Bowen Yang

[0] Hi, my name is Bowen -Yang, and I feel dissociative about being Conan O 'Brien's friend.

[1] Does that mean you feel like you've left your body?

[2] Yeah, and this is something that, like, we're going through in therapy, but like...

[3] You're going to have a breakthrough today.

[4] Here?

[5] Yes.

[6] I can't wait.

[7] It's going to happen.

[8] And then you're going to owe me $600.

[9] Yeah.

[10] Oh, that's cheaper than my therapist.

[11] That's perfect.

[12] Well, I didn't say it was going to be a very good breakthrough.

[13] You're going to realize you're intolerant to oat milk.

[14] And then it's not going to be anything that's going to help you in your life, really.

[15] a breakthrough.

[16] I don't think there's any qualitative thing about a breakthrough.

[17] I'm just happy to have one.

[18] Fall is here.

[19] Hear the yell.

[20] Back to school.

[21] Ring the bell.

[22] Brand new shoes.

[23] Walking loose.

[24] Climb the fence.

[25] Books and pens.

[26] I can tell that we are going to be friends.

[27] I can tell that we are going to be friends.

[28] Here we go.

[29] Seven.

[30] Six.

[31] Too long a countdown.

[32] One, no, that's too short.

[33] 15, 14, too long.

[34] Here we go.

[35] Hey, welcome to Conan O 'Brien needs a friend.

[36] I started today's podcast.

[37] You're not going to hear this part, but I was doing a countdown.

[38] I was going to counting myself down, which I thought was very professional.

[39] And then I realized I chose too high a number to count down from.

[40] I just randomly went to 15.

[41] Yeah, I think we should keep that in.

[42] Yeah, I'll leave that in so people know what you're talking about.

[43] It was just all over the map.

[44] And I thought, and it was my attempt to be professional, 15.

[45] Nope, that's no good.

[46] How about, and then I went too early.

[47] I went to, I think, to one, which don't go to one.

[48] Three is the right way to start.

[49] Don't you think?

[50] Three, two.

[51] That's the right way.

[52] Next time I do this, I'm just new to all of it.

[53] I'm going to start at three.

[54] You're three years in.

[55] You're not new to this anymore.

[56] You keep acting like, oh, a podcast, what's that?

[57] It's like you've been doing it for three years.

[58] Well, you know I have short -term memory loss.

[59] I have severe.

[60] I just keep, wow, a podcast.

[61] Unless someone messes up, then it's something you bring up like seven years later.

[62] I have an amazing memory for someone else's failure.

[63] I can remember if someone else slightly screwed up, 57 years ago, I can smell that moment, taste that moment, feel that moment.

[64] I can describe everything in the room.

[65] That's what I'm good at.

[66] Right, Sona?

[67] Yes.

[68] Yes, yes.

[69] You bring up things I forgot to do like 12 years ago.

[70] It's small things, too.

[71] It's like, oh, remember I emailed you and you didn't respond to me to let me know you got the email?

[72] Right.

[73] Remember the time that I needed that medication to stay alive and you didn't get it for me?

[74] And you died.

[75] You were out at a rave and you drank the blue stuff that was in the glow stick.

[76] And you and your friends threw up on top of each other and both got radioactive.

[77] Yep.

[78] I remember that.

[79] That's a true story.

[80] It's not.

[81] Okay.

[82] Well, as you can tell, I'm joined by my crack team.

[83] You guys are a crack team.

[84] You really are.

[85] You're just so on top of it all the time.

[86] I'm going to disagree.

[87] I think Matt is I'm not, so half of your team is a crack team.

[88] Matt, I think you are?

[89] You know what?

[90] I'm going to give you a compliment, Matt, and hang on to this because you're never getting another one of these again.

[91] You actually do stuff.

[92] You actually, you actually, you produce this podcast.

[93] You do a lovely job.

[94] You go through it.

[95] You make sure that, you know, it all lines up and it's technically proficient.

[96] That's how little I know about what you do is that I just said it all lines up.

[97] I'm not far off.

[98] Sona and I are just chimps that have been put into a space capsule that just hit each other and throw pancake batter at each other and then, you know, you're in mission control, making us, you know, get up into the atmosphere and back safely.

[99] That's what you do.

[100] Yeah, I think that's fair.

[101] Yeah.

[102] So God bless you, Matt Gourley.

[103] Thanks.

[104] Are you putting us on the same level?

[105] You do all the interviews.

[106] I really don't do much.

[107] I mean, this is a big scam that I've got going on.

[108] You're the heart.

[109] Oh, I know.

[110] I know.

[111] What I did was I tricked Sona into complimenting me. So she just said, Conan, you're the one that does all the interviews.

[112] And then you were left out in the cold, Sona.

[113] So that was a beautiful thing that I just did.

[114] Sona's the heart.

[115] I'm the brains.

[116] You're the obstacle we have to.

[117] get over.

[118] That's true.

[119] To make this go out.

[120] That's true.

[121] I'm the, yeah, that's right.

[122] You're a hindrance.

[123] Yeah.

[124] Yeah, that's right.

[125] I'm going to put it this way.

[126] Sona is the Christmas spirit.

[127] And Matt is Bruce Willis.

[128] And I am Hans Gruber.

[129] Oh, I like this.

[130] Yeah, yeah.

[131] Yippy Kai, eh, motherfucker.

[132] Yeah, tell me about these cowboys, you know, whatever.

[133] I don't do it.

[134] Wow, is that your German accent?

[135] I work on it.

[136] I didn't give it any thought, and I think I also, at the same time, something burst in my brain, so I can't be...

[137] He didn't even have a German accent, though.

[138] Didn't he?

[139] Alan Rickman was just speaking in his British accent, wasn't he?

[140] No, he was not British.

[141] He had a little bit of a German accent.

[142] It was sort of one of those...

[143] It's like he came from the bad guy region of Central Eastern Europe.

[144] Do you know what I mean?

[145] It was just...

[146] Sixties Nazi.

[147] Yeah, it was one of those very vague...

[148] There's like a country that's near Lithuania, but it also borders Belgium.

[149] And that's where all bad guys are from.

[150] Welcome, Mr. Bond.

[151] So nice to have you.

[152] I do hope you're comfortable, Mr. Bond.

[153] And they all come from that one little country, all of them.

[154] Every single fucking one comes from that country.

[155] That brings up another thing I want to talk about.

[156] I love how bad guys are so worried about.

[157] about James Bond's comfort.

[158] Have you noticed that?

[159] They're gentlemen, it's nice, yeah.

[160] But in the 60s Bond movies, he's basically been foiling their plans for most of the movie, and then finally they end up in his lair, and all they do is say, I trust you're comfortable, Mr. Bond.

[161] You know, Bond will wake up, and he's wearing silk pajamas in a lovely room, and someone comes in and says, you're to join, you know, Dr. Bad Guy.

[162] you're to join Dr. Bad Guy for a lovely meal.

[163] They should just kill him right away.

[164] Yeah, that's been established.

[165] That's been long established that they should do that.

[166] But I love that they, my favorite thing is just how concerned they are.

[167] Ah, Mr. Bond, I do trust you slept well.

[168] Mr. Bond, is this wine to your liking?

[169] And they've got the pit with the alligators and the sharks ready to go.

[170] And they're got, they know they're going to kill him soon, but it's all about his comfort.

[171] Oh, trust, oh, oh, you, the mattress was a little hard, was it?

