Anyone Can Set Themselves Up for Financial Freedom

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[3] I'm Ken Coleman.

[4] George Campbell joins me, where Ramsey personalities, co -hosts of the show, good friends.

[5] And I want to say, as we start, just a big congratulations, it is long.

[6] We'll talk more about Georgia's brand new, soon -to -be best -selling book, Breaking Free from Broke, the ultimate guide to more money and less stress, fabulous book.

[7] Congratulations, Powell.

[8] Your first book launched this week.

[9] It's been very humbling and overwhelming in the best ways.

[10] Well, it's kind of like another type of baby, and you're a new dad.

[11] A lot.

[12] So, yeah, it's very, it's a lot of similarities.

[13] Had a baby about four and a half months ago.

[14] Both keep you up at night.

[15] That's true.

[16] You know, you know what's excellent.

[17] I'm not sure which one was more difficult at this point, at least for me. That's true.

[18] Maybe the book at this point.

[19] My wife will have a different story.

[20] Thanks to Whitney.

[21] That's right.

[22] All right, let's get to the phones.

[23] We'd love to talk with you.

[24] George is here to answer your money questions.

[25] I'll weigh in.

[26] I'm here to answer any questions around your work and making more money.

[27] George will weigh in on those as well.

[28] Let's go to Kelly in Indianapolis, Indiana.

[29] Kelly.

[30] How can we help?

[31] Hi.

[32] I have, I've been kind of following the raise you plan for just trying to follow it for maybe about a year or two, but I just have one last credit card.

[33] I just can't quite seem to get rid of.

[34] I don't have a balance, but I'm just trying to convince myself to actually get rid of it.

[35] I love this.

[36] And, Kelly, I break this down on the new book into eight different characters.

[37] So can you tell me which one you fall into?

[38] Is it out of fear?

[39] Is it for the rewards?

[40] Is it the convenience?

[41] What is causing you to go, I can't cut this thing up?

[42] I feel like it's more like maybe the pressure of like everyone said like you should always have one because you never know if you're going to get stuck in a situation where you're going to need it.

[43] Okay, so for you, I'm going to call you the emergency shelter.

[44] That's the sixth personality in the book.

[45] I need my credit card in case of emergencies, right?

[46] Probably, yeah.

[47] Okay.

[48] Well, let me tell you, there's a way better emergency fund and it's where you become the bank instead of Capital One.

[49] And that's called an emergency fund.

[50] do you have a thousand dollars save for baby step one uh i do i'm actually in uh four and six wonderful so how much money do you have in savings i have uh just a little over like almost 11 000 amazing now tell me when was the last time you had an 11 000 emergency uh never exactly so a lot of this is paranoia there's fear we have to deal with.

[51] And the other piece of the equation is you have insurance that will transfer the risk.

[52] You have things called deductibles and out -of -pocket maximums.

[53] And so you're going to be protected and you don't need these credit card companies anymore.

[54] They were never your friend and it's just a rubber crutch.

[55] And it's only a matter of time before they come knock and saying, hey, Kelly, we'll come save you at 22 % APR.

[56] Kelly, is the $11 ,000, does that represent three months, four months, five months or six months of your expenses?

[57] More like closer to three.

[58] Yeah.

[59] Is there a number that, let's say, George and I were feeling like we could just cut a check here.

[60] Let's say we're having Dave's money here.

[61] We like to give Dave's money away.

[62] I like that.

[63] You and I've done it a lot in our role.

[64] That's true.

[65] We really have.

[66] Let's say George and I could cut a check right now, okay?

[67] And it would add to the $11 ,000 in your emergency fund.

[68] And when we cut that check and you deposited it, you would go, I'm cutting this credit card.

[69] I feel so much better.

[70] Is there a number that we would add to the 11 ,000?

[71] Be realistic here.

[72] What's the number that if we wrote a check to add to the 11 ,000, giving you a total of in your emergency phone where you'd go, okay, I don't need this stupid credit card.

[73] Just curious.

[74] What's that number?

[75] I guess maybe another 9 ,000 to make it 20.

[76] All right.

[77] Now, George, you see what I'm doing there.

[78] Absolutely.

[79] I'll give it back to you.

[80] You're the money expert.

[81] We just put some facts on the security gland, which is largely feelings.

[82] and we just said if you had 20 grand you would feel so secure it would be a force field between you and life and that would be more like six months of expenses correct yeah probably so then i'm not saying you have to do that kelly but i did a little experiment there because that's what george and are trying to get you to i think 11 is enough for you to cut the credit card up well that's what we think that's why we teach what we teach we should have cut it up when you did baby step one a thousand dollars That's what we teach.

[83] But why not then?

[84] Why not put the $9 ,000 in?

[85] If that makes you feel better and it removes the temptation, I say go for it.

[86] That's the thing, Kelly.

[87] If you cut up the card today and an emergency happened, what would you do?

[88] You would dip into the emergency fund.

[89] And that's what it's there for?

[90] And then once you use it, what are you going to do after you use it?

[91] You're going to replenish it.

[92] But you know, it didn't happen.

[93] You never went into debt.

[94] You were never at the mercy of the credit card companies who are supposed to.

[95] to be blessing you with your 2 % cashback and this emergency shelter.

[96] And so I'm going to encourage you to do the brave thing.

[97] And what's amazing to me, Kelly, is as people have been reading the credit card chapter in my new book, they're telling me for years we couldn't cut it up.

[98] And you finally coaxed us into it with all of the research and humor and every objection I've ever had, I address it in that chapter.

[99] So I'm going to send you a copy of the book.

[100] And I want you to read that and then send me a DM when you cut it up with a picture.

[101] Can you do that for me?

[102] sure that's all i ask and return so hang on the line austin is going to pick up and we'll make sure you get a copy of breaking free from broke it's chapter three specifically and uh ken i want to do another little mindset trick if i might george i want you to join me on this you were like the david blaine of the rams too show but kelly you said something at the start of the call when george is asking you what's holding you back from cutting this up and what you told him was what other people are going to say to me because other people in your life are saying saying, Kelly, you're a moron.

[103] They're not using that language, but that's how you feel.

[104] But they're going, Kelly, it's silly to cut the credit card up in case something were to happen.

[105] And so you haven't cut it up because you're worried about what they'll say.

[106] But what if something happens and when they hear about it, they're like, what did you do?

[107] You went, I cut a check because I had it in the bank.

[108] Or you said, well, I kept that credit card.

[109] card, thanks to you, and I put it on the credit card.

[110] I got to pay it off quick because it's about 23 % interest.

[111] Which of those two answers are your friends and family going to be impressed with the most?

[112] You tell me?

[113] Probably the first one.

[114] So, Kelly, you're not going to be viewed as silly, Kelly.

[115] You're going to be viewed as smart, Kelly.

[116] By the very people you're worried about and being criticized by.

[117] True or false?

[118] True.

[119] There it is.

[120] And guess what?

[121] Those friends are normal, Ken. Normal's broke.

[122] We know four out of ten people have nothing in savings.

[123] 25 % of people have to use the credit card to cover the bills.

[124] That's not Kelly.

[125] You've unsubscribed from normal and fears a terrible financial advisor.

[126] And so these credit cards, you know, using other people's money actually makes you feel less in control because your body's keeping the score.

[127] It knows that you're not truly safe when you borrow someone else's money.

[128] When you don't use debt, you got less stress.

[129] And you become the bank, Kelly.

[130] That's what we want for you.

[131] We'll send you a copy of the book Breaking Free from Broke.

[132] Let me know what you think of the credit card chapter.

[133] And send me a photo or even better a video of you cutting up that last credit card.

[134] I love it.

[135] This brand new baby is coming your way, Kelly.

[136] For the rest of you can get it right now, wherever books are sold, or at ramsysolutions .com.

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[155] Welcome back to The Ramsey Show.

[156] I'm Ken Coleman.

[157] I'm joined by George Camel, and we are here for you this hour.

[158] AAA 8255 -2 -25.

[159] George is taking your money questions.

[160] I'll take any work -related questions because that has a lot to do with your income.

[161] And your mental health and your emotional health.

[162] It affects pretty much everything.

[163] It pretty much does.

[164] Considering how many hours of your life you spend working.

[165] That's right.

[166] So I want to help you out in those areas.

[167] If you're thinking about some kind of transition this year, You're just not happy there.

[168] You're trying to figure out, do I start a side hustle?

[169] Is this the year to do it?

[170] Can I do it?

[171] I'm in the baby steps.

[172] Any kind of work -related question.

[173] I'd love to help out on that, and George will as well.

[174] Triple -8 -8 -25 -5 -2 -2 -25.

[175] Let's go to Austin, Texas.

[176] Chris is there.

[177] Chris, how can we help?

[178] Hey, Ken. Thanks for having me on, then.

[179] You bet.

[180] What's up?

[181] I've got a question regarding, we're trying to kind of restructure our debt and everything.

[182] So, fortunately, my wife did really well this year, and her commission and bonus coming here in a couple months.

[183] It's going to be about $52 ,000.

[184] Whoa, way to go.

[185] That's pretty phenomenal.

[186] You were pretty happy when you found out about that, weren't you?

[187] Oh, absolutely.

[188] So one of the big things that we're knocking down is the remaining credit card debt, which we have about $11 ,000 just under.

[189] With that, they're going to knock out.

[190] And then the next things we kind of want to restructure our vehicle loans.

[191] So I own my own business.

[192] I'm in distribution of beverage concentrate.

[193] So last year, about two years ago, it was pretty tough getting a rental car, a rental van.

[194] So I went ahead and purchased a truck, ended up paying $63 ,000 for that truck at a $893 a month payment.

[195] And it's been fine because it's been overall savings, I mean, versus paying, you know, $1 ,500 a month renting vans back then.

[196] But we're thinking about we're going to get rid of that truck no matter what we do because vans are available today but we do have negative equity of about I would say about $13 ,000 to $14 ,000 in that truck just because car manufacturers are getting competitive right now and a new truck would sell for $3 ,000 less than the one I have with 44 ,000 miles on it.

[197] So my question you two was is we have a RAM -1500 and a Jeep Wrangler.

[198] The RAM is 893 a month, and the Jeep Rangler is 662.

[199] So the first thought that I had was to go ahead and pay the negative equity on the truck and purchase a new vehicle.

[200] And we would basically assume a new loan on that new vehicle.

[201] So if we found a car for $25 ,000, we could go ahead and pay the negative equity of the truck of, let's say, $13 ,000.

[202] Are you talking about the RAM or are you talking about the van?

[203] because I'm getting confused here.

[204] He said a van, and then I thought you said a ram truck and a Jeep.

[205] Yeah, so I have a ram truck and a Jeep.

[206] The reason why I purchased the truck was because I used to rent vans.

[207] Okay.

[208] It took the place of a van.

[209] It took the place.

[210] Okay, I just want to make sure there weren't three vehicles in this conversation.

[211] So what you've been telling us is the RAM is the one that you've got the $11 ,000, excuse me, the $13 ,000 to $14 ,000 negative equity on.

[212] Yes.

[213] Okay.

[214] Go ahead.

[215] Um, so what I was thinking is we have two options that we can pay the negative equity by trading in the RAM, uh, towards a new vehicle for her.

[216] And we're setting ourselves a $25 ,000 budget.

[217] And then what we would go ahead and do is just pay that negative equity and then pay for that car cash and then keep the Jeep payment of $662 a month.

[218] Or the other option was to go ahead and pay off the Jeep, which has a remaining balance of $16 ,326.

[219] And then, pay the negative equity in the truck and put a bit of a decent down payment on that new vehicle and take out a new loan trying to get our monthly payment down to about $400 a month, $450 a month.

[220] Well, I'm going to let George, George, I only want to weigh in on one issue, okay?

[221] I just want to weigh in on the Jeep.

[222] Sure.

[223] Those cars do not hold up well.

[224] And so whatever your advice you're going to give him, I personally would pay off the Jeep and sell it.

[225] Or sell it if you've got, do you have negative equity on the Jeep?

[226] or you got a little equity in that?

[227] No, I have, I'd say about $18 ,000 equity in the Jeep.

[228] Dude, I'd sell the Jeep.

[229] Those things, I'm not trying to knock Jeep, and I don't want to get any hate mail, but I'm just telling you I'd get rid of that.

[230] I'd sell that for sure.

[231] Anyway, George, go ahead.

[232] The one issue that, oh, there's not an issue with it.

[233] It's just that, so the Jeep was a long -term goal for us to be able to even purchase one, and we use it.

[234] We just had our first son about a year and a half ago.

[235] But prior to that, we used it about six times a year.

[236] going camping and going off -roading.

[237] And so we made the commitment that this is the one vehicle that we're never going to sell.

[238] It's actually, you know.

[239] There you go.

[240] Your reasoning for not selling it is because you use it six times a year?

[241] Yeah, it's not a strong case.

[242] Well, no, it's a daily driver.

[243] So we do use it to go to work and things like that.

[244] But it's a recreational vehicle in a sense that...

[245] For six times a year.

[246] Get you a little Honda accord for the daily driver and go rent whatever the heck you want with your amazing income six times a year.

[247] That's right.

[248] So let's walk through the numbers.

[249] Let me figure out some options for you.

[250] You're getting $52 ,000 in the bonus.

[251] You're going to have to pay taxes out of that?

