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[6] Let's just start off with Dave not pushing the right buttons.

[7] Anna is in Detroit.

[8] Hey, Anna, welcome to the Ramsey Show.

[9] Hi, how are you?

[10] Thanks for having me. Sure.

[11] What's up?

[12] Well, a little bit of a situation, and I'm hoping maybe you can give me some advice.

[13] My husband bought our house from his mom 19 years ago.

[14] She had quite a few houses at the time and decided that she could sell one of them to him.

[15] He was 19 at the time, went through a closing, like with, you know, a proper close agent and signed all the papers.

[16] He is the only name on the warrant TD and has been responsible in living in this house for this past 19 years.

[17] A couple of years ago, she had asked us for quite a sum of money and we said we couldn't afford it.

[18] So, in retaliation, she went to the county clerk and filed a fraudulent quick claim deed on the house, claiming that our house is now her house.

[19] There's no checks and balances with that system.

[20] So it went through and everybody...

[21] Oh, yeah, the checks and balances are you put her in jail for fraud.

[22] Yeah.

[23] Because she's a freaking crook.

[24] She's a criminal.

[25] It's been two years, and we're still fighting.

[26] And now, instead of getting our day in court, they're saying that it's going to either cost us $20 ,000 to take it to court, or we can pay the ransom and maybe settle for something less and just pay to get rid of it, to pay to get out of it.

[27] You mean pay her?

[28] Yeah, a settlement, right.

[29] So why have you not filed criminal charges?

[30] well we went I talked to the county clerk and she said oh you need to get an attorney to you know the quiet title so that's what we did and your attorney needed to tell you to advise you to fire criminal charges someone stole your house it just happens to be that you know the crook right that it's related but he he said well and that would be a separate lawsuit and that wouldn't get you the quiet title that you need to free up your your house that would be a whole separate matter all I disagree to get your quiet title but then maybe on another point and I'm like man we've always spent so much money trying to get a quiet title and so now we're really looking at maybe just calling the police and starting a report yeah I think I would okay I think I would file criminal charges on her and that's the thing we we thought maybe it was just a misstep because obviously this is not this is not someone that you have that your husband has a relationship with his mother No mother in a right mind would act like this.

[31] This woman is deranged.

[32] How long has he known she's crazy?

[33] A couple years.

[34] Well, now it's been two years.

[35] He didn't know she was crazy before this?

[36] No. He was young and a single parent, right?

[37] How long have you been married?

[38] About 16, 17 years.

[39] Yeah.

[40] How long have you known she was crazy?

[41] Because I figured it out in about 30 seconds.

[42] There was a lot of, you know, kind of red, flagged when we were first dating, but I started dating him when we were 16 years old.

[43] And so we were so young, I think we were very, I don't know, it was just, well, you don't want your mom to be a crook or crazy.

[44] Nobody wants that for your mom.

[45] Exactly.

[46] But some people's moms are, because obviously there's crooks and crazy women and men out there, so sometimes the dad is a moron, you know, I mean, it just is.

[47] Very strong Christian raising to honor your mother and your father, and I think there was a lot of things that we just said, no. You know, she just needs help.

[48] You know, if we can just pull her through.

[49] No, if we can just, you know, be there and help her get up on her feet.

[50] We did that for a lot of years.

[51] And then finally I said, you know what?

[52] I told my husband either our household or hers, but we can't be the man of both.

[53] Yeah.

[54] And he chose our household.

[55] Good choice.

[56] That's when the crazy came out.

[57] Yeah.

[58] When you set boundaries with crazy people, it accentuates they're crazy.

[59] Henry Cloud teaches us that in boundaries 25 years ago.

[60] Okay, so you've got some choices.

[61] Obviously, there's no relationship left, and it's a very sad situation.

[62] So what is the most practical process here?

[63] It doesn't cost much to file a criminal complaint.

[64] There's not a lot of cost involved in that.

[65] That's why I'm shocked that this attorney, in quotes, didn't recommend that you do that as a part of the quiet title.

[66] because here's the problem if your attorney that was quieting the title quieted the title and then said deranged mother -in -law decides to file another one you get to do it over again and he stays in business the rest of his life so i want her having an incentive to stop this crap and that's called jail yeah well yeah she's not going to jail by the way darn it no she should but they won't put her in jail they'll settle with her but she will get the message not to screw with y 'all yeah who said it would cost 20 grand not to file a criminal it doesn't no no you said they told me yes um our attorney we've already paid him 40 over the past two years to get a quiet title um and now we're to the last bit of it and he said you either settle or we take this to court yeah or fire him and get a real attorney that's another option i've called different attorneys but they said i'm too far into the latter to get another one.

[67] No, you're not.

[68] I've gotten all these stories, and I guess I just need some real good counsel.

[69] The problem is sometimes when you're dealing with lawyers, they took the class on They're Always Right, and they forget that they work for you.

[70] Right.

[71] He's your employee.

[72] He should do what you tell him to do, or she should do what you tell him to do, and that's what lawyers are supposed to do.

[73] But instead, they took the class where they tell you what to do.

[74] And some of them are really confused by that class.

[75] So sometimes us real people have to explain to them Lawyer does not mean you do what you want to do It means you do what I want you to do As long as it was within ethics and within the law And so yeah we need to This has not been aggressively enough To suit me in the discussion I'm having with you If this happened to me and I own a bunch of real estate I don't care who filed that I would have filed criminal the next day Okay and I thought maybe I needed to get You know basically a judge to say Yeah this is for before I could go to a criminal and make that accusation.

[76] If the judge says it's fraud, it should quiet the title instantaneously.

[77] Right.

[78] Because that invalidates the, it invalidates, take a judge ruling a fraud over to the county clerk and go, judge says this is fraud, you need to take this quick claim down, they'll take it down.

[79] That should quiet, that's the quieting of the title.

[80] That's what it means.

[81] It's the cleaning up of a dirty title because it's a fraudulent thing.

[82] God, man. Some people.

[83] Oh, who does this to their own kid?

[84] You whacked, chick.

[85] Unbelievable.

[86] Go to jail.

[87] Do not pass go.

[88] Do not collect $200.

[89] Go straight to jail.

[90] Monopoly.

[91] There you go.

[92] She's collected enough.

[93] It's over.

[94] Just like monopoly.

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[110] are you insinuating that people are not the smartest all the time and some of us aren't some some of us in this species um have to start over ever so often i do a lot of stupid stuff but my personal rule is not to do the same stupid stuff over and over you evolved i try to well i've evolved it's a higher level of stupid there we because the the past level of stupid has been learned has been grown upon it's always right below the surface you got to watch ph d and d um b i have graduated Wow.

[111] There you go.

[112] Deloni has two of those.

[113] I've heard.

[114] He's not in that.

[115] He's got real ones.

[116] But there you go.

[117] The good kind.

[118] Today's question comes from Jason in Connecticut, who's also not evolved.

[119] Can we start treating Bitcoin the same way you would treat single stocks?

[120] Crud, son.

[121] I understand you're not a fan.

[122] No kidding.

[123] Where'd you figure that out?

[124] But an asset with $1 trillion market cap is not a beanie baby.

[125] No, but it's still thin air.

[126] Ask people like, Warren Buffett, who says if he doubled the amount he had put in Bitcoin, he would still have zero, because that's the amount he's put in Bitcoin.

[127] I'm going with Warren on this one.

[128] Not saying you have to add it to your portfolio, but it's a good enough asset to invest 5%.

[129] No, it's not.

[130] Okay.

[131] I don't know where the 5 % comes from.

[132] I don't know where the trillion -dollar market cap comes from.

[133] Mist and smoking mirrors, like the whole freaking concept.

[134] While you were enjoying some time off, Bitcoin has shot from, you know, the ground to the moon and probably back up again.

[135] And so now everyone's getting, they're getting loud again.

[136] No way.

[137] Because it's hit all -time highs, and so now everyone's going, see, Dave is wrong about this.

[138] You know what?

[139] We've got something else that repeats itself, like gold.

[140] See, I've been doing this show for 32 years, and ever so often gold goes up and everybody goes, see, Dave, I told you.

[141] And then it goes down, and those people just disappear.

[142] And then it goes up and they go, see, David, I told you, you don't understand gold.

[143] You don't really understand.

[144] Gold has value.

[145] Like what?

[146] Why does it have value?

[147] Because people like you.

[148] It's a commodity.

[149] That's where people give value.

[150] The only reason gold has value is two people agreed it had value, and they fought over it.

[151] That's the only reason.

[152] The same reason that green paper has value.

[153] Two people agreed it had value, and they fought over it.

[154] That's what gives something value.

[155] So commodities are exactly the same way as currencies, and Bitcoin, someday, all kidding aside, all sarcasm aside, someday it may level out and become a thing.

[156] but um jason it's not there it's not there i wouldn't wish a bitcoin investment on somebody i really dislike that's saying something i really wouldn't i mean i don't want i don't even want those people to lose money well even then i see single stocks very differently because stocks are based on a company's performance and revenue being created well that's because you're intelligent i didn't i didn't have to think that deeply to get there and so again i'm not mad at bitcoin but to say bitcoin is the same as a single stock is just not true no bitcoin no bitcoin Bitcoin is a currency.

[157] It's speculation based on height.

[158] Currencies have no value except for their track record that indicates that two people are willing to fight over them.

[159] That's why the yen versus the dollar, the pound versus the dollar, the Deutsche Mark versus the yen, these things compared back and forth.

[160] It's the faith that people have in something.

[161] And of all the currencies, um Bitcoin has the least faith it's the most I've heard a lyric once you gotta have faith Dave I wasn't going to go there oh yeah there's it I mean you just it's not yeah so it's going to continue to be volatile until it's not and even then I don't invest in the Iraqi dinar because it had Saddam Hussein's face on it and no one long no one has faith in that currency anymore i don't invest in confederate dollars from the civil war because no one any longer has faith that they have value except as a collectible i no longer i do not invest in things where people have not established a long track record of faith and even then on a currency i don't invest in a currency i would utilize it i would utilize it so to the point that i don't trust PayPal to be an exchange.

[162] That's a trust mechanism.

[163] I don't use PayPal for an exchange.

[164] So I don't even use Bitcoin for an exchange because it's too freaking out there for that even.

[165] But it's a currency, honey.

[166] It's not an investment to Georgia's point.

[167] Well, Dave, you just don't understand the blockchain technology.

[168] And once you get it, you'll change your mind.

[169] That's the line I hear all the time.

[170] Yeah.

[171] This guy doesn't understand the blockchain.

[172] It's the future.

[173] Maybe it is.

[174] You know, when you say stuff like that, it indicates you don't understand investments.

[175] So we're going to help.

[176] Today we've launched a two -night virtual event, online event, of me teaching my personal playbook on investments.

[177] It will not include Bitcoin except to trash it thoroughly further.

[178] So if you want more entertainment.

[179] That's worth buying a ticket just for that.

[180] If you want more entertainment, come join us.

[181] George is going to help me with this event.

[182] it is Dave Ramsey's investing essentials.

[183] A lot of the TikTok goobers have been asking about my actual real estate portfolio, my personal actual formulas that I use.

[184] We're going to go into those, the real estate stuff.

[185] I'm going to show you what I do.

[186] I'm going to show you what I invest in.

[187] I'm going to show you what people that I walk around with that are personal friends invest in that have $10, $20, $200, $200 million portfolios, millionaires, not your broke brother -in -law living in his mother's basement.

[188] with an opinion because he's on TikTok.

[189] Don't listen to people like that.

[190] You're going to be as broke as they are and look as dumb as they do.

[191] Don't do that.

[192] Guys, I don't know a lot.

[193] I can't fix your car.

[194] I used to could turn a wrench because I'm an old redneck, but now when I open the car, it looks like it, it looks like a spaceship to me. So I can't help you with that.

[195] But this I do every day, personally, for me. And I have walked with people who really do it and who have really have substantial assets.

[196] And so there are some basic principles and processes.

[197] investing essentials, we could call them, to picking an investment, sticking with it, when to abandon, how to analyze that real investors, not get rich quick morons, use.

[198] And so we're going to go into that.

[199] It's May 21st, 22nd.

[200] Tickets go on sale today.

[201] It's at our website, ramsysolutions .com slash events.

[202] I'll just turn this into a big old ad right now.

[203] And it's completely virtual, which is cool, because you can join from wherever you are.

[204] We will not accept payment for this by Bitcoin.

[205] That would be hilarious, though.

[206] We will not.

[207] And we will not accept payment for this on a credit card because we don't take credit cards.

[208] We don't believe in those either.

[209] Because we actually do the stuff that we teach around here.

[210] We're like not hypocrites and stuff.

[211] So I actually live this way.

[212] I have four pieces of plastic in my pocket, a debit card on my business, a debit card on my personal account, my driver's license, and my handgun carry permit.

[213] That's all that's in my wallet.

[214] I don't have anything else.

[215] and all the rednecks just said amen.

[216] But that's all you need.

[217] That's all you need.

[218] That's all you need.