[172] Oh, Mr. Bond, our apologies.

[173] Do they make him take a survey for his comfort?

[174] Mr. Bond, before we kill you, just, could you fill this out, please?

[175] How was the massage?

[176] Was the massage okay?

[177] Typically, I like shi -a -choo.

[178] Oh, fuck it, Mr. Bond.

[179] We didn't know.

[180] We thought soft tissue.

[181] I like a shiachu massage and a shilly mattress or a sleep number.

[182] We were going to contact you ahead of time, Mr. Bond, but then we thought that would give away the whole capturing you thing.

[183] So sorry, Mr. Bond, but yes, we've got it now.

[184] Sili and Shiazu.

[185] Is that what you said in your strange Scottish accent?

[186] No, Shili.

[187] Shoeley.

[188] S -H -E, it's a very rare type of mattress.

[189] Okay, Shealy.

[190] Got it, Mr. Bond.

[191] I just do hope you're comfortable.

[192] Now, we have a tank over here filled with eels that are going to shred you.

[193] But I do hope you're comfortable.

[194] Certainly.

[195] C -H -E -R.

[196] Did you say certainly or certainly?

[197] I know certainly did not.

[198] You see, these are good times.

[199] Look at us.

[200] Look at us.

[201] We're just a bunch of normal Joe's having a good time.

[202] If you didn't know any better, you'd say we're our chill chums.

[203] Hey.

[204] I wish I hadn't brought that up.

[205] All right, we should start today's episode.

[206] My guest today, I'm very excited about this gentleman and that he is visiting.

[207] My guest today is a cast member on Saturday Night Live and stars in the Comedy Central series Aquafina is North from Queens.

[208] He also co -hosts the popular podcast, Las Culturistas.

[209] Bowen Yang, welcome.

[210] I came up to you recently.

[211] It was at the Emmys.

[212] I don't know why I'm like pussyfooting around where it was.

[213] But, like, I came up to you and I was very sycophantic.

[214] Is that the right?

[215] I was just very, um, reverent, basically.

[216] Well, that was very nice.

[217] You were very nice to me and said some nice things.

[218] And it has gotten back to me that you've, you know.

[219] Oh, I cried.

[220] I cried about you.

[221] Yeah.

[222] Did you listen to that?

[223] Were you just told that, like, Bo and Yang cried about you?

[224] I heard, yes, I heard that you cried when we ended our show.

[225] Yeah.

[226] And my problem is, and you can be my therapist.

[227] It wasn't performative either.

[228] It was really just me being, like, like so emotional over just that that last sort of, you know, speech you gave.

[229] Anyway, sorry, go ahead.

[230] Well, no. What was, what was nice is I hear something like that and I step outside my body because, as you know, you get in this business and we'll talk about this.

[231] There's this whole journey to getting to do it.

[232] And then you're doing it and you're in it.

[233] And then suddenly you're meeting people and you're performing with them, sometimes someone that you admire is something nice about you.

[234] And I just don't, I have a hard time processing it, you know?

[235] And so I like to look at it all from a distance.

[236] Like I, so I didn't rush and say, I've got to listen to Bowen Yang cry about me because I wouldn't know how to process it, you know?

[237] That would feel very vain too if you did.

[238] Oh, but I'm very vain.

[239] No, so am I. I have a, I look at myself nude in a, I have a nine -way angled mirror that shows me. You're in a non -agonal mirror array?

[240] Jesus.

[241] Yes, I could have gone for octagonal, but I went for non -agonal.

[242] And it really shows you everything.

[243] And I'm on a pedestal that slowly turns, and I stand on that pedestal nude maybe four or five times a day.

[244] These are tall mirrors, or the mirrors are suspended.

[245] They are suspended, yeah, they are suspended, and they're adjustable height.

[246] Perfect.

[247] So I can zero in on different areas.

[248] You know, one of the things, that I wanted to talk to you about that I kind of feel like we have in common is that my parents were the first generation that they weren't screwing around.

[249] They were not, they worked their asses off and they got full scholarships to good schools and both became professionals.

[250] And so there was this real respect for education and you got to work hard.

[251] And then I picked up on that.

[252] And then.

[253] And I worked really hard.

[254] I was a, a grind.

[255] There's no other nicer term for it.

[256] I was just a joyless grind about schoolwork and got to go to a good college and then immediately fell into comedy and have spent the rest of my life dedicated to looking like an ass as much as possible.

[257] And I was interested to talk to you because more than anyone I can think of has really followed in some ways a similar path.

[258] You think so?

[259] That's, wow, that's very good.

[260] Well, because you were, you were, I mean, you're clearly, you know, hyper -intelligent, and you went to NYU and you study chemistry.

[261] Yeah, but that was, that was just me getting, that was just the stepping stone to going to med school, which was the ultimate goal.

[262] Right, right.

[263] But that was, but the chemistry wasn't because I had an affinity.

[264] Well, I actually, I mean, oh, I'm not saying you have to have it.

[265] I'm saying there was some part of you that thought, I've got to achieve and perform at this, acceptable, in this acceptable venue.

[266] Right, right?

[267] But you don't think that's a lot of comedy people, especially people who...

[268] More and more, but I think what's fascinating to me is that comedy used to be, and show business in general, was not the domain of respectable people, you know?

[269] And then that changed, but you know what I mean?

[270] Something happened at some point where comedy became kind of, I hope I get to get into Brown so I can go into comedy.

[271] Like, what the hell happened?

[272] I feel like you, not to, again, not to be too reverential like I was before.

[273] Well, I think you should.

[274] If you have a dial on reverence, could you turn it up, actually?

[275] Because I feel like it's been on mute.

[276] Just while we've been recording?

[277] Yeah.

[278] I feel like I'm not getting enough.

[279] You, okay, so I was just going to say that I feel like you guys probably, I'm saying you guys as in like your generation of writers who all like bounced between, not all of you bounced between like Seinfeld and S &L and The Simpsons.

[280] But I feel like you guys set that up, set up that prestige maybe, and then it became, and now I think you're seeing whatever micro generations later that, like, people are sort of filtering through those and being like, see, there is this, like, path to, like, respectability and comedy, which I don't think, which I think, like, it wasn't quite as established back when you were probably out of college.

[281] Yeah, I remember almost apologizing to my parents that I was going to give comedy a try.

[282] And getting remarks, and this is back in ancient history, but it was 1985, kind of getting some attitude from people about, really.

[283] So you went to Harvard and this is what you're going to do, that your parents must be so upset.

[284] And I thought, well, what is it?

[285] It's not hurting anybody.

[286] When did you realize?

[287] It's not like I became a male prostitute, which I did for, I did for, in 88 for a year.

[288] Yeah, quite lucrative, by the way.

[289] I bet.

[290] I'm not even whatever.

[291] So, but when did, was there a point that you realized that it was, that you were okay?

[292] I mean, was it?

[293] It took me a little.

[294] You did S &L first, then Simpsons, and then.

[295] Yeah, I did.

[296] Well, S &L, my writing partner, Greg Daniels and I bummed around for a bit.

[297] We worked out in L .A., and we lost our, our jobs went away, and then we worked kooky, odd jobs.

[298] Greg was an SAT tutor.

[299] and I don't know why, but I went to work, and I've mentioned this before, but I went to work at Wilson's House of Swayden Leather.

[300] And I don't know why, but that was a low point.