[252] No, that's going to be gross income.

[253] So you're going to have to pay...

[254] Sorry, not gross.

[255] That's net.

[256] Okay.

[257] So let's say we are the only debts you have the two car loans and the credit cards?

[258] Yes.

[259] Okay.

[260] So we knock out the $11K credit cards.

[261] We move on to the $16 ,000 Wrangler.

[262] that leaves you with 25K, correct?

[263] Yeah, yes.

[264] Now we pay off the negative equity.

[265] It's another 13K out of that, leaving you with 12, but now you can sell the RAM.

[266] And you'll have, you'll get out Scott Free.

[267] I don't think I would trade it in because the dealership's going to screw you on that.

[268] I agree, 100%.

[269] So you're going to get way more private party and probably not be as underwater as you think, if you do it that way.

[270] Yeah.

[271] And the dealership will convince you that you need a nicer car than the one you are currently looking for.

[272] and they're going to say, well, if you're going to spend $25 ,000, might as well spend $35, get something new.

[273] That is how dealerships work.

[274] And so I would encourage you to not purchase it from that dealership and instead search for a quality used vehicle that you can pay $12 ,000 for with the remainder in cash.

[275] Okay.

[276] And it's not going to be the prettiest vehicle, but what's your household income?

[277] So just a standard salary.

[278] we're looking at about 138 ,000 a year.

[279] That's good money.

[280] Dude, think about this.

[281] Yeah, but he's getting good money for the RAM, George.

[282] Yeah, but when you think about it this way, you spend 12 grand on a cash car, now you have no payments in the world making 138.

[283] How quickly can you save up an upgrade in car and doing cash?

[284] Yeah, versus trading in debt for more debt, but we're lessening the debt.

[285] I'm like, dude, you guys make good money.

[286] You could solve this thing with this bonus.

[287] What a blessing.

[288] Let's just be done with it instead of playing the debt game.

[289] Yeah, exactly.

[290] that's what I would do if I was in your shoes, because you're calling me, telling me, hey, we make great money, but here we are with payments all over the place.

[291] And you guys have been able to justify every single one of these.

[292] But I think we're done with justification.

[293] I think we're ready for freedom instead.

[294] Yeah.

[295] No, that's exactly where we want to get to.

[296] You can find a $12 ,000 truck.

[297] It ain't going to be fancy, but for what you guys are using it for, it's a work truck, right?

[298] Yeah, well, and I'm going back to renting a van when I do my route.

[299] He's not going to need it.

[300] It's going to be his driver, just his regular driver.

[301] Then just get something reasonable for your daily driving.

[302] Another, yeah, another reason that we're trying to get out of the truck, too, is, you know, our son, as he grew, it's a little easier when he has a baby to put him in the truck and everything.

[303] And my wife's actually pretty small, and she has an issue getting them up in the truck, and she doesn't like it.

[304] She doesn't think it's big and a floor.

[305] I relate to that.

[306] Yeah, this is how Whitney treats George every time.

[307] She has a hard time getting George up into the van, so they went to a sedan.

[308] sick of the booster seat we joke Chris but I think we got to start making decisions for what's best for our family 10 years from now instead of hey well the kids and we just got to make future thinking decisions and they all need to require cash and no debt once you take that off the table it's going to change the decisions you make it's going to change your level of sacrifice so you guys are this is going to be all done so soon if you do it this way but I would not trade debt for a little less debt I don't like that game when you guys can get out of the Scott Free.

[309] Yeah, and get a sedan, get something or a small SUV, whatever.

[310] You know, you've got one kid, right, George, did I get that right?

[311] So, you know what's going to happen?

[312] Kids are going to throw a peanut butter and jelly sandwich on the floor.

[313] You're right.

[314] All these young couples want to get the nicest car for their kids and toddlers.

[315] Let me tell you something.

[316] The amount of goldfish that are going to be in the floorboard and cram between the seats, the smarty candies.

[317] I could go on it on pretzels.

[318] You'll be on a Lord of the Rings quest to try to try to.

[319] to find all the crumbs in that car.

[320] Well said.

[321] Goodness gracious.

[322] And by the way, they don't make the attachments on the vacuum cleaner that you need to truly get all those little goldfish.

[323] Getting all the nooks and crannies.

[324] Yeah, it's not going to happen.

[325] Really good stuff.

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[350] I'm Ken Coleman.

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[353] Taking your money questions, live questions, work -related, your professional journey questions.

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[355] Let's go to Joseph now, who joins us in Cleveland, Ohio.

[356] Joseph, how can we help today?

[357] Hello, thank you for taking my call.

[358] You bet.

[359] What's up, Joseph?

[360] I just recently started going through baby steps.

[361] I'm on baby step two.

[362] And as I've been starting to share my goal of paying off all my debt with family and friends, I've received a fair amount of pushback on why I shouldn't do that.

[363] And I wanted to see if you had any advice on how I could have respectful conversations with my family and friends while also being clear about my goals with them.

[364] Man. Well, you're not the first one to experience this when broke people are giving you pushback about your financial plan.

[365] It means you're off to a good start.

[366] But, you know, I always love the quote, the best revenge of success here.

[367] And so I think you just stop talking to them about it.

[368] I mean, why do we have to have these arguments?

[369] Just go live your life, get out of debt.

[370] And when you've got peace and no payments, and they're all looking at you going, man, you got a little pep in your step.

[371] What's going on, Joseph?

[372] If you go, I got no payments.

[373] And they go, I guess that plan actually worked, huh?

[374] Yeah.

[375] What was that book?

[376] Oh, Total Money Makeover.

[377] Okay.

[378] That's how these things usually go.

[379] So what kind of pushback are they giving you?

[380] It's typically that I have a little bit of credit card debt and then the bigger one is my car payment So a lot of what I've received is Well, you should keep your car payments Over times that you can build your credit And use the money that you can put towards that To do other things And you share DNA with these people Ouch Yeah, some of them, yeah George Do you understand that So not nice But if you explain the credit score to them and you went, hey, let's talk about this credit score idea.

[381] What do credit scores do?

[382] They allow you to get more debt.

[383] And what is getting more debt do?

[384] When you play the game perfectly, you get a higher score.

[385] And what does that do?

[386] It helps you get more debt.

[387] And so if your goal, Joseph, is to not accumulate debt, because we know the pain that it causes millions of Americans, everyone's broke, then I'm going to run the other direction.

[388] And if they don't understand that, that's okay.

[389] Not everyone has to totally get what you're doing here.

[390] For sure.

[391] do you agree with them when they say these things uh no because i'm i'm i'm i can feel the excitement within me of the prospect of not having any debt and being able to save and and do things um and just the idea of love trying to you know quote unquote wisely leveraged debt or anything like that just it sounds sounds awful to me so no i don't agree with them at all so uh who is they do you mind tell us who yeah i have one of like, probably like my best friend is giving me a lot of pushback and I've kind of floated the idea of paying off debt to some family members, um, that I'm close with that I trust and do respect, but on this we seem to have disagreement.

[392] Yeah.

[393] Is there another topic in life, um, that you don't like to talk to anybody about or there's very few people you'll talk to it about like politics or something like that?

[394] I'm just curious.

[395] Any other something you go, I just, I don't want to get into that with people.

[396] Is there something like that for you?

[397] I can't think of anything specific off the top of my mind This needs to be one of those things Okay I think you need to take George's advice I think he's absolutely right I think you need to stop talking to your best friend about this stuff Treat it like you know Some weird conversation And you just got I want nothing to do with that And I'm going to create some boundaries I change the subject I just think And same thing with these other family members If you disagree with them then don't bring it up, okay?

[398] I can just tell you without embarrassing any of my family members that I can't talk to about certain public figures.

[399] That's all I'm going to say.

[400] I leave the room.

[401] I don't even want to touch it, George.

[402] Because it's just, it's a landmine.

[403] What's the point?

[404] Well, but we're not going to agree.

[405] So we're past the point of fighting.

[406] I'm not worried about a fight.

[407] But it's just a waste of time and emotional energy.

[408] 100%.

[409] I'm not going to agree.

[410] therefore I don't want to have the conversation.

[411] And I think, George, this is one of those topics.

[412] Agreed.

[413] It's why I don't talk to you about sports, Ken. We're not going to get anywhere.

[414] You're not going to teach me what a play action passes.

[415] Because you'll never be able to understand it.

[416] That, again, is another waste of energy.

[417] There you go, Joseph.

[418] But I hope you get that, Joseph.

[419] So, hey, you keep your eye on the prize, follow the baby steps because you believe in it.

[420] And you believe that it's going to make a better life for you.

[421] And by the way, it's your life.

[422] And so all focus on that and just no more talking to everybody.

[423] Unless someone pays my bills, they don't get a vote.

[424] Yeah.

[425] And so I'm just going to go, thanks.

[426] Mom and Dad, friend, uncle, broke cousins.

[427] I'm good.

[428] I'm going to try this plan.

[429] And if I fail successfully by getting out of debt and it's terrible, I can always get more of it.

[430] But no one's ever come to me and said that.

[431] So that's a tough one when people don't get what you're doing.

[432] When you're a salmon swimming upstream, all the other salmon are going, dude, we're going this way, man. this is the path and you're like no that's a cliff my friends and there's a giant bear right there about ready to eat you bears love salmon yes they do i i've picked capital one is the bear in that metaphor they're all heading toward the capital one cliff yeah those commercials are so winsome they just make it seem so nice you know you get jennifer garner smiling she's the sweetest person on the planet you know good move getting away from alec baldwood you know 100 % yeah let's go to sydney in Atlanta, Georgia.

[433] Sydney, how can we help?

[434] Hey, thank you for taking my call.

[435] You bet, Sydney.

[436] What's going on?

[437] So, I just need help with pretty much everything.

[438] I'm 24.

[439] I bought my first house when I was 20 for $97 ,000.

[440] It was just an older couple that wanted to sell it because they were, couldn't take care of it anymore.

[441] So I have a mortgage.

[442] I have a boyfriend that lives with me. We have a daughter.

[443] She's a year old.

[444] We have a car payment.

[445] You know, we don't have any credit card debt, but we do have, like, a couple of small loans.

[446] We just can't seem to catch up.

[447] We can't seem to save anything.

[448] And I'm just tired of chasing and chasing and never being able to make any progress.

[449] What's your income?

[450] So I stay at home with our daughter because our, where we live, our daycare system around here is just not trustworthy, and it would take like half of my paycheck to pay or pay for daycare anyway.

[451] So I stay home with her, and my boyfriend brings about $50 ,000, but I do have a, business myself but that only made a whole whopping like $6 ,000 last year so okay so you guys are making 56k and what are your payments that up to because so far you've got some personal loans the car loan and the mortgage if you added those up I have a card that's paid off but it's always in the shop so that's our only hesitation with selling his car his car has 14 ,000 left on it the house has 88 left on it, and then I have a part of my business.

[452] I have a sewing machine that's on a loan, and...

[453] What's the sewing machine worth?

[454] It was originally like $1 ,500.

[455] It's got like $1 ,000 left on it, but I'm planning on paying that off soon.

[456] Okay.

[457] As well as a computer.

[458] How much do you guys have in savings?

[459] We barely have $1 ,000 in savings.

[460] Okay.

[461] Well, I feel your pain.

[462] Luckily, you guys have a small mortgage, and so we're going to ignore that right now.

[463] If you added up the car loan and the personal loans on the sewing machine computer, are we talking $15 ,000, $16 ,000?

[464] No, like I said, the sewing machine's only $1 ,100, and the computer is like $500, so.

[465] Okay.

[466] Cool.

[467] So it's about $15 .5.

[468] is what I'm adding up to.

[469] So here's what we're going to do.

[470] We're going to lay these out smallest to largest.

[471] We're not going to get overwhelmed by the big picture, and we need to get this income up.

[472] If that means your boyfriend is doing side hustles for the next six months to clean up this mess, great.

[473] If it means selling the car and getting something cheaper to get around in right now, great.

[474] But this is a solvable problem.

[475] You make 56, we're trying to pay off 50.

[476] How quickly can we do it?

[477] How do we get that margin?

[478] We've got to make more.

[479] We have to spend less.

[480] And if that means you going back to work for a little bit, Even if daycare, you're going to net an extra 500 bucks.

[481] That's going to help.

[482] Find a grandmother in the area that wants to make a little money, wants to get out of the house that you can trust, and she watches the child in your home.

[483] Go make more money.

[484] This is The Ramsey Show.

[485] Welcome back to The Ramsey Show.

[486] I'm Ken Coleman.

[487] George Campbell joins me. We're here for you, America.

[488] Phone number is AAA 825 -225 -2 -25.

[489] Triple -8 -25 -2 -2 -5 -2 -5.

[490] This is big news, George.

[491] I've got to mention this.

[492] because I just got the email a couple days ago.

[493] We've got a brand new event entitled Total Money Makeover.

[494] Pretty good idea.

[495] Total Money Makeover weekend, May 10th and 11th, named after the best -selling book that's ever come out of Ramsey Solutions, Dave's unbelievable classic Total Money Makeover.

[496] And so in one weekend, you're going to crash course on everything we teach about money, brand new content from all of us, Ramsey personalities.