[219] That's American.

[220] Merica.

[221] So we're going to cover the basics.

[222] We're also going to get into the specifics that Dave mentioned, from mutual funds to real estate, how to maximize your 401k and Dave's personal strategy.

[223] And then investing trends.

[224] What's going on out there?

[225] Which ones should you avoid?

[226] Which ones are actually good?

[227] And get your tickets because it's virtual.

[228] So this event can't technically sell out, but there will be a limit to the technology.

[229] You can decide that old people are out of touch or they have more experience than you.

[230] which is it because I've seen four cycles in my adult life of the nothing down real estate come and go four cycles of it we're in the fourth right now on TikTok and a little bit on Instagram but I've seen four of them some of you aren't old enough to have seen one of them and so you're going to fall headlong into it like I did the first time and bloody your freaking knows.

[231] So you can decide to old people have wisdom from their experience or are they out of touch and they don't understand blockchain technology.

[232] You don't understand because you didn't grow up with an iPhone in your hand.

[233] You didn't use it as a pacifier so you don't know how the world works.

[234] See, you can decide that if you want or you can decide to actually freaking learn something.

[235] I don't care which.

[236] I'll be okay either way.

[237] But we'd love to have you come to this because we're going to have a lot of fun.

[238] Can you tell?

[239] I'm a little jacked up about this.

[240] Yeah, I'm getting excited just dreaming about what this content will be.

[241] So join us.

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[244] Oh, it's $199 for two nights.

[245] We're going to do about two hours each night.

[246] So figure it out, like $50 an hour, what you're going to have in this.

[247] Your spouse can join?

[248] Yeah, get the neighbors over.

[249] We'll all watch it on the...

[250] It's like pay for a view.

[251] You can watch it on your blockchain.

[252] I mean, on your Apple TV.

[253] Whatever it is.

[254] You can do that.

[255] I'm kidding.

[256] I actually do know how to do that.

[257] I watched a movie on Apple TV last night.

[258] Look at you.

[259] Off of my eyes.

[260] Old dog can learn new tricks.

[261] I did do the mirroring the whole bit, so just shut up.

[262] This guy's airplane over here.

[263] I don't say he's out of touch.

[264] A friend of mine that just funded a movie, sent me the whole movie, it's not out yet.

[265] Asked me to watch it.

[266] It was fabulous.

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[289] In addition to a couple of hundred of our best friends, drinking our free coffee, eating our free cookies on the debt -free stage.

[290] Eric and Amanda are with us.

[291] Hey, guys.

[292] How are you today?

[293] Good.

[294] I'm all right.

[295] How are you today?

[296] Oh, you'll be okay.

[297] We've never lost a patient.

[298] Okay.

[299] I haven't either.

[300] That's good news.

[301] It's good news.

[302] So, uh, where are you guys from?

[303] Right now, we're living in Memphis, Tennessee.

[304] Okay.

[305] What's right now?

[306] Where are you going?

[307] Military.

[308] So we moved around quite a bit.

[309] Ah.

[310] We've been all over.

[311] Thanks for your service.

[312] Which is French?

[313] Navy?

[314] Navy.

[315] Yeah.

[316] Figure it at Memphis.

[317] Okay.

[318] Cool.

[319] Good to have.

[320] you guys.

[321] So how much debt have you paid off?

[322] $73 ,000.

[323] Wow.

[324] How long did this take?

[325] About three years and four months.

[326] All right.

[327] And your range of income during that time?

[328] Ninety -nine thousand all the way to $110 ,000.

[329] Excellent.

[330] And Amanda, what do you do for a living?

[331] I'm an operating room nurse.

[332] Oh, so you haven't lost a patient either.

[333] That's what you're saying.

[334] Good.

[335] That's good.

[336] Well, we have this in common then.

[337] Yeah.

[338] It's very good.

[339] Although yours were more at risk than mine.

[340] But, yeah.

[341] What are you doing in the military, Eric?

[342] I work as a data scientist for Navy recruiting.

[343] Ah, very neat.

[344] Yeah, so an after military career that looks very lucrative to me. Well done.

[345] Good for you guys.

[346] Good job.

[347] So what kind of debt was this $73 ,000?

[348] Oh, we had mostly by student loans.

[349] Eric's student loans.

[350] His little Miata, we had to pay off.

[351] His little miata.

[352] Yeah, he really wanted to, so we did pay it off.

[353] I had to ask him if he was sure he wanted to do that, but we did.

[354] So we're still driving it.

[355] And then we had some medical debt as well.

[356] Ah, very cool.

[357] Very cool.

[358] So how long you two have been married?

[359] We had our wedding in 2021, but we got married in 2020.

[360] Pandemic.

[361] Okay.

[362] All right.

[363] So you've been married four years and three years and some change.

[364] You've been working on this.

[365] So how did you get connected and do this?

[366] I do this Ramsey journey stuff.

[367] I was the Ramsey person before I met Eric.

[368] So I actually met him when I was a traveling nurse.

[369] And it put me in Charleston where he was at the time.

[370] so we met out there and I was already doing this Ramsey stuff and then we were dating for a while and the pandemic hit and we were talking about possibly getting married and we had to have some serious conversations about what we were what I was wanting to do financially what our goals were together we had to like you know come up with the plan together and I kind of got them bought in on the Ramsey stuff so so Eric she wanted to have the define the relationship DTR discussion here so you were like well I want to become dead free so if you want to be with me. I was grinding.

[371] I was grinding.

[372] It's always like, this has got to be a part of your life too.

[373] I'm travel nursing and the pandemic.

[374] So this is real.

[375] Yes, yes.

[376] It was serious.

[377] It was good money, but it was real scary.

[378] There was a lot of crap going on.

[379] I was terrified.

[380] Wow.

[381] I guarantee you.

[382] So Eric, she comes in and says, I kind of like you, but we got to get a line.

[383] What did you say?

[384] At first, I, you know, I thought I knew everything about money.

[385] Turns out I was not financially literate.

[386] And, you know, the concept of positive network.

[387] worth really made me angry for some reason because I didn't have positive net worth at the time.

[388] You're a financial genius who was broke.

[389] Exactly.

[390] We know a lot of those.

[391] I let him know gently, though.

[392] It was nice.

[393] That's good.

[394] He's so nice.

[395] You do seem sweet, nice.

[396] I mean, better than delivering him up to us.

[397] You're passive aggressive.

[398] You know, it's a little me on it.

[399] It's a little that's fun.

[400] So you guys get married and it was just like combined incomes, let's go.

[401] Did it give you hope when you saw the numbers as you laid out your first budget?

[402] It did.

[403] Yeah, life was really confusing because he was getting moved again in the military and I was like, I'm not going unless we're on the same page.

[404] And so it was really muddled for a while for us during the pandemic.

[405] I was terrified in surgery.

[406] The nurses were not getting as many hours.

[407] So I was like working as much as I could because I was afraid I was going to get fired.

[408] So everything was just really terrifying for us.

[409] And so once we decided to do life together, it really just took off from there.

[410] And it was such a relief to get on the same page.

[411] Wait a minute.

[412] You were doing travel nursing in the OR?

[413] Yeah.

[414] It's where the money's at.

[415] Okay.

[416] But not during the pandemic.

[417] The money was other places.

[418] I was traveling.

[419] We had some nurses that were making unbelievable money standing on this stage during that time.

[420] But in surgery, it was a little bit different.

[421] Yeah, because a lot of it's elective and they just say, well, just wait.

[422] Yeah.

[423] We can't do this right now.

[424] And so we were dropping like flies out there on the OR side.

[425] No pun intended.

[426] That's careful.

[427] that could go bad on a sound bite that could be really bad yeah way to go you guys all right so you get together and you say we define this we're going to get after it and you paid off 73 ,000 what do you tell people the secret to getting out of debt is in three years I think stop taking advice from broke people and you definitely have to be on the same page it just makes not just with money but with life it just makes things so much easier finances are like a small part of it but you really have to get on the same page.

[428] But it really helps.

[429] Like if the financial part isn't the struggle in your relationship, everything else seems to work out.

[430] But yeah, you've got to be on the same page.

[431] And then baby steps too.

[432] When people want to ask me about, you know, getting out of dead, it's like, just follow the baby steps.

[433] They're not that hard.

[434] Yeah.

[435] work.

[436] I'm proud of y 'all.

[437] Well done.

[438] Thank you.

[439] Who was cheering for you?

[440] Mostly ourselves.

[441] She was.

[442] She was the biggest cheer.

[443] She was my biggest cheerleader.

[444] I mean, family's just kind of looking on thinking you're weird or?

[445] Yeah.

[446] Yeah.

[447] Yeah, a lot of people didn't like get it.

[448] We had a lot of naysayers, but mostly just people that didn't get it.

[449] They were just like, oh, okay, yeah, if that's what you're going to do.

[450] And, you know, I was moving around a lot and people didn't understand that either.

[451] I did have some friends in the Navy, though, that had recently become debt -free when we decided to, you know, get married.

[452] So shout out to Nick and Alicia Cordell for being.

[453] Yeah, because they got debt -free, and that's what finally bought him into everything.

[454] Because I had preached a lot and was waiting for him to patiently, you know, understand what I was doing.

[455] but then I think his friend becoming debt -free, like really.

[456] Yeah, there's nothing like having somebody walk up in front of you and go, I just did this and it's not theory.

[457] Yeah, it flipped a switch for him.

[458] Yeah, it does.

[459] It does for me because I'm pretty cynical.

[460] I mean, it takes me a minute to come around.

[461] I know you can't imagine that.

[462] But then when you see the actual proof, and that makes a difference.

[463] And that's the difference in someone tuning into the show today or tuning into the show 30 years ago.

[464] It was just me on the air, you know, trying to get people to do this.

[465] this stuff and nobody done it.

[466] And now we've got thousands of debt -free screams.

[467] Yeah, thousands of debt -free screams on YouTube.

[468] Yeah.

[469] So, way to go, y 'all.

[470] So proud of you.

[471] Excellent job.

[472] Thank you.

[473] Hey, we've got a couple of every dollar gift cards for you that are one -year subscriptions, one for you guys to tie into the bank and keep working what you're working so you can hit that baby steps, millionaires next step.

[474] And one for you to give away and get somebody else converted and get them going in that direction.

[475] So to say thank you.

[476] And again, thanks for your service, both of you for what you do.

[477] You both serve society.

[478] It's a strong thing, and I'm glad you're prospering as a result.

[479] It's very, very, very good.

[480] Eric and Amanda Memphis, Tennessee.

[481] Seventy $73 ,000 paid off in three years and four months, make a $99 to $1 .10.

[482] Count it down.

[483] Let's hear the debt -free scream.

[484] Three, two, one.

[485] We're debt free!

[486] There we go.

[487] That'll wake you up.

[488] There we go.

[489] That was like 70 milligrams of caffeine straight to the main vein right there.

[490] I needed that.

[491] You know, if people, all the old people out there are going, I've been married 25 years, I've been married 35 years, I've been married 45 years, I wish that I was like that young couple started back then.

[492] When we first got married, we had this and we're dead free, 100 % were not even 30, and we got the rest.

[493] Oh, you're going to be so rich.

[494] It's low as my mind.

[495] It's so rich.

[496] And it started with.

[497] It was kind of like you.

[498] You were that way.

[499] Oh, yeah.

[500] You got started, you know.

[501] And I relate to Eric because I had to swallow my own pride and go, oh, maybe I'm not a financial genius.

[502] because I'm over here looking at my net worth trying to brag about my credit card rewards and how I got a free flight paid for.

[503] But you even had it worse.

[504] I mean, you had to come to work here every day.

[505] You're like an intern.

[506] Brutal.

[507] And, you know, well, I mean, you're in the midst of people all that actually believe this stuff and actually are doing this stuff.

[508] You can't not be confronted accidentally by it.

[509] No. And like you said, we're a hard place to work.

[510] We're not hypocrites around here.

[511] And people so badly want to go, I know the, I bet those Ramsey people have a credit card.

[512] Nope.

[513] I mean, you can check my wallet at the door.

[514] You ain't going to find one because I don't only believe this stuff.

[515] I've lived it.

[516] I've seen it.

[517] I've had the experience of going, life is better, living this way, living without debt.

[518] You're not playing this game set before us by society.

[519] Well, I mean, because the Miata dealership, they'll get you.

[520] That little Miata will get you.

[521] That's what I've learned.

[522] They'll get you a little Miata.

[523] You're going to start saying, look at George's little Tesla.

[524] It's going to be your new line.

[525] Oh, it's paid for.

[526] Even if it burns up, it's paid for.

[527] That's true.

[528] I mean, even if it catches fire.

[529] It's what insurance is for.

[530] Even if the battery quits working and more.

[531] don't be recharged.

[532] Oh, man. You can just get you another battery, can't you?

[533] Yeah, they're out there.

[534] I think DuraSell makes them.

[535] I think so.

[536] Run down to Walmart on aisle three.

[537] Amazon, two -day prime, Dave.