[301] That was a low point where I would visualize my degree from this prestigious college while I was at Wilson's House of Swayden Leather, and I'm 23, and I'm thinking, did I, this is going to be okay, right?

[302] This is going to be all right.

[303] But then we got SNL, then I did The Simpsons, and then the whole craziness of late night.

[304] But it took a long time for me to think, oh, I have some facility in this world.

[305] I really didn't really start to kick in until SNL, which is when people I kind of idolized would point at me and say, hey, that's funny.

[306] Hey, do that again.

[307] That was funny.

[308] And I would, like you just said, I would leave my body a little bit.

[309] Yeah, yeah.

[310] Oh, what is that?

[311] I don't know.

[312] I feel like...

[313] I think it's healthy.

[314] Very healthy.

[315] Have you gotten better at that?

[316] Or I don't know.

[317] Has it...

[318] I just, I worry about, like, constantly being, like, calloused to, like, the stuff that, like...

[319] I don't think that's going to happen to you.

[320] Okay.

[321] Wow.

[322] No, I'm really don't.

[323] I, you're...

[324] I think that that's a personality type.

[325] And so, I mean, just today, and the times I've met you, you've come across, you have a lot of humility.

[326] And I think if you had the gene...

[327] The callus gene, that would have shown up immediately.

[328] Wow.

[329] You wouldn't even be talking to me right now.

[330] It's a nature thing.

[331] It's not a nurture.

[332] Okay, if you say so, I just, I find myself becoming, like, slightly more monstrous, like, as time goes on.

[333] Well, you had a lot of insane demands before you did the podcast.

[334] We had to buy you a fur coat.

[335] Oh, yes.

[336] Floor length, fur coat.

[337] Floor -length mink.

[338] Who even does that anymore?

[339] And you said it had to have a hood that came from different mink.

[340] Like, what is this?

[341] Like, I don't know, the 60s?

[342] Who wears Mink anymore?

[343] Well, you wanted it.

[344] I know.

[345] You wanted those massive shoes made of Bakelite?

[346] Who gets shoes made of Bakelite?

[347] Yeah.

[348] This is all very on trend, by the way.

[349] I hope you realize that you're, that these, like, these things that are, that you're rattling off are, like, actually, I think pretty cool.

[350] Like, some circle.

[351] Is it really?

[352] I have no idea.

[353] I don't know.

[354] I know.

[355] I've never known what was cool.

[356] I've never been in it.

[357] And whenever I, uh, stumble into something that's cool.

[358] It's a complete accident.

[359] Well, oh, I was reading this article today about how the fact that everybody, everywhere is drinking, and this might not apply to everybody, but how espresso martinis have really sort of proliferated in the last year.

[360] Oh, I didn't know that.

[361] Like every place, like from a dive bar to like a high end place, like every place will serve an espresso martini in some form where people will want one.

[362] And so that is sort of symbolic of this thing that's going on where there is no, there's this collapse of irony that, like, if something is cool to everybody, then, like, is nothing cool anymore?

[363] I hate that, like, we're talking about.

[364] No, this is where, but anyway, wait, so your point being that if everybody's suddenly drinking an espresso martini.

[365] Yeah, like, of every subculture, if, like, you know, like, Wall Street guys are drinking it and then, like, you know, your crust punks are drinking it and, like, the outer boroughs, like, what does that mean about where culture is right now?

[366] We don't have to really get into it, but I just, I find it interesting that like, which, but, but I've, I've always been of the mind that, like, you should just like everything.

[367] I don't know which probably, like everything.

[368] I, I, I, I tend to go into something.

[369] I can't go with you on like everything.

[370] Not everything, but like, I, I, it's, um, I'll like something until I find something extremely off putting.

[371] Right.

[372] I will, I will try to, not even keep an open mind.

[373] I will, so you tried racism for a while.

[374] And then it was off putting.

[375] And then I thought, no. No, this is too mean.

[376] Yeah, but you gave it three, you gave it three years, and you really went for it.

[377] Yeah.

[378] And then you were like, you know what, I'm losing friends.

[379] I'm really losing friends over the whole.

[380] I feel like, what does it say?

[381] Like, it takes like eight years for you to be like an expert at something or 10 ,000 hours, whatever.

[382] But like, anyway, yeah, did it for three and was like, no, I can't do it.

[383] But no, anyway.

[384] Yeah, I'm just one of the listeners to know that we're sitting here, Bowen's wearing a full -on, that he demanded mink long coat with a different textured hood and bakelite shoes and talking about his seven -year attempt to really be good at racism.

[385] And I've got a Viking tattoo on your hand, which is a dog whistle for something else.

[386] You know, I was so appreciative that you came in today because it is Tuesday.

[387] And as a former, you know, as an alumnus of SNL, I know that Tuesday was the day that filled me with dread because Tuesday is the day you guys have a show this Saturday.

[388] Tuesday is the day that I would I had an apartment in Brooklyn and I would take the train in and my heart was in my stomach.

[389] I was so nervous and I'm I was so nervous because this is the day that doesn't end.

[390] Tuesday bleeds and it's like it's something that started at S &L I think in 1975 or 76 for some weird reason.

[391] Cocaine.

[392] Probably cocaine.

[393] somebody thought it was a good idea for their writers to stay up all night literally through the night writing sketches into Wednesday all until read -through which starts at like noon or one Oh see now it starts at like 4 .30 which is even worse and so you get out at like 11 p .m. once picks her out but anyway Oh my God, okay.

[394] It's rough.

[395] Yeah well I remember that's probably Lorne slowly moving the dial so that it more and more fits his lifestyle Unless he needs to, like, go to the opera one night, then we'll move it, like, earlier, and, like, we'll all know about it.

[396] Like, Lauren has to go see, you know, company on Broadway or something like that.

[397] Right, right, yeah.

[398] Well, Lauren gets out of his coffin at 3 o 'clock in the afternoon.

[399] And can I just say it's a beautiful coffin.

[400] It's a beautiful coffin.

[401] And he arises, and he arises just without moving his any muscles, he just goes completely up and, and perpendicular to the ground.

[402] And then moisturizers are applied.

[403] And a little bit of popcorn is eaten.

[404] Yeah, and then he flies, sprouts wings and flies to Rockfeller Center.

[405] And so I think his, over the years it keeps getting later and later.

[406] Yes, yes.

[407] But, God, that night.

[408] I know.

[409] And I was talking to, a couple years ago, I think I was talking to Howard Stern on his show.

[410] He brought me back to those days.

[411] And I was telling him, you know, I've hosted a late night show.

[412] I've been through what should be real terror a thousand times over.

[413] None of them matched Sarnat Live, how nervous and self -hating I would get on a Tuesday night.

[414] The wandering the halls.

[415] Yeah.

[416] Is my stuff funny enough?

[417] Hearing like laughter from across the walls and thinking, oh God, like everyone else has it figured out.

[418] I mean, that's still, I think you were talking to dratch about this recently.

[419] Yes, yeah.

[420] And like you were both talking about that sensation, that feeling.

[421] And I was like, oh, God, that hasn't gone away.

[422] And, like, that's kind of the reason why it works.

[423] Like, that's the reason, that's, like, the engine that everyone runs on.

[424] It might be the special sauce.

[425] But it also may not be.

[426] It may not be necessary.

[427] I don't know.

[428] I just know that I, to this day, when I pass Rockfower Center, I'm filled with lots of awe and wonder.