[497] And this is a great, great event because no matter what baby step you're on, it's going to fire you up and have a lot of Q &A time with all the personalities and that's always really really fun we just get to hang with you early bird tickets started just $99 but this is only for limited time get your tickets now at ramsysolutions .com slash events that's ramsysolutions .com slash events always fun I'm pumped for this when we have it here on our campus rumor has it you could witness smart money happy hour live with rachel cruise and I on Friday night and a special guest Ken Coleman I think it's time Is this the event Are you manifesting this?

[498] It's a soft pitch But you have talked about having me on And I thought to myself I don't know if your regular audience Wants the special guest that much I think it's time But I think at a live event You, me, Rachel, cocktails And If that's what gets butts in seats For the Total Money Makeover weekend, I'm in I don't know that it will But I'll say that is a great deal For an entire weekend event Right here at the headquarters It'll be fun.

[499] I'm putting it out there.

[500] I won't lobby you.

[501] Thank you.

[502] All right, very good.

[503] Kayla's up in Atlanta, Georgia.

[504] Kayla, how can we help?

[505] Hi, thanks for taking my call.

[506] You bet.

[507] What's up today, Kayla?

[508] So I'm a college student getting a biology degree, and initially I was going to go to demo school, but I'm not really too interested in getting, you know, just a ton of student debt now.

[509] Yeah, good for you.

[510] So I've always wanted to be an entrepreneur, so I prayed on it, and I just decided that I wanted to start a clothing line.

[511] So I took a business course, and she was basically, you know, just telling how to secure business funding and stuff like that.

[512] And I know, you know, how you all feel about, you know, business loans, but I created a business plan, but I didn't know that they asked for like collateral and stuff like that.

[513] Right.

[514] So my parents aren't too interested in, you know, putting their house up.

[515] for collateral.

[516] So now I'm just like, I don't know what to do now, like, because I'm glad you call.

[517] I'm glad you called.

[518] So you haven't taken out any loans out, correct?

[519] No. Okay.

[520] So, Caleb, business funding is just fancy for a loan.

[521] And now you know that.

[522] And so can I just encourage you that you don't need a loan, nor do you need a ton of capital to launch a business in America today.

[523] Now, the clothing business, I would tell you that's a pretty high risk, very competitive world.

[524] Would you agree with that statement?

[525] Yes.

[526] So if you were to go get a bunch of loans with a great business plan, all the collateral, all the things that you don't want to do, and you're right, by the way, you would still have a tremendous amount of risk.

[527] And so how do we remove the risk by a small test?

[528] Now, do you plan to design the clothing?

[529] Yes.

[530] Yes.

[531] Yes.

[532] What are you thinking?

[533] In your business plan, did you highlight two or three different articles of clothing?

[534] Yes.

[535] What were you thinking?

[536] Like just matching sets.

[537] I already talked to like a manufacturer to find a manufacturer to find out, you know, how much it would be to get them.

[538] Okay.

[539] What did you find out?

[540] I think you were about $30 a piece, like for the matching top and the matching bottom.

[541] So $60 for this matching outfit.

[542] Is this casual wear?

[543] Is it, what is it?

[544] Yes, it's casual wear.

[545] And no, together they're both equal up to $30.

[546] Oh, okay.

[547] So your hard costs on both top bottom are $30.

[548] And what have you found out in the market, as you were putting this business plan together, that this type of combo, this outfit, what's the wholesale or retail price?

[549] About $1 .15.

[550] 115 that's what your competitors are doing for something similar yes okay well it's a pretty good margin but still you get into manufacturing and I don't know if you've read the story if you haven't you should you should pull anything you can online there's a lot of it out there on Sarah Blakely's story she lives in the Atlanta area and Sarah is the founder of Spanx have you heard of her yes you need to read her story there's a lot of hustle and effort on this.

[551] And my point here is you need to start smaller than right out of the gate with your dream item.

[552] I love the ideal item of the top and the bottom and it's casual wear and it's comfy and we retail for 115.

[553] But there's a lot that goes into that and you're going to have minimums that you're going to be required to up front with the manufacturer because these got manufacturing companies going to get paid up front or at least a portion up front, right?

[554] I'm not a super expert on this, but I know the basics.

[555] And so I'm just walking you through this.

[556] So there will be some upfront capital and it needs to be cash.

[557] So to the extent that you can get out of college, start working, save up a bunch of cash to get to a point where you go, okay, I can at least invest this amount of cash and I'm going to go with one or two items.

[558] I'm going to go online and I'm going to try some things.

[559] That's the long term.

[560] What can you do in the short term with maybe some jewelry or a t -shirt or a sweatshirt or something that you can test out on?

[561] online.

[562] I want to bring George in here because he really understands this world.

[563] I weirdly do, and it's embarrassing.

[564] I'm holding back.

[565] So I wanted to bring you in at this point.

[566] And now walk her through what would be a, let's call it a low risk economical test.

[567] Well, the way I think about this, Kayla, is you can't just get out there and be like, I have clothes for $100.

[568] Why should they buy yours over the brand that they know?

[569] And so you need to create some unique value proposition here.

[570] And I would start by creating an audience.

[571] Do you have a big Instagram follow?

[572] following?

[573] TikTok following?

[574] Somewhat, yes.

[575] So I would focus on that.

[576] And it doesn't have to be clothing that you made.

[577] If you have good style, I assume you're very stylish.

[578] And your friends compliment you on your outfits, right?

[579] I think she sounds like she's very stylish.

[580] So I would start doing outfit of the day.

[581] Here's how I pick these outfits.

[582] Here's the idea behind it.

[583] Here's my wardrobe.

[584] Here's some deals I found on clothes that I love.

[585] And you start to become sort of a fashion influencer.

[586] Now all of a sudden you build up a following.

[587] of 40 ,000 people.

[588] Brands want to work with you.

[589] You're getting money from that.

[590] Now you can launch your own line.

[591] That's how all the people I've seen actually do it successfully.

[592] And that's not going to happen tomorrow, right?

[593] This is a six -month, two -year, five -year plan.

[594] But there's also no debt baked into that, Kayla.

[595] You know, start small is what we're getting at.

[596] Start small, grow slow.

[597] This is not going to be your day job coming out of college.

[598] and I'm not saying that to shatter your dreams.

[599] I'm saying that to support your dreams.

[600] Your day job will support this side hustle until you can get the boat close to the dock to where that side hustle now makes more than your day job or close and you can now pursue it full -time.

[601] Are you tracking with us?

[602] Are we making sense?

[603] Yes.

[604] I just, I mean, at the end of this month, I'm going to be getting my refund check.

[605] It's about $9 ,000.

[606] I was wondering if I should use some of that to invest into the business order.

[607] but it's just that my rent is, my refund check does also cover my rent.

[608] So I was wondering if I should like ask my parents that they can support me a little bit on the rent while I use.

[609] Do you have any debt?

[610] No. And do you have an emergency fund, fully funded?

[611] No. That's where that goes.

[612] I think that refund just became your emergency fund.

[613] Once you have no debt and an emergency fund of three to six months of expenses, now we can begin investing for the future in retirement and a raw.

[614] IRA and for this business.

[615] Kaylee, listen, I know you're grasping what we're saying, but you went right back to, I need to ask mom and dad for help to pay my rent so I can, listen, you don't need to use the 9 ,000 right now.

[616] That 9 ,000 is a safety net in the form of an emergency fund for a graduating college student is phenomenal.

[617] You're head at the game, no debt.

[618] Now go get a really good paying job, two or three paying jobs and start doing what George is talking about where we test the idea of can I figure out how to sell clothing for a profit.

[619] Post pictures of it and say, would you buy this or would you buy this?

[620] And start to test this out.

[621] It's exactly right.

[622] And we just took a call this week.

[623] This couple took out $200 ,000 in small business loans.

[624] The business failed.

[625] Now they're getting regular jobs and they're freaking out.

[626] And I don't want that for our friend Taylor.

[627] Yeah, it's like a penalty for trying something.

[628] That's not how it needs to be in America.

[629] It just adds emotional and financial pain on top of the failure of the business.

[630] Yeah, if you do it right, it's the American dream, not the American nightmare.

[631] No debt, folks.

[632] All right, good hour.

[633] Thank you, George Campbell.

[634] James Childs and all the guys in the booth that keep us on the air.

[635] Thank you, America, for listening.

[636] This is The Ramsey Show.

[637] Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, this is the Ramsey Show.

[638] It's where we help you win in your life, specifically winning with your money, in your work, and in your relationships.

[639] I'm Ken Coleman.

[640] George Campbell, my good friend is here with me this hour, AAA 825 -5 -2 -25 -3 -2 -25.

[641] George will lead and guide on the money questions.

[642] I'm here to chime in.

[643] on any of those questions.

[644] Plus the work -related questions.

[645] Not happy in your work.

[646] Want to make some more money?

[647] Bigger shovel.

[648] How do I make more income in 2024?

[649] I'm here for that as well.

[650] And also very excited.

[651] This is the last weekday of Georgia's launch week.

[652] Breaking Free from Broke, the ultimate guide to more money and less stress.

[653] Look at that.

[654] That's a fabulous looking book right there.

[655] The orange cover.

[656] Regardless of my face on it.

[657] The team did a great job.

[658] You got a great face, George.

[659] Thank you.

[660] Well, it's been a fun week.

[661] The feedback has been amazing.

[662] The reviews are pouring in.

[663] And there was a guy on the live stream we did yesterday, the Q &A for the book launch, 51 years old, and he had tears.

[664] And he was going, this book gave me hope that it's not too late for me. Wow.

[665] He's in customer service in Kentucky.

[666] He's got some debt to pay off.

[667] And I'm glad I could give him that hope.

[668] And I told him, his name's Calvin.

[669] I said, call the show today.

[670] So Calvin, if you're out there.

[671] Hopefully, Calvin will call us up because I said, Ken's going to be able to help you with.

[672] this work stuff and help you make more income.

[673] I hope so.

[674] To clean up this mess.

[675] I love it.

[676] Well, really good and very excited for you, George, it's going to help a lot of people, a new generation of people that never heard of Total Money Makeover are going to really be helped with breaking free from broke.

[677] You can get at Ramsey Solutions .com or anywhere books are sold.

[678] All right, let's go to my old stomping grounds when I work for the governor of Virginia.

[679] Wow.

[680] Richmond, Virginia area is where Austin joins us.

[681] Austin, how can we help?

[682] Hey, guys.

[683] Thank you so much for taking a call.

[684] You bet.

[685] What's up?

[686] Um, I've actually, we've, me and my wife, we've, uh, we're in a bit of a debt.

[687] But I keep seeing all this stuff about S &P 500 and how if you, in your 30s, if you start in your 30s, you can put like $100 a month and whatnot.

[688] And I want to know if that would be a good idea to start doing that, knowing that we're still in debt.

[689] How much debt do you have?

[690] 222 ,000.

[691] Whoa.

[692] That's a bit to you?

[693] Wow.

[694] Yeah.

[695] What's that made out of?

[696] 190 of its house.

[697] Oh, oh.

[698] Yeah, 31 ,800 is a private loan and credit card.

[699] Okay.

[700] And then plus my wife's car.

[701] And then the $191 ,000 is for our house, and then I have 11 left on my car.

[702] Okay, so we got two car loans and credit cards and personal loans?

[703] Just one personal loan and one credit card, yes, sir.

[704] Okay.

[705] Okay, and what does just the consumer debt add up to?

[706] If you take out the mortgage.

[707] Right at $43 ,000.

[708] Great.

[709] So that's the number I want you to tattoo in your mind right now.

[710] How much money do you guys make per year?

[711] She makes around 50.

[712] I'm actually on disability, but I make around 19, and then I actually am able to do this delivery order thing, so I can make an extra $1 ,100 a month.

[713] So I make around $19 ,000, not including the $12 ,000 that's not guaranteed every month.

[714] Okay, so maybe we'll call that $30 ,000, $69 ,000.

[715] Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[716] So 30 for you, 50 for her, we're going to call that $80, and we've got $43 to pay off.

[717] So now this becomes a little math equation going, how quickly can we pay off $43, make an $80, of course, after taxes.

[718] Now, focused on the consumer debt instead of the mortgage and go, how much margin?

[719] do we have outside of our normal bills that we could create to throw at this debt?

[720] Because I'm looking at this going, could you, after taxes, this become 55, 60 ,000?

[721] Do you guys are working with?

[722] Yes, yes.

[723] Okay.

[724] Yeah, right around.

[725] So we're talking five grand a month.

[726] What's your mortgage payment?

[727] $14 .50.

[728] Okay.

[729] So once you subtract your normal bills, your basics, we're talking food, utility, shelter, transportation, insurance.

[730] Do you have an extra pile of money at the end of each month, or are you guys in the red?

[731] we're almost in the red yes very very close to it because of all the debt payments that well the credit card is the main thing because that you know the interest rate is outranging so that's the main thing we're working on but we can't work on it too much so basically what i like every ounce of income i make outside whenever i'm doing deliveries or things like that i throw all that straight towards a credit card because the interest rate is so high and so little actually goes to the principal, you know, and the less goes to the interest.

[732] So talking about all this, do you see why investing right now is not a good idea?

[733] Yes.

[734] You don't have any money.

[735] That's why I was so curious.

[736] Do you know how you could get more money to invest?

[737] If you freed up all those debt payments, what would that add up to in your life, these consumer debts?