[538] Oh, I forgot.

[539] That's fun.

[540] There we go.

[541] This is the Ramsey Show.

[542] George Camel, Ramsey, personality, is my co -host.

[543] Thank you for joining us, America.

[544] We're glad you're here.

[545] Open phones at AAA 8255 -2 -2 -25.

[546] All right, Tyler is with us in Dallas, Texas.

[547] Hi, Tyler.

[548] Welcome to the Ramsey Show.

[549] Hey, Dave.

[550] Hey, George.

[551] Thanks for having me on.

[552] Sure, man. What's up?

[553] Well, I'm looking to get maybe some career advice on whether or not I should change career fields.

[554] So I'm a counselor in Dallas.

[555] I own a small private practice, and my wife is a teacher here.

[556] We're planning on moving to Oklahoma here in the next few months to be closer to my wife's family.

[557] I'm trying to decide if I should try to rebuild my practice there or if I should try to aim for a more corporate steady job with benefits in order to help kind of increase our income and provide some stability as we make the move.

[558] Okay.

[559] Well, I mean, it's kind of the question of do I want to work in a corporate environment a quote unquote steady job environment or do I want to own my own business?

[560] sure because running your own private practice is running your own business right correct are you solo right now I am solo um it's essentially a 1099 um I have an LLC that I run through an S corp um so you know there's some tax advantages with that but uh I've really been struggling with the instability of not knowing really how much is going to come in each month it's an up and down field um it would essentially take me about a year to rebuild a practice this back to what I make right now, which is about $75 ,000 to $80 ,000.

[561] Okay.

[562] There's no instability if you're booked up for six months in advance with a waiting list.

[563] Correct.

[564] So you've not built the business to that level of prosperity.

[565] It's not the business model that's broken.

[566] You don't have a full pipeline, and that's where the instability is coming from.

[567] No, that's a good point.

[568] I'm self -employed.

[569] I don't know what my income is going to be.

[570] It's not a steady paycheck.

[571] Thank God.

[572] He likes it this way.

[573] Because it's working out for me, you know?

[574] So, yeah, that's the answer.

[575] And sometimes when I hear people on a straight commission or that own their own business, we do a lot of work with business folks and the entree leadership brand.

[576] And they say, well, you know, I can't handle the insecurity of it.

[577] No, what you can't handle is not make any money.

[578] You need to make some money.

[579] You start making a lot of money.

[580] You can handle the insecurity.

[581] I mean, if you were bringing in the, if your volatility was between 300 ,000 and 400 ,000, and it was going to land somewhere in there, you could exist just fine, but that's not your, that's not your reality, right?

[582] Correct, correct.

[583] So if you are going to restart your counseling business in Oklahoma, you need to address that issue.

[584] And you're going to have to spend a larger percentage of your time on building relationships that create referrals called marketing.

[585] um to get your pipeline brimming full i have friends that do that have solo practitioner counselors that you cannot get in to see and they make ridiculous hourly rates they're very very good at what they do but they built a practice and a reputation around town among pastors among teachers among policemen around anybody who makes a referral to a counselor that they really help people transform their lives i'm sure you do but you're just young enough in the profession that you've not built that strong a reputation to get your pipeline brimming full.

[586] If you're going to go this route, that's what you'd have to commit to.

[587] But if you don't want to spend any time working on the marketing stuff or that makes you nervous, all you want to do sit in the chair, then you probably do need to work for somebody else.

[588] And that's not a bad thing.

[589] It's just an observation of who you are and what you want to work on.

[590] I think the part that I'm struggling with is knowing that my wife will take about a $15 ,000 hit her salary versus, you know, Texas versus Oklahoma, and I'm struggling to know which is the right move of, you know, if I can wait six months, because that's about how long it would, uh, it takes on average to build that out.

[591] Do you have the money to wait six months and eat on her 15 % reduction?

[592] Uh, it, it would be a stretch, but we could do it.

[593] Okay.

[594] Well, that's what it takes to open a business and make the move to be near her family.

[595] So, see, part of this is you want to, it's all romantic.

[596] We're going to go for her.

[597] We're all going to be moving and be with family and back home, and I'm all warm and fuzzy.

[598] Oh, wait, there's no food in the cabinet.

[599] And so the warm and fuzzy goes away pretty quick then.

[600] And you start facing the reality of what this move means.

[601] And so the two of you probably need to talk about that, that if we're making this move to be near your family, which would probably be her request, most likely, then, and that's an okay, it's an okay thing to do.

[602] I'm not saying it's morally wrong or something, but you need to also embrace what goes with that, which is I'm going to have to take a job, or we're going to have to go live on beans and rice for six months until I get some time booked.

[603] Your license is transferable from Texas to Oklahoma, I assume.

[604] Not necessarily.

[605] I have to redo the licensing process, which is another complicated piece of it, but it should take about three months.

[606] Okay.

[607] Okay.

[608] The career gig you're looking at, is it in the counseling field?

[609] Sure, corporate setting?

[610] Yes.

[611] No, it would be an insurance brokerage.

[612] Why?

[613] Not necessarily that I'm interested in the field itself, but it just would provide probably a little more long -term stability in terms of not having to be a salaried employee and having 401K in retirement.

[614] Please don't do that.

[615] You will hate yourself in three years.

[616] You're taking a job only for the money and the benefits and the quote -unquote stability.

[617] And I'm trying to remind you that stability is mythology.

[618] It only comes from a full pipeline.

[619] By the way, if you're an insurance brokerage and you don't do some insurance brokerage, you're going to be gone.

[620] They don't keep you.

[621] There is no stability.

[622] And you don't even like it.

[623] You were just doing it because it's there for food.

[624] Right.

[625] Yeah, I mean.

[626] There's zero excitement in your voice when you mentioned.

[627] that scares me I almost went to sleep yeah it was bad and just no yeah don't do that man you need to you need to be in the because you're the counseling makes your blood flow dude it does you're right yeah it's been a long time in school to do it and and you like it you like you like guiding people as they transform their lives and you're probably good at it I hope I'm so relatively new in it so which has been one of the reasons why it's taking me so long to build up the practice.

[628] I would love for you to land something that adds substantial income, even if it's a full -time gig, to your household for one year, but not as a long -term play.

[629] I don't care if it's insurance, brokerage, or anything else, but go in there with the idea.

[630] I'm going to work somewhere for one year while I get through the licensing process, get my practice set up part -time in the evenings and on Saturdays, and start to fill up my pipeline, and let's take a year and make the move and not put our family on bread.

[631] and then but let's have a plan to where within 24 months you're opening your practice and it's a little bit more of a solid handoff than this zero or from you know the level of practice you've got now to zero and then you've got to rebuild all the way from scratch and you do know how hard that is because you did it once yeah and the cool thing is there's a lot of virtual appointments happening now in the counseling world to where who knows he can move a lot of those people with them to Oklahoma you know I wonder if those virtual folks that Deloni endorse better help.

[632] I wonder if they would if they do contract on the side if you could just cut into contract contact with them and and join as one of their counselors.

[633] I think they probably do.

[634] That's probably what their model is.

[635] Yeah, network of counselors that they trust and vet.

[636] So I think it's a great option for them as well to get started.

[637] Probably not some kind of big non -compete there for building your own practice on the side as long as you're not stealing their customers.

[638] I would think.

[639] So he's got some kind of thing I would look for.

[640] Now check better help and see if they're hiring on a contract basis and if that'll fill in the difference while you get your license moved.

[641] Of course, you probably got to get the license moved if you're going to move physically before you can do that.

[642] But anyway, yeah, to the point it's not reciprocal, it takes three months, he said.

[643] So, okay, anyway, you can just got to work through your logistics here, but where you need to end up is doing something you love, dude.

[644] You were put on this planet to help people with your counsel skill.

[645] Now fill up your pipeline and that will do away with your need for benefits and stability because those are an illusion.

[646] Benefits and stability, both come when you make money lots of it fill up your pipeline over full over full raise your rates hourly rates that are the highest in the market because you're the best in the market and you can't get in to see old tyler for six months because old tyler's the best and that's where you need to set yourself up four years from now this is the ramsie show live from the headquarters of ramsie solutions it's the ramsie show where we help people build well Do work that they love and create actual amazing relationships.

[647] George Campbell, Ramsey Personality, number one best -selling author, and a host of multiple YouTube hit shows, including Smart Money Happy Hour on the Ramsey Network.

[648] He's my co -host today, Open Phone, at AAA 825 -5 -225.

[649] Brianna is with us.

[650] She's in Las Vegas.

[651] Hi, Brianna.

[652] How are you?

[653] Hi, I'm actually Brenna from Vegas.

[654] Oh, it's my fault.

[655] They spelled it right.

[656] I pronounced it wrong.

[657] Can't blame the phone screener.

[658] My fault.

[659] Brenna, I see it now.

[660] I'm sorry.

[661] What's up?

[662] That's okay.

[663] Thank you so much for taking my call.

[664] I'm so excited to talk to you guys.

[665] You too.

[666] The root of my question is, are we financially ready to buy a car?

[667] Because the thought of it is making me super nervous.

[668] Here's our numbers.

[669] We've got about 50 ,000 saved in the bank.

[670] separate from that we have our emergency fund of about $30 ,000.

[671] We took home last year between my husband and I about $115, and we have one car right now.

[672] It's a 2020 Honda CRV.

[673] It's worth about 20 to 23.

[674] I looked it up like last month.

[675] And it's running fine.

[676] We've been a one car family for about eight years, but we've got a little one now.

[677] and the juggling of the car and work and all that has been a little bit of a headache, and it would make our lives easier to have that second car.

[678] Buy a freaking car.

[679] What are you waiting for?

[680] It feels like me so nervous to, like, give up that money.

[681] You're 100 % debt -free, right?

[682] We are, yeah.

[683] We have a house.

[684] We're on baby stop, four, five, six.

[685] So we've got a house.

[686] What are you thinking about on the car?

[687] What price?

[688] I'm looking for like 25 to 33 because we do want a bigger car because we're thinking about expanding our family.

[689] So we want something with maybe some extra seat.

[690] But the other factor is my husband works very sporadically.

[691] Like he works for the movie industry, so he'll have a good like six -month run and then he'll not work for maybe a month or two.

[692] And we do really good at saving money during that time.

[693] But you average 115.

[694] Yes, and we've had years where we go down as low as 100 and up as high as like 150 or more, but like last year we were about 150.

[695] So how is the car going to cause that to crash?

[696] That's a great question.

[697] It's not, because you're not, you've never dipped into your emergency fund.

[698] We haven't.

[699] When he doesn't work, he does something else, brings in a little bit of money or you tap into savings just a little bit.

[700] I don't know how you survive him when he's not working.

[701] We save money when he is working.

[702] So we just budget, like, so that we'll save money.

[703] And that account will have $25 ,000 left in it if you use $25 ,000 of the 50 to buy a car.

[704] Right.

[705] It just makes me so nervous.

[706] Well, what would you save in the 50 for?

[707] Because I think money should have a goal.

[708] And I think the problem is you were just saving to save, and now it feels weird to use that money on a car, and it feels frivolous.

[709] I guess that's true.

[710] I'm very frugal.

[711] I can tell.

[712] I feel it.

[713] And I've been in your exact shoes where as we made more, we became dead.

[714] free, it's still hurt to write that check.

[715] And the car market is still stupid expensive.

[716] But you are the prime demo for it's time to buy the car.

[717] You've been a one car family for eight years.

[718] This is a very reasonable purchase.

[719] It's not a big part of your world and you're doing it the right way.

[720] You're not borrowing money.

[721] You're not justifying.

[722] You're not over buying to where you have $80 ,000 tied up in cars and you make $110.

[723] That's dumb.

[724] Don't do that.

[725] Everything you're brought up, every single number is aligned with what we teach.

[726] And we're pretty stinking conservative.

[727] I think the difference is this is popping.

[728] Yeah, this is popping in an emotional bubble.

[729] That's all it is.

[730] And you just set it out loud, and that's okay.

[731] You've never written a check this big except for probably a house, right?

[732] Right.

[733] Only our down payment.

[734] Yeah.

[735] So it's more emotional than it is tied to reality and facts.

[736] Yeah.

[737] And that's okay.

[738] The richer you get, the better at this you're going to be.

[739] Because you're going to get used to.

[740] you're going to get used to it.

[741] And by the way, you're going to get rich because the stuff you're doing is so wise.

[742] Everything you've outlined, what, how old are you guys?

[743] I'm 33.

[744] My husband's 38.

[745] Yeah.

[746] Yeah.

[747] You're going to be millionaires with the time you're 40.

[748] So you're in really good shape.

[749] You're going to look back one day and go, remember when I was freaking out over that $25 ,000 car?

[750] Yeah, exactly.

[751] Exactly.

[752] So you're great.

[753] Listen, Brenna, just breathe by a young car.

[754] Breathe and buy a car.

[755] You're in great shape.

[756] I would, I, It's George Camel endorsed.

[757] That's right.

[758] I'm really frugal.