[429] And appreciation.

[430] I really do appreciate my, if you add up SNL and late night, I think I did two decades in the building.

[431] And I'm so appreciative of it.

[432] But at the same time, there's.

[433] was that I'm also reminded of, oh, yeah, that feeling, that feeling of real, real, at Sarnat Live for that couple of seasons of...

[434] Dread, dread.

[435] Yeah, dread, it was real dread, just, and it was mostly confined to Tuesday.

[436] For me, anyway, Tuesday into Wednesday.

[437] Right, but, like, all the time at 6A, like, didn't, like, supersede that eventually.

[438] Like, all the time, like, doing late night stuff, didn't...

[439] Late night, because I was performing, the demons were exercised.

[440] Yes.

[441] Oh my gosh.

[442] I spent one year as a writer and it was so, so, so, so difficult, especially because even though I sort of self -identified as a writer, like I think you go in there, like no matter how developed you are in your point of view as a comedian, like there's something about SNL where you have to reset and like learn how things work there in order to survive in order to like be successful.

[443] And like there's a few people who like probably go there and like, are very insistent on their point of view and then it works and Lauren's on board probably like a Julio Torres or like a Jack Handy or someone like who goes in there and like is already like fully fab yeah fully formed and yeah doesn't need any time to cook they're just right there and ready to go but 99 .99 % of people I think are so overwhelmed by it and I mean I certainly was and then but it's it's this crucible that everyone has to walk through which kind of makes it beautiful too but also, I mean, I can't, yeah, I very recently started to not be terrified of Lorne because I think Lauren had mentioned to 80, like, Bowen probably thinks of me as this, like, peak, I think his words were, I'm just quoting 80, but 80 was like, I think Lauren thinks that like you think of him as like a peak that you, like a mountain you have to climb every time you talk to him.

[444] And I think, and she was like, I think he wants you to just go up to him and like be his pal.

[445] And I was like, I can do that.

[446] But like, for the longest time, I think it's like probably something in common with you and I with our upbringings or something where like I don't know again reverence is like so valued that like I had to for a very long time only see them as this like incomprehensible authority figure right and I to be fair I think he's okay with people yeah feeling that way for a while of course and then he and he's you know look he's I've said this to him and I said to him at the Emmys when I saw you guys that, you know, he's responsible for my career and giving me the shot that changed my life.

[447] And so I'm always indebted to him and so appreciative of what he did for me. But at the same time, you know, you get you get to see when you get more perspective on it all that, oh, I see how he runs things.

[448] And it works.

[449] It works.

[450] He's not going to go out of his way for the new people.

[451] He's going to let them fight it out.

[452] and see, you know, who's got it.

[453] But that's part of, I think, and I think, oh, because you talked about this in, because they interviewed me for this Washington Post profile before the Kennedy Center owners, and you had a great quote in there where you were talking about how he kind of just lets you, he'll find people, and then he'll put them in this, like, big cauldron that is SNL, and then he'll, and then he will just make, he will not be too stringent on, like, what you can or can't do.

[454] I think he just lets you, like, go for it if you want to go for it.

[455] Yeah, yeah.

[456] And that's, and that's kind of, that's the genius of the show, and that's why it's been around for so long, and it's been through so many different iterations, but it still kept this thread of like, I just, I let you do whatever you want to do.

[457] And if you find, if you figure it out, then it's, then it's fireworks and it's beautiful.

[458] Yeah, and I think that's what, uh, something that I learned from him and that I tried to pass on all the years that I've had writers or tried to mentor people is throw them in the deep end of the pool, give them, um, lots of leeway.

[459] If it doesn't work out, then it's on them.

[460] If it works out, then it's on them in a good way.

[461] And I was stunned when I went to S &L and I was, I think, 24.

[462] And immediately upon showing up, they were like, yeah, Steve Martin's in that room.

[463] And I went, you mean Steve Martin, my absolute comedy hero growing up?

[464] Yeah.

[465] Who, in my opinion, redefined the levels of funny that could exist in the universe and reached those heights.

[466] he's in that room and you want me to go in yeah go in and tell him your funny ideas you don't even know me you just pick me up off the street I'm I'm trash and you want me to go in there and uh -huh and then you know if you blow it you blow it but if you can make him laugh or you can think of something that he's going to like you get hoisted on everyone's shoulders and I thought okay this is scary This is the scariest damn thing I can imagine.

[467] But it's all or nothing.

[468] Was there no scaled up version of that situation when you were at late night though?

[469] Like, was there no where you had to walk into someone's dressing room that you like admired so much?

[470] I mean, I guess not because it was your show.

[471] It was my show.

[472] And so I went right from, you know, I was a writer and then got the late night show.

[473] And immediately I was going into rooms with legendary.

[474] people that I, and people that I had grown up watching on TV, and I think, this is something I've been thinking about a lot, the people that you saw when you were growing up and your mind was forming, they will always be gods to you.

[475] So for me, it was these people that I had seen like Dick Van Dyke or Mary Tyler Moore, people on TV shows, they were even in reruns when I was a kid, but I was seeing them.

[476] And then suddenly overnight I have a show and I'm saying, who's the guest tonight?

[477] Well, it's Mary Tyler Moore.

[478] Wait, the icon that I watched on TV growing up, yeah, she's in the dressing room and she's here to do your show.

[479] I have a show.

[480] Yeah, you've had it for about a week.

[481] You may not have it much longer, but you have a show.

[482] What do you mean I have a show?

[483] Anyway, Mary Tyler Moore is in there.

[484] And then, you know, the band plays and your childhood icon walks out and says, Hi, Conan, so happy to be on your show.

[485] And I think this is the dream, but it's also the nightmare.

[486] The nightmare.

[487] And I think that is the thing that I, one of the reasons I've, you know, really wanted to talk to you is you are aware that both exist at the same time.

[488] Yes.

[489] And I think most people right now think, well, Bowen Yang, God, he's so funny, and I love him on SNL, and he's this breakout star.

[490] But you are fully aware that it's always both.

[491] It's always a joyous dream And oh my God Many of my buttons are getting pushed Yeah well even just this here is a perfect example Not that I mean as a fan of the podcast Like I think you put everyone at ease But I feel like I'm coming in And I told you when I talked to you over the summer That like we came to New York City when I was 14 Or something to look at schools for my sister And we couldn't my I had two big things that I wanted to do One was to go see Wicked on Broadway We couldn't afford the tickets we did not go up, but my parents drove me to the George Gershwin Theater so I could stand outside the doors for like 10 minutes and then...

[492] Good for them.

[493] Good for them.

[494] But then the thing that we could do was take the NBC studio tour at 30 Rock.

[495] And then we went up to 8 or 9, I guess.

[496] We sat on 9, sat at the SNL studio.

[497] This was over the summer, so everyone was on hiatus.

[498] And then whatever, I was like, okay, whatever, S &L.

[499] And then what I was most excited for was to go to 6A and go sit in the seats at Conan and oh just I mean that was and it's it's funny to be to fast forward whatever whatever like 16 years from that now here where I'm like about to go into work at SNL where I work and then sitting with you and yeah I just um this is a dream in the nightmare at the same time not that this isn't so pleasant but this is like I can't believe I mean yeah if it's a fair analog to say that like you're you're the Steve Martin to me I don't want to do this too long and I know you wanted me to turn up the reverence dial of it.