[738] That $43 ,000, free up all those payments.

[739] Is that like an extra $1 ,000 a month in your life?

[740] Oh, yeah.

[741] You could do some investing with an extra thousand bucks and no payments, right?

[742] Yes, sir.

[743] So we're going to get you back to investing.

[744] I know you said you're in your 30s?

[745] I'm 33 and my wife's 30.

[746] Okay, I'm 34.

[747] And let me tell you, you can pop on to our investing calculator and go, all right, we're going to be debt free in two years.

[748] And then six to 12 months later, we're going to have a fully funded emergency fund.

[749] So you will be, what, 36 years old by then?

[750] Yes.

[751] Big whoop.

[752] And you're going to be investing 15 % of your household income.

[753] which for you guys by 80 grand.

[754] So let's say 12 grand a year, right?

[755] Okay.

[756] And let's say you're starting with zero.

[757] I'm using this calculator right now to show you from age, this is pretty mind -blowing.

[758] Yeah, I want you to share this because I'm looking at an eye -popping number here on your screen.

[759] Well, okay.

[760] You ready for this?

[761] From age 36 to age 60, if you start with zero, and that's age 60.

[762] Most people will work beyond that.

[763] $1 ,200 a month, because remember, you're going to invest 15%.

[764] of your income, which is about 15 grand, at 10 % rate of return, like you said, the S &P 500, on average, 10 to 12 % since its inception, you would have $1 .5 million at age 60.

[765] Holy, okay.

[766] And that's if you start three years from now, Austin.

[767] But can I tell you what most people do?

[768] Most people keep fiddling with debt.

[769] They're investing 2%, 3%, putting money in acorns and some spare change, hoping they're going to have money one day.

[770] instead our plan says hey one thing at a time focus on the debt focus on the emergency fund then we can get to investing with a vengeance so that's what I want for you and I think you'll get there in no time but continue getting that income up that's a huge part of it so can I do a little exercise let's do with you um and I'm trying to think of the person who's maybe listening and I'm not young I'm not 33 34 I'm let's put in age 50 okay let's make up let's let's uh let's let's say 50 to 67 is that fair age 50 to age 66 Okay.

[771] And let's take a reasonable salary, the 15%.

[772] What do you think is the right number?

[773] I think 70 grand is average in America for households.

[774] 70 grand, okay.

[775] So we're talking 15 % is 10 .5.

[776] Which is, Ken, if you're doing the math at home, going to be 875 a month.

[777] So 875 a month, let's say you started with zero.

[778] At age 50.

[779] At age 50, you start with zero and you invest 875 a month at 10%.

[780] You would have almost half a million dollars.

[781] That's extraordinary At 11 % Over half a million At 12 % You would have almost 600 ,000 That's what Thanks for doing that Because I want people to understand It's not too late You can really make up some ground And that's on a very reasonable number there So really fun stuff And that yeah Most people in their 50s are at the top of their salary Yeah absolutely fantastic It is doable Great call Austin You guys are going to be okay Just follow the plan All right don't move I'm George Actually I'm Ken Coleman I'm George You're George Campbell.

[782] I don't know what's happening.

[783] I'd love to be, Ken. I know one thing.

[784] This is The Ramsey Show.

[785] We'll be right back.

[786] Welcome back to The Ramsey Show.

[787] I'm Ken Coleman.

[788] George Campbell joins me. Triple -A 825 -5 -225 is the number.

[789] Thrill that you're with us.

[790] Grace is joining us now in Jacksonville, Florida.

[791] Grace, how can we help?

[792] Hi, thank you for taking my call.

[793] You bet.

[794] So I'm calling for two reasons today.

[795] The first are my best friend, Alyssa and Brian, completed baby step number.

[796] Q today.

[797] So I wanted to give them a shout out.

[798] Oh, what's their names again?

[799] Alissa and Brian.

[800] Alissa and Brian, way to go.

[801] You guys are rock stars.

[802] Hello.

[803] Absolutely.

[804] But my husband and I actually have a question as well.

[805] We've been working the baby steps and we have two paid off vehicles, a car and a truck.

[806] We have a baby on the way so the truck won't be conducive to our family.

[807] We are wondering if we should sell the truck and throw the money at our student loans.

[808] Could you just live with one car?

[809] Is that the plan?

[810] For a bit until we save up to pay in cash for our next vehicle, I think we could do that, yeah.

[811] Okay.

[812] What's left on the student loans?

[813] Well, so far we've paid off 100K in total between our cars and the loans, and we have 40K left.

[814] Awesome.

[815] So this will be knocked out pretty quick.

[816] What's your household income?

[817] Household income is 150K.

[818] Love it.

[819] And what's the truck worth?

[820] The truck is probably worth 16K right now at the low end.

[821] Okay.

[822] So if you sell it for 16, it'll knock your student loans down to 24?

[823] Yeah, that's correct.

[824] Okay, so it just help you speed this up, but it's not going to be a, you're not knocking it out completely.

[825] Do you have any other savings?

[826] We have our emergency fund, and that's about it.

[827] We're full -blown doing the baby steps.

[828] Okay, because one thing I'm going to mention is while you're having a kid, we call this stork mode, and we tell people, hey, pause the debt snowball, and you need to save up and just stack up cash until mom and baby are home healthy, so that you have money to cover any unexpected medical expenses.

[829] Okay.

[830] So I might, you know, hold off and save up as much cash as you can.

[831] When's the baby do?

[832] The 4th of July.

[833] Woo!

[834] Wow.

[835] Very exciting.

[836] Ken loves that.

[837] He loves Independence Day.

[838] I do.

[839] I'm trying not to break out into the Star Spangled Banner right now.

[840] I'm going to hold back.

[841] Where's Lee Greenwood when you need him?

[842] Yeah.

[843] Don't get me started.

[844] There we go.

[845] So I think you guys are on to something here selling the truck if you don't need it.

[846] And I would stack up as much cash as you can.

[847] And then at that point, we can sell the truck.

[848] We can clean up the student loans.

[849] And making $150.

[850] Do you guys just have the student loans?

[851] loan payment right now?

[852] Yeah, that's it.

[853] That's our only debt.

[854] Okay.

[855] We do have a mortgage.

[856] Sure.

[857] Well, I think I would set a goal for how quickly you're going to clean up the student loan.

[858] I mean, it would be amazing if you could clean up the student loan and have the emergency savings by the time babies here, depending on what your income is doing.

[859] Well, we're tracking having the student loans cleared right about when the baby's here or shortly after.

[860] We pay about $40 ,000 a month.

[861] Okay.

[862] That's how much you're able to throw at it.

[863] Yes.

[864] That's fantastic.

[865] Well, if you can sell the truck, clean up the student loans, and have an emergency fund in place by the time baby's here, then I would go with that plan.

[866] That's the goal.

[867] That's a fun, aggressive goal.

[868] Yeah, you guys are on track.

[869] That's exciting.

[870] Love it.

[871] And love the shout out for their friends.

[872] That's really cool.

[873] It's a good friend right there.

[874] That's a great tribe to be a part of, people that are getting out of debt and taking control their money.

[875] Let's go now to Salt Lake City, Utah.

[876] Grayson is on the line.

[877] Grayson, how can we help?

[878] Hey, so I've listened to your guys' show just a little bit here and there, some videos on Facebook and that kind of thing.

[879] I feel like, you know, it's a lot of times about these big bets and those kinds of scenarios.

[880] And me and my life, you know, we're young.

[881] We're just trying to get started.

[882] We're both in school.

[883] And we're trying to figure out the best ways to get into like a routine budget and get started on the investing in that kind of thing, you know, setting long -term goals.

[884] Cool.

[885] So where are you guys at financially right now?

[886] What's the household income?

[887] Yeah, so it varies on a month -to -month basis just because we both work part -time and, you know, hours vary a lot.

[888] So as I look back over the last couple of months, it's probably somewhere between $2 ,500 to like $4 ,500, give or take.

[889] Okay.

[890] And that's your net income or gross?

[891] Yeah.

[892] No. And what are you guys doing for work?

[893] I left high school basketball and my wife works as a C &A for a senior care center.

[894] How much do you make rough in high school basketball?

[895] It's $62 a game, actually.

[896] Okay.

[897] And are you full -time student?

[898] Did I hear?

[899] Yeah.

[900] Okay.

[901] All right.

[902] When will you both graduate?

[903] Next spring, if everything goes on track.

[904] Okay.

[905] And then your incomes will go.

[906] go up after that?

[907] Yeah.

[908] Cool.

[909] And how much debt do you guys have?

[910] The only thing that we have is my car and my parents, they bought it outright for it in cash, and I've just been paying them ever since, and there's about $9 ,000 left on that.

[911] And you just owe that to your family, with no real terms and conditions.

[912] Right, yeah.

[913] Okay.

[914] How much do you have in savings?

[915] 8 ,500.

[916] Oh, wow.

[917] Well, this debt's almost gone.

[918] I would, uh, once you got 10, I'd pay that off and have the thousand left for your starter emergency fund.

[919] Okay.

[920] And that'll clean up your debt, right?

[921] So you both would have no debt at that point?

[922] Yeah.

[923] Okay.

[924] And then we can begin to build a fully funded emergency fund of three to six months of expenses.

[925] So looking at your budget, I would go through all of the expenses, add those up for one month.

[926] On a given month, it costs us $3 ,000 to cover all of our basic bills.

[927] let's have six months.

[928] That's 18 grand.

[929] We need to focus on saving up.

[930] Okay.

[931] That's probably going to take you guys another 12 months.

[932] Sounds about right, yeah.

[933] Okay.

[934] So about a year from now, you're ready to invest because you have no payments in the world and you have a bunch of money ready to protect you.

[935] That's going to feel good, isn't it?

[936] Yeah.

[937] And you said you guys are young.

[938] How old are you two?

[939] I'm 21.

[940] My wife is 19.

[941] She turns 20 in a couple weeks.

[942] Oh, my goodness.

[943] Think about that.

[944] 22 and 20 years old.

[945] No payments, fully funded emergency fund.

[946] You're graduating.

[947] Your income's going to go up.

[948] Now we can begin investing 15 % of our income at that point and really start to build some wealth.

[949] That would be nice.

[950] Yeah.

[951] And you talked about starting your marriage on the right foot.

[952] Goodness gracious, man. Having no debt payments and an emergency fund is going to help you avoid about 90 % of your marital fights.

[953] That's the goal.

[954] We've wondered, too, though, with both of our work situations, is we would really like to get a second car.

[955] We've been holding it off, obviously, as much as possible because we don't want to go into debt, but we also like having a savings account that we can, you know, just have in case we need something.

[956] What would you guys recommend in that scenario of, you know, if we need a second car, how to go about getting one?

[957] You need more money.

[958] You buy the car you can afford in cash.

[959] And if you don't like that car, you need to keep saving.

[960] and you need to keep living off one car.

[961] But those are your only two options.

[962] Do not go into debt.

[963] So one of the things that will help you here is, because we say things like that and you go, okay, I get it.

[964] But what you need to start looking at is, what would 7 ,000 buy me?

[965] I'm randomly picking a number.

[966] What would 10 ,000 buy me?

[967] What would 12 ,000 buy me in Salt Lake City?

[968] Start shopping, okay?

[969] You can go look at, use cars, go under 15 ,000, under 10, under 5, whatever.

[970] And just begin to go, okay, ah, all right.

[971] So now we have a target because it's really, hard to to chase something that's not clear.

[972] And so if we go, okay, I saw a couple of cars and I think, I think, babe, if we come up with 10 grand, we're able to get you a great car or whatever, okay?

[973] Now we have a very clear goal.

[974] So now all of a sudden you go, what must I do to get 10 grand extra in cash?

[975] Well, I'm going to be reffing more basketball games or I'm doing something different.

[976] You know, I'm selling anything that I've got or whatever.

[977] So now we go, okay, we work backwards.

[978] It's just reverse engineering.

[979] Good $10 ,000 car, $8 to 10 ,000.

[980] is going to get us a pretty solid car for us.

[981] So that's what we've got to come up with.

[982] And so now you have a very clear attainable goal.

[983] That's how you accomplish stuff like that.

[984] Got it?

[985] Yeah, that makes sense.

[986] All right.

[987] Your sharp young man, congratulations on being in a situation like this with a young married couple, their whole future in front of them, George, in good shape.

[988] Yeah, 21 years old.

[989] That's amazing.

[990] He's getting this stuff now.

[991] If he actually does the stuff we just taught him, he's going to be a multi -millionaire with a wonderful marriage.

[992] Oh, makes me think back to the last segment when you got out the old investment calculator.

[993] They are not far from being able to invest and just really reap the benefits.

[994] For a second, you were about to go coach some basketball, Ken, you're like, hey, this is a good side gig.

[995] I love to see Coach Coleman out there.

[996] Yeah.

[997] I mean, look, 62 bucks a game isn't bad, but he needs more money than that.

[998] This is The Ramsey Show.

[999] We'll be right back.

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[1008] Today's question comes from Jason in Virginia.

[1009] My wife and I have taken the FPU class.

[1010] We have no debt and we own a home worth $270 ,000.

[1011] I feel like the focus of your programs are directed toward people who live in upper middle class.

[1012] We live in the country.

[1013] We homestead.

[1014] We grow a lot of our own food and I work full time and side jobs.

