does Dr. Christopher Ryan have to explain it that easy?

[1725] Yes.

[1726] Although Nina Hartley's parents, interesting, were communists who were blacklisted in Berkeley.

[1727] Really interesting.

[1728] Yeah, she's an old hippie.

[1729] She's an odd case.

[1730] She's an odd case.

[1731] Yeah, like, she's one of the rare ones where you always connect human, like, girls who are into porn or get into that.

[1732] You always connect with some sort of an abuse.

[1733] You know, some human aberration.

[1734] Right.

[1735] But now, with her, she seems like just a crazy old hippie freak.

[1736] Yeah.

[1737] Doesn't seem dirty.

[1738] It seems like she's having fun.

[1739] Yeah.

[1740] Yeah.

[1741] It's weird.

[1742] Yeah.

[1743] Yeah.

[1744] No, she's an interesting person.

[1745] I enjoy it.

[1746] What is the weirdest thing you've gotten out of this study of human sexuality?

[1747] Because your book is incredibly enlightening, and I think Duncan's, his definition of you as a shame exorcist, is really a perfect one.

[1748] Because it puts so many things into perspective.

[1749] It makes so many weird patterns of behavior that we follow.

[1750] It sort of enlightens you on the origins of them.

[1751] But what is, like, one of the weirdest things that you found in this pursuit?

[1752] Well, yeah, there are so many, you know, obviously these things pop up in every conversation.

[1753] But I think one of the most memorable and moving in a way was when I went looking for the first documented case of key parties and, you know, partner swapping and that sort of thing in modern America, not these sects in the 19th century, but 20th century stuff.

[1754] I thought it would be, you know, some commune in Berkeley with a bunch of hippies and Hendricks posters and, you know, whatever, waterbeds and, you know, that kind of thing.

[1755] And, but it wasn't.

[1756] It was World War II fighter pilots in the Pacific who had the highest fatality rate of any branch of the military in World War II.

[1757] 25 % of them died in action.

[1758] Well, when they were back on base, I guess in Hawaii or the West Coast, they, had key parties where they and their partners would come to these parties, put the keys in, you know, like in the ice storm.

[1759] I don't know if you saw that movie.

[1760] Great movie.

[1761] And randomly sleep with each other's wives or girlfriends, right?

[1762] And you know, these are all like super, you know, genetically, yeah, good looking dudes.

[1763] All alpha males, obviously.

[1764] And the women they were with were hot.

[1765] So I don't think anyone was worried about, you know, pulling the short straw out of the, you know, the short key.

[1766] But, you know, I thought, well, okay, sure, these guys are facing death.

[1767] They want to get it while they can, right?

[1768] But then in the interviews I read with the survivors, what they said was, yeah, okay, we were young, we were strong, we were having, you know, we were getting laid, but we could have gotten laid anywhere, you know, we could have gone to a bar and gotten lay.

[1769] We did this because we wanted those other guys, we wanted our buddies to love our women so that if I die, I know these guys will take care of her because they love her because they've been with her and they know her, right?

[1770] It's like it moved me so much to read that because a lot of the accounts from the Amazon are the same.

[1771] These guys are facing a difficult life.

[1772] You know, you can go hunting one day and you get, you're the huntie, you know, things can go wrong really fast.

[1773] So you want people to love each other, not exclusively, because then they take care of each other.

[1774] They take care of each other's kids.

[1775] They share their food.

[1776] They, you know, they look out for each other.

[1777] And that's really the essence of humanity.

[1778] Have you explored the idea that the opposite trend that we are finding ourselves in now where people are gravitating towards monogamy, at least culturally, least on paper, that this move towards, you know, this move that ideal is because we're safer, is because we're more likely to be protected.

[1779] We don't need these.

[1780] And sort of a natural inclination to move towards like a deeper bond with one individual person.

[1781] I don't know that I'd call it a natural inclination, but, you know, I tend to see it more as a byproduct of institutional and economic forces.

[1782] I see that as also being natural.

[1783] And I know it sounds very contradictory.

[1784] No, I hear you.

[1785] But when I look at wolf behavior, I don't take our crazy, fucked up weird behavior and not think that it's natural.

[1786] Even though there's consciousness involved and choices involved, there's something about the pattern of human behavior when I look at it as a whole where I see it's kind of arrogant to assume that this isn't natural.

[1787] It seems that almost everything is natural.

[1788] That's the thing.

[1789] It depends how you define natural, right?

[1790] I mean, you could, if you take a real global perspective, you could say, as I tend to think of it, that we are not, we're the ants and the ant hill.

[1791] Right.

[1792] And the ant hill is what's evolving.