[500] I was kidding and I also wasn't kidding.

[501] Yeah, yeah, okay, great, great.

[502] Perfect.

[503] Perfect.

[504] Please no, Bowen.

[505] Please no. But I just keep giving me more, more.

[506] So, you've seen me walk on water, right?

[507] Basically.

[508] Oh, Conan, this is, I mean, I didn't grow up with cable and so, like, it was just me tuning into NBC on Saturdays and on weeknights just to, you know, I'd sit through Leno, love him, but then, you know, the main event, was you.

[509] And yeah, I mean, like, the reason I got emotional on my podcast when your show ended was because, I'm sure a lot of people have brought this up to, but that encapsulation of, like, your whole career has been about, like, the intersection between stupid and smart or silly and smart or whatever.

[510] And not that I'm saying that I'm, like, super intelligent, but I'm like, oh, God, like, that's the reason I, like, have the friends I have in comedy.

[511] That's the reason why, like, those are the things that are the most fun for me to write when I write at the show.

[512] Yeah, it's that magical thing.

[513] And you do understand it, you know, when I saw your now famous and billion times viewed iceberg sketch the first time, I was like, oh, this is everything that I like because it is very smart.

[514] It's so smart that we're getting the iceberg's perspective and that the iceberg has this attitude of like, I wasn't doing anything.

[515] And then, you know, and it was so well done.

[516] that the iceberg keeps underselling how many people died saying like 30 or maybe 50 people you know that's a dead and it's yeah yeah it's like yeah it's like no no no 1500 and then you say like no one brings up the water it was the cold water that killed people um and and so your attitude is all very human and understandable and but then my favorite thing is that you have a song to plug now i think most comedians would have at that point made the song something about the The iceberg, yeah.

[517] The song has fucking nothing to do with your story or your raison d 'etra.

[518] No. It is this.

[519] And when your song had nothing to do with the sketch we had just seen, I, like, stood up and was like, yes, I like, I love Bowen -Yang because that's such a smart move.

[520] And to me, that's the encapsulation, in my opinion, of, you know, that thing that's always a quest.

[521] You can never achieve it It's slippery You can't really get a hold of it Because you'll have it and then it's gone But oh my God That was so stupid Slash smart at the same time But so stupid but so smart And it just keeps flipping in your head You know Well that the quest is so perfect Because it was Anna Dresin and I Writing that together Who's one of the headwriters And I mean we were both like It felt too good to be true As we were writing We were like This will never make it onto TV Because it's making us laugh too much Yeah Yeah This can't pass through all the filters that are in place here where, like, you know, the update people, the update writers see it and give notes or, you know, Lauren or the producers see it and, like, have feedback.

[522] I mean, this is the thing that you talk about in the profile for Lauren is that, like, kind of, it's, it's kind of miraculous that he lets you do these things.

[523] Yeah.

[524] The way that you want to.

[525] And that, you know, I can imagine it read through, you don't have the iceberg on your head.

[526] No. And so people are, I'm sure, laughing, but the prop, and then this is the other thing, it has to go sketch comedy, there's always a thousand things that can go wrong.

[527] Yeah, yeah.

[528] If that prop isn't just perfect, it doesn't work, right, you know.

[529] And so also my kudos to whoever came up with that prop because.

[530] Kate Rusek, yeah.

[531] Yeah, and it's just, it's just perfect because it is beautiful.

[532] It's beautiful.

[533] and it's also betraying no matter what kind of...

[534] The scale or what...

[535] Yeah, well, it's also, it's like it's big and it's absurd and you're trying to establish your dignity the whole time and your point of view and you're all while wearing...

[536] That's my favorite thing.

[537] Anyone who's dignity has compromised immediately but refuses to accept it.

[538] Right.

[539] Oh my gosh.

[540] That's like, yeah, that's like I took a character workshop with Drew Drogey, this guy in L .A., at Groundlings, of like Jerry Blank is the perfect example of someone who like has this delusory.

[541] Oh my God.

[542] Like idea of themselves, but everything about them betrays that.

[543] But I mean, Alex, okay, so I think Alex Bays, someone told me that Alex Bays who used to be an update writer was like talking about how it's interesting that.

[544] It's usually the other way around where it's like the character telling, it's Colin or it's one of the anchors telling the character like, hey, stop that.

[545] No, no, stop it, stop it.

[546] Stop it.

[547] But, um, because we watched, we watched the Letterman interview with Paris Hilton, like, right as she got out of jail.

[548] Yep.

[549] Where all letterman wants to talk about is, I mean, first of all, like, people have, like, pointed out how, like, you know, not cool it was for, like, Letterman to push so hard.

[550] But it's like, that's how Letterman was with everybody.

[551] He was just, like, the jerk.

[552] And, like, that's why we love him.

[553] But, um, but we just, but Anne and I watched that interview as we were writing it, just being, like, look at, look at how, like, uncomfortable, like, she is in this moment and, like, look how Letterman wants to, like, push for, like, like, like, We really, like, mapped it onto that particular interview, I think.

[554] That's what you were working off.

[555] Yeah.

[556] And just, like, kind of, like, I don't know.

[557] Like, I think the whole, not to, like, break apart my own sketch too much, but, like, I think we were, I think we were just writing something based on, like, this media pattern that happens every now and then.

[558] Well, right.

[559] Because in that one, Colin, as the sort of faux journalist in the situation, I love that you're like, well, we got to talk about the Titanic.

[560] And you're like, no, no, no, my publicist said, we're not talking about that.

[561] And which brings up a hilarious thing, which is everyone always shows up with a publicist.

[562] I always show up.

[563] I've got mine.

[564] You'll have your publicist.

[565] And by the way, she's been, I think, playing a game on her phone the whole time.

[566] She's not intervening in any way.

[567] She's doing Angry Birds, too?

[568] Like, the sequel?

[569] Yeah, they're not even birds anymore.

[570] No. They're just heavy people being fired into the air.

[571] they've evolved but I love that you know I've always had a publicist with me saying do you want me there or when you get on the phone with these people or drop me on the phone and I'll say what are you going to do to do what like say excuse me we're not discussing that and especially on a podcast I've always thought what's going to happen and what is funny because once the podcast starts if I start going down some crazy rabbit hole of, hey, you know, Rowan, I have, I actually did some research and I found out that you say you went to NYU, but there's no record of you and the shit starts to hit the fan.

[572] Does your publicist crash through that glass and stop things?

[573] Probably.

[574] She would.

[575] Julian would.

[576] No, no. She's, again, still not listening and still playing Angry Birds too.

[577] But my favorite thing, and I think you mentioned this just before we started, is when people say, and this is what came up in your Titanic Iceberg sketch, is, hey, it was agreed we wouldn't talk about this.

[578] Right, right, right.

[579] I love, I'm always about to talk to some celebrity on the podcast now, and it happened for 28 years on late night, moments before I went out there.

[580] Someone would come up to me and go, hey, don't mention blank.

[581] Uh -huh, uh -huh.

[582] But here's the thing.

[583] It was always something that I didn't even know about.

[584] So people were always saying like, okay, I'm about to talk to Al Pacino, and someone would come up to me and say, don't mention that he keeps a catcher's mitt in the freezer and I'll say what he keeps a what he keeps a catcher's mitt in his freezer and that's all you're thinking yeah and I'm like and I'm don't mention it I'm like why would he keep it's not to come up shut up and then you get out there and Al Pacino comes on and he goes oh Conan is good to see and I'm like all I can see is him putting a catcher's mitt in the freezer and saying no one can ever know about this you know and I'm just I'm just it's insane to me but That always happens that someone did not happen with you.