[1015] My wife cares for her elderly mother full -time.

[1016] We hire assistant care to give my wife one day a week to get out of the house.

[1017] But when I look over the list that I'm supposed to be living up to, I feel as if I have failed.

[1018] I've never worked a job that has a retirement plan.

[1019] I've never had a large income.

[1020] I feel God has blessed us, but my present retirement plan is work till you die.

[1021] Wow.

[1022] That's a strategy.

[1023] Well, let me say this before you break the money part down.

[1024] you know, I believe we were made to work, and I think that there's certainly, in the older season of your life, you certainly want a downshift, yes, but not doing anything, working to a point to keep your mind active is certainly, certainly helpful.

[1025] So I understand, like, we were talking about this other day, Stacy and I with our retirement planner, and he's like, Ken, you're going to work until you're 70.

[1026] And I go, 70?

[1027] Like, I want to be puttsing around, driving around, still putting a suit.

[1028] on trying to get myself together in the morning to go do something, speak, communicate, something well into my 70s.

[1029] So to that end, I don't want to poo -poo this idea.

[1030] But it sounds like there's a cynicism to it.

[1031] Yeah, something's off here.

[1032] Or I'm going to have to work until I die.

[1033] Yeah.

[1034] Which is different.

[1035] So he says he's taking FPU.

[1036] They have no debt.

[1037] They have a home worth 270.

[1038] He says he's never worked a job that has a retirement plan.

[1039] Let me make it clear to everyone out there.

[1040] Just because your job doesn't have a retirement plan doesn't mean you shouldn't be investing or that you can't invest.

[1041] There are lots of ways to do this if you're self -employed.

[1042] There's SEP IRAs and solo 401Ks.

[1043] Anyone with earned income can contribute to a Roth IRA or a backdoor Roth IRA if your income's too high.

[1044] And so there's no excuse to just not be investing.

[1045] There's even taxable brokerage accounts outside of retirement that you can just shovel money away to grow with compound interest.

[1046] So I don't like this idea that, well, I don't have a retirement plan so I don't invest.

[1047] So we need to start.

[1048] I don't know how old you guys are.

[1049] It doesn't say here.

[1050] But if she has an elderly mother, it tells me they can't be that old.

[1051] And so I would get on the ball here and start investing and start having a plan to where you get to work, but you don't have to work.

[1052] Yeah.

[1053] It's a very different mentality.

[1054] Yeah.

[1055] Great advice.

[1056] Thank you, Jason.

[1057] Get your chin up a little bit.

[1058] I just want to address something very quickly.

[1059] Our baby steps are not in any way designed for upper middle class.

[1060] I do want to address that.

[1061] I would say they work for all classes.

[1062] And let's not forget, by the way, that there are more six -figure earners in America right now living paycheck to paycheck than any other time in American history.

[1063] So that's upper -class, upper -middle -class, middle -class, and down.

[1064] So this is just...

[1065] Now, when they start the baby steps, they tell us, yeah, we were making $40 ,000, $60 ,000, $80 ,000, and we did side jobs, and we got our income up, and we got the promotion, we switched careers.

[1066] All of that's going to help you get to that six -figure household level.

[1067] level, but the average household in America is 70 grand.

[1068] Yeah.

[1069] And you can do this plan making 70 grand.

[1070] That's exactly right.

[1071] It's just discipline and it's just understanding the baby steps that they work together.

[1072] And once you get momentum, we've seen this, what's the latest data on people that take FPU, how much they are able to pay off and save over that nine week period?

[1073] Oh, I believe it's like an $8 ,000 turnaround between the debt paid and dollars saved.

[1074] Yeah.

[1075] And see, here's my point.

[1076] Once you really get this system and you begin to, you begin to experienced momentum, right?

[1077] It may come, momentum may look like getting that first $1 ,000 for some people.

[1078] For others, it's knocking out two or three of the debts in the baby step two.

[1079] But it's kind of like, you ever had a pringles, George?

[1080] Have you ever just had one pringle?

[1081] No, once you pop, you just can't stop.

[1082] That's the tagline.

[1083] And so same thing.

[1084] Once you get going in the baby steps, the momentum just builds and builds and builds and it's doable.

[1085] That's so true.

[1086] Well, other plans out there, can.

[1087] It's like the financial plan is like cottage cheese.

[1088] I'm like, I wouldn't even take a spoon of that.

[1089] It's not interesting to me. It's not.

[1090] Who wants cottage cheese?

[1091] Don't even know what's in there.

[1092] I don't want.

[1093] Too much cottage.

[1094] That's it.

[1095] Let's go to AJ who's in Buffalo, New York.

[1096] AJ, how can we help?

[1097] How are you guys doing today?

[1098] Good.

[1099] Are you in the Buffalo area?

[1100] Well, not at the moment.

[1101] Currently, my wife I travel for work, so we're kind of up and down the East Coast right now.

[1102] Well, you know what I was thinking.

[1103] I'm a big football fan.

[1104] I was looking at the playoff game last year and all that, last week, all that snow and just insane what you folks deal with up there.

[1105] You guys are resilient.

[1106] Yeah.

[1107] We get like eight inches here, and it's like apocalyptic.

[1108] You guys?

[1109] Yeah, it's a Tuesday.

[1110] No problem.

[1111] Yeah, it's a Tuesday.

[1112] So how can we help, AJ?

[1113] So right now, my wife, she's got out of work, I just picked her up, and we're kind of going back and forth.

[1114] The two paths we're looking at right now.

[1115] We're looking to settle down, start a family, you know, we don't want to wait too much longer.

[1116] You know, we just turn 31, both of us.

[1117] And right now we have either the path of settling down, getting my wife a new job because she is a traveler, and or buying a house, settling down, whatnot, and or we have been given the option to purchase a fitness center.

[1118] And we're trying to figure out what financially is going to make most sense for us at this point.

[1119] Tell me about the fitness center.

[1120] Before we get to a job for her, what's the fitness center situation?

[1121] So I previously come from a fitness background and whatnot, and it's always been my goal to potentially down the road at some point on a gym.

[1122] It's kind of something we've always toyed with with the option, if it's something, you know, maybe like a passive income source or something, you know, down the road for us.

[1123] And we kind of got given the option.

[1124] to potentially buy a gym, and we wouldn't need to take a loan out on it.

[1125] So we're trying to figure out if that is the correct move for us.

[1126] It'd be an owner -operator gym for us, so my wife would take over that position as a manager there.

[1127] Is that gym profitable right now?

[1128] Yes.

[1129] How profitable?

[1130] So overall, net, as far as cash flow, probably talking like $2 .50 a year.

[1131] Okay.

[1132] And how familiar are you with the ins and outs and operations of running a gym?

[1133] Not super familiar.

[1134] Yeah.

[1135] I got warning signs.

[1136] Yeah, I got warning signs because of two things.

[1137] Number one, how much would you have to take out?

[1138] What would be the loan amount?

[1139] About $500 ,000.

[1140] Yeah, that's crazy to me. You have no experience at all.

[1141] it's not spitting out a lot of profit 250's pretty low margin and you said passive income no chance running a gym is about a passive is running a marathon it's just not a passive income model and so there's just a couple of signs and again i'm not a j in any way trying to be unkind or I love the entrepreneurial vision, I don't want you to take, of course, we don't tell anybody to take out loans.

[1142] So the answer on that is no, but it's just not a good business to get into, given the fact that you have no experience in it, and you're thinking it's a passive income model.

[1143] I'll give it back to George here, but I would rather your wife go get a really good paying job and let's forget about gym ownership or owning any company right now that we have no experience in at all.

[1144] George, is that too unkind?

[1145] No, I just, I think anytime we have, we're presented with the option or the opportunity to go half a million dollars into debt, I go red flag, red flag.

[1146] Yeah, yikes.

[1147] I would pause and go, how do we do this the right way?

[1148] How do we cash flow this?

[1149] This might be a plan that you do 10 years from now when you can save up that kind of money.

[1150] But we just had a call this week, AJ.

[1151] They took out 200 grand in SBA loans.

[1152] The business failed.

[1153] They're working regular jobs, and they're screwed now.

[1154] They're freaking out.

[1155] and half a million is over double that.

[1156] So you've got to think about the what ifs and not just get starry -eyed about what could be.

[1157] Yeah, save up cash.

[1158] If you want to get into business, save up the cash to start it the right way.

[1159] Start slow.

[1160] Save up a lot of cash to buy something that's already profitable.

[1161] This is The Ramsey Show.

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[1163] I'm Ken Coleman, George Campbell, joins me. The phone number is AAA -825.

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[1166] Let's go to Michael now, who joins us in Sacramento, California.

[1167] Michael, how can we help?

[1168] Hey, guys.

[1169] How's it going?

[1170] Good.

[1171] How are you, sir?

[1172] Doing good.

[1173] Better than I deserve, as David would say.

[1174] There you go.

[1175] Hey, so a quick question on specifically baby step number six for in terms of paying off the house.

[1176] We have a pretty low interest rate at about 3 .37, five.

[1177] So that being said, does it make more sense to put all the monthly payments, like extra monthly payments towards the house, like installments?

[1178] Or I was curious about maybe throwing it all in a, you know, high -yield savings or like an index fund or something, and then just getting up the lump sum and kind of paying it off in one go?

[1179] Great question, Michael.

[1180] And I love that you're actively trying to pay this house down.

[1181] And we get this question a lot right now because people do have these lower interest mortgages, you know, sub 5%, and their savings accounts are making 5%.

[1182] So they're saying, like, why would I even pay off the mortgage?

[1183] But your question is, should I sock away the money in the high -yield savings, and at the end of the year, throw that at the mortgage?

[1184] Correct.

[1185] So mathematically, I'd have to be looking at the amortization schedule and get super nerdy, but you can do that with your own numbers.

[1186] I don't think it's going to make any mathematical sense to do that.

[1187] Like, the spread just isn't worth it for the $100, because your interest on your mortgage payment is going to be calculated monthly.

[1188] So the sooner we knock that principle down, the less interest we're going to pay every month.

[1189] And you'll notice the interest is sort of front -loaded with that mortgage payment.

[1190] So when you first start paying down the mortgage, you're not making any progress because most of that is going toward interest.

[1191] So the sooner we can start flipping the scales here and getting most of the money going toward principal, the less interest you're going to pay, the faster the mortgage is going to get paid off.

[1192] So I'll tell you what I did.

[1193] We just put extra money on top of the principal payment every single month.

[1194] So once a month, if it was on the first and the mortgage was two grand, let's try to put an extra grand that month on top of the principal.

[1195] And so that, I think, is the best and simplest method with the least amount of brain calories.

[1196] Okay, that makes sense.

[1197] So even if we were to be able to get an index fund or something and even pull it up from like 5 % to say like 10 % or whatever, you would still just suggest paying it off monthly and not going through what's your time horizon for this uh well so i i have a my salary is about 115 that i get paid monthly and then i have a side business um that i also i get about three to five thousand on that um so right now we're kind of in the space where we can live pretty comfortably on uh the salary um and not touch the side stuff as much uh so it like i said it varies some months it's two some months it could be three or five or seven or whatever.

[1198] So the thought was to just put any of that extra towards, you know, whichever way we decide to go put that towards the mortgage.

[1199] And so we owe about 330 or so.

[1200] So I was kind of doing some of the math on it.

[1201] And, you know, if we average out of like three grand a month extra that we're paying, I think it's going to end up being about like a five or eight year maybe a time span.

[1202] So it's going to be a minute, you know, because we're not going to get it paid off right away anyway.

[1203] So that's where I wasn't.

[1204] sure if, you know, long -term could that interest start kind of building up and working in our favor versus, you know, paying away at the 3 .375.

[1205] Well, paying down the mortgage now is going to be a forced savings plan, which I love.

[1206] And putting the money in an investment account, you're adding a whole lot of risk to the equation because we don't know what that account's going to look like in a few years.

[1207] And so I would rather just pay this down now, cut down the amount of interest you're paying every month, and it is going to be so encouraging and freeing to see that interest go down, to see the principal go down, see more going toward this mortgage actually getting paid off.

[1208] So I would just do it every single month instead of waiting in a lump sum.

[1209] And the other thing that happens is you have this money sitting in an index fund and an investment account.

[1210] And all of a sudden you go, well, we could really redo the kitchen with this money.

[1211] Should we really pay it down the house?

[1212] That's what happens psychologically speaking, Michael.

[1213] That's just human nature.

[1214] So I like the fourth savings plan of just saying every single month, whatever extra we can muster up or throwing at the mortgage.

[1215] and it's going to be more motivating too because you're not going to see that mortgage balance go down by doing it the other way.

[1216] Definitely, yeah, that makes sense.

[1217] So that's what I would encourage and it's what I've done personally and it's how my wife and I have paid off our mortgage and I have no regrets of the what ifs of what if I invested that money or put it in the savings account to make the spread, it's not interesting to me. Well, the point that you're making here is that a paid off house or investing in your house by paying it down is a much safer play than even an index fund.

[1218] as good as that return is long term.

[1219] Well, and think about it, if you pay off the mortgage faster, now we free up the mortgage payment to now invest in the index fund for the rest of our life.

[1220] Both hand, yeah.

[1221] So people think, well, I would rather invest.

[1222] We've still been investing 15 % of our income the whole time you're paying down the house.