[759] And yes, you are.

[760] That's true.

[761] You might, you are tighter than me. But I married a very boogey, wonderful woman who I just bought, you know, we bought her a new to her car.

[762] And it hurt to write that check.

[763] It was cash, but it still hurt emotionally.

[764] And you're not worse over a million.

[765] And again, it was just the aspect of going, this is a lot of money.

[766] Just the fact that you're a tight watch.

[767] Exactly.

[768] Exactly what it was.

[769] But she deserved the car.

[770] Yeah.

[771] That's all it is.

[772] I love it.

[773] She did deserve the car.

[774] She deserves more than that.

[775] No question.

[776] You work like a maniac.

[777] That's true.

[778] Y 'all don't know George's work schedule, man. He works, so he earned it.

[779] Way to go, guys.

[780] I have a hard time spending, and it's hard for people to let go of that a little bit.

[781] Dustin's in Los Angeles.

[782] Hi, Dustin.

[783] What's up?

[784] Hey, guys.

[785] Thanks for taking my call.

[786] Sure.

[787] Well, how can I help?

[788] Well, got a question for you.

[789] So a little quick back story on me, 35 years old, small business owner, started my business I was 20 years old all of my 20s kind of lived on rice and beans because I had no choice grew the business and about 30 years old the major lifestyle creep really started setting in started making some real money and just living way too high on the hog made money and spent even more twice as much I was the guy I'm like the poster guy for some of the dumb stuff you hear out there So, long story short, about a year ago, I kind of found you guys right about the same time I got married.

[790] And me and my wife said, we're done with this, we're done with payments.

[791] And in the last year, we have paid off at about $350 ,000.

[792] Look at you.

[793] Wow.

[794] How can we help today?

[795] Well, here's the thing.

[796] So we have our primary home and we also have our vacation home, pretty good equity in both, and we think we can afford both.

[797] My question is, do you think it would be wise just to sell off the vacation home almost pay off the primary mortgage so on the vacation home I owe about 500 ,000 what do you owe on your home uh 400 ,000 on the primary worth about a million what's your income nowadays how sold about 400 okay so you got 900000 you make 300 you paid off 350 ,000 in the last year correct if you stayed at that rate you'd be debt -free how both houses in three years.

[798] You're not going to stay at that rate, but you could do it in three to five years.

[799] And that was kind of our plan, just do everything.

[800] Say, our goal is five years.

[801] Yeah, I would do it.

[802] I would do it.

[803] And if you hit a bump in the road, sell the vacation home in an instant, don't hesitate.

[804] It'll be done with it.

[805] But as long as you're, as long as you're moving smooth in a three to a five -year plan, I would hold it and do it.

[806] Pay off your home first and the vacation home second.

[807] And then if anything, if the business hits a, you know, if you have a pandemic problem or something, you know, and it just stops one day because the Fauci pandemic comes back or something.

[808] Hopefully Fauci won't come back, but his pandemic might.

[809] But anyway, it's all of that.

[810] So, yeah, pay off the vacation home second, and I think you're in good shape.

[811] You're doing good work.

[812] I'm proud of you.

[813] Hey, we're giving people permission to live here.

[814] I can't believe it.

[815] What a fun segment.

[816] Twice in a row.

[817] Wow.

[818] Who says we're funny duddies?

[819] Ah, just the duddy.

[820] This is the Ramsey Show.

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[830] George Camel Ramsey, personality is my co -host today.

[831] Thank you for joining us, America.

[832] We're so glad you are here.

[833] Open phones at AAA -8 -25 -5 -2 -2 -25.

[834] Krista in Charlotte, North Carolina.

[835] Hi, Krista.

[836] How are you?

[837] Hey, Dave, and George, I'm a little nervous, but excited.

[838] I hope y 'all are doing well.

[839] Better than we deserve.

[840] Happy to help.

[841] How can we?

[842] Okay, so my question is, what to do if we have a loan that they won't let us make extra payments.

[843] So we've kind of come up with our own solution, but I just want to know.

[844] Who's your loan with?

[845] It's a 401K loan.

[846] Oh, none of them allow extra payments.

[847] Okay.

[848] That's the standard part of the regulation.

[849] So we are solution, do you want me to just jump into it?

[850] No, yeah, tell us what your solution is.

[851] Okay, so the total on the loan, which.

[852] $18 ,000.

[853] We've got it down until about $16 ,900.

[854] My husband just got a bonus and then we got an income tax return.

[855] I know, shame, shame.

[856] But we went ahead and went through our bank and took out a personal loan to cover the difference to pay off the 401K loan.

[857] Then we can throw as much as we can on the extra payments towards the personal loan.

[858] So you took out debt to pay off the debt?

[859] So you've already done it, so really what's your question?

[860] I mean, you've already done it.

[861] Is that the proper way?

[862] You said you couldn't make extra payments.

[863] They can't.

[864] Well, we have enough to pay it in full.

[865] With the bonus and the tax return, we were just a little short.

[866] What's a little?

[867] Like right around 4200.

[868] Okay.

[869] And then you're just going to attack that and pay it off very, very rapidly, right?

[870] Yes.

[871] It's not the end of the world.

[872] it's not what I would have done but it's not the end of the world okay so what we tell folks to do is just set up an account a savings account this is your last debt or the place you are in the debt snowball and just pile up money until you've got 16 9 in there and then write them a check they will take a lump sum okay which is what you're discovering I told my husband that's that's what you would say yeah yeah I was just nervous to have the money sitting there where we could get to it you know we're still um well that's a different issue that's a different issue We've got to build that habit separately because you're always going to have some money sitting there.

[873] I've got a lot of money sitting there.

[874] None of it makes me nervous.

[875] But I've been in control for 30 years after I was out of control.

[876] So I don't know how long have you all been in control?

[877] Since about December.

[878] Okay.

[879] Well, that would be normal to be nervous then.

[880] What did you take out the?

[881] All the years prior to December you were out of control and you got what three whole months of in control.

[882] So that, yeah, that makes sense that you're nervous.

[883] But the bank loan doesn't get rid of it.

[884] I mean, you still got the debt.

[885] So, you know, it was just an illusion.

[886] But here's the thing.

[887] Just work on going forward like you are managing money well and then manage money well.

[888] Act like you've made these adjustments and they're permanent in your behaviors, okay?

[889] Yes.

[890] Yeah, you've done good.

[891] You've done great.

[892] And I'd be nervous thinking about it.

[893] Is this all of your debt?

[894] Do you have other debts?

[895] Thank you for that.

[896] So we started in December.

[897] We actually took your class once in 2016, once in 2017.

[898] But, yeah, it obviously took a few years to get back on it.

[899] Maybe take it again.

[900] 50 ,000.

[901] I am.

[902] We are right now.

[903] Okay.

[904] We are right now.

[905] So excited about that.

[906] But, yeah, so we started off with 50 in December.

[907] 4 ,000 on a credit card.

[908] 18 ,000 was the 401K loan and 28 ,000 on a car loan.

[909] Well, the trick is this, personal finance, as you know, from Financial Peace University is 80 % behavior.

[910] The reason you're nervous is you flunk the class twice.

[911] Right?

[912] Exactly.

[913] I mean, it's not being mean.

[914] You did not change your habits permanently.

[915] So now you're going back for a third time, and that's made that, you know, your pattern of not following through is rattling around in your brain.

[916] And it should be.

[917] That's wisdom.

[918] So, yeah, that's okay.

[919] But I don't think that, but what I want is I want your future to be better than that because we love you.

[920] We want your future to be peace because you are in control.

[921] Your money is boring, not stress inducing because it's doing everything it's told to do instead of you wondering where it went.

[922] You no longer dread you misbehaving because it's been so long since you have misbehaved.

[923] And so I have the benefit of it being 30 years since I went bankrupt, 32 years, since I went, no, it's longer than that now.

[924] Gosh, but it's 36.

[925] Oh, my goodness.

[926] But, yeah, anyway, so I've got a lot of years of behaving after my extreme misbehavior.

[927] So I'm real calm about it nowadays.

[928] But back in those days, nobody was happy with what Dave was doing, including Dave or his wife or anybody else, right?

[929] So I get it.

[930] I understand.

[931] And now Sharon's always happy with Dave.

[932] Well, hypothetically, but, you know, let's not push it too far.

[933] And now as you broke down.

[934] Yeah, it's money, money -wise.

[935] Yeah, there we go.

[936] So, but yeah, it's a pretty simple thing.

[937] But you're building trust with others and yourself with your steady, positive behaviors.

[938] And that matters a lot.

[939] It changes everything.

[940] Well, people think my identity is, I'm bad with money.

[941] No, you've been bad with money.

[942] You've made mistakes.

[943] But as long as you believe that, you're never going to change you know uh james clear is going to be speaking at the entree leadership summit this oh yeah the famous atomic habits book and uh i've known james a long time before he was this massive author that book has done so well i'm so proud of him but it is a great book and the whole concept there was not i'm going to grip my teeth and change my habits basically the the core thesis of part at least part of it on atomic habits is i'm going to change my identity Craig Rochelle and I talked about that on his leadership podcast one day.

[944] We're talking about James and this idea of I'm going to start saying this is who I am, not that's who.

[945] I'm horrible with money.

[946] I'm not good at math.

[947] I have no impulse control.

[948] You know, I'm bad at Amazon.

[949] I don't know.

[950] Whatever it is you say about yourself.

[951] You know, you just start, first thing is you have to say, not me. I'm not that way.

[952] I'm an intentional spender.

[953] I'm someone who doesn't do life with payments.

[954] I mean, there was a period of time during the Fauci pandemic that I ate every donut in a 50 -mile radius.

[955] And so because stress -induced donut eating, right?

[956] And so, yeah, but I had to decide I'm a guy that doesn't eat too much.

[957] I'm a guy that doesn't overeat and is not going to be grossly obese.

[958] I had to decide that because I became grossly obese.

[959] It was crazy.

[960] So, because I ate every donut.

[961] So I haven't had a donut.

[962] I don't eat donuts.

[963] That's who you are.

[964] Don't tempt him with a donut.

[965] And I get up on Saturday mornings when I'm at home and I take a half dozen donuts to each grandkids' house and I don't even eat one.

[966] That's how good I am.

[967] I actually tried to tempt you the other day with a donut.

[968] And you said it was a get behind me sitting moment.

[969] I might do something else that's evil and bad, but it won't be a donut.

[970] So you just self -identify, right?

[971] That's all I'm saying.

[972] And over time.

[973] I'm capable of doing stupid stuff too.

[974] You are, everybody is, but you start going, I'm just, I'm this, I'm there.

[975] And the one I love is where you go.

[976] It's like a besetting sin from your.

[977] family.

[978] Our family has always been, it's like, stop it.

[979] Like a recessive trait?

[980] What's going on?

[981] Stop it.

[982] I mean, there's, you know, don't marry your cousin.

[983] Stop it.

[984] You know, this can stop now.

[985] You don't have to replicate these stupid decisions.

[986] You can change the gene pool.

[987] Or the ones, people, people that grew up in my neighborhood, well, somebody got out.

[988] Something in the water.

[989] You know, and it's like people that are my race, people that are, that there are immigrants, people that aren't immigrants, people that are bald, people that have great hair.

[990] I mean, whatever it is.

[991] Everybody's got, like, that's your excuse.

[992] You don't understand.

[993] I've got a bunch of kids.

[994] Well, so what?

[995] People, a bunch of kids get rich all the time because some of them have to to feed them all.

[996] And so, you know what I mean?

[997] It's like, don't tell me, everybody's got like some reason.

[998] Don't self -identify with failure.

[999] That's the point.

[1000] And that's not some muckety -muck positive thinking deal, although it is.

[1001] But it is, it's the reality of.

[1002] people who are wealthy.

[1003] It's why you become who you hang around with, too, by the way, because you're self -identifying with those people.

[1004] Our millionaire study, we found a millionaire study, 97 % of them believe they control their financial destiny.

[1005] And 69 % of the public does.

[1006] Belief.

[1007] Tadda.

[1008] There it is.

[1009] There's a correlation there, and it has causation.

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[1024] George Camel Ramsey personality is my co -host today in the lobby of Ramsey Solutions.

[1025] A debt -free stage.

[1026] Brian and Joanna are with us.

[1027] Hey, guys, how are you?

[1028] Great, Dave.

[1029] Good to have you guys.

[1030] Where do you live?

[1031] Toronto, Ohio.

[1032] Oh, fun.

[1033] Welcome to Nashville.

[1034] And how much debt have you guys paid off?

[1035] $21 ,000.

[1036] Wow.

[1037] How long did that take?

[1038] 61 months total, but we did 120 in the past 10 months.

[1039] Boo, getting it.

[1040] Okay.

[1041] All right, big time.

[1042] And your range of income during that 61 months?

[1043] Started at $150 ,000, up to $240.

[1044] Cool.

[1045] What do you guys do for a living?

[1046] I'm a family physician, and Joanna's home with the kids.

[1047] Awesome.