[585] I was going to ask, okay.

[586] Really?

[587] No, no, no. No one said, you can't mention this.

[588] You can't mention that.

[589] But so many times I'm told you're not to mention that B. Arthur has the largest collection of used dental floss in the world.

[590] She does.

[591] Don't mention it.

[592] She'll flip out and the interview is over.

[593] It's not a thing where like a segment producer tells you before, like before the show.

[594] I don't know.

[595] know how there's mostly they're supposed to do that but there's one and i always give me a shout out occasionally but there was one guy frank smiley who and and he really did talk like a guy and he still does he talks like a guy who's on broadway saying kid you got it he's literally out of the 1920s and he had a knack of and it wasn't his fault but the publicist would always mention it to him seconds the band's playing right i'm backstage or i'm at the desk and i'm about to bring out Elton John and he'd come running up and say he makes pots on the weekend but he doesn't he doesn't use a kiln don't mention it and I'll be like what and then literally ladies and gentlemen Sir Elton John and Elton John would come out and I'm just wondering why did you even tell me that nobody knows that that would never come up oh wow yeah so there's it's Frank Smiley I'm sorry not Frankie no Frank Smiley but I call him Frankie but I love that that people make assumptions.

[596] And so the assumption would be...

[597] That you would ask about the thing.

[598] Yeah, but also they assume that show business, especially at a certain level, is much more professional than it really is.

[599] Oh, no. There's so much running around.

[600] Yeah, I mean, it's like that...

[601] You were saying, like, there's a thousand things that can go wrong in sketch comedy.

[602] I feel like there's any kind of presentational thing.

[603] A million things could go wrong.

[604] And that's kind of why it's fun.

[605] I mean, yeah.

[606] I don't know.

[607] I remember the music when I wrote there, to be a change between dress and air.

[608] But my sketch would be on early.

[609] And so I remember very clearly running under the bleachers at Cernet Live while that band is playing.

[610] And in the commercial break, getting to the cards and going, changing cards, and the sketch is coming up.

[611] And I'm shouting, no, no, there's no, there's no, there's no tomahawk anymore.

[612] The Tomahawk's out.

[613] You know, that whole section, that whole section.

[614] No, no, this becomes, sir, how dare you?

[615] And then we lose all this.

[616] You lose all that.

[617] Really loud music.

[618] Yes, you lose all that.

[619] And your chest is pounding because the band is so loud in 8 -H.

[620] And you're shouting over them.

[621] And you're shouting over the band.

[622] And this happened for years at late night, too.

[623] Pretty much every night where we completely rewrote something just before the audience was loaded in.

[624] The cards aren't right.

[625] You're on the fly shouting at people over music.

[626] But also, as a host, I was always smiling because the audience can see me. and looking super chill but what I was saying was no that's all wrong I'll murder you that has to have like some psychological psychic effect on you I mean like to like cut through like all of the not saccharin stuff but like the stuff that like is meant to like I don't know get everybody like amped up but you have to like you at that point you do have to be professional and say no this is not how it's supposed to be right no you You have to get it right.

[627] Yeah.

[628] You have to get it right and it has to be right and that has to be a religion, which is it has to be right.

[629] But at the same time, you can't be, you've got to remember that we're all human beings trying the best we can.

[630] And that's tricky.

[631] Yeah.

[632] That's like the whole, I think that's all of showbiz in a nutshell.

[633] That's beautiful.

[634] That's what I do is I summarize things that no one else can put into words so succinctly.

[635] but I do it just regularly and that's why I'm just made of bright light I don't even have flesh so you're going to go to the building right after you do this podcast and you're going to get to work what is your and I don't want to get what's my idea?

[636] I don't want to get, no I don't want to ask your idea or get specific about it but do you know what you're going to be working on this week or are you also waiting for inspiration I'm a little bit of both I have one idea that I'm kind of I kind of have a really solid grasp on and then the rest I don't know I think there's one thing that like is sort of yeah I think I'm like really running the gamut this week in terms of like something that I've like a big question mark for one thing and then all the way up to like something that I think is like really beaten out.

[637] So I think what you think is great I love that I don't know why I didn't write more in advance and it's the big One does it.

[638] It's the big question that Sarnat Live is, because there's a lot of weeks off.

[639] Yes.

[640] Now, you'd think during the weeks off, we'd all crank some paper into the typewriter.

[641] Sorry, I'm dating myself here.

[642] Oh, yeah, you were in the typewriter era.

[643] That's so much.

[644] No, we were in the legal pad.

[645] Yeah, there were typewriters, but I was in the legal pad.

[646] We wrote everything on legal pads and then dropped them off and they were typed up.

[647] And we had to often be called in to decipher what our scribblings meant.

[648] But no, when I look at, I have boxes filled.

[649] with legal pads that have sketches in them and lots of doodles and lots of really disturbing little notes on the side like, why live when death could be so sweet?

[650] Wow.

[651] And then little notes like, don't invest in Microsoft, that's going nowhere.

[652] This is beautiful.

[653] Yeah, but I actually have found, like recently I found the legal pad that had me saying, I wrote monorail at the top.

[654] Oh, my God.

[655] Yeah, and then I have all these notes about Music man. Music man. Oh, my God.

[656] And little arrows.

[657] And I'm like, okay, I got to save that.

[658] That was at SNL and then you brought it to...

[659] No, no, no. That was a legal pad.

[660] I always worked off legal pads and kind of still do.

[661] I like to write that way by hand and then undoodle and come up with things.

[662] And, you know, I always have little notebooks.

[663] Yeah, yeah.

[664] But I was stunned getting back to my question, why we didn't sit down and write out fantastic sketches that were silly and Evergreen, meaning they could be on at 1245 and star anybody or just the cast and put them in a file so that when we were, that would have saved me so much anguish and panic.

[665] But not only did I not do it, nobody did it.

[666] And then we were wandering around at quarter to three crying.

[667] Oh my God, on Sunday or Saturday or whatever.

[668] No, like on the night that we had to stay up on Tuesday.

[669] Yeah, of course.

[670] And then coming up with something at 6 a .m. rarely.

[671] Rarely.

[672] Rarely.

[673] And this is another thing.

[674] Good ideas don't come when you're tired.

[675] But so many people now are doing this thing where they write on Wednesday morning before they have to submit.

[676] Like from scratch writing a sketch until like for like from 6 a .m. to 10 a .m. For that to be read the same day.

[677] Like that, that freaks me out.

[678] But I think the reason why maybe my theory and my people don't do it don't write in advance is because I think they just need to compartmentalize so aggressively.

[679] Like when it's a work week, when it's a show week, I'm writing, I'm writing, I'm writing.

[680] When I'm off, I do not want to think about.

[681] Yeah, maybe that's it.

[682] Any kind of sketch comedy mechanic.

[683] Maybe that's it.

[684] You know, like maybe that's it, yeah.

[685] Or we're terribly lazy and we don't think ahead.

[686] Yeah, that's, that's probably.

[687] God, it's so sad sometimes when I think about how, like, certain things that are, like, programmed into humanity, like, just can't, we can't ever, like, get out of them.

[688] And that's okay.