[1793] And that's the sort of the location of the selection.

[1794] In other words, as individuals, we think we're what's evolving, but I think what's evolving is societies, corporations, these institutions that include us.

[1795] And they don't give a shit if we're happy or not, this larger being that we're apart.

[1796] And as we fuel them with electricity, with commerce, with whatever, they literally act like a life form.

[1797] Exactly.

[1798] The same way as technology, like Marshall McLuhan said, we are the sexual organs of machines.

[1799] Well, as we fuel the desire for new laptops, we keep that alive.

[1800] Right, right.

[1801] And, you know, when what Mitt Romney said, corporations are people, my friend.

[1802] I don't think he was thinking in these terms.

[1803] But they're not people, but they're living beings.

[1804] They have a stake in staying alive.

[1805] Right.

[1806] They have a vested interest.

[1807] And if they have to step on us to do it, they'll do it.

[1808] How fucking crazy is that?

[1809] And they can get people to do it for them.

[1810] Frankenstein.

[1811] You know, that was the whole Frankenstein myth.

[1812] And it's happened, you know, don't fear it.

[1813] Don't, you know, how in 2001?

[1814] Sure.

[1815] It's here.

[1816] It's been happening for quite a while.

[1817] Monsanto doesn't give a shit if they produce food that kills us.

[1818] No. As long as they've cornered the market.

[1819] Well, they also produce DDT and Agent Orange.

[1820] Sure.

[1821] So it sells, right?

[1822] They've been making fucked up choices for a long time.

[1823] You know what?

[1824] I told that story about the pilots in San Diego.

[1825] I was given a talk down there.

[1826] And this guy came up to me after, and he said, I was a fighter pilot in Vietnam.

[1827] Same thing.

[1828] Different war, same thing.

[1829] Wow.

[1830] So it's a natural behavior pattern.

[1831] Apparently, it's a culture among fighter pilots that, A, they, well, that they're facing death, right?

[1832] And I found it, I've done a lot of research in hospitals, and I found a very amplified sexuality in hospitals among doctors.

[1833] Because they're facing that.

[1834] Cops as well.

[1835] Sure, yeah.

[1836] Sure.

[1837] Anybody who's on the edge?

[1838] And Hulk Hogan.

[1839] Oh, yeah, brother.

[1840] Hulk Hogan swings.

[1841] He didn't fight that in a MMA fighter.

[1842] No, he's not.

[1843] He's just interviewed at the airport and he just said something silly.

[1844] Everybody blew that out of proportion.

[1845] Yeah, Hulk Hogan, he was a wife swapper.

[1846] Yeah.

[1847] Yeah, it was a lot of guys.

[1848] The coach of the, was it the New York Jets or the Giants?

[1849] Ryan, there was this, did you hear about this?

[1850] No. It was this controversy because there was, there were pictures.

[1851] on the internet of him, his wife, and another dude.

[1852] And the wife was like either naked or in lingerie and the other dude was sucking her toes or something.

[1853] Oh, Jesus Christ, that's where I check out.

[1854] That's what you want the gloves.

[1855] We're weird about that, man. We're real weird about that.

[1856] It's interesting.

[1857] It's fascinating to just see the trends and how they change with the environment.

[1858] Yeah, and how different they are.

[1859] as you were saying, in cultures, like there was a, at the same time that thing was happening in the States, and it was a huge to do.

[1860] There was a soccer coach in England who got nabbed coming out of a massage parlor, you know, with happy endings and all that.

[1861] And the, you know, the press was there and snapping all these pictures.

[1862] And they said, do you know there are tie hookers in there?

[1863] He said, of course I know they're Thai hookers in there.

[1864] That's why I go there.

[1865] And it was like, What?

[1866] How dare you not be ashamed?

[1867] You know?

[1868] And then they went and interviewed his wife.

[1869] And his wife said, oh, God, if I could get him to go to Ty Hookers twice a week, I'd pay for it.

[1870] It relaxes him.

[1871] He's better at his job.

[1872] You know, how is this any of your business?

[1873] Just completely trump the, you know, the assumption that she'd be ashamed and run away from.

[1874] I'm like, hey, this is none of your damn business.

[1875] Sounds like he got a good wife.

[1876] He nailed it.

[1877] Imagine if the Clintons had done that.

[1878] Maybe they did in private, you know.

[1879] I think they did.

[1880] Maybe Hillary was just mad that he wasn't bringing chicks home.

[1881] I mean, who knows?

[1882] Who fucking cares either, right?

[1883] Whose business is it?

[1884] It's just so weird how the desire for sex and our appetite for sex is not represented in any way.

[1885] I mean, it's represented a bit in the media and film and advertising and stuff like that.