[1048] Very cool.

[1049] So your practice took off?

[1050] I went from the Navy to private practice.

[1051] Oh, that'll do it.

[1052] Okay.

[1053] All right.

[1054] Good.

[1055] Good for you guys.

[1056] What kind of debt was the 215?

[1057] It was our mortgage.

[1058] Paid off your house!

[1059] Looking at weird people!

[1060] I love it.

[1061] Way to go, you guys.

[1062] Awesome.

[1063] What's this house worth?

[1064] About 380 ,000.

[1065] I love it.

[1066] Oh, and it's out in the country.

[1067] You got some acreage with it.

[1068] I saw it just pop up on YouTube here.

[1069] We have a farm, yep.

[1070] Yeah, how many acres?

[1071] About five.

[1072] Oh, very nice.

[1073] It's a good place for kids.

[1074] Exactly.

[1075] Excellent, excellent.

[1076] Very cool.

[1077] So is Toronto a rural area?

[1078] I don't know that city.

[1079] It is.

[1080] It's about 40 minutes west of Pittsburgh.

[1081] Oh, okay.

[1082] Yeah.

[1083] Okay, I know the area.

[1084] Very cool.

[1085] Good for you guys.

[1086] Okay, so what made you decide?

[1087] We're paying off the house and everything.

[1088] Well, our story starts about 17 years ago.

[1089] When we were engaged, we took financial piece.

[1090] I dragged Brian there, kicking and screaming.

[1091] A newly graduated MD.

[1092] Actually, we were in college.

[1093] We're seniors in college.

[1094] We met at Franciscan University, and we were not on the same page about money.

[1095] And so I convinced him if I paid for it, would he go with me?

[1096] And so we went, and after the first class, he was sold.

[1097] And that's when we really put this as our goal.

[1098] Someday we want to have a paid off house.

[1099] We want acreage and we want a large family.

[1100] And it's kind of surreal that we're here now.

[1101] What happened, though, was during COVID.

[1102] I almost lost my job because of the vaccine mandate.

[1103] And so it really put a fire under us to make sure that we were completely that free and clean the mortgage.

[1104] So no matter what happened, we'd be safe.

[1105] Okay.

[1106] So they were mandating you get one and you didn't?

[1107] Correct.

[1108] Okay.

[1109] And so you're in private practice now where you control that?

[1110] No. I mean, I work for a hospital system up there.

[1111] So they're mandating it through the government.

[1112] So I had to fight that back.

[1113] Oh, I got it.

[1114] Okay.

[1115] All right.

[1116] Wow.

[1117] That got you, that got you, lit that fire in that last, what was it, 10 months, you went crazy, huh?

[1118] Yeah, we actually had built up a bunch of cash reserves in case Brian had to open up his own practice suddenly.

[1119] And so when we came through that time, we said, okay, let's get really busy about this house.

[1120] So we're not worried if something happens again.

[1121] And so we decided to take that big chunk of change.

[1122] We had been saving aggressive.

[1123] in case he needed to leave his job quickly and we put on the house and we drained everything except retirement and our emergency fund and threw it out the house in these last 10 months and then we've just been scraping everything we can.

[1124] Brian's been teaching butchering workshops.

[1125] We raise all our own meat now to on our farm and butcher it on our farm.

[1126] You know, I wish you had said that fur.

[1127] we have six kids a doctor giving butchering con just it's bothering me it's the farm not the I got it I got it he knows anatomy really well oh man so that that's cool well well because homesteading and raising your own stuff is huge it's a big movement and so people lining up to take that class I bet and to learn how to do what you guys are doing because the freedom of it and the independence of it.

[1128] Yes.

[1129] Where you're not dependent on someone who's mandating something on you that you don't want to do.

[1130] And you're the guy with a medical degree.

[1131] We don't figure that.

[1132] Isn't that interesting?

[1133] Yeah.

[1134] We're not going there.

[1135] We're just going to celebrate with you that your farm is paid for and it's worth $380 ,000.

[1136] How much have you got in retirement?

[1137] About another, $350.

[1138] Okay.

[1139] So you're approaching millionaire already.

[1140] Well done.

[1141] And you brought the kiddos with you.

[1142] How many of them are there?

[1143] We have six.

[1144] Six.

[1145] Wow.

[1146] They're all with you.

[1147] And what are the age range?

[1148] We have 15 down to one.

[1149] All right.

[1150] That's a party.

[1151] Very cool.

[1152] Some farm workers right there.

[1153] That's right.

[1154] And shock of shocks, they're well behaved.

[1155] Okay.

[1156] And when there's two, they're climbing the walls, right?

[1157] But these, they just line up like the picture.

[1158] It's just like perfect.

[1159] All right.

[1160] Names and ages.

[1161] Let me hear who they are.

[1162] So Joseph who's 15.

[1163] We have Killian, who's 12.

[1164] Fulton is 10.

[1165] Cormick is seven.

[1166] Rosie is three.

[1167] Jamie is one way to go Jamie you must lose track of one that's that's impressive that's good wow so how's it feel to not have any payments it's kind of surreal this is our first family vacation day that isn't just to visit family so we're going down to Texas and we're a little crazy go for it be a little crazy you've earned it you're almost millionaires your doc you make good money you got freedom now I'm so proud of y 'all thank you yeah it just it is is amazing and it as you said it's freeing to where now I look it up I do what I want to do because I want to serve people and I want to be there because I want to be there not because I have to be there yeah and I'm not going to be forced into something to pay a bill right yeah that I don't want to do to my body way to go good for y 'all so proud of y 'all excellent excellent work very very cool what advice do you have for somebody that wants to get out of debt um for us it was contentment knowing our why and um the budget we've been doing the budgeting since we were printing them off every month.

[1168] We have our first paper budget we ever did.

[1169] I love it.

[1170] And so, yeah, I would say having that monthly budget meeting is key.

[1171] But no matter what income we have, just learning contentment.

[1172] Yeah.

[1173] Good job, you guys.

[1174] Way to go.

[1175] Proud of you.

[1176] All right, it's Brian and Joanna and the powerful six.

[1177] Way to go.

[1178] count it down a 215 ,000 paid off in 61 months with most of that in the last 10 months making 150 to 240 count it down let's hear a debt free scream three two one we're debt free yeah wow that was the most behaved debt free scream I've seen with six children in it that's impressive ever that's excellent very very cool what a great family and what a great story that's so exciting and sometimes we hear people say you can't do this ramsie stuff if you you have a big family, so I rest my case.

[1179] Somehow they did it.

[1180] Somehow they figured it out.

[1181] They're like, we'll raise our own cattle if we have to feed these kids.

[1182] Yeah, apparently.

[1183] And we'll return ourselves.

[1184] Yeah, that's good.

[1185] It's good stuff.

[1186] I mean, it's possible and it's probable when you make the decision to do the right thing.

[1187] And, you know, there's some tradeoffs.

[1188] But the powerful tradeoff is now he's in a position to not feel the stress or the pressure if something else comes along in the medical community that's not, ethical for him.

[1189] Yeah.

[1190] And then he's not, he's not forced into something.

[1191] He doesn't have to be a, because so many people did stuff because their income was dependent upon it, not because they believed it.

[1192] A lot of them.

[1193] And so it was, it's wild.

[1194] And so that, you know, that's a lesson that we can learn from that time is that freedom, one of the things that financial freedom gives you is it gives you choices.

[1195] With your career, with where you live, how you live, who I want to work for.

[1196] I don't have to put up with this crap anymore, you know.

[1197] You know, if you start yelling at you, just start walking off.

[1198] Where are you going?

[1199] I don't have any payments.

[1200] You know, it just changes.

[1201] Changes everything, right?

[1202] Why would I work here?

[1203] Why would it work for somebody like you?

[1204] I don't have any payments, you're.

[1205] That is impressive.

[1206] Nobody's going to put up with that.

[1207] And they are such the anomaly because most docs out there, they just raise their lifestyle as they make more money.

[1208] And they continue to live on less than they made and go, what if we could send all of that money to the mortgage so that we don't have a payment in a few years?

[1209] Yeah.

[1210] And there's so much.

[1211] And a lot of life happened during, you know, from that first financial peace class 17 years ago to now.

[1212] Six kids is just, that's one part of the life.

[1213] That's a, that's a lot of life.

[1214] Man, that is impressive on its own.

[1215] No pun intended.

[1216] But they're heroes, or absolute heroes.

[1217] They took control of their lives.

[1218] And that's what you guys can do out there.

[1219] And that's why we have debt -free screams on here.

[1220] And they gave us the secret, the big mortgage hack, Dave.

[1221] Apply extra to the principal.

[1222] Ooh, look at that.

[1223] That's like smoking marriage And if you got a big pile of money Throw it at the principal You need a TikTok channel It would be too short of a TikTok No one would watch it off debt Pay more on Pay it off That's too simple Dave It needs to be more sophisticated I got a chill They did it This is the Ramsey show George Camel Ramsey personality is my co -host Thanks for joining us Avi is with us in Philadelphia Is it Avi Is that correct Yes that's correct Cool how can we help How are you doing guys Better than we deserve.

[1224] Great.

[1225] Love it.

[1226] So I've been working for a service business for about, give or take six years back in 2010.

[1227] I opened my own in about 2016, you know, trying to expand my income.

[1228] Transitioned from a service company to a construction company.

[1229] And in the meantime, got married, built a family.

[1230] My question is as follows.

[1231] I have now just started the calculating my budget, and I figured out that I either need to address my personal income and expenses or change the business kind of model to be able to match my personal income.

[1232] Essentially, I'm paying myself from the business, but they're not enough.

[1233] Yeah.

[1234] So how much do you pay yourself from the business?

[1235] Well, I don't.

[1236] That's the biggest problem.

[1237] I've been mixing personal and business expenses since I started being, I didn't know anything about business.

[1238] I just knew what I was providing the service.

[1239] Now, I'm looking now to separate the two, and how much do I pay myself?

[1240] Do I pay myself what my personal budget is needing, or do I pay myself what my business can handle?

[1241] It doesn't matter.

[1242] You're going to be taxed on your profits.

[1243] on the business regardless and you have been all alone are you current on your taxes now how far behind are you on taxes uh...

[1244] about two years out there uh...

[1245] you need to take care of that quarterly but not year or then well if you don't fight not filing federal income tax returns is a criminal offense they put twenty seven hundred and eleven people in jail last year for that so not filing is not okay not paying is a different issue that's not criminal they'll just drive you into the dirt but not paying is not criminal so you need to get that part of your life cleaned up immediately and we'll go ahead and answer your question as a part of this but jump online at ramesysolutions dot com and talk with one of our taxi lps and they can help you get current and set yourself on a system to stay current.

[1246] Now, this will also help you do your taxes and your quarterly's on time and accurately, and that is simply this.

[1247] You need to open a separate checking account for your business from your personal.

[1248] I assume you have a checking account.

[1249] Is it in the business name or your personal name?

[1250] No, I have everything separated.

[1251] I just...

[1252] You just don't have it separated.

[1253] Okay.

[1254] So now that the business account is open, 100 % of the income that goes into the business account is only business.

[1255] The only thing that comes out of the business account is business.

[1256] Never again pay anything personal out of that account the rest of your life, ever.

[1257] Oh, yeah, I spent the past three months separating those.

[1258] I started with your podcast.

[1259] Well, you told us you weren't separated, so I'm telling you to separate it.

[1260] Yeah, okay.

[1261] All right, so now you're separated, and 100 % of the time, this is a business expense, you use the correct debit card, the correct checking account.

[1262] 100 % of the time it's a personal expense, you use your personal account.

[1263] Now, what does it take if you've laid out a budget for your, for you don't know what it takes to operate your household, right?

[1264] You told me that.

[1265] Okay.

[1266] So what profits do you think you've made in a given year?

[1267] What do you think the business makes profit that you're going to end up paying income tax on?

[1268] I believe I'm operating out of loss right now.

[1269] then how is your family eating because well that I'm accruing debt that's my problem so you're borrowing money to eat and stay open not really I mean yeah if you put it that way I've been paying are you living off of credit cards exactly so now we stop in December 23 and how much credit card debt do you have personal about 50k okay what other debt do you have personal or business they're all personal it's all in your name so business I have about 80 on top of the credit cards and I assume then you have the IRS taxes do you know how much that is no isn't filed a tax reportally so I have not filed a car yeah okay yeah we're not sure so that's going to go to the top of your debt payoff list but you shouldn't have any taxes if you're not profitable so why are you paying quarterly's Based on sales, I've been doing it myself.

[1270] I'm not really sure.

[1271] Okay.

[1272] Dude, you're a hot mess.

[1273] Okay.

[1274] So there's so many things going on here.

[1275] The first thing we have to do with the business side is we have to figure out if the business is really profitable or not.

[1276] If you are running a business at a loss, it is not a business.

[1277] It is a hobby.

[1278] Close it and go get a dead gum job.

[1279] If you're really losing $50 ,000 a year, why keep doing it?

[1280] That's dumber than crud.