[689] But, like, one of those things is writing a sketch in advance for SNL.

[690] Like humanity will never transcend that.

[691] No. And we'll always crave salty fats, sweet chocolates.

[692] We're always convinced that that third glass of wine is going to get us back to that feeling the first glass of wine gave us.

[693] And these are all lies that humanity knows.

[694] Yes.

[695] And we're not ever, we're never, ever going to transcend that.

[696] And so, you know, it's time for us to leave this earth, I think.

[697] and colonize Mars and ruin that.

[698] I can't wait.

[699] It is an incredible delight to talk to you.

[700] I say that.

[701] This was so nice.

[702] Did I, was this at all therapeutic for you?

[703] Is there any way in which I can, is there anything you want to ask me as your therapist that I could help you with?

[704] Because I feel like I understand you.

[705] I very much admire you.

[706] I've been through a lot and I feel like I could be your sort of the therapist you don't pay.

[707] You could always call me up.

[708] I'll pay you.

[709] 600 you said that's what's your rate well it's 600 a minute okay great come on man I mean I have a incredible lifestyle you do a very lavish lifestyle I drove up here in three Bugatti's that were all lashed together with coil and then what's that notebook bound with this yeah this notebook right here oh and there's no the spineless notebook yeah this is a notebook with no spine these are I think made in Japan Like an accordion unfold, and I write, and you can write on both sides.

[710] Oh, that's perfect.

[711] And I doodle and I write things like, here it says, Bowen Yang, really get him, take him down a notch, getting way too much praise from the media, chip away at his self -esteem.

[712] And then I have checks next to all the things I've done.

[713] Publicist, make sure publicist is lock behind glass.

[714] I don't know what to ask.

[715] ask you.

[716] And I feel like this is like...

[717] Oh, you don't have to ask me anything.

[718] I don't want to put you on the spot.

[719] I just thought I'm here.

[720] I know, I know.

[721] And also, I don't mean it, you know.

[722] You're never to contact me personally.

[723] I know, of course.

[724] You know that, right?

[725] I do know.

[726] I was, you can't see, while I was saying all that stuff to Bowen, I actually have a sign that I made that I use frequently on podcasts that says, I don't mean it.

[727] It's right there.

[728] And I'm holding it up.

[729] Yeah.

[730] And it's an exclamation, and has three exclamation points for Bowen.

[731] And you wrote it in seraphs.

[732] You put little lines and stuff at the ends of them.

[733] I don't know why.

[734] Listen, Bowen, I was really excited to talk to you.

[735] I know we've met, and there's always a lot of people around, and it doesn't really feel like a meeting.

[736] And this I was looking forward to, because not to embarrass you, but you are the kind of person who I really admire.

[737] You're a hard worker, you're really smart, and you have a lot of humility.

[738] I'm dissociating as I hear you say this.

[739] Well, you know what's weird?

[740] I saw you leave your body.

[741] And the weird thing is you're naked when you leave your body.

[742] I'm naked, but it wasn't even like a spectral thing.

[743] It was like you could see it was like a corporeal weaving.

[744] Oh, no. I saw right now, and I'm going to tell the audience what I saw, I saw a naked Bowen Yang climb out of the Bowen Yang.

[745] It's in front of me. And make a really unpleasant face.

[746] You look like someone that just stumbled out of the bathroom, naked.

[747] You've got to not do that in front of people I won't, I won't It's only when they like shower me in compliments Thank you Conan Yeah and seriously Bowen Have a great show this week And thank you Thank you for being here And for being when I meet these young Not that young anymore Oh no Well anyway, no Trust me if I could tell you my age And your teeth would fall out I'm 79 years old That's amazing Yeah I gave birth to Lorne That's how old I am and also my gender.

[748] All right, you'd have a good week.

[749] You too.

[750] Okay, who wants to start it off?

[751] I just do as I'm told.

[752] I'm a guy that reacts.

[753] Some say I'm a nuclear reactor.

[754] Let's begin.

[755] How do we want to?

[756] Do we talk over the clip or let the clip play in a virginal?

[757] Talk over it.

[758] What's that?

[759] Let's talk over it.

[760] The less I hear my own voice, the better.

[761] I know what it's like to be me. Okay.

[762] I'll do as I'm told.

[763] I'm going to suggest, Gourley, you take charge.

[764] charge, maybe for the first time in your life.

[765] Let's do it.

[766] Okay, you got it.

[767] Well, this is exciting because Sona, you have your own new series on the Team Coco YouTube channel.

[768] Wait, you've already had this.

[769] Hold on.

[770] What?

[771] This is very exciting because Sona, a new season of your series.

[772] Wait, let's try one more time.

[773] It's on YouTube, but it was on Instagram before, right?

[774] Oh.

[775] I don't know.

[776] Honestly, I hate this so much.

[777] Okay, please.

[778] Yeah, let Gorley do it.

[779] And please don't interrupt Gourley anyone.

[780] He knows what he's doing.

[781] Go ahead, Gourley, in three, two, and it's all yours.

[782] This is very exciting, Sona, because your web series, shit.

[783] Oh, my God.

[784] What a stroke victim.

[785] Did you say video series, Adam?

[786] Is it a video series?

[787] I don't even know what it is.

[788] Okay.

[789] All right.

[790] I have a web series.

[791] You've got to be quiet during this.

[792] Now, please.

[793] What?

[794] I, despite everything he's done so far, I still believe in Gourley, and I think this is going to be the take in 3, 2, 1, it's all yours.

[795] This is very exciting because Sona, a new...

[796] What is your problem?

[797] I'm sorry, he's so like, this is very exciting.

[798] Because Sona, you have a...

[799] Let's try this again, and then two more mistakes like this, and I'm calling the EMTs.

[800] Can this just be the whole segment?

[801] Can we just stop right here?

[802] No, no, I'm sure a girl he's going to get it.

[803] Okay.

[804] Okay, take 15 and go.

[805] Sona, you have...

[806] have a new video series out.

[807] Sona fixes your life.

[808] It's the second season.

[809] Fuck.

[810] Why are you explaining to her that she has a new series?

[811] Because the listener needs to know.

[812] Oh, yeah.

[813] What is that?

[814] All you have to do is say, well, Sona, I find this very exciting.

[815] You have a new series out.

[816] You know, that's all you have to do.

[817] It's not a big deal.

[818] No, this is better.

[819] I hope, by the way, this has to air somehow because, and I'm not a doctor.

[820] I am not a neurosurgeon.

[821] I know a lot of people think I am, but I think it's a small bubble of air that has worked its way into the speech center of Gorley's brain.

[822] And I think that's what's causing a complete meltdown.

[823] Gorley, no pressure.

[824] I don't mind it at all.

[825] Gourley, no pressure in five, four, get it right this time.

[826] Three, two, it's really on you.

[827] You have, this has to be good.

[828] One, and you've got it.

[829] Hi, Sona, your new show on a television.

[830] Could I do watch it?

[831] Oh, God.

[832] All right, here we go.

[833] Sona, word has it.

[834] that your series, Sona Fixes Your Life, has a new season and the new first episode is out now.

[835] I thought we could take a little taste of it right now and talk about it a little.

[836] Okay, so we're going to see a clip from Sonas.

[837] This is her web series, Sona Fixes Your Life?

[838] Yes.

[839] Okay, good.

[840] I just like to set the table.

[841] Here we go.

[842] I don't, why are you watching it?