[1223] That's baby step four and six.

[1224] So great question.

[1225] Let's go to Hunter now in Salt Lake City, Hunter.

[1226] How can we help?

[1227] Hey, guys.

[1228] Thanks for having me. Sure.

[1229] What's up?

[1230] So I have a career question.

[1231] So just a little bit of background.

[1232] finished a degree in healthcare management within the last year.

[1233] And just recently, last month, actually, I accepted a position to manage a primary care clinic in Salt Lake.

[1234] And honestly, it's just kind of not feeling right.

[1235] I've been working in healthcare for the past three years or so.

[1236] But I'm just wondering if it's a bad idea for to look into a career change after only being in this position for about a month.

[1237] Might be.

[1238] Let's figure it out.

[1239] What?

[1240] What What's giving you pause?

[1241] What's making you question this direction?

[1242] You just went to school for this.

[1243] You got a job in this, it sounds like, in a month in, you're going, whoa, what is going on there?

[1244] Right.

[1245] Give me, give me the rough, the rough, the roughest part of this that's causing you to question it.

[1246] Well, honestly, I don't feel like I've ever been that passionate about the work.

[1247] Like, when I was working, I was working in a separate clinic before.

[1248] And honestly, I really liked the people.

[1249] And when I was going to school for it, I liked the people.

[1250] I was, going to school with and everything.

[1251] I just don't feel like I'm necessarily passionate for the work.

[1252] And this clinic that I've just started at just doesn't have a very good culture.

[1253] So, okay.

[1254] So we don't like the people.

[1255] It's okay to say.

[1256] Right.

[1257] Yeah, that's part of it.

[1258] Well, then I would certainly not make a pivot out of this career lane just based on that.

[1259] You know?

[1260] It's kind of like saying, I've been married a month and we had our first fight.

[1261] I think I'm going to divorce.

[1262] And they're like, whoa.

[1263] Wait a second here.

[1264] Like, that's part of the deal, right?

[1265] There's going to be some days where you don't love your wife so much, right?

[1266] But you choose to love her anyway and vice versa.

[1267] So I think in this situation, it would absolutely be premature, right?

[1268] Because, but I will tell you there's a, what I would call a yellow flag waving.

[1269] The yellow flag is that you were never really passionate about this work.

[1270] Anyway, sounds like you chose this as a safe professional path.

[1271] Is that about right?

[1272] yeah that's right well I will tell you the odds are that eventually we're going to make a pivot anyway but but let's but let's stay let's kind of like stay still for a moment and realize that okay I'm an adult I made my bed I got to sleep in it and either I stay in this health care side of things the health care management side of things I move maybe six months from now a year from now to a better culture so that I don't look like a flake because I got to keep this resume and I got to keep this professional image intact so that I can keep climbing.

[1273] You understand that?

[1274] Yes.

[1275] And now I'm going to figure out, okay, what is that pivot?

[1276] Let me do the hard work now that I should have done in college.

[1277] I'm going to give you, by the way, two tools.

[1278] I'm going to give you my get clear career assessment.

[1279] And I'm going to give you the book from paycheck to purpose.

[1280] They go together.

[1281] The assessment is like a compass and the book from paycheck to purpose is like the field guide to climb the mountain.

[1282] Does that make sense?

[1283] Yeah, it does, yeah.

[1284] So I'm going to give you those two resources because here's what you're trying to figure out.

[1285] How can I use what I do best, that's your talent, to do work I love.

[1286] You mentioned passion.

[1287] That's what that is.

[1288] To do work you really enjoy.

[1289] To then produce a result that you care deeply about, this is where meaningful work comes into play, right?

[1290] I see that I enjoy the work, but I also am very, very, very.

[1291] very proud and I feel very significant because of the result that I'm creating.

[1292] That's the answer.

[1293] To use what you do best, to do what you love, to produce results that matter.

[1294] Do you get that?

[1295] Yeah, it sounds great.

[1296] That, my man, is what I'm all about helping people figure out.

[1297] I'm going to give you those two tools.

[1298] Hang on the line.

[1299] Austin will get them to you.

[1300] Now, listen, here's the key.

[1301] Stay where you are now, okay, until we can figure out where we want to go next.

[1302] and right now you're just dealing with a bad culture and you're just going to be a big boy, put your big boy pants on and learn how to deal with it.

[1303] And if we make a temporary move that leads us to a long -term play, that's the goal.

[1304] George Campbell, Good Hour.

[1305] Hunter, thank you for the call.

[1306] James Childs and the crew.

[1307] Thank you guys.

[1308] This is The Ramsey Show.

[1309] Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, this is the Ramsey Show where we help you win in your life, specifically with your money, in your work, and in your relationships.

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[1313] I'm Ken Coleman.

[1314] Thrill that you guys are hanging out with us today.

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[1318] You know what I mean?

[1319] I'm fair.

[1320] I hope you're not wrong.

[1321] I don't think I'm going to be.

[1322] I think it's going to be a bestseller.

[1323] I think it's going to be a number one.

[1324] I'm going to project that.

[1325] We've got another week.

[1326] We're We're wrapping up the first week of pre -sell, so here's the deal.

[1327] If you're new to the program and you love George, and let's be honest, there's no way that you're not new to the program and you don't love George.

[1328] He's just that lovable.

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[1332] Can you give me 10 seconds?

[1333] I believe the system is designed to keep you broke, and it's not all of your fault, but it's your responsibility to rise above the system and live with more margin, more freedom, more options, and totally unplugged from this toxic money culture of debt.

[1334] Yeah.

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[1338] All right, let's go to Cincinnati, Ohio.

[1339] Jack is there.

[1340] Jack, how can we help?

[1341] Hi, how are you guys?

[1342] Good.

[1343] How are you, sir?

[1344] I'm good.

[1345] I wanted to get your input on a impending a house purchase for my family and I. We have been renting for right now, and we are going to be moving for a new job in a few months, and we've been looking at houses in the $6 ,000 to $900 ,000 range, but I feel like our financial situation is a little bit unique, and so I wanted to make sure that my calculations for that being a reasonable budget are correct.

[1346] Okay.

[1347] Lay it out for us.

[1348] So the bad news is I have $250 ,000 in student loans.

[1349] The good news is I've got zero credit card debt, zero car debt, and I use that student loan to become a doctor.

[1350] Oh, what kind of a doctor?

[1351] Let's just keep it to them in one of the higher paying specialties.

[1352] Oh, okay, very nice.

[1353] landed my, I'll call it dream job.

[1354] And so in a few months, we'll be moving for that.

[1355] And my new salary is going to be $600 ,000 a year.

[1356] Congratulations.

[1357] All right.

[1358] Fantastic.

[1359] That's the good news on top of the $250 ,000.

[1360] But we still get to $250 ,000.

[1361] So obviously we're planning on trying to pay that off in a year or less.

[1362] Good.

[1363] Good for you.

[1364] And so I wanted to make sure that, you know, we buy a house that will not inhibit our ability to pay that off as fast as possible.

[1365] So why not?

[1366] I'm going to lay out a different option, just option B right now or C, where you rent for a year where you're going to move to, and you use that year to pay off the debt, to get an emergency fund, to build up a down payment.

[1367] It might even be two years of renting.

[1368] What would be wrong with that move?

[1369] We have considered that.

[1370] The main reason why we don't want to do that is because we have been moving quite frequently for the last decade.

[1371] It's kind of how things go with the medical training process.

[1372] And so we are sick of moving and we're longing to be able to settle down somewhere and get a community and not have to uproot our lives.

[1373] every two years.

[1374] Can I push back on that?

[1375] That's the main thing.

[1376] Let me push back on that.

[1377] And first of all, I understand it.

[1378] Totally get it.

[1379] Ken has done some moves in his day.

[1380] I have.

[1381] Jack, I totally understand.

[1382] But you've done it this much over the last decade.

[1383] You can do it one more time.

[1384] And I think that's what George is proposing.

[1385] You can even hire some of those high -end movers that move all of, like, they'll unpack the junk drawer and put it back in your new junk drawer.

[1386] Yeah, I love that.

[1387] But just even higher up the ladder on the priority.

[1388] list than that.

[1389] I love that.

[1390] George is right.

[1391] You can get great movers and it's not that big of a deal.

[1392] However, you're moving to a new area, starting a new job.

[1393] I would not put the added pressure.

[1394] Do you have kids?

[1395] Yes.

[1396] Yeah.

[1397] See, Stacy and I, when we moved, now, so let me tell you, so you know that I'm saying this from experience, this is what I would do.

[1398] When Stacy and I moved back here nine years ago, we had lived here for three years, no kids.

[1399] We move away to Atlanta.

[1400] brings me back to join the team here nine years ago.

[1401] It's going to be 10 years in June.

[1402] And we rented for two years because this time around, even though we'd lived here three years before, it had been 11 years in that gap, George.

[1403] And we get three kids now, two of which were school age.

[1404] One was going to be starting kindergarten.

[1405] And we just said, you know, we're going to rent and resettle and get a lay of the land.

[1406] And I think even more so because of all the moves you guys was made in the last 10 years, I would rent, I like George's, I like George's suggestion for two reasons.

[1407] One, financial, he's right absolutely about that.

[1408] Two, gives you guys some time so that when you settle, you're settled.

[1409] We are familiar with the area we're going to be moving to, so it's not like it's a totally blind move.

[1410] All right, you know what?

[1411] I still go with George.

[1412] We are considering doing that path.

[1413] I was just curious if that number.

[1414] But you're considering taking on potentially a $700 ,000 mortgage or more.

[1415] Yeah, that's going to put you a million or more in debt.

[1416] So it's going to be harder to pay off the student loans.

[1417] Rent is going to be cheaper no matter where you're going when you're carrying that kind of debt.

[1418] And I recommend you do this with a 15 -year fixed -rate mortgage where the payment is no more than a quarter of your take -home pay.

[1419] Now, that parameter you won't struggle with because of your amazing income.

[1420] but I also recommend you guys save up 20 % down.

[1421] So think about your next goals.

[1422] We got to clean up the debt.

[1423] We need a fully funded emergency fund of six months.

[1424] We need a down payment of 20%.

[1425] We just have some priorities here.

[1426] And so that's why I don't recommend jumping into the house.

[1427] You'll be there in no time.

[1428] And I understand moving one more time is going to be a pain.

[1429] But when you do it our way, it's going to give you so much more peace and margin, a smaller mortgage that you're going to knock out more quickly.

[1430] And then you can afford all the home renovations and emergencies and the HVAC and all that stuff will just be a slight inconvenience.

[1431] That's our take, Jack.

[1432] That's probably not what you wanted to do.

[1433] What are you thinking before you called us?

[1434] What number were you thinking about spending on a house, which means lending?

[1435] I'm sorry?

[1436] What were you thinking, price -wise, when you called us, that you thought, well, I think I can do this.

[1437] Let me call George and Ken and let's see what they think.

[1438] What number were you putting on the house?

[1439] The average of houses we've been looking at online has been around 700.

[1440] Yeah.

[1441] Well, what would that put you?

[1442] How would that strain you?

[1443] Would that strain you at all?

[1444] Or do you feel about that $700 ,000?

[1445] How much could you put down?

[1446] I think that we would be able to, we would not be able to put much down at all.

[1447] So you move in with no equity whatsoever with a bigger mortgage.

[1448] I mean, we're talking, if you did $700 ,000 with nothing down, you're talking $7 ,500 ,000 on this mortgage every month where you could rent for two or three in a nice place.

[1449] So I'm doing that while you clean up this mess, but you'll be there in no time.

[1450] You make over 600 grand.

[1451] It's mind -boggling.

[1452] It's going to be a blink of an eye before you're in that house.

[1453] Yeah, I agree with you, George.

[1454] I think, Jack, if you can just trust George's advice on this, I think you're going to come out feeling so much better on this deal.

[1455] Have a great house.

[1456] No debt.

[1457] This is The Ramsey Show.

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[1460] I know you like when I say worldwide.

[1461] I just thought to myself, yeah, this is the international headquarters.

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[1474] AAA -8 -25 -5 -2 -25 is the number.

[1475] Let's go to the Big Apple.

[1476] Christopher joins us there.

[1477] Christopher, how can we help?

[1478] Yes, hi, sir.

[1479] I appreciate you guys answering my call.

[1480] I'm just kind of in a situation, and I want to learn how to kind of start my life independently and also manage my finances.

[1481] at the age of 23.

[1482] Okay.

[1483] Can you be more specific?

[1484] What challenges can we help you through now at the age of 23 that you're thinking through?

[1485] So I was living with my father from the time I moved in from the age of 15 to 22.

[1486] We were just living in an apartment together.

[1487] She passed in September of 22, so I was 22.

[1488] Oh, so sorry for that loss.

[1489] I appreciate that, sir.

[1490] Thank you.

[1491] And pretty much, from there, I kind of stayed in that apartment for a while, just rent -free, and I eventually got evicted.

[1492] And I had to move in with my uncle.

[1493] So that was back in April of 2023, so not even a year ago.

[1494] And which would call it.

[1495] So I've been living with my uncle, so my dad's brother, now for...

[1496] About eight months, and he also has his health ailment, like ailments as well.

[1497] Like, you know, he has COPD.

[1498] He's been on oxygen for 26 years.

[1499] He's 70 years old, for he's limited.

