The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett XX
[0] Did you know that the DariVosio now has its own channel exclusively on Samsung TV Plus?
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[5] right now.
[6] One of the things that really did catch me off guard was it was in your book, The Genius Life, where you talk about this study with the mice and you make the case that travel is a, has positive relationships with health.
[7] It has health benefits.
[8] Not something I've ever heard anybody say before that travel is good for our health.
[9] Yeah.
[10] Wow, I'm glad you brought that up.
[11] Because that also kind of parlays into another concept that I've been lately thinking.
[12] about a lot for the first time.
[13] Well, first of all, so the study that I talk about in the second book, The Genius Life is the fact that they, you know, just how important novel experiences are for the brain.
[14] They will take mice and keep them confined to, you know, like a very limited area.
[15] And they see that they suffer.
[16] They suffer in terms of their bodies and their brains.
[17] And then they let that mouse or they let, you know, intervention mice go and explore what they call enriched environments.
[18] And they see something like fourfold, you know, like they see like an upregulation in various indicators of neurogenesis, which is really important.
[19] It's like the creation of new brain cells.
[20] So all that is to say like, you know, it's important to do novel things.
[21] And as I say this, you know, this is something that I struggle with in my, in my own life, because I am a creature of habit.
[22] And I would routinely get the sense, this gnawing sense that I'm living Groundhog Day over and over and over again, where I wake up and I do a few things like work related, I work out.
[23] But ultimately, like, I've got like this routine that I love and I tend to do that on script every day.
[24] But I started to get this feeling like I'm just like waking up doing a few things going back to bed, waking up doing a few things going back to bed.
[25] Like before I know it, like, my head is just like on my pillow again.
[26] And it's it started to get like really frustrating to me until I discovered that Groundhog Day.
[27] syndrome is actually a thing.
[28] And essentially what it is, is, you know, our brains are, and this ties back to the mouse study, our brains are efficiency machines, right?
[29] It's conservation of energy.
[30] Our brains and bodies don't want to do any more work than they absolutely have to, right?
[31] Because, I mean, now we know that food is like ever present, always at arm's reach, but for the longest time, that wasn't the case.
[32] And our brains are massive energy consumers.
[33] Our brains speak for 25 % of our basal metabolic rate, despite accounting for only two to three percent of our body's mass. So anything that the brain can do to make its functioning more efficient, it'll do.
[34] So when you do the same things every single day, what does your brain do?
[35] It prunes away excitement, joy, happiness.
[36] Like the dopamine response is just completely blunted.
[37] And that's why as you get older, people universally, right, it's like a human universal, people report.
[38] that time just accelerates, right?
[39] Like, where did the last decade of my life go?
[40] It's not that time accelerated, right?
[41] It's just that your life has become so routine.
[42] It's interesting you say that because there's also the other stereotype that you get grumpy.
[43] Yeah.
[44] The word, yeah.
[45] It's quite typical in the stereotype that people will get older and a little bit more grumpy.
[46] Yeah, well, they get grumpy.
[47] They get stuck in their ways.
[48] They get, I mean, yeah, that's definitely the case.
[49] but they probably are getting grumpy because their lives lack the joy and excitement that they once felt, right?
[50] Time is just like accelerating, that moving walkway that we are all on towards the inevitable decrepitude of old age, right?
[51] Like it seems to go faster and faster and faster the older we get.
[52] But it's not because time actually is moving any faster.
[53] It's because we get so stuck in our ways.
[54] Like we get so, our routines become so cemented.
[55] And what we fail to realize, and hopefully this, you know, me saying this like shakes people out of their out of their comfort zones you know and and inspires people to shake things up a little bit this groundhog day syndrome it causes our brains to just like shear away for the sake of efficiency i mean it's got it's got good intentions right but it shers away like all the joy so you just become like this rote automaton and and the joy the excitement it's just you know it's something that like you cease to experience you know you cease to experience it.
[56] Whereas when you look back at like your youth, for example, it's not that like time actually moved slower.
[57] It's that every day was different.
[58] And, and so that I think is really important.
[59] And yeah, we should challenge ourselves, whether it's to travel.
[60] I mean, travel is like to me the epitome of exposing oneself to an enriched environment because everything is new.
[61] But if you can't travel, you know, like go to a different gym every once in a while.
[62] Look, you know, try shopping in new in different supermarkets or change up your wardrobe or take on a new creative project like start a new hobby there are all kinds of things that you can do to shake yourself out of this like perpetual routine that I think has a real cognitive and health cost.
[63] I was looking at a study they did on rats and habits you probably know the study with the rats the chocolate and the maze I think so where they get the the rats to run through a maze to a piece of chocolate but the first time the rat runs through the maze to the chocolate, they monitor the rat's brain and there's a ton of cognitive cognitive activity, right?
[64] You see the rat observationally scratching around, sniffing around, eventually it finds the chocolate, it gets the reward.
[65] When they put the rat back into the maze for the second time, cognitive activity's gone because the habit has been formed.
[66] So as I looked at the brain scans of those rats, it was just completely flat because they were on autopilot.
[67] Again, the brain is conserving its need to function so that it can focus on other things, other threats.
[68] It can conserve energy, as you say.
[69] And that's what our lives become.
[70] Like, when we get out of bed in the morning, our route from the bed to the kitchen is not one that requires me to have any sort of cognitive activation.