[843] What is your approach to addressing sex to your children?

[844] Love you.

[845] Oh.

[846] Oh, my God.

[847] Oh, what a dick.

[848] That person's a dick.

[849] This is great.

[850] It's Sona.

[851] I'm obsessing.

[852] This is the return of Sona fixes your life.

[853] And as you can tell, I'm very serious.

[854] I have books behind me. I've read every single one.

[855] That's a lie.

[856] And I have this thing next to me. What is this?

[857] It's a rocker.

[858] Why do I know that?

[859] Because I have a parenting expert now.

[860] How am I a parenting expert now?

[861] parenting expert, I have had children for four months, two of them.

[862] So obviously I'm an expert.

[863] That's eight months.

[864] So I'm happy to answer all the questions that you guys have about parenting.

[865] So let's raise your kids.

[866] At Euler, 277 says, what are your strategies for keeping Conan and children?

[867] Uh, just to A, never given my address.

[868] B, you know, I told them I was pregnant, but I think that if I just tell him that I was a pillow the whole time, maybe he'll never show up.

[869] Why would someone say that?

[870] Why would someone say keep Conan away from your kids?

[871] Just to never tell them where I live because then he'll just come and want to meet them.

[872] Wow, Sona left.

[873] Sona doesn't like hearing her own voice.

[874] And Sona, I have to say I sympathize because I don't like hearing your voice.

[875] Come back in.

[876] She left the studio during that.

[877] I want to say you're very photogenic.

[878] And you look very attractive.

[879] Thank you.

[880] That was awful.

[881] No, it was not.

[882] I hate seeing that.

[883] Oh, stop it.

[884] No, that's awful.

[885] I just, I hate everything about what we're doing, talking about it, listening to it, watching it.

[886] Wow, you're the best promoter of a project.

[887] Why are we even here if you're just going to make noises and say, don't waste your time?

[888] I think that could be very valuable.

[889] I'm a little hurt because a viewer said, or listener, whatever you want to call them.

[890] said, how do you keep Conan away from your kids?

[891] That's insulting.

[892] I did visit your children.

[893] You did.

[894] And I worked hard to get some laughs out of them.

[895] You did.

[896] Mikey, easy.

[897] Easy laugher.

[898] Charlie, I don't know if I, whatever, smashed his car in a previous life.

[899] But he was just staring me down.

[900] Charlie's going to be that guy in the audience for the rest of my life who doesn't give it up.

[901] I couldn't crack.

[902] Yeah, you couldn't crack.

[903] I couldn't crack Charlie, but Mikey, very sweet and was fascinated.

[904] Kept looking up at my hair.

[905] Well, they've never seen anyone like you before.

[906] What do you mean?

[907] You are the tallest, whitest person they've ever met, and your hair is very, can be scary to babies.

[908] Oftentimes they think it's immobile, my hair, and they try and bat at it.

[909] No, but I visited your kids, and I thought I was very good, and I was very impressed.

[910] with how adeptly you and TAC, your husband, handle your kids because you have twins.

[911] So each of you's holding a kid and then you're performing all these functions around the house just holding onto a kid.

[912] Yeah.

[913] So Tack was like, oh, you want a beer?

[914] And I'm like, yeah, I'll take a beer.

[915] He went to the refrigerator and opened the refrigerator and got out a beer, opened it, poured it into a glass.

[916] Then I think he built a ship in a bottle with one hand.

[917] And the whole time, holding it.

[918] your son and you're doing stuff too.

[919] You're painting stuff and you're doing eye surgery on people and you're holding your other son.

[920] It's amazing.

[921] Well, we kind of have to because especially, you know, we had a lot of help and then my parents left for a week so then we were like, oh, we actually have to parent these children now.

[922] Why didn't your parents leave for a week?

[923] Were they deported?

[924] No, they were not deported.

[925] Well, I'm just curious.

[926] No, they were not deported.

[927] Do they have their papers in order?

[928] Oh my God.

[929] Do they have their papers in order?

[930] They do.

[931] Yeah.

[932] I mean, I I used to threaten to deport them when they would upset me. I'd like you're mad at me for making that joke when you used to regularly threaten to deport your parents when you were a teenager, right?

[933] Yeah, when I was a teenager and they'd upset me. I told them I was going to deport them.

[934] They're like, we're citizens.

[935] And I'm like, I'm sure there's a loophole.

[936] What, Sona?

[937] You need to fix your own life.

[938] I know.

[939] Yeah, you're fixing other people's lodge?

[940] No, I know.

[941] I love that you're posing on the balcony of your new home.

[942] Yeah.

[943] That's very nice.

[944] That was so silly.

[945] I know.

[946] It's a fun thing to shoot.

[947] That's all.

[948] And it's, it's, I like connecting with your fans.

[949] They're your fans that I'm poaching.

[950] Well, I think they're your fans as well.

[951] Well, let's be fair.

[952] Well, they're, I mean, it's off of the Team Coco stuff.

[953] So it is your, they are your fans.

[954] That's true, yes.

[955] And, of course, the house that you're in is paid for by my paychecks.

[956] What?

[957] But anyway.

[958] You employ me and I do a service and then I get paid for it.

[959] Well, I employ you.

[960] I don't know what service you're doing.

[961] I can't come in today.

[962] It's just not.

[963] can tell you from me, where's my check?

[964] That's my, that's my sona impression.

[965] Is it?

[966] It's good.

[967] You want to hear my Conan impression?

[968] Yeah.

[969] Okay, well that's, by the way, everyone you're hearing has a college education.

[970] Well, congratulations on your series and best of luck to you, Sona.

[971] And stop making noises and bitching about how you hate the sound of your voice.

[972] You've got to convince people to check this thing out.

[973] Oh, yeah, I watch it.

[974] It's good.

[975] Yeah, I guess.

[976] I'll do it for you, Sona.

[977] Yeah.

[978] This is just off the top of my head.

[979] New episodes post on Fridays on Team Coco's YouTube page, and the first episode is out now.

[980] Want to know how to get your life fixed?

[981] Sona takes questions from fans via Team Coco's Instagram stories, so be sure to follow at Team Coco for the next time we ask questions.

[982] Okay.

[983] Well, if you're making room for that and your schedule, you don't have a lot going on.

[984] I'm sorry, but that's just absurd.

[985] Great promotion, too.

[986] Yeah.

[987] Yeah.

[988] I'm creating content for you.

[989] You're welcome.

[990] Okay.

[991] All right, I'm sure.

[992] I'm sure you're being overly compensated.

[993] But anyway, the important thing is that we're friends.

[994] You've got a project, and I wish you were all the best.

[995] Let me just read this note off my hand, and I care for you and respect you.

[996] There we go.

[997] Conan O 'Brien needs a friend with Conan O 'Brien, Sonam of Sessian, and Matt Gourley.

[998] Produced by me, Matt Gourley.

[999] Executive produced by Adam Sacks, Joanna Solitaroff, and Jeff Ross at Team Coco, and Colin Anderson and Cody Fisher at Earwolf.

[1000] Theme song by The White Stripes.

[1001] Incidental music by Jimmy Vivino.

[1002] Take it away, Jimmy.

[1003] Our supervising producer is Aaron Blair, and our associate talent producer is Jennifer Samples.

[1004] Engineering by Will Bechton.

[1005] Talent booking by Paula Davis, Gina Batista, and Brick Kahn.

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