[1281] So you have to get this business where it brings you.

[1282] brings in more than it spends, and it actually makes a profit to feed your family.

[1283] Whatever the profits are is the most you can take home.

[1284] You cannot run a company and fund it with debt.

[1285] It won't work.

[1286] It's not sustainable.

[1287] There's obviously an end of that.

[1288] You'll hit the wall like you're a NASCAR, okay?

[1289] And it'll be engine up in the stands disintegrated vehicle.

[1290] That's what's going to happen.

[1291] So you've got to stop this.

[1292] You need to be in panic mode on your taxes and on your accounting, because both of them suck beyond belief here.

[1293] So once you get the business under control and you can tell if it's making money and decide whether leave it open, then you can say what I've got to have come home.

[1294] Now, you can build a household budget based on household expenses.

[1295] Get the every dollar app and download it and you can look at it and say, all right, I need this much in my food, this much in my electricity, this much to keep the cars running, this much to pay the credit card debt, this much to monthly, this much to buy diapers or whatever it is.

[1296] I don't care.

[1297] You just make a list of your monthly expenses and total them up, and that's going to give you an idea of what it takes to operate your household.

[1298] It won't be completely accurate because your stuff is so chaotic that you're not going to be able to tell.

[1299] But at least get started there and at least go over on the business side, and let's start running the business with a monthly profit and loss.

[1300] So when you contact our tax ELP to get your taxes caught up and file, also sit down with them and ask them if they help with small business bookkeeping, most of them do.

[1301] and they can help you set up a small business bookkeeping system and get you started on running this business and telling yourself if it's a profit or not.

[1302] It could just be as simple as you need to get organized and raise your prices a little bit and actually collect from your customers on time because I don't think you're only $50 ,000 in credit card debt if you've been running this business all this time at no profit.

[1303] So something's wrong with that story.

[1304] You've been making a profit somewhere.

[1305] I just can't tell how much and you can't either.

[1306] It's been eight years of this.

[1307] It's freaking amazing that you've survived as long as you have.

[1308] What you're doing is not sustainable.

[1309] It's stress -inducing.

[1310] I mean, you're going to be living panic attack to panic attack.

[1311] Your spouse is too.

[1312] You just can't.

[1313] That much chaos in your finances will ruin your life.

[1314] And it'll keep you from all your hard work from causing prosperity.

[1315] Because you're working your butt off, it sounds like.

[1316] But you can't tell if you're doing anything.

[1317] It's like a rat in a wheel.

[1318] Run, run, run, run, run, run, run, run, run.

[1319] Have a heart attack and die of anxiety.

[1320] don't do that okay get out of the wheel sit down let's lay out a game plan execute execute execute execute and you it'll the numbers will talk to you and tell you where you're out of line but i don't know if your business is out of line or not where it's out of line or not i know it's out of line i know one place is it doesn't have an accounting system the second thing is then you get your your home in place now if the business is making $80 ,000 a year you're getting taxed on $80 ,000 a year you can bring home $80 ,000 a year you can bring home $80 ,000 a and the business will run just fine.

[1321] If the business is making $72 ,500, you can bring home $72 ,500.

[1322] If you leave a little bit in there, in addition to that, you're going to pay taxes on it anyway, but you leave some in there to reinvest and grow the business.

[1323] That's okay, too.

[1324] But you can set that up once you actually know what the numbers are.

[1325] Got another basics.

[1326] And there's a great free guide that our Entree Leadership team put together.

[1327] This is Dave's Playbook for How to Build a Business.

[1328] It's called Entree Leaders Guide to Business Finances.

[1329] So I encourage you, Avi, and anyone else listening to go check this out.

[1330] It's completely free at entreleadership .com slash finances.

[1331] And this is the playbook that Dave's talking about.

[1332] Here's how to set it all up.

[1333] Here's how to run a business, debt -free, so that you have prosperity and peace.

[1334] Scripture says, be diligent to know the state of your flocks and herds.

[1335] Obviously, Solomon wrote that proverb in an agrarian culture where flocks and herds were representative of wealth.

[1336] So if you don't keep up with the lambs and you don't watch for the wolves, you go down.

[1337] That's what this is.

[1338] This is the Ramsey Show.

[1339] Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's the Ramsey Show, where we help people.

[1340] Build wealth, do work that they love, and create actual amazing relationships.

[1341] George Camel, Ramsey Personality, number one bestselling author of the book.

[1342] breaking free from broke.

[1343] I'm looking at it behind me back here, big orange book sticking out, and a big seller.

[1344] George has done very well with that.

[1345] Also, big YouTube star on Smart Money Happy Hour and the George Camel Show, one of the fastest growing shows on the Ramsey Network on YouTube.

[1346] Thanks for joining me, George.

[1347] We're going to answer folks questions today.

[1348] The phone number is Triple -8 -825 -5 -2 -25.

[1349] Joseph is in Knoxville to start this hour.

[1350] Hi, Joseph.

[1351] How are you?

[1352] Good.

[1353] Thank you so much for taking my call.

[1354] Sure, man. What's up?

[1355] So I've been living paycheck to paycheck my whole life pretty much, and I'm at a point where the money I'm making, it's not okay with me anymore.

[1356] So I've eliminated about five just little credit cards here and there that add up.

[1357] And I got about four monsters left as far as my home, a truck payment, credit card, and a personal loan.

[1358] And I'm trying to figure out how to execute that.

[1359] okay great so i'm going to help you lay out a budget that's the key to all of this have you heard of every dollar before yes i just filled that out um yesterday great so what's your income you list out at the top i net right at 122 a year amazing okay are you doing any investing right now I actually paused my works 401K because it didn't make sense to me to put money to the side that's being matched when I have credit cards that are taking that away.

[1360] Joseph, you are getting it.

[1361] All right, great.

[1362] So what's left on the truck loan?

[1363] 23.

[1364] And the credit cards?

[1365] The credit card is at 15 right now of a 16 limit.

[1366] And then the personal loan is a nasty one.

[1367] Whenever I take these out, I try to pay them as quick as possible.

[1368] possible.

[1369] That's at payoff at a $12 ,000.

[1370] But if I let it go its entire life, it's double that.

[1371] No, we're not doing that.

[1372] It's going to die soon.

[1373] What kind of personal loan is this?

[1374] A bad one.

[1375] It was just a personal loan to get me through.

[1376] We had a new baby a couple years ago and that way we did a home delivery.

[1377] So we had to pay out of pocket for that.

[1378] Okay.

[1379] A few other things here and there and then bad spending habits.

[1380] So you've got minimum payments on each of these, right?

[1381] On the truck, the credit cards, personal loan?

[1382] I do, and I put 50 % of my work income, because I, too, a retired military, early retirement there.

[1383] And so my work income that I have is grossed 80 a year, and I just now put 50 % of that into a separate account.

[1384] Like the emergency fund, and once I match that, I dump the other part into a debt.

[1385] So what do you have in savings right now in liquid cash?

[1386] right now probably about 2000 i just dumped 2 ,200 into that credit card okay so the simpler way to do all of this is you're going to list out all of the necessities your four walls food utility shelter transportation insurance bills beyond that we're going to cut all of the non -essentials from our life and the rest we're going to attack the debt with and so when you make your every dollar budget in the debt section you're going to list all of the minimum payments as well as the loan balances and whatever the smallest debt is, I'm assuming it's going to be that person alone, you're going to throw as much as you can with all the margin you've created because you're living on less than you make, you've cut all the fluff out of your budget.

[1387] Now you're going to take that extra 500 bucks, 1 ,000 bucks, 4 ,000 bucks, and throw it at that smallest debt while making minimum payments on the others.

[1388] No reason to move it through a savings and back out.

[1389] Just put it all on there.

[1390] Set $1 ,000 aside.

[1391] That's baby step one as your miniature starter emergency fund.

[1392] Don't let that get below that for any emergencies.

[1393] and everything else you can squeeze out of your life, you attack with a vengeance like your hair's on fire, that smallest, stupid, high interest, personal debt that makes throw up in your throat come up into your mouth when you talk about it a while ago.

[1394] I heard it.

[1395] You need to get rid of that thing fast.

[1396] It needs to die like right now, like everything.

[1397] Don't go out to eat and we're not going on vacation.

[1398] We don't do nothing.

[1399] We're getting these debts cleaned up.

[1400] You hear that?

[1401] Yeah.

[1402] I do.

[1403] I can't put all my streaming services and everything.

[1404] Everything's gone.

[1405] Everything's gone.

[1406] So you're bringing home 10 grand a month, so you should have thousands of dollars left over.

[1407] How much is your house payment?

[1408] It is 1 ,800.

[1409] Okay.

[1410] Yeah, when you squeeze your budget down, you're going to be able to do probably $3 ,000 or $4 ,000 a month on this.

[1411] Yeah.

[1412] And the good news is it's just going to be for a short period of time.

[1413] So three months, the personal loan's gone.

[1414] Yeah.

[1415] And you free of a payment.

[1416] more months or four more months the credit card's gone and then the truck's on the way so you're you're going to be debt free and like a year of super intensity people think you've lost your mind focus and of course that means your wife has to be on board with all this if you're because you're married and got a baby right i have five kids and my wife of 15 years yeah yeah yeah so this is a short period of time we're going to pay a price to win we're going to live like no one else so that later we can live and give like no one else there's an intensity that goes with us we call it gazelle intensity like the gazelle running from the cheetah for its life because you woke up the other day and went this isn't working something has to change the best way to change behavior is dramatically overdo it for a short period of time yeah and i've i've given attempts my whole life because my dad's followed you so i've just known your name forever yeah um but when I see the look on people's face when I'm getting intense with it, family, and they're sad, or they want to go do something.

[1417] Who cares?

[1418] I give in.

[1419] Who cares?

[1420] They don't have five kids and they don't make $120 ,000 a year and broke.

[1421] Who cares what they think?

[1422] When you reach the point you don't give a crap what people think, then you've got a chance.

[1423] Because you can't please all the broke people in our society that have an agenda for your money.

[1424] Yeah.

[1425] When you break through that, then you're just going to be a dad and a husband that's a completely different dude because you're going to be like mission game on, full mission face.

[1426] We're not doing nothing else.

[1427] When that happens, then that's when people change their lives.

[1428] You're on track.

[1429] You've got all the – I'm hearing all the right verbs, all the right usage of language and the sentence structure of somebody who's getting ready to win.

[1430] Yeah.

[1431] I mean, you're getting intense.

[1432] And you said the kids are the ones who were coming at me going, well, we can't – You tell the kids, daddy and mommy are broke.

[1433] We don't have the money for it.

[1434] Tell my friends and the kids, no is a complete sentence.

[1435] Dave's always said you don't let the inmates run the asylum.

[1436] Yeah.

[1437] No. Sorry.

[1438] Can't do that.

[1439] Well, well, well, well, well, well, well, well, well, well, well, well, well, there's always therapy later on.

[1440] If you want to write checks to me, we can talk about your opinion.

[1441] But until then, your opinion's worth what you paid for it.

[1442] Zippo.

[1443] So, sorry, my friend.

[1444] No. Nope.

[1445] Nope.

[1446] Nope.

[1447] Sorry.

[1448] It's a full sentence.

[1449] It's a highly offensive word.

[1450] if you tell people know in our culture these days they go bananas and pick at you you know it's like no no that does hurt my feelings the more you say it dave you're are you triggered i'm just trying to live my truth out here you're just telling me no you're truth see there's the problem right there i know where all dave's buttons are and i love pushing them just push them just georgias that's my co -hoops right here he's just playing the it's part of the game of phone it's part of the game buttons uh hang on joseph we're going to help you out we want you to go through financial Peace University is our guest to go with your every dollar subscription.

[1451] You need to do all that because you're going to win.

[1452] You call us back and we want to hear your success or any questions you've got in the future.

[1453] We want to help you.

[1454] This is the Ramsey Show.

[1455] George Camel, Ramsey Personality is my co -host today.

[1456] Thank you for joining us.

[1457] Folks, it's tax season.

[1458] If you need a tax pro or you want the Ramsey Smart Tax Software, the best and easiest tax software to use anywhere.

[1459] You can get that, of course, at Ramsey Solutions.

[1460] dot com slash tax you can hook up with one of our tax e -lps if you've got a complicated return if you've got a simple return don't use those other guys they're trying to sell you a bunch of crap like credit cards and everything else and hidden fees and we fix all that we'll advance your refund with a loan that one discuss me this uh question comes in from one of our listeners are there penalties for filing a tax extension no the tax extension itself does not create a penalty.

[1461] Not paying your taxes when you file, let's say you owe $1 ,000 and you file an extension from April to October.

[1462] You will pay penalties on the $1 ,000 taxes that you owe if you don't pay it.

[1463] So whatever your tax that's due, you should pay it when you file the extension.

[1464] The extension is not extending the payment.

[1465] It's extending the filing.

[1466] And so if your return is complicated, or screwed up or there's something in flux, pay the proper amount of taxes and file an extension during the extension period, do your filing.