[1886] But it's not honestly engaged.

[1887] It's not honestly described.

[1888] It's funny, though, because, like, I saw this cartoon, or not cartoon, a commercial, a couple weeks ago for some plunger or some plumbing thing to clear your drains.

[1889] And it, the idea was, and it was, you know, whatever the major brand plumbing thing is.

[1890] And this stuff has the chemical nastiness, but it also has, like, a plastic thing you can stick down to pull the hair thing out.

[1891] And so it was, like, double action, right?

[1892] And so the ad was, this woman answers the door, and it's this.

[1893] really good looking dude, and the dude's like, yeah, I'm here to snake your drain, baby.

[1894] And she says, oh, oh, and she's like all flustered and, oh, yes, come with me. And then someone else knocks, and she opens, it's another dude, and he's like, yeah, I'm here to help.

[1895] Oh, oh, two of you.

[1896] What country?

[1897] It's here.

[1898] In the States.

[1899] And I linked to it.

[1900] I tweeted.

[1901] I said, has this actually been on TV?

[1902] Because someone sent me the link on YouTube.

[1903] I said, has anyone seen this on TV?

[1904] And a bunch of people wrote back to say, oh, yeah, I've seen it on TV.

[1905] It's on.

[1906] I'm like, wow.

[1907] Wow.

[1908] What's up with that?

[1909] Well, congratulations, whatever company put that out.

[1910] Congratulations for sneaking that through.

[1911] Can we, can we end on that?

[1912] Can we pull that commercial?

[1913] What's it called?

[1914] It's quite good.

[1915] I think it's plunger, dual action plunger or whatever that chemical.

[1916] See, you can find that, dude, dual action plunger.

[1917] That's hilarious.

[1918] And the woman's like in the grocery store and she sees these two guys and has this whole fantasy.

[1919] What's going on with that TV show that the idea well it's great man last time I was here I guess we talked probably off the air about yeah a little bit um like a whole shitload of production companies want to do it everybody thinks it's gonna go is this it yeah double impact double impacts you're here to snake your drink he's hot too he's hot too my come on in I'm here to flush your pipe okay what a good kid Wow, she's letting her hair down and everything.

[1920] Meanwhile, he's going to go upstairs, and it's just nothing but shit floating in her bowl.

[1921] She takes these massive logs.

[1922] Yeah, look at her poop.

[1923] Yeah, these fucking woodchicks.

[1924] Make a sword out of that.

[1925] It's just snot and blood.

[1926] You've got the berry white voiceover?

[1927] And she just woke up.

[1928] That's her fantasy.

[1929] Yeah, the undersex housewife.

[1930] Shit's reality.

[1931] And the gay guy holding the fruit.

[1932] The melons.

[1933] Gay guy working with the melons.

[1934] And two of them are just going to use her as an excuse to get together.

[1935] That's how they're doing.

[1936] That's what double penetration is.

[1937] When two guys, when they're both in the vagina at the same time, they're just using the woman as a container so they could rub dicks.

[1938] Become scrotum buddies.

[1939] Yeah, that's what they're doing.

[1940] Listen, fascinating again, three hours just flew right by, man. We could do this every time.

[1941] We still talked about, like, one paragraph in your book.

[1942] We'll cover it one page.

[1943] But it's a brilliant book.

[1944] And folks, if you haven't read it, it's called Sex at Dawn.

[1945] You can get it on Amazon.

[1946] which is a sponsor of the show.

[1947] It's available as an audio book.

[1948] It's also available, of course, in book form, and it's fucking great.

[1949] And you were working on another book, too.

[1950] Civilized to death.

[1951] Is that coming out soon?

[1952] It's due October 1st should come out next spring, unless I don't get to it.

[1953] I'm going to start real soon.

[1954] Sex is on.

[1955] It's available now.

[1956] And your podcast, how do people get it?

[1957] Tangentially speaking, you can get it at ferala .com or you can get it on iTunes.

[1958] It's on iTunes.

[1959] And it's Chris Ryan, PhD on Twitter, and thanks, brother.

[1960] Really appreciate it.

[1961] Really enjoyed it.

[1962] Always good times.

[1963] Always good times.

[1964] All right, thank you everybody for tuning in.

[1965] Thanks everybody came out to Nashville this weekend.

[1966] We had a great fucking time.

[1967] Nashville was awesome.

[1968] It was exactly what I needed.

[1969] I wanted to go to a small club and work out some new material.

[1970] And man, there's nothing like working at a comedy club.

[1971] I've been doing a lot of theaters lately.

[1972] I forgot how much fun it is to do a weekend, like a 300 -seater.

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