[1500] His time is limited.

[1501] And basically, you know, he's actually in the hospital right now.

[1502] It's just me and him living in an apartment.

[1503] He's going to be okay, but I just want to kind of just plan for the future, you know.

[1504] What are you doing for a living?

[1505] As of right now, I'm just a shift supervisor making $18 an hour at, you know, it's like a fast casual restaurant here in New Jersey.

[1506] Okay.

[1507] What are you making per year?

[1508] I couldn't tell you.

[1509] I would assume it's a very low income, such as I wouldn't say it's more than 25.

[1510] Is this part -time then?

[1511] No, it's actually full -time.

[1512] It's 18 an hour, 40 hours a week.

[1513] Okay.

[1514] So you're making about 36 -ish grand gross pay, but one of the things I want to come back to...

[1515] That is coming back to 25.

[1516] Yeah, Christopher, the fact that you don't know means you don't have any kind of budget, and that's going to hold you back no matter what the professional goals are.

[1517] We'll get to that.

[1518] So what do you want to do?

[1519] Do you have any sense of the direction that you want to take?

[1520] I do, 100%.

[1521] What is that?

[1522] I've never been too interested in, you know, any type of profession.

[1523] The only passionate thing I've ever really found in my life was health and fitness.

[1524] So I have a license as a, like a certification for to be a personal trainer through this program called Mazzam.

[1525] I have that under my belt.

[1526] Can you go work at a gym and work your way up to being personal trainer at the gym?

[1527] Sorry, what was that, sir?

[1528] Can you go work at a gym, even if it's for $18 an hour right now to get into that field?

[1529] Yeah, of course.

[1530] Yeah, 100%.

[1531] What's keeping you from doing that?

[1532] I don't know.

[1533] I think nothing really aside myself.

[1534] I think I took the loss, you know, a year and a half ago kind of rough, and it should have been, you know, affecting me in more ways mentally, and I realized.

[1535] and it kind of, you know, because as a personal trainer, it's mainly predicated upon sales.

[1536] Yeah.

[1537] So you have to go and talk up to clients and, you know, you can't be shy.

[1538] You have to be extroverted.

[1539] And, yeah, I'm sure you guys get the point.

[1540] Yeah.

[1541] So how can we help you today?

[1542] How can we help?

[1543] So basically, sir, I have 45 grand -ish in a estate account left now.

[1544] by my father.

[1545] I'm very thankful for that.

[1546] And that's essentially I have the ability to work.

[1547] I'm willing to do whatever kind of jobs I need to earn money.

[1548] Do you have any debt?

[1549] The only debt that I know of that I have is $1 ,500, so $1 ,500 and a credit card debt.

[1550] Okay.

[1551] And maybe I took out a few years ago to do Tri -Community College some fast loans, it's like kind of lower income household, you know, to send you to community college.

[1552] I might have, that might catch up with me in the future, but.

[1553] Christopher, here's what I want you to do, because you don't really know what's going on.

[1554] Go to annualcreditreport .com and you can pull your credit report for free from all three bureaus, and that's going to tell you exactly what you owe.

[1555] You need a very clear picture right now instead of just thinking and feeling what's going on, and then use that money that your father left you to clean up the, debt and get an emergency fund in place.

[1556] I think long term you need to get out of the situation and rent on your own with some roommates, because I know it's in New Jersey, it's expensive, but I would rather you rent with a guy your age who's on a similar path versus this situation.

[1557] Man, you've got to grieve.

[1558] You've had a lot of hard stuff happen, and I think it's sort of just held you back, which is fine, but we need to form a path to move forward.

[1559] And that means cleaning up the day, get the emergency fund, switching our career.

[1560] We got to get some mojo back, man. Yeah, Christopher You said something a minute ago that I want to challenge you on because you called today and so I want to honor your time and the fact that you've put yourself out there you said I'm willing to work to do whatever and I don't think you are I think you're allowing your fear and doubt maybe a combination of both you may have fear hanging out on one shoulder and doubt hanging out on the other and fear by the way is is worry that something bad is going to happen if I move forward.

[1561] Doubt is I don't believe something good will happen if I move forward.

[1562] Very different, but they gang up on you.

[1563] And the fact that you've done the hard work to get the licensing, I understand that building a successful personal training business is sales, yes.

[1564] But it doesn't mean you have to start there.

[1565] It doesn't mean you have to put all your eggs in that basket.

[1566] And maybe just, as George said earlier, I think it was a simple piece of advice, it was profound.

[1567] Just go work at a gym, man, and just get your confidence up, right?

[1568] And don't rely on, you know, being self -employed per se, if you can get one of those jobs.

[1569] Just get in the industry, get in there, remind yourself why you love.

[1570] You said the only thing you've ever been passionate about is the exercise, the nutrition, all that goes into that.

[1571] You need to get in that environment.

[1572] Because what that will do is get your heart re -engaged and give you that, what I call the juice, but it's just that motivation that you need to overcome the fear and the doubt.

[1573] That's what's missing right now, is you're not in that environment to where it is igniting your heart and giving you that real chemical reaction that the brain sends to the body and you're just kind of stuck and you've had a tough time and we get that and we honor that.

[1574] But you need to get in the zone, man, where you want to be.

[1575] be getting those places and then over time you're going to start to get more confident to go okay I see what it's going to take to build a little side business here and I start my physical training business as a side hustle I don't put all my eggs in that basket that's what I want you to hear today Christopher and I think that you've got this blanket on you of fear and doubt and the only way to pull that off is to actually step forward one little step at a time much like we're teaching the baby steps with get that a thousand dollars you know baby step one and go oh i accomplished that george i just think he needs to get going yeah i mean posting a neighborhood facebook group and go hey i'm doing mobile fitness i'll come to you yeah with a little bit of equipment and i'll show you how to do this that's a great way to get started at no cost to you yeah and get some clients that way and then work at the gym and start to make connections yeah hang on line i want to send ken's book proximity principle that's what i was thinking yeah great minds think alike it's unbelievable What's he going to get out of that?

[1576] He's going to get the playbook on how to make connections, getting around the right people, getting in the right places, and an opportunity to show up on his doorstep.

[1577] That's what that book does.

[1578] Hang on the line, Christopher.

[1579] This is The Ramsey Show.

[1580] Welcome back to The Ramsey Show.

[1581] I'm Ken Coleman, George Camel joins me, AAA 825 -225 is the number to jump in.

[1582] And George, you told me during the commercial break, you were excited to tell me about something.

[1583] What do you got on your mind here?

[1584] This is very excited.

[1585] I never know what you're going to hit me with.

[1586] You like steak?

[1587] I love a good steak.

[1588] This has to do a steak in a roundabout way.

[1589] So, Taste of Texas.

[1590] What is that?

[1591] It's a restaurant in Texas.

[1592] I have no affiliation.

[1593] They're not a sponsor.

[1594] But they posts on Instagram and they tagged us.

[1595] And here's the post can.

[1596] Our team's going to throw it up.

[1597] If you're watching on YouTube.

[1598] Oh, they tagged us.

[1599] They tagged us.

[1600] And here's what happened.

[1601] Here's the post.

[1602] Okay.

[1603] Today we celebrated 17 staff members who completed Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University course.

[1604] Nina and I had a drawing.

[1605] and two winners got $5 ,000 each to pay off credit cards and get out of credit card hell.

[1606] Laura and Jason were the lucky winners.

[1607] Employees were encouraged to pay the $80 for the course out of their own pockets, then submit a completion certificate for a reimbursement of $250.

[1608] I see what they did there.

[1609] A three -to -one bonus over the cost of the course.

[1610] The names of the 17 who completed the course went into the drawing for the two prizes.

[1611] So proud of them, and they threw up a photo.

[1612] Oh, those are the two winners.

[1613] That's amazing.

[1614] But it made me thinking, because you're in the workspace.

[1615] Yeah.

[1616] Imagine if every employer across America said, hey, we want to do this for our team.

[1617] We want to put them through Financial Peace University.

[1618] Or if you're in HR, an employer, smart dollar, is the corporate version of this.

[1619] How encouraging is that to your team to go, hey, we believe in you.

[1620] We know you guys have money goals.

[1621] We're a part of that because we're providing income for you and your families.

[1622] We want to see you win with money and pay off debt.

[1623] Well, I'll tell you.

[1624] That's incredible.

[1625] It's a benefit because here's what happens.

[1626] If you as a leader or manager, however you want to do it.

[1627] do it.

[1628] Taste of Texas was really innovative.

[1629] I thought pretty creative in doing this.

[1630] To not cover the cost, but skin in the game, you cover it.

[1631] When you finish it, you'll get more than you put in.

[1632] I love it.

[1633] That's a little bonus incentive there.

[1634] I thought it was great.

[1635] What happens is, is the end result of that.

[1636] And I want you to remind folks, again, give us the averages, because you know it off the top of your head.

[1637] People go through the nine -week course of Financial Peace University, and they're saving how much and paying how much off.

[1638] I believe they pay off $5 ,700 in the first 90 days and save $2 ,300.

[1639] So it's an $8 ,000 turnaround in three months.

[1640] So you take that number and as a manager and as a leader, you help your team member get to that point in their life and not just that initial turnaround.

[1641] I don't want to get locked in on that number, but it's the momentum that comes out of that.

[1642] That becomes an amazing employee benefit and they're going to be more engaged because they're not stressed out with money.

[1643] Yep.

[1644] So that leads to higher productivity and higher profitability.

[1645] There's higher morale.

[1646] It's a team -building exercise.

[1647] But all that leads to higher productivity and higher profitability, which you asked me the question.

[1648] Bottom line is, it's a great business growth strategy.

[1649] And in a day and age where people are moving on quicker, they're not as loyal because they don't get treated well, candidly.

[1650] Sure.

[1651] It's a great leadership play.

[1652] Well, and it says, I believe in you.

[1653] It really does.

[1654] When a leader, a company says I believe in you, I'm going to be more loyal to that company and more, I'm going to feel like I'm going to stay longer.

[1655] where is this taste of Texas out?

[1656] It's in Houston.

[1657] Oh, I was just in Houston for the national championship.

[1658] So I don't know if they'll...

[1659] I'm sure, I hope they end up hearing about this because I started looking at their menu can, and I'm now craving a tomahawk rabbi.

[1660] Can you imagine me downing 38 ounces of rabbi?

[1661] Let me tell you something.

[1662] It would take you three days to eat 38 ounces.

[1663] You're a little man. I think like the TV networks would be calling me saying we want to start a new series called Little Man versus Food.

[1664] Way more impressive.

[1665] I know that 38 ounces would give the meat sweats to just about anybody.

[1666] Taste of Texas, congratulations on great leadership.

[1667] George and I can be bought.

[1668] So this is not an endorsement anyway, but if you'd like to send a gift card the next time George and I are in Houston, we would love to come and will show up and sample the food and put it on Instagram.

[1669] And if you want to check out Smart Dollar, you can do that at Smartdollar .com.

[1670] It's our financial wellness benefit that you can offer to your team.

[1671] We have huge companies that do this, Ken. That's exactly right.

[1672] You haul and Costco.

[1673] It's one of the greatest personal benefits that a leader can give to their team member is to give them financial peace.

[1674] It's a huge, huge payoff.

[1675] By the way, before we move on, have you ever had a tomahawk steak?

[1676] I did at my bachelor party.

[1677] Oh, that was the one time.

[1678] How much did you eat?

[1679] Did you pull it up by the, did you handle it like a man?

[1680] Well, they ended up, they brought it out, and then they took it back and cut it for me to make it more palatable.

[1681] No, see.

[1682] If you're going to eat a tomahawk steak, you got to grab it and just chew on it like Fred Flintstone.

[1683] That's what you got to do with that.

[1684] I don't care where you're at.

[1685] That's what you've got to do, at least one bite.

[1686] Wow.

[1687] I don't care if it's a highfalutin, you know, hoity -toity, five -star steakhouse.

[1688] I'm grabbing that thing.

[1689] Like Mike Gundy, the head coach of Oklahoma State said, I'm a man. You got to grab it.

[1690] You lost me when he started talking about football.

[1691] You should know better.

[1692] That's true.

[1693] I'll explain it to him on the break, folks.

[1694] If you want to talk Madonna, I can do that all day.

[1695] But you can talk Madonna?

[1696] Not much.

[1697] me talking to you about college football is like someone giving me a maybe like a crash course on the planet Pluto which doesn't even exist anymore Pluto doesn't exist I think they took it out of the running in the textbooks That's not true It exists, it's just not classified as a planet anymore conspiracy theory it's not real James are you for real?

[1698] I didn't know this This is pretty old news at this point Yeah, I'll see it with a decade's old Okay I'm not kidding you This is breaking news to me. I had no idea.

[1699] Please tell me Uranus is still a planet.

[1700] That one's good, yeah.

[1701] We're safe.

[1702] All right.

[1703] All right, let's move on.

[1704] Erica is on the line in Minneapolis.

[1705] Erica, how can we help?

[1706] Hi, how are you guys?

[1707] Well, I hope you're okay, given that last two minutes you had to endure.

[1708] I apologize.

[1709] You're never going to get that back, but I hope you enjoyed it.

[1710] That's all right.

[1711] A little lesson for us all today, I guess.

[1712] Yes, absolutely.