[1467] But it does not extend the tax liability.

[1468] You will be penalized and get late fees and penalties and interest and everything else on the amount you don't pay.

[1469] So do not, that's, you know, people that, well, I can't pay, so I'm just going to extend.

[1470] Now, that's not how that works, baby.

[1471] It's not how that works.

[1472] So it doesn't work that way at all.

[1473] you're going to get penalized the whole time.

[1474] And the last person you want to be in debt to is the freaking KGB, I mean the IRS.

[1475] Go to the top of the debt snowball.

[1476] Yes, that's bad news right there.

[1477] So the key here is when you request that extension, you have to estimate your total taxes owed and compare that to how much you paid in federal taxes during the year.

[1478] That will tell you if you have a tax bill.

[1479] But if you're going to go through all that hassle, just go ahead and file your tax return on time.

[1480] But you've got to pay by the deadline.

[1481] I've been in a situation about three times in my career where there was a complication to where we really could not file an accurate return.

[1482] We had an idea where we're going to land, but we had to get a couple of other things in that just were not in, not our fault.

[1483] So I have filed an extension a couple times, but I paid the taxes because I never ever want those people in my life.

[1484] I've coached too many people with the IRS in their life, and it's just the last thing you want.

[1485] you think MasterCard and American Express is evil.

[1486] You just will you try these guys on.

[1487] Garnish your wages and destroy your life.

[1488] Well, they got, they got no, they got, they don't have to do anything.

[1489] They're the only death that does not have to go to court to start taking your stuff.

[1490] So you just don't want to screw around with these guys.

[1491] They got a lot of power and the penalties are ridiculous, all that.

[1492] So it is not filing an extension is not an extension on payment.

[1493] You got to pay your, figure out what you think it's going to be and pay that.

[1494] And even if you, when you file a return, actually you may actually owe you a little bit back if you did it over over did it but um because you're guessing at that point uh educated guess but you're guessing so ramsysolutions dot com slash tax for the ramsie smart tax software the best in the business very inexpensive no hidden fees no salesman will call no gotchas and if you got a complicated return get with one of our tax pros that we've vetted they are ramsie trusted zach is in los angeles hey zach welcome to the ramsie show.

[1495] Thank you.

[1496] Thank you for having me. Sure.

[1497] What's up?

[1498] You too.

[1499] How can we help?

[1500] So I have a quick question.

[1501] So I'm debt free.

[1502] I'm 28 years old.

[1503] I actually just got a promotion and I make about a hundred and a little over $100 ,000 a year.

[1504] And I was wondering if I should be saving for my, for a house or investing in my 401K or both because my company does something interesting with the 401K where it does 5 % match, but then on top of that, regardless of how much I put in, they put in 5 % of my salary.

[1505] So you're forced to do 5 %?

[1506] No. No, it's not forced.

[1507] They put in 5%.

[1508] Yeah, they put in 5%.

[1509] So you make 100K, they'll put in an extra 5 ,000 for you on top of the match.

[1510] Correct.

[1511] Correct.

[1512] Cool.

[1513] Okay.

[1514] Well, you're at what we would call Baby Step 3B if you have a fully funded emergency fund.

[1515] Do you have that in place in your savings?

[1516] I do.

[1517] Awesome.

[1518] So this is a choose -your -own adventure, my friend.

[1519] And based on your age and your goals and your priorities, you could invest up to the match and put the rest in a down payment fund.

[1520] You could invest 15%, whatever's left over doing the down payment.

[1521] Some people choose to do zero percent investing while they get really intense and save up that down payment in a year or two.

[1522] Yeah.

[1523] How fired up are you on getting a house?

[1524] How jacked are you?

[1525] I'm pretty fired up.

[1526] Okay.

[1527] I am because enough to give up that 5 % for a, for one year while you do a down payment?

[1528] I could, yeah.

[1529] Okay.

[1530] Or do you want to do the 5 % and do the down payment above that?

[1531] Either one's okay.

[1532] That's what George is saying.

[1533] It's 5 ,000 a year that you could have put toward the down payment.

[1534] And if I'm in your shoes, I can tell you're hungry to invest, your young guy making good money.

[1535] So I think you put 5 % in to get the match, and then anything else beyond that becomes the down payment fund and you be okay with being a little more patient.

[1536] Let me clarify something.

[1537] The 5 % that they give you that's not the match.

[1538] are you required to be putting money in the 401k to get that no okay so you get that either way yes okay so if you put in 5 % they're going to match 5 % and give you an additional 5 % whether you put money in there or not correct okay that's very good and you said you're 20 how old I'm 28 okay all right well if you and you're single sounds like no I actually have a girlfriend.

[1539] I'm planning to propose later this year.

[1540] Oh, congratulations.

[1541] You're single.

[1542] You're not married.

[1543] When you're married, we'll change the equation maybe.

[1544] But, yeah, we've got to take care of all that stuff, too.

[1545] And it's okay to, if you're getting engaged and you think you might get married when?

[1546] Let's see, maybe a year and a half, maybe two years.

[1547] Okay.

[1548] I'm going to recommend you buy your house after married.

[1549] Of course, yeah.

[1550] So you've got from now until then to save a down payment with your income, unless there's a bunch of other stuff coming out of your budget we haven't discussed, then I think you could put in 5 % pretty easy and still save your down payment, don't you, in a year and a half?

[1551] I do.

[1552] Okay.

[1553] That's probably a good plan.

[1554] But you can choose to do any of these.

[1555] They're okay in our plan.

[1556] Okay.

[1557] And then, but once you got your house purchased that ready, then you go to baby step four.

[1558] solid, which is 15 % of your income going into retirement, regardless of the matter.

[1559] But past that, you don't.

[1560] And then, of course, and just my experience of coaching young families and young people being engaged and so forth over the last 30 -something years tells me you will choose a better house after marriage, because if you buy a house without her before marriage, it'll be the wrong one.

[1561] Okay.

[1562] And all the married people got that joke.

[1563] It's a joke and also not a joke.

[1564] It's fun how that works.

[1565] It takes about a year of being married to know how close to your mother -in -law to buy.

[1566] So these are the jokes, right?

[1567] So it just takes, it's okay to not be in too big a hurry on the home purchase.

[1568] But especially if he's in the L .A. area, anywhere in California, it may take a little while.

[1569] Oh, I miss that.

[1570] So it might be a sizable down payment just to get a reasonable.

[1571] Yeah.

[1572] So it might be two, two and a half years to make the purchase.

[1573] But either way, I'm probably going into the 5%.

[1574] Yeah.

[1575] We'll add her income to the equation after marriage.

[1576] And if she's debt -free as well.

[1577] That'll increase the savings issue too.

[1578] And yeah, all of that happens.

[1579] That's a game -changer.

[1580] That's what happened with Whitney and I. You know, she works here at Ramsey.

[1581] We got married.

[1582] She was smarter than me, better looking, better with money.

[1583] So we get married.

[1584] We still are trying to figure this out.

[1585] I don't understand it.

[1586] It's the charm, Dave.

[1587] You'll get it one day.

[1588] Yeah, it's the humor.

[1589] The millennial jokes.

[1590] But, you know, the key financially, and people hate this, but the key was we were dinks, dual income, no kids.

[1591] And then we became dink wads, dual -income.

[1592] income, no kids with a dog.

[1593] And then...

[1594] We got the Frenchie.

[1595] Yes, which is two...

[1596] With a dogs, multiple Frenchies.

[1597] And then...

[1598] And now we're broke.

[1599] We finally figured it out and got a baby.

[1600] Exactly.

[1601] There it is.

[1602] Okay.

[1603] We got there eventually.

[1604] But that is a...

[1605] Man, if you're young and both of you are working, what an incredible time to build wealth together.

[1606] And buying a home together is a really special thing.

[1607] So I'm waiting until you're married, because Dave's right.

[1608] You chose the wrong countertop and cabinet colors, my friend.

[1609] Dinkwad?

[1610] Dinkwad.

[1611] Oh, God.

[1612] don't call me that what a world i'm no longer a dinkwa dave what a world this is the ramsie show george camel ramsay personality is my co -host tasha is with us in denver hi tasha welcome to the ramsay show hi there thank you so much for having me um that's a blessing to be on so thank you so much sure what's up um so basically um my husband and i just want to know if it's a good idea if we should use our four and one K to buy a business.

[1613] How old are you?

[1614] So his boss is retiring.

[1615] I'm 36 and he's 40.

[1616] No. No, okay.

[1617] Let me tell you why and then see if you agree with me, okay?

[1618] Okay.

[1619] When you pull money out of a 401k at your age, you are charged a 10 % penalty plus your tax rate, and so they're going to take approximately 40 % of the money.

[1620] So it's the same thing as calling me and saying, Dave, I want to borrow money at 40 % interest to buy a business to which I would say no okay you wouldn't borrow money a 40 % interest would you no no I wouldn't okay good you have any other recommendations how much is the business the business is for 250 ,000 and his boss is asking 50 ,000 down okay when's the rest do in September uh throughout the rest is going to be due they're going to borrow the 50 ,000 is what they're going to or buy the cash out for the 50 grand not the whole thing the boss is going to carry the other 200 right yeah okay let's let's see if we can restructure this a minute let me learn some things about the situation then I have a suggestion okay okay we have found that eight I work with small businesses 10 ,000 of them right now through entree leadership and we know that the SBA statistics are correct that 80 % of the small businesses fail that start up.

[1621] You won't be starting up.

[1622] You'll be buying existing, so that gives you an advantage.

[1623] But 80 % fail in the first five years.

[1624] The reason that's important is why do they fail?

[1625] Of the 80%, by far, the number one reason the small businesses fail is what they describe as cash flow problems.

[1626] When we go in and do an autopsy on them after they die, we find two things that are called cash flow problems.

[1627] One is they don't pay their freaking taxes.

[1628] They don't do their quarterly estimates.

[1629] They don't keep a good set of books.

[1630] And they get behind with the IRS, which will take you out.

[1631] They will slit your throat just to say they did.

[1632] Okay?

[1633] It's like their goal in life.

[1634] The second thing that causes cash flow problems, in quotes, is debt, debt payments.

[1635] Because you've got debt payments, whether you're making money, or whether you don't make money.

[1636] And that takes people out.

[1637] So I have taught small business people for a couple decades and regular people that aren't in business to not borrow money.

[1638] Now, how do we go live your dream, though?

[1639] So on this business, do you guys know what the net profit is on the business on the current owner's tax returns in a year?

[1640] It is $500 ,000.

[1641] It makes a half a million dollars a year profit?

[1642] It does, yes.

[1643] Profit after all expenses are paid.

[1644] Profit after all expenses are paid?

[1645] I think you're talking about gross revenue.

[1646] Yeah, no, I'm sorry.

[1647] It is gross revenue.

[1648] Yeah, I'm sorry.

[1649] I was about to get excited because you had the deal of a century.

[1650] I know.

[1651] Okay.

[1652] You don't have the deal of a century.

[1653] What is the profit after all expenses are paid?

[1654] That we don't know.

[1655] Okay.

[1656] Yes.

[1657] Then you don't know how to value the business yet.

[1658] Okay.

[1659] but I'm going to work you through an example and help you figure this out, okay?

[1660] Let's pretend that the profit on the $500 ,000 after all expenses are paid, including paying the manager, which might be the owner, a reasonable manager fee, like if I was going to buy this business long distance and it was going to run on its own without me being in there working, what would be the net profit I would receive as an investor?

[1661] That's what you're looking for, okay?

[1662] You understand that concept?

[1663] up?

[1664] Hello?

[1665] I do, yes.

[1666] Sorry.

[1667] Okay.

[1668] And so you can go back and listen to this later.

[1669] It'll be on the podcast.

[1670] On YouTube forever.

[1671] And you can listen to it in YouTube and you can catch up if you need to.

[1672] Your husband in the background that you're translating for.

[1673] So the, now if it's making $50 ,000 a year, the value of the business is between four and five times the net.

[1674] profit.

[1675] And so the business would be worth four times 50 ,000 or 200 ,000, five times 50 ,000 or 250 ,000.

[1676] I'm making that up because it matches his price.

[1677] Okay.

[1678] All right.

[1679] Um, so if it's making more than 50 ,000 dollars a year, 250's probably a pretty good buy.

[1680] If it's making less than 50 ,000 dollars a year after the manager is paid, you don't work there free.

[1681] You get paid as a manager.

[1682] then this is too much for this business.

[1683] What kind of business is this?

[1684] It's a jewelry store.

[1685] It has been the jeweler.

[1686] And how long has it been there?

[1687] In this location for the last six years.

[1688] Okay.

[1689] Then the income stream ought to be pretty predictable.

[1690] It ought to be very, it shouldn't have varied a lot unless you're in a mall that's dying or something.

[1691] Okay.

[1692] That's correct.

[1693] Yeah, it's been pretty steady the last six years.

[1694] Okay.

[1695] That's good news.

[1696] So that makes it easy to put a value on.

[1697] All right.