[71] I fly, and therefore also, I don't remember the journey.
[72] Yeah.
[73] I just fly down there.
[74] Yeah, you're on autopilot.
[75] Yeah.
[76] And our lives become autopilot.
[77] And it's interesting.
[78] I'm trying to figure out as you were talking there, like, you said shearing away the, like the happiness.
[79] Why does being on autopilot cost me happiness?
[80] And why does it make my, did you say it made my brain smaller?
[81] Not smaller.
[82] Okay, thank you.
[83] Well, it probably, I mean, you know, if, if that mouse study holds true in humans, it probably doesn't, it doesn't support neuroplasticity.
[84] Yeah, yeah.
[85] There's no need for my brain to.
[86] Yeah.
[87] Yeah.
[88] I mean, it's a, it's an efficiency machine after all.
[89] So, The happiness point.
[90] Why does living a life on autopilot have an impact on my happiness?
[91] Well, there are probably, I mean, there are definitely benefits to routine, right?
[92] Like there are not to like some of the benefits to routine is are, can be that you, you know, you have your, for example, your diet dialed in or you have a, you know, you have great connections in your community, you know.
[93] So I'm not telling everybody to like throw their lives into into upheaval.
[94] but you know it's just like when we start to do the same things every day we it's the scientific term is habituation yeah we habituate right it becomes habit right and we feel this way like we see this with that car that we've pined for and suddenly it's sitting in our driveway and yeah it's exciting for the first month or two months or three months but after a certain point you know that that level of excitement that we once felt towards that car or maybe even if it's maybe sometimes it's the person that we're sharing our beds with you know like this is just an inevitability an unfortunate inevitability of the human condition and so i think there are ways to hack it i think there are ways to you know travel with your with your significant other or break the routine with your significant other um or you know invest in things um that have emotional value for you for example so i mean the car might have not been the best example because like some people do have emotional connections with cars.
[95] Like I bought a guitar recently that I love and I have an emotional connection to it because it was played by one of my favorite artists, you know?
[96] So you're talking about that really, it's the decline of meaning that is associated with habituation.
[97] Yeah.
[98] And that makes us unhappy because as you know, creatures of meaning, we do need things to remain meaningful in our lives.
[99] Yeah.
[100] It's like it's these like wrote routine behaviors that are not all that productive or meaningful those are you know it's like driving the same route to work every day shopping in the same supermarket every day eating the same foods every day like challenge your your preferences you know like there are foods today that I enjoy that I didn't like 15 years ago and I'm always willing to challenge like my own preferences about things but it's like when you do the same things every day you tend to start to overlook them.
[101] It's difficult, if not impossible, to maintain an appreciative relationship with something that's always there.
[102] It's funny.
[103] It reminded me of a study I was reading about it regarding music and how there's almost an optimal point with a song that we love where it can be repeated over and over again.
[104] So say if we're listening to a hit on the radio, it's repeated, say, we listen to it 50 times.
[105] There's a point where we've heard it so many times and it's become habituated that we love it at optimal level, and then it declines when we've heard it too much because it loses that sense of meaning.
[106] And I just remember reflecting on that, how the record industry want to put things in our lives that have a certain level of familiarity, but not too much familiarity, because then we'll dislike it.
[107] This is why they do remixes, because there's a level of familiarity there.
[108] So we like it, but it has that novel nature, which we also really value to make us interested.
[109] Yeah.
[110] Which habituation obviously kills.
[111] Like, habituation and novelness are inversely, you know.
[112] Yeah.
[113] No, it's true.
[114] There's this quote that I love.
[115] I'm a huge James Bond fan.
[116] We're talking a little bit about like, you know, before we started rolling.
[117] But like in the latest film, there's this wonderful Jack London quote at the end of the film that they, that they use to kind of commemorate Bond.
[118] And the quote is something like, I shall not waste my days trying to prolong them.
[119] I shall use my time.
[120] And I love that line so much.
[121] And I think it's such a, it's such a good, you know, like, it's so emblematic for, I think, the life that we all deserve, you know, that we all ought to be living.
[122] I think, like, occasionally in this conversation about how do we live longer, like, that's a nuance that gets lost, you know.
[123] It's not just about living longer.
[124] It's about living more fully.
[125] And so, yeah, I think that that's like, that's part of it, you know, is.
[126] It's like breaking the routine and, and like getting back some of that joy and excitement that we have about life, you know.
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[128] And no, this is an emergency.
[129] I've spent the last two years writing a book and I've written 33 laws for business, marketing, and life that I derive from all of these conversations I've had here.
[130] I traveled the world to write this book.
[131] I interviewed some of the most incredible people.
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[137] It's the book I always should have written.
[138] It's the book I also wish someone had written for me when I was starting out in my career.
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[146] Did you know that the Darioviceo now has its own channel exclusively on Samsung TV Plus?
[147] And I'm excited to say that we've partnered with Samsung TV to bring this to life and the channel is available in the UK, the Netherlands, Germany and Austria.
[148] Samsung TV Plus is a free streaming service available to all owners of Samsung Smart TVs and Galaxy mobiles and tablets.
[149] And along with the Dyer of a CO channel, you'll find hundreds of more channels with entertainment for everyone all for free on Samsung TV Plus.
[150] So if you own a Samsung TV, tune in now and watch the Dyer of a CEO channel right now.