[1713] I'm just calling because I've got a question in regards to what I'm being paid.

[1714] I currently work in supply chain in the Minneapolis area, and I've been working as a buyer for about seven years now for raw materials and distribution.

[1715] And I have to go for my annual review coming up here soon, and I'm just a bit nervous about what kind of percentage I'm asking for when looking at the duties required to move up to the next phase in my career.

[1716] Okay, let's break it down.

[1717] So what are you thinking, let's just, let's fast forward to this meeting with your leader.

[1718] What are you thinking you want to ask for, percentage -wise, as a raise?

[1719] At least 8 to 10%.

[1720] 8 % to 10%.

[1721] What's that based on?

[1722] I would just say just based on the like looking at ranges on salary .com for what I'm being paid.

[1723] Are those ranges?

[1724] Could you sit there in front of me?

[1725] Let's forget the boss for a moment.

[1726] But could you explain it to me right now to show that those are pretty close to apples to apples as it relates to your experience, your skill set, and then the industry itself?

[1727] Do you feel like that's pretty fair to say that you're being paid?

[1728] 8 to 10 % less than you should be?

[1729] Yes.

[1730] I mean, in the industry, the ranges go from anywhere from 66 to 82 ,000.

[1731] Where are you?

[1732] I am total compensation for the year without any health benefits or anything is I'm right at 66 .5.

[1733] Okay.

[1734] So you're on the low range, low end of the range.

[1735] Yes, sir.

[1736] All right.

[1737] That's really good.

[1738] So is your, do you have some anxiety?

[1739] over how to bring this up.

[1740] Is that what you're asking?

[1741] And a bit of anxiety and just when my supervisor gave me the position to move into a buyer's three.

[1742] And it seems that from the way I'm looking at it and the work I'm putting out every day, the only difference between a two and a three is that it says you have to have expert knowledge in the industry and materials and you have to have a bachelor's degree three to five years of experience, which I do have both of those.

[1743] Okay.

[1744] Have they brought up compensation?

[1745] Yes, we did have quite a few layoffs this year.

[1746] So I think that's what's giving me a bit of anxiety is pushing back with people.

[1747] The other buyer that I work with has said that she got 5%, although she's only been there about a year and a half, so I'm just...

[1748] That's good news for you.

[1749] That's good news, given that there's been layoffs.

[1750] Okay, and in 30 seconds, I'm going to give you the playbook for this that I give to everybody.

[1751] You've got to do your homework.

[1752] I feel like you've done a good job on homework, and you go in and you go, look, here's the industry standard, but you also need to know that your leader is probably not the sole authority on this approval.

[1753] Probably got to go up.

[1754] So what you've got to do is not put them on the defensive.

[1755] You've got to make the case and say, hey, I'm on the low end of the range based on the industry standard.

[1756] I like being here.

[1757] I want to be here.

[1758] I want to grow.

[1759] And so this is where I'm at on the range.

[1760] I certainly like to move up on the range.

[1761] What can I do to help you?

[1762] What's the measurement?

[1763] And that's the conversation.

[1764] It's a posture of humility and hunger, not demanding.

[1765] This is The Ramsey Show.

[1766] Welcome back to The Ramsey Show.

[1767] I'm Ken Coleman.

[1768] George Campbell joins me Triple -8 -8 -25 -5 -2 -2 -5 is the number to jump in at AAA 8 -25 -5 -2 -2 -2 -5.

[1769] Let's go to our scripture of the day.

[1770] It comes from Isaiah 54 -17.

[1771] When God is for you, no weapon formed against you will prosper.

[1772] Our quote, now you don't know who this guy is, George.

[1773] You don't know that yet.

[1774] Who is it?

[1775] Okay.

[1776] You assume that.

[1777] You know what?

[1778] Good call.

[1779] I apologize.

[1780] I stand corrected maybe.

[1781] John Wooden, the great coach from, that's where you lost me. I just know he's got a lot of great quotes.

[1782] I'm impressed.

[1783] UCLA, I'm going to give you partial credit.

[1784] UCLA, University of California, Los Angeles, for those that are keeping score at home.

[1785] Was not on my bingo card.

[1786] He was called the Wizard of Westwood.

[1787] 11 national championships.

[1788] This is what he said.

[1789] Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.

[1790] And I think that has a tie -in to financial failure.

[1791] Oh, 100%.

[1792] I mean, Dave Ramsey's story.

[1793] Going through bankruptcy in the 80s to building an empire and helping millions with their finances.

[1794] No shame in your game is what we like to say around here.

[1795] So good stuff there from Coach John Wooden.

[1796] Let's go to Aubrey now, who joins us in Houston, Texas.

[1797] Aubrey, how can we help?

[1798] Hello, how are you?

[1799] We are having a blast today.

[1800] How are you?

[1801] I'm good.

[1802] I'm good.

[1803] Good.

[1804] So I was wondering whether or not I should sell 34 acres that I own or financed or just continue to pay it.

[1805] Wow.

[1806] Tell us the details on the land itself.

[1807] So the land is strictly raw.

[1808] There's nothing on it.

[1809] There were cows at one point.

[1810] It's fenced off for cattle.

[1811] But right now I don't have anything actual, like, cattle based on it.

[1812] It's just completely empty and it's raw land.

[1813] What would you say it's worth?

[1814] It's worth about $200 ,000.

[1815] I got a quote from somebody that if I were to sell it, it would be about $6 ,000 an acre.

[1816] but that doesn't include, like, their commission of 6 % from the bill.

[1817] What do you owe on it?

[1818] And I currently owe, as of today, $182 ,000 at a 1 % interest rate.

[1819] Okay.

[1820] What do you think, George?

[1821] Well, what was the reason you bought the land in the first place?

[1822] So I had bought the land in conjunction of buying another piece of land that had a house on it.

[1823] I had got, I was newly married, and then in 2021, we started to go.

[1824] through a divorce.

[1825] So I got the 34 acres and then he kept the other mortgaged property.

[1826] However, my name was on it.

[1827] So it's going into foreclosure here soon.

[1828] So I wasn't sure what I should do because I do have three kids and I gross about 53 ,000 a year, almost 54, but take home is only about 35, 34 with all the deductions that come out on my check.

[1829] And that doesn't include like daycare rent, vehicle insurance, my phone.

[1830] And then I have to have like a lawyer fee and And basically, monthly, I can bring home about $440 and then split that in half.

[1831] So it's about $219 to spend on living.

[1832] And so I don't even have a – Aubrey, I feel your stress right now in anxiety.

[1833] And for that reason alone, even if this was your dream to have this land and do all this magical stuff on it, I'm getting rid of this land and getting rid of the payment and starting fresh.

[1834] I agree.

[1835] You got three wonderful kiddos.

[1836] you got a lot of life ahead of you, and you're restarting.

[1837] And part of the restart is we had this dream, we bought this land, the dream crumbled, and now I've got to find a new dream, and that's okay.

[1838] But, hey, Aubrey, you get out of this thing unscathed, essentially, this land, if you sell it now.

[1839] You owe 182, and you'll walk away with at least 182 after all the fees?

[1840] Well, no, not necessarily.

[1841] So I owe 182, and if I were to sell it at about 204, and then with the commission, I would probably walk away between $10 ,000 and $12 ,000 after sale.

[1842] So, yeah, you would net $10 ,000.

[1843] Yes, okay, great.

[1844] That's great.

[1845] That's huge.

[1846] Depending if I end up having a safe or closing cost or anything.

[1847] Sure.

[1848] Do you have any debt outside of that?

[1849] I have like $1 ,000 on a credit card, but my tax return's going to come in.

[1850] I'm going to pay that off.

[1851] Great.

[1852] That's good news.

[1853] And do you have anything in savings?

[1854] Nothing.

[1855] Okay.

[1856] And where are you living right now?

[1857] It's not even a rainy day fund.

[1858] Right now, I'm, I'm cohabitating, so I pay half rent.

[1859] But I assume you want to get out of there?

[1860] Yeah, I do.

[1861] Okay, so that is part of the reason I would put a fire under your belly to get rid of this property.

[1862] Get out.

[1863] Are you, what's the situation with the kiddos?

[1864] They live with me full time.

[1865] I pay for everything.

[1866] I haven't even got my final decree yet.

[1867] Okay, so nothing's finalized.

[1868] Yeah, I don't receive any type of, I guess you could say it's like child support or anything.

[1869] It's just strictly me doing it.

[1870] think that you will get any?

[1871] I should be getting around a thousand a month if I...

[1872] If he pays...

[1873] My lawyer ends up finalizing.

[1874] Yeah, that too, if he pays.

[1875] Is he a deadbeat?

[1876] Oh, right now, yeah.

[1877] Yeah.

[1878] Well, the fact that you're taking care of them full -time tells me a lot.

[1879] Yeah.

[1880] So we want to move forward.

[1881] Let's assume...

[1882] Here's my point in asking that question, Aubrey.

[1883] It's not to add insult to injury here, but George, going forward, I would advise her, let's assume he doesn't pay anything so that if he does, it's gravy.

[1884] That would be my advice in this situation.

[1885] I want you to be self -sustaining in that way.

[1886] So here's my plan.

[1887] If I'm doing it my way and I was coaching you one -on -one Aubrey, I was in your shoes, I would get rid of this land.

[1888] You pocket the 10K, that's going to become your emergency fund.

[1889] Let's get rid of the credit card debt.

[1890] Now let's go find somewhere that we can rent for a while with the kids and start fresh.

[1891] And eventually, I want you to be a homeowner and have this new dream.

[1892] But right now, we just got to kind of clean up the mess and get some foundation under us as we walk through this, this terrible situation.

[1893] Yes, sir.

[1894] What's your, can I ask real quick, Aubrey, about your income?

[1895] Yes.

[1896] What are your income possibilities?

[1897] If you and I were just sitting at your kitchen table and we're going, okay, how could we make 20 ,000 more, 40 ,000 more, 60 ,000 more, what would you say to me if I asked that question?

[1898] So in the line of work that I do, there is a possibility that I could work like every, Sunday and make like $160.

[1899] So if I'm willing to sacrifice the family time for money, then that's an option.

[1900] I think in the short term, every nickel at this point helps, and the kids are going to understand, and you sit down and explain it to them.

[1901] You're already going through a very tough thing anyway, so you know, you explain, hey, this is what mom is doing and why.

[1902] I think they're just going to be so grateful for you and your sacrifice.

[1903] It's kind of thing that they may mention in a speech, you know, graduating high school.

[1904] school someday.

[1905] So I certainly would do that.

[1906] But I'm thinking bigger than $160.

[1907] You know, what can we do to expand your income?

[1908] What's up the ladder, two or three levels?

[1909] Well, in April, I'll get a dollar raise, and then the next go around in January, I should probably get another dollar raise.

[1910] What are you doing for work?

[1911] I work in law enforcement.

[1912] Okay.

[1913] Oh, okay.

[1914] Do you have good benefits with that?

[1915] I mean, the extra jobs that you can work, yeah.

[1916] Is there overtime?

[1917] Can you work at a church doing security?

[1918] I don't know what role exactly, but are there opportunities like that?

[1919] So, yeah, like working like an extra job, like church for security, that's what I usually do on a Sunday is I'll go out and I'll work.

[1920] Okay, and that's the 160.

[1921] Okay.

[1922] Oh, I see.

[1923] I try not to count it just in case there's a time where I, you know, somebody else takes the job.

[1924] So I tried not to live off that.

[1925] So are you a deputy or a police?

[1926] officer?

[1927] Is that what I'm understanding?

[1928] A police officer.

[1929] Okay, great.

[1930] Well, thank you for your service, by the way.

[1931] Not only are you a superhero as a single mom, you also are out there putting yourself on the line for the citizens of your area, and so you're an absolute hero, and I hope you feel that.

[1932] We certainly believe that about you.

[1933] Oh, thank you.

[1934] Well, we answered a lot more than the question, Aubrey.

[1935] We apologize, but I hope it helps you take the right next step.

[1936] There's a lot of steps to take, but I hope we gave you the right one right now, which is get rid of the land, get some financial footing under you, clean up all the debt, cut up the cards, and find somewhere to rent on your own and just get out of a situation to some stability and safety.

[1937] Aubrey, real quick question.

[1938] How are you doing on your budget?

[1939] Do you feel like you're strong at budgeting?

[1940] Need a little help?

[1941] What's going on there?

[1942] Really strong at budgeting.

[1943] The literally the only bills that I pay is daycare, rent, vehicle phone, and then, of course, I have like a lawyer fee just in case I'm sued.

[1944] And then I I pay like $10 for iCloud.

[1945] Besides that, that's worth.

[1946] She is on it.

[1947] Well, hey, I'm going to gift you every dollar premium for the next year just to alleviate one more thing and give you one more tool in the tool belt.

[1948] But we believe in you, Aubrey, and I hope you believe in you.

[1949] You're going to get through this and on the other side.

[1950] Hang in there.

[1951] Work the baby steps.

[1952] Keep going.

[1953] You're going to be great.

[1954] Sell the land.

[1955] It's going to give you tremendous relief and take off a huge chunk of debt.

[1956] George Campbell, great show as always.

[1957] Always enjoy.

[1958] hanging out with you.

[1959] I want to thank James Childs, our fearless leader and all the guys in the booth.

[1960] And you, America, thank you so much.

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