[1698] Now, your husband's a jeweler.

[1699] Good.

[1700] He gets paid for being in the jewelry store, and then we create net profit.

[1701] You follow me?

[1702] So if I were going to hire someone to manage this store, you ask yourself, what would I pay them?

[1703] That comes out of this profit and loss statement, and then there's net profit.

[1704] What is the real net profit?

[1705] Because you're, you know, my employees aren't going to work for free, and I live in now.

[1706] Nashville.

[1707] You understand?

[1708] I do.

[1709] We're viewing it as an investor because that's what you are when you buy something.

[1710] You're an investor.

[1711] You're not just buying a job.

[1712] You want to buy a business.

[1713] Okay.

[1714] Now, if that's $50 ,000 and this price is approximately correct, do you understand my formula?

[1715] I do, yes.

[1716] Okay.

[1717] Now here's where it gets a little bit more complicated.

[1718] So hang on for the ride.

[1719] Here we go around the corner.

[1720] All right.

[1721] Now, what I would propose to the owner is that your husband, what does he make now?

[1722] 75 ,000.

[1723] How much?

[1724] 75 ,000.

[1725] How many employees in the store?

[1726] There's two part -time, and then my husband, and then his boss, so four total.

[1727] Okay, all right.

[1728] This thing's netting more than 50.

[1729] Okay, good.

[1730] All right, so I would propose to him, the owner, that your husband's going to run the store and not take out more than $75 ,000 until the owner is paid off.

[1731] And 100 % of the profits above your husband getting paid $75 ,000 salary that the store makes go to pay off the owner until he's paid.

[1732] So if we owe him $250 ,000 and it's making $50 ,000, then he'll be paid out in five years.

[1733] Okay.

[1734] If you make $100 ,000, he'd be paid out in two and a half years.

[1735] and I think you're making more than 50 honestly listen to your numbers if it's grossing 500 you've got cost of goods sold you got 75 ,000 couple part -time employees I think this thing is going to make a good profit it sounds like unless they got crummy margins on their jewelry and most jewelry's got great markup so I suspect you got strong markup on this is this a mall store no it's a standalone okay it's a family operated deal not a chain it is yeah it is that's Correct.

[1736] Yeah, I think you're making bank.

[1737] And I'm glad for you.

[1738] Okay.

[1739] That's not a criticism.

[1740] I want people to be successful.

[1741] So, anyway, if you can make a hundred after you pay yourself 75, you give him the whole hundred.

[1742] You follow me?

[1743] I do.

[1744] And so he gets his 250 as quick as the store makes that money.

[1745] So he's going to get his money in two to five years, all of it.

[1746] Okay.

[1747] But if the pandemic comes, if we have a Fauci pandemic, I don't know what that could happen.

[1748] I've heard.

[1749] If that happened one time, like back in 2020 and you can make nothing because no one comes in a jewelry store for six months, then you don't have a big old payment to your old boss who comes in and bankrupt your butt.

[1750] Okay.

[1751] That's what you don't want.

[1752] You only pay him out of the profits.

[1753] No profits, no payee.

[1754] So he can wait like everybody else waits if bad things happen.

[1755] So you don't run it in the dirt.

[1756] You run it to super successful and pay him off really, really fast.

[1757] And then you get to make a couple hundred thousand a year out of this store.

[1758] and no debt.

[1759] This is awesome.

[1760] Our scripture of the day, Proverbs 2, 6, and 7 for the Lord grants wisdom from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.

[1761] He grants a treasure of common sense to the honest.

[1762] He is a shield to those who walk with integrity.

[1763] James Garfield says, the truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable.

[1764] Ain't that the truth?

[1765] Gotcha.

[1766] Check that box.

[1767] Wayne is with us in Lake Charles.

[1768] Charles, Louisiana.

[1769] Hi, Wayne.

[1770] Welcome to the Ramsey Show.

[1771] Hey, Dave and George.

[1772] Thanks for having me. Sure.

[1773] What's up?

[1774] So I have a question.

[1775] I wanted to know if I should buy a pool or hold on to the money.

[1776] Okay.

[1777] What are you going to spend on the pool?

[1778] 60 ,000.

[1779] Okay.

[1780] What's your household income?

[1781] 200 to 225, depending on bonus.

[1782] Are you dead free except your home?

[1783] Correct.

[1784] Okay.

[1785] What's your home worth?

[1786] 380.

[1787] Okay.

[1788] $60 ,000 pool, so you're probably going to increase the value only half of that.

[1789] Correct.

[1790] And we have 11 years left on our house.

[1791] I don't think you're going to increase the value of your home equivalent to your spend.

[1792] I think you're going to only increase it about 30.

[1793] And that's fine.

[1794] I mean, I want to have fun with my kids, and we've been talking about it for years.

[1795] Okay.

[1796] So I just didn't know.

[1797] I'm guessing.

[1798] How many homes on your street have a pool?

[1799] That nice?

[1800] Probably four.

[1801] Okay.

[1802] All right.

[1803] So it's not weird in your neighborhood, but it's not standard.

[1804] Correct.

[1805] That'd be about like my neighborhood.

[1806] Yeah.

[1807] Okay.

[1808] How much money do you have saved?

[1809] So in savings, I have a $30 ,000 in an high -yield savings, and then I have a quarter million in a $401K, $43 ,000 in an employee stock purchase program, and I'm also saving for kids college.

[1810] Good for you.

[1811] Awesome.

[1812] Great job.

[1813] Yeah, I'd buy the pool.

[1814] You would?

[1815] Okay.

[1816] I just never feel like I'll have enough money, so I kind of don't want to get rid of the cash, if that makes sense.

[1817] Yeah.

[1818] Yeah.

[1819] Well, that's the good news about cash is it makes you stop and think.

[1820] When you borrow the money, when you use other people's money and you borrow it, people don't even think.

[1821] They just go, yeah, get a pool, you know, it's like crazy, right?

[1822] Like they lost their minds.

[1823] So, yeah, but here's the deal.

[1824] Okay, you are saying out loud, you're perfectly okay.

[1825] I'm guessing, but I'm going to say on a 383.

[1826] thousand dollar house, a $60 ,000 pool is probably not going to raise the value 60 grand.

[1827] It might raise it 30 grand.

[1828] That's probably not wrong.

[1829] I've been doing real estate a long time, but I might be wrong.

[1830] But I doubt it raises a 60 grand.

[1831] So you're going to consume some of this money with fun with the kids, and some of it will actually be an asset that you would recoup when you sell the house if you sell it before the pool goes bad someday, right?

[1832] Correct.

[1833] So there you go.

[1834] I think you're fine to do that.

[1835] You're paying cash.

[1836] You're dead free except the house.

[1837] it's a toy you're paying cash for a toy um you're not damaging your finances this is why we work you live like no one else so you can buy pool right um correct and we've been we've been talking about it for a few years and uh we keep going back and forth and I listen to your show every day so I tell my wife I'm like I don't know so I figured I would just call and be done talking about it now have you got bids for this is this a real number the 60 grand it's a real number okay good A couple of things that have nothing to do with your question.

[1838] I'll just throw in the mix, all right?

[1839] Number one, spend the extra money to get anything you can that causes this thing to maintenance itself, any of the equipment.

[1840] Okay.

[1841] Spend a little more money on the equipment so you don't have to screw with it so much.

[1842] Number two, pay someone else to screw with it.

[1843] Okay?

[1844] I'm a, yeah.

[1845] Set up a pool service and have that in your monthly, budget to come by.

[1846] It will steal the joy of this thing because it turns into work.

[1847] Does sound like I've done this before?

[1848] Yeah.

[1849] It does.

[1850] Yeah.

[1851] And I've had, I've got only one pool right now.

[1852] Thank you, Jesus.

[1853] But I'm old.

[1854] I'm not putting in one for the grandkids.

[1855] They can put in their own.

[1856] And Rachel is, by the way.

[1857] So, yeah, that's fine.

[1858] So, but just set the thing up where it's for enjoyment.

[1859] Like, I'll give you an example what we did in our lives one time that was similar.

[1860] I, I, we bought a lake house, a tiny little house years ago, and then we tore it down and built a big house on it years later.

[1861] But I said, I'm not going, when I went to the lake when I was a kid, we had to spend one of the three days we were there cutting my grandfather's yard, which was the lake.

[1862] And, you know, hacking out the briars and everything else.

[1863] So I was not going to go down there and work every, weekend.

[1864] That's not the purpose of having a lake house.

[1865] You don't want you to, you don't want to go the pool and work.

[1866] The purpose is if you're going to go to all this trouble, enjoy it, because you paid somebody else to do the work.

[1867] So I've never cut the grass once at the lake house in 20 -something years, not once.

[1868] I don't even own a freaking lawnmower anymore.

[1869] I cut enough grass.

[1870] Start cutting grass when I was 18.

[1871] I cut enough grass, or 12.

[1872] I cut enough grass when I was 12.

[1873] By the time I was 18, God said I didn't have to do it anymore.

[1874] So that's what I want for you.

[1875] I want you to have freedom and love this experience and enjoy it.

[1876] I think you're financially ready to go.

[1877] Oh, 100%.

[1878] This has been a great show of telling people yes, Dave.

[1879] Who says you're a big meanie?

[1880] Yeah, well, I'm even mean when I'm saying yes.

[1881] No, I'm not.

[1882] That's fine.

[1883] Hey, the whole point of this is if you do the stuff we talk about, if you live like no one else, later you can live and give like no one else.

[1884] It's why you do all this.

[1885] Maggie's in Palm Springs.

[1886] Hi, Maggie, What's up?

[1887] Hi, Dave and George.

[1888] So I need advice on a car situation.

[1889] My husband has gone through two cars.

[1890] One broke down and one was totaled in an accident in the last month.

[1891] And we're also pregnant with our second baby.

[1892] Well, I can walk with him.

[1893] He sounds like the problem here.

[1894] Well, the car was parked.

[1895] We were sleeping.

[1896] Oh, my goodness.

[1897] An Uber driver fell asleep.

[1898] Oh, that's my two -year -old.

[1899] An Uber driver fell asleep and hit three cars.

[1900] Oh, my goodness.

[1901] That is wild.

[1902] Yeah, ours just happened to be wonderful.

[1903] Okay, so you have insurance, and that's going to buy another car?

[1904] Yes.

[1905] How much?

[1906] But we're having another $9 ,000, and we only bought it for, I think, $4 ,500.

[1907] Good.

[1908] So we're doubling our investment.

[1909] that's awesome so buy a $9 ,000 car what's the question um so the question is we have also been debating getting a minivan so buy a $9 ,000 minivan oh that's hard to find no it's not hard to find one that has hard to find one what you've been looking at but yeah um we're also in the middle of a high risk pregnancy so i don't know if we should be waiting the car situation yes you have any money Okay.

[1910] Yeah, so we have about $52 ,000 saved.

[1911] And how much debt do you have?

[1912] No debt.

[1913] We're in 3B, sort of.

[1914] We're trying to doing 3B, 4, and 5.

[1915] So the 52 ,000 is for a house?

[1916] Yes.

[1917] So if you spend it on a fan, you're not going to get a house.

[1918] Exactly.

[1919] I'd rather have a house.

[1920] Does that include your emergency?

[1921] It feels like that's so far away already.

[1922] We'll need a van before we need a house or can get a house.

[1923] Well, you have $9 ,000 from the insurance company.

[1924] So when is the baby due, hon?

[1925] The baby's not due till end of April, but with the high risk, probably three weeks.

[1926] Yeah, let's wait.

[1927] Can you wait?

[1928] Are you guys down to one car right now or what?

[1929] We're down to one car.

[1930] The rental goes back on Wednesday.

[1931] Yeah, just just wait.

[1932] But with the high risk, he's leaving work in a week so we could do one car for a week.

[1933] You'll be all right.

[1934] Or go rent a car for a week.

[1935] I don't care.

[1936] Just wait.

[1937] You don't need to buy a car in the middle of all this.

[1938] You've got more important fish to fry right now.

[1939] Yeah.

[1940] There's a lot of drama, a lot of emotion.

[1941] And rightly so, by the way.

[1942] If I'm you guys, I'm spending 100 % of my emotions and intellectual and financial energy on safe delivery of mom and baby.

[1943] vans are not on my list of things to worry about in your world right now if I'm you don't burn a brain calorie on it yeah I want to I want all my brain calories spent on you and on baby Maggie focus completely on you guys it's a stupid car all those stupid cars will be there when you get home from the hospital fine yeah and now we have an extra $4 ,500 just in case yeah just hang out and then when you get home I'm going to recommend the closer to 9 ,000 you can stay on the purchase the faster you're going to get your home because every dollar you spend on this is not going towards a house which goes up in value and many vans don't and you're thinking with your mom brain right now get home from the hospital and everything calm down that puts this hour of the Ramsey show and the books we'll be back with you before you know it in the meantime remember there's ultimately only one way to financial peace and that's to walk daily with the Prince of Peace Christ Jesus Hey folks, Dave